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The Mindset for Neuro Recovery and 5 Lessons in Neuroplasticity for Survivors and Caregivers – Part 2
How to turn the science of neuroplasticity into meaningful action through personalized training, purposeful repetition, progressive challenge, and the everyday choices that support recovery. Another...
3 days ago9 min read


The Mindset for Neuro Recovery and Don’t Let Your Diagnosis Define You – Part 1
What surviving multiple traumatic brain injuries taught me about identity, neuroplasticity, personalized rehabilitation, and the role survivors and caregivers can play in creating the conditions for...
3 days ago6 min read


When Perfectionism Becomes Pathological and the Fine Line Between Excellence and OCD
Throughout your career, you picked up skills, business cards, and contacts, but when and where did you pick up the idea that compulsive behavior would fix the fears you’re feeling? You weren’t born with ...
3 days ago8 min read


The Lost Twin, the Eternal Longing and Searching Without Knowing What For
A deep sense of longing, loneliness, or not fully belonging can remain even when life looks successful and connected from the outside. For some, exploring the possibility of a lost twin can...
4 days ago4 min read


‘The Surf of Life’ and the Raw Truth About Life in Recovery
For those of you who have not read my previous articles, I was diagnosed with a mental disorder in 2013, at age 31, but it wasn’t until eight years ago that I really started working on my recovery...
5 days ago7 min read


Asking AI 'Am I a Bad Person?' 40 Times a Day – When a Chatbot Becomes Part of Your OCD
AI chatbots never get tired of answering the same question. For someone with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), that's the problem. It used to be Google. Before that, it was a parent, a spouse, a...
5 days ago5 min read


How Embracing Imperfection Can Transform Your Life
Vulnerability is not weakness, but a courageous willingness to be seen, embrace imperfection, and live in alignment with your truth. Through personal stories, reflections, and practical steps, this...
5 days ago8 min read


Emotions Are the Data That Direct Us Back Home to Ourselves
When coming into therapy, the idea of having to “feel” emotions or “talk” about emotions can be a big barrier, prompting us to steer clear of mental health services, especially when many of us have been taught...
5 days ago4 min read


Merula Manifesto V: A Caring Mother, a Loving Partner, and a Fair Game – Three Things I Never Had
Abuse can reshape our understanding of love, safety, identity, and even ourselves, making chaos feel familiar and peace feel foreign. This deeply personal journey explores the hidden patterns of trauma...
6 days ago10 min read


Why Your Body Still Reacts After Stress or Trauma
You can know logically that you are safe and still feel your heart begin to race. A smell, a sound, a hospital corridor, an unexpected comment, or even a date on the calendar can create a physical reaction...
Sep 249 min read


Why Facing Death Early Can Make Life More Peaceful
Grief can feel like a wound. It can also be a receipt for love: a reminder that someone or something mattered. I was twelve when I first sat beside someone dying. Years later, I realised that day had...
Sep 239 min read


Why Getting Everything Done Will Never Feel Like Enough
I can feel the anxious buzzing in my body, and it’s not even 9 am. I sit staring at the computer screen, hands poised on the keyboard, feeling like the most incompetent, failing version of myself I've been...
Sep 238 min read


How to Cope With Anxiety and Feeling Overwhelmed
Anxiety has a way of creeping into the edges of everyday life. Sometimes it arrives quietly: a racing mind, a tight chest, a sense that you are carrying too much. Other times, it hits like a wave...
Sep 213 min read


Psychedelics in the Pharmaceutical Industry
For thousands of years, humans have lived harmoniously with nature; it’s how we survived. Just like the Sumatran orangutan, which crushes plant sap to treat facial wounds, nature has a cure for every ailment.
Sep 218 min read


What the UAE's Booming Wellness Market Still Needs
There is a question I hear constantly from people living in the United Arab Emirates (UAE), friends, colleagues, clients, strangers in conversation. It comes in many forms, but it always means the...
Sep 218 min read


Medical Qi Gong to Heal Yourself and Others
Is Western medicine not working for you? Do you feel disempowered by your doctors, helplessly being sent to test after test, scan after scan? Are you being prescribed pharmaceutical drugs with...
Sep 205 min read


Why Communication Problems Can Mimic Mental Health Symptoms, and How to Tell the Difference
Communication is not simply a skill you use well or poorly. It is the mechanism through which our core relational needs get met, or go unmet, every day, at home and at work. In 2014, trauma researcher...
Sep 207 min read


What Happens Before Someone Needs Mental Health Leave?
Bloomberg recently reported on the increase in workers taking mental health leave and the difficulties employers are experiencing as a result. It's an important conversation, but I think we're starting it...
Sep 204 min read


How to Remain Human on an Emotionally Fluctuant Mothership
Lately, I have found myself returning to an unusual image. Perhaps it comes from conversations with patients, perhaps from reading too much news, or simply from living through these curious times.
Sep 184 min read


Why Self-Care Fails Most Mothers and What Actually Helps
You booked the massage. You took the bubble bath. You bought the journal with the gold lettering. You carved out 45 minutes on a Sunday morning while your partner handled the baby, and you sat in a...
Sep 178 min read


Trauma is an Energetic Event and Here's How to Heal It
Most of us meet trauma on two fronts. There is our mind, the memories that replay, the stories we tell ourselves, and the beliefs that subtly wire in. There is our body, a nervous system that learns to be on...
Sep 175 min read


The Science of Neuroplasticity and Why Your Brain is Never Finished
For many years, scientists believed the adult brain was largely fixed. Once we reached a certain age, it was assumed that our brain could no longer change significantly. We now know differently. Neuroplasticity is...
Sep 175 min read


Why Understanding Nervous System Regulation First and Somatic Release After
I am going to start with a confession. Before I understood the language of the nervous system, before I knew what somatic meant, before I had any of the frameworks I now work with every day, I was a health...
Sep 179 min read


Practices to Support Apathy in the Elderly
“I don’t care.” This is often the response I have heard from an elderly parent. It might be in response to a question about what they would like for dinner, where they would like to go for a walk, or...
Sep 155 min read
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