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A Case Against Legalism – Why Rigid Religious Rules Sabotage Mental Health and Destroy Faith
Recently, I had a dream that stirred me. When I woke up, I panicked and immediately my mind started spinning in an old, familiar, maddening thought pattern: “Oh no… what did I do wrong? Have I offended God? Am I in trouble? What did that mean?”
Sep 1714 min read


10 Thoughts on Trauma Healing According to a Therapist
Almost everyone faces trauma at some point in life, but many carry its weight without fully realising the impact it has on their thoughts, emotions, and relationships. Healing is possible when we begin...
Sep 165 min read


OCD Across the Lifespan – Why Early Awareness Matters
When most people think of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), they picture an adult struggling with compulsive behaviors. What’s less commonly understood is that OCD doesn’t wait for adulthood, it...
Sep 154 min read


How to Stop Old Defense Mechanisms From Holding You Back
Growing up in a family where chaos, unpredictability, or emotional pain is the norm can feel like navigating a battlefield without a map. For many children in these environments, survival depends on...
Sep 158 min read


The Tortoise & the Hare Parable – Why It’s Such an Important Lesson to Those Seeking Recovery
For the better part of a decade, I struggled within my own attempt to “recover” from my problematic relationship with drugs. I wanted to get better, to abstain. I truly did. And, I had some periods of...
Sep 128 min read


Integration Isn’t Sexy, but It’s Where Real Change Happens
You’re hit with more advice in a single day than your grandparents received in a year. Everyone’s got a new hack, a miracle method, a silver bullet. But with all that input, why do we still feel so...
Sep 126 min read


Does Mindfulness and Positive Psychology Promote Brain Health?
Does mindfulness and positive psychology promote brain health? The short answer is yes and no. Let me explain. Controlling our thoughts and living an abundant life, no matter what storm we are going...
Sep 114 min read


Is Anxiety Holding You Back?
Anxiety is defined as persistent worry and fear, a state that, when prolonged, becomes problematic. Most experience anxiety in the form of fleeting nervousness, but persistent anxiety can transform...
Sep 106 min read


Understanding, Coping, and Finding Support When We Have Thoughts of Ending Our Own Lives
Suicidal thoughts can be frightening, confusing, isolating, and overwhelming. People around us may respond to an expression of these thoughts with statements like “but why? You have so much to live for...
Sep 98 min read


Anxiety Is Not a Disorder – It’s a Messenger
We live in a society that rushes to medicate what it doesn’t understand. When anxiety shows up, we call it a disorder. A flaw. A malfunction. But I’ve learned, both in my own healing and in my years...
Sep 84 min read


Turning a Day of Loss into a Legacy of Healing and Resilience
September 11th is a date etched into the collective memory of the world. For me, it is not only a historical moment but also a deeply personal one. I remember exactly where I was, sitting in class...
Sep 73 min read


Resilience Is Not Endurance – Rethinking Mental Health in Leadership
This is part two in a short series I’m sharing on leadership and mental health, something I started writing because I’ve seen and lived the quiet cost of trying to hold it all together. In the first piece...
Sep 53 min read


The Hidden Impact – Understanding Rare Diseases and Their Emotional Cost
Imagine waiting years for answers, seeing countless specialists, and being told more than once that you or your child’s symptoms are ‘just in your head.’ For families living with rare diseases, this experience...
Sep 55 min read


Limits and Boundaries Can Help You Live a Self-Oriented Life
Being self-oriented involves utilizing a skill set that we aren’t typically taught through our life experiences. Many learn from an early age to be people-pleasing, to cave in to the needs of others...
Sep 37 min read


Recovery, What Does It Even Mean? – How Do We Find Our Way Out of the Shadows?
Recovery from substances. Recovery from drinking. Gambling. Sex. Retail shopping. Doom-scrolling. These are the typical presenting issues that my clients show up with when they first come to see me...
Sep 25 min read


10 Powerful Ways Music Heals Teenagers and Our Inner Child
Do you ever feel like therapy isn’t enough? Like talking about your feelings doesn’t quite scratch the surface? For years, I felt that too, until I found the missing link: music. As someone who’s undergone...
Sep 26 min read


What Living With OCD Really Looks Like Beyond the Stereotypes
When most people hear the term OCD, a very specific image comes to mind: a person who keeps everything neat and orderly, who double- or triple-checks that the door is locked, or who can’t stand if...
Sep 14 min read


Why After Healing, Comes Rest and Why You’re Not Lazy
Healing is often spoken of in terms of bravery, transformation, and resilience. We celebrate the person who survives illness, who comes out of trauma therapy lighter, who finally leaves a toxic...
Aug 296 min read


When Tragedy Strikes and Healing the Wounds of a School Shooting
On August 27, 2025, Minneapolis was rocked by a school shooting that left two children dead and many others injured. This article delves into the lasting impact of such tragedies and outlines practical...
Aug 296 min read


When Heaven Called Twice – A Mother’s Journey Through Unthinkable Loss
The deepest grief carries within it the deepest love. This is my story of losing two children and finding them in ways I never expected. There are no words in the English language for a mother who...
Aug 295 min read


Understanding Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP) and Their Benefits
When you or someone you love is facing mental health challenges or substance use disorder, finding the right level of care can feel overwhelming and confusing. While 24-hour inpatient psychiatric care...
Aug 275 min read


When the Patient's Healthcare Forgot
When healthcare works, it can be life-changing. It empowers people to live fully, to manage chronic conditions, to heal, and to thrive. At its best, healthcare is more than medicine; it's a system of...
Aug 2610 min read


Why Mindfulness is for Christians, Too – Practicing Sober-Mindedness in a Distracted World
Mindfulness: it’s one of those words that can invoke images of a meditating Buddha or mystical practices rooted in Eastern religion. Because of these associations, many Christians are prone to shy...
Aug 269 min read


When Support Isn’t Human – AI, Mental Health, and the Power of Human Connection
In recent headlines, we were confronted with the tragic loss of Sophie, a 29-year-old woman who died by suicide after reportedly engaging in therapy-like interactions through ChatGPT.
Aug 256 min read
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