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Why High-Performing People Are Running on Empty, and How to Reclaim Your Vitality
One day at work, my colleague told me that she hadn’t had any water, nor had she gone to the toilet the whole day, as if it was something to be proud of. Self-neglect must not be a badge of honour...
9 hours ago5 min read


On Filling Yourself Up When You've Been Pouring Out for Decades
There's no place lonelier than among other people. I have rarely known anyone who has not felt, or doesn't currently feel, profoundly lonely. The successful ones. The married ones. The ones with...
13 hours ago6 min read


The Male Loneliness Crisis and Why 50 Million Men Have No One to Call
There is a moment from about a decade ago that I keep coming back to. I am in my mid-thirties, living in a beautiful Hollywood Hills apartment, scrolling through hundreds of phone contacts with a 102...
13 hours ago11 min read


More Than Skin Deep and Why Eczema Keeps Coming Back, and What the Steroid Cream Never Addresses
Most people who live with eczema know the cycle intimately. A flare appears. A steroid cream is applied. Within days, the redness fades, the itch quietens, and the skin calms. Relief arrives, along...
15 hours ago8 min read


Why Connection is The Medicine We Are Missing
We live in the most connected era in human history. We can reach someone on the other side of the world within seconds. We can build networks across continents, share our lives online, and stay connected...
21 hours ago7 min read


The Hidden Cost of Continuous Change
Artificial Intelligence is transforming the workplace. Organisations are investing millions in technology, automation, digital transformation, and workforce innovation. Leaders are being asked to deliver...
21 hours ago8 min read


Which Archetype Has Been Sabotaging Your Life?
Here is something that nobody ever told you, and that changes everything once you finally hear it: you have not been living your life. A character has been living it for you, a character that was built...
2 days ago7 min read


Why Losing Yourself May Be the Beginning of Your Greatest Transformation
There comes a moment in many women's lives when the person they've spent years becoming no longer fits. The career title that once defined them feels empty. The role they've played for everyone else...
4 days ago4 min read


Learn to Use the Power of Suggestion to Your Advantage
We are all brainwashed. Not me, I hear you say, I think for myself. Let me ask you, do your opinions reflect those of your culture? If you, like me, grew up in the Western world, chances are you believe that...
4 days ago7 min read


Can Writing Really Improve Your Mental Health? Three Benefits a Psychotherapist Recommends
There are several ways to improve our mental well-being and our lives. Some methods include exercising, psychotherapy, healthy eating, sunlight, and sleep. Building on this, it is important to understand that...
5 days ago4 min read


Why Mindset is Not Enough To Heal Complex Trauma
You cannot think your way out of what still lives in your body. Mindset is powerful and valuable, but it does not reach the core of complex trauma. You cannot override a survival response with positive...
6 days ago5 min read


Summer Recovery – Why a Recovery Coach Can Be Your Greatest Ally
Summer is often associated with freedom, relaxation, and celebration. The weather improves, the days grow longer, and social calendars quickly begin to fill with beach trips, pool parties, barbecues...
6 days ago5 min read


What is Time Blindness? 5 Coaching Tips to Improve Time Management
Do you ever find yourself wondering where the last hour went? Perhaps you sit down to answer a few emails, only to discover an entire afternoon has disappeared. Or maybe you're constantly running...
6 days ago2 min read


Five Steps for Finding a Therapist
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. This guide breaks down five practical steps to help you choose a licensed professional who meets your needs, whether you prefer virtual...
6 days ago4 min read


Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs in Psychiatric Care and Its Benefits for Evaluation and Treatment
Maslow’s hierarchy of needs offers a useful way to understand psychiatric patients as whole people whose symptoms are shaped not only by inner conflict, but also by safety, stability, relationships, self-worth...
6 days ago8 min read


Craniocervical Instability, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, and the Hidden Mental Health Burden
When we think about mental health, we often think about emotions, thoughts, stress, and life experiences. But for many individuals living with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), hypermobility disorders, dysautonomia...
7 days ago4 min read


The Government Could Change Reality with UAP Disclosure
What would it take for your understanding of reality to crack open? I am not talking about a slight shift that makes you uncomfortable for a week. But genuinely crack. The way ice does when the temperature...
7 days ago9 min read


Career Crisis and the Invisible Trauma That Nobody Believes is Real
Redundancy, restructure, toxic leadership, forced career change, these experiences can shatter a person’s identity, confidence, and mental health. So why does society still treat them as inconveniences...
7 days ago8 min read


Why Successful Women Still Feel Like Frauds and How to Understand Imposter Syndrome
She has the qualifications. She has built the career, earned the title, and delivered results that others openly respect. She is, by any reasonable standard, good at what she does. And yet, she sits...
Jun 210 min read


Why Doomscrolling Quietly Disconnects Us From Ourselves
Not long ago, a patient sat across from me and described a feeling she could barely put into words. She was not describing a panic attack, a depressive episode, or even a specific crisis. What she...
Jun 26 min read


Trying to Heal From the Outside-In and Why Drug and Alcohol Treatment Is Backward
Go to virtually any drug and alcohol treatment program, and you’ll be introduced to a framework built around completing a checklist of external changes in order to achieve “recovery.” We are told to...
Jun 13 min read


Why Emotional Regulation Should Be Taught in Every Classroom
We spend years teaching children how to read, write, and solve complex math problems. We prioritize academic performance, standardized testing, and college preparation. Yet there is one...
Jun 15 min read


Merula Manifesto II – Autistic and Fabulous
A raw and powerful manifesto on late autism diagnosis, self-recognition, and the freedom that comes from no longer performing “normal.” Through grief, motherhood, identity, and reclaimed...
Jun 112 min read


The Gut Brain Connection and Its Impact on Mood, Behaviour and Mental Health
For decades, mental health was considered solely a brain issue, dominated by neurotransmitters, psychology, stress, trauma, genetics, and medication. Emerging research now reveals a far more...
May 317 min read
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