Why Your Perception About Yourself is So Important When You Want to Manifest Your Dream Partner?
- Brainz Magazine
- Apr 25
- 5 min read
Beatrice is a multi-award-winning Therapist, Hypnotherapist, CBT Therapist, Trainer, and Author! Beatrice has experience in working with people from all over the world. She is passionate about helping people transform their lives, heal, and manifest their ideal relationships.
Your self-concept sets the dynamic for all your relationships. Your self-concept sets the dynamic for all your relationships in your life, whether it's your relationship with family, friends, coworkers, or most importantly, your partner!
You cannot manifest your dream partner if your belief deep down about yourself is that you don’t matter, you are not important, you are rejected, you are not good enough, and so on.
Even if you manifest a loving relationship, you will not be able to keep it, and you lose the manifestation.
Because even if you just do techniques from the internet, but they are not sustained by your self-concept, where you see yourself as chosen, loved, good enough, important, attractive, and knowing that you matter, you may end up losing the manifestation.
Based on the assumptions that you have about yourself, you manifest people who could end up leaving you, rejecting you, betraying you, mentally abusing you, or, unfortunately, worse, which I’ve seen in so many cases.
Why could any of these things happen in your reality?
Because you manifest your own state of consciousness!
So, if you identify yourself as being abandoned, then you attract people who could leave you over and over again. It’s like a pattern that needs to be changed.
Why would you identify yourself as being abandoned even if your parents were there with you?
Because even if no one left you, it could also be that your parents were working very hard. They didn’t have much time for you, and as a child, you weren’t able to think like an adult and understand that they were working to offer you everything they could. You probably believed that you were not important to them, that you didn’t matter, or that they didn’t love you.
Your inner conversations might be that he or she will leave, that they’ll get bored of you, and so on. And then you manifest that in your reality, they leave you, because you send them your thoughts, and they act on them, believing those thoughts are their own.
Energetically, we are all interconnected, and you and your specific person are one.
Why could you be rejected in your relationship?
Because your partner is your mirror, and they will reflect your internal wounds.
For instance, if you were rejected as a child, or if you are rejecting yourself, criticizing yourself, and not seeing yourself as valuable, your partner may reject you.
Their phone might seem more important, or their friends, anything else may appear more important than you.
Why could you be betrayed in your relationship?
Maybe your parents compared you as a child to your siblings or your peers.
Maybe you felt like they loved your brother or sister more, and you always felt second, or worse, last.
That placed you, in your mind, in second place, and led you to believe that you will always come second in someone’s life.
Now, what is it that you manifest in your life?
A person who always puts you second, or worse, last, is not respecting you or valuing you.
There could be a third party between you and your specific person, and now you are in a triangle.
It is crucially important that you heal your wounds from the past and change your self-concept.
The moment you start seeing yourself and feeling, through all your pores, that you are valuable, you matter, you are important, lovable, and chosen, everyone will see it too, without you even saying a word, because it will reflect out from you!
Why might you have people in your life who humiliate you?
Because at some point in your life, you’ve been humiliated. And your body knows that feeling, it’s familiar. Your body never forgets what you’ve been through!
Do this exercise to understand when else in your life you felt humiliated:
Acknowledge where the feeling is in your body. It could be in your stomach, your shoulders, your hands, your feet, or your whole body.
Now ask yourself:
When else in my life have I felt the feeling I am feeling when I am humiliated?
And you can do that with anything, whether it is humiliation, betrayal, rejection, abandonment, etc.
Once you understand where that comes from, write down what happened. Then, on another paper, write how you would’ve wanted it to happen, in a positive way.
Read the positive one many times a day until you convince your subconscious mind that it happened differently.
That way, your subconscious mind is not going to manifest humiliation and other painful situations.
I know it’s not easy to do it by yourself. If you need help, please send me a message on social media.
How to manifest more money?
For you to be able to manifest a better career and more money, you need to see and feel yourself as valuable, value yourself, and change your beliefs about money!
For instance, if your belief about money is that it’s not good, that money takes love away from you, or that only bad people have money, or if you believe that having money means you won’t have love, then you will resist manifesting money, and you won’t be able to receive it.
You need to change your beliefs at an unconscious level.
How to manifest better health?
You need to start loving yourself, accepting yourself, and developing a great relationship with yourself.
Improve your relationship with your parents, forgive them, but most importantly, you need to choose yourself!
Stop criticizing yourself!
Every single thing starts with you.
If you want to change your life in every single way, first you need to change yourself. Leave the old self behind and reactivate the best version of yourself that you could possibly be!
Remember, you were born loaded with confidence and high self-esteem until trauma came and left stains that covered your shine.
Remember, it’s your birthright to shine bright like a diamond. Get it back!
If you need more help, send me a message on any social media platform!
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Beatrice Zamfir, Transformational Therapist, Hypnotherapist, Author
Beatrice is an expert in helping people who have been through toxic relationships. She is dedicated to her career, where she is learning different methods that will help people change their lives for the better!, Heal, and manifest the person they love back or a new relationship!
