Dating
Our contributors offer tips and advice for finding and maintaining healthy, fulfilling relationships. Learn about modern dating trends, effective communication strategies, and how to build a strong foundation with a new partner. Our articles provide insights into the dating process, helping you to approach it with positivity and self-assurance.
Love Should Never Require You to Lose Yourself
One of the deepest forms of personal transformation is learning to recognize the difference between loving someone and abandoning yourself. Explore how self-trust, boundaries, and honest choices can...
When the Pattern Changes and Autism, Attachment, and the Relationship Spiral
Have you ever learned the rhythm of a relationship so well that the smallest change makes your brain scream, "What the fuck just happened?" For autistic people, noticing patterns can make a shift in...
Who Are You Now? The Identity Shift That Happens After a Relationship Ends
One of the hardest questions that can come after the end of a significant relationship isn't What happened? It's, "Who am I now?" We don't always realize how much of our identity becomes intertwined...
How to Be Magnetic Without Saying Much at All
What if you didn't have to say the perfect thing to create attraction? What if you didn't need the clever opening line, the perfectly timed text, or the practiced flirtatious response? What if being...
Why You Keep Attracting The Same Relationship Pattern and How To Finally Break It
If you have found yourself attracting the same kind of relationship over and over again, you are not alone. Perhaps the relationship begins with intensity, chemistry, and emotional depth. At first, it...
Stuck in the Past After a Breakup?
Love is a universal language that engages the brain’s dopamine reward system, contributing to feelings of euphoria, happiness, and a general ‘feel-good’ state.[1] When a relationship ends, it can turn our world..
Why Who You Become in Conflict Matters More Than What You Say
In recurring conflict, people do more than exchange words: they often move into familiar ways of participating that shape what they notice, expect, and do next. Understanding conflict therefore...
The Anchor Beneath the Pattern and Why We Struggle to Change What We Know Isn't Working
In my previous article, I explored what happens when we stop and listen to the messages our body may be communicating. But what happens when we hear the message and realise it isn't just about what's...
What Men Notice First and It’s Not What You Think
There is a lot of pressure placed on women when it comes to attraction. Look better. Dress better. Say the right thing. Don't text too soon. Don't text too much. Be confident but not intimidating. Show...
Why You Don’t Get Over a Man by Getting Under the Next One
After a breakup, the temptation to seek attention from someone new can feel like a shortcut to feeling wanted again, but distraction is not the same as healing. A dating sabbatical can create the space...
Stop Treating Every Date As If It Must Lead to a Relationship
Sarah has been a nurse for fifteen years. She has held countless hands and comforted countless families. But during the pandemic, she was ordered to keep a dying man's wife from entering his room...
How to Forgive Without Excusing the Hurt and the Four S's of Emotional Freedom
Have you ever tried to forgive someone, only to feel that doing so would minimise what they did? Forgiveness does not require you to deny the wound, excuse the behaviour or restore unsafe access. It...
Are They a Soulmate or a Wound Mate and Is There Really a Difference?
Have you ever wondered why your relationships never seem to work out the way you intended? How is it that you always choose the same type of partner, although in a different form? And why are...
Holding Space Brings Joy Through Stories, Connection, and Healing
Over the last few years, I've had the privilege of meeting and holding space for many different people from all walks of life. One thing I've noticed is that, despite our differences, they all have...
Why Successful Women Can Still Feel Invisible in Love
Success changes a woman. It teaches her to lead, decide, protect, provide, solve, organise, and create results. In business, these qualities are frequently celebrated. They build careers, reputations, financial...


















