The Attraction Code and the Essential Traits Women Find Irresistible
- Brainz Magazine
- Mar 27, 2025
- 3 min read
Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating.
Wouldn't it be terrific if you could create an instant attraction with women? Before looking further to find quality relationship-oriented women, learn about the attributes that naturally draw them. The common attractive characteristics include humor, intelligence, and good looks. Nevertheless, not all men in leadership roles possess all three simultaneously.
You might have some random of these top qualities, but here are some qualities you can embody to make you stand out in a woman's eyes. Learn these traits to elevate your dating game and instantly turn on your natural charm to see what women want from successful men.
Sharpen your listening skills
Great conversations captivate women, but what truly wins them over is a man who knows how to listen. You can enhance this skill by:
Maintain eye contact and avoid distractions.
Resist the urge to interrupt; let her finish her thoughts.
Acknowledge what she says by summarizing or asking relevant follow-up questions.
Women appreciate a man who makes them feel heard and understood; this simple yet powerful trait can set you apart.
Embrace vulnerability
Many high-value men fear that showing emotion makes them weak, but vulnerability is one of the most attractive qualities a man can have. Vulnerability can be challenging, but if you open up about your thoughts and feelings, you can establish a strong connection. You can pass through a woman's soul, so to speak.
Be reliable and supportive
Women admire men who are dependable and accountable in times of need. Be ready to show up for her when problems arise. Your support and presence will be deeply valued, recognized, and reciprocated. A reliable man earns a woman's trust. Encourage and help her grow as well.
Maintain integrity
Be consistent in your words and actions as you would your business partners and collaborators. Mean and do what you say. If you make a promise, follow through. Don't say you will show up for a date or call her even if you know you already made plans or are not planning on doing what you promised. If circumstances change, communicate immediately and stop making excuses. Apologize and plan on how to make amends by scheduling your next opportunity to make your commitment.
Show respect
Women are drawn to men who respect them as individuals, value their opinions, support their ambitions, and treat them with kindness. Equally important, a woman wants a man she can respect in return. Consistently demonstrating strong character and self-respect naturally earns admiration.
Boost your self-confidence
Men who are sure of themselves stand out anywhere. The secret to building self-confidence is self-awareness. You naturally project assurance when you understand your strengths, purpose, and goals. However, be mindful not to overdo it and create an impression of cockiness which can turn women off. Invest in a professional coach to help refine your presence and dating skills if needed.
Ready to attract a quality woman?
While many traits can make a man attractive, these six will set you apart and help you build meaningful, lasting connections. If you are ready for success in your romantic life, soulmate expert and matchmaker Lorii Abela can guide you in finding a quality woman who aligns with your values and desires. Take the first step toward love today!
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Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert and Professional Matchmaker
Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating. Lorii's approach not only saves them time but also brings happiness by guiding them into the right mindset, resulting in meeting quality, relationship-oriented matches 93% of the time. As a five-time international bestselling author, her debut book, "Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life," has garnered acclaim. Lorii is a dynamic TV host and producer of "Matchmaker Secrets," "Ready, Jetset, Go!," and "Scale Up." These shows air on CAN TV Chicago, Roku, and Firestick.
