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What If Comparison Isn’t the Thief of Joy but Your Nervous System Reporting a Real Threat?
You have been told the fix is gratitude. Or a social media cleanse. Or a mantra about being enough. None of that addresses what is happening in your body the moment you catch yourself measuring...
2 days ago9 min read


Want to Take Back Control of Your Life? Learn How to Grow Up
We spend enormous amounts of time trying to improve our lives. We work on procrastination, motivation, productivity, emotional regulation and childhood wounds. We set goals, make plans and...
3 days ago9 min read


Creating Space for the Conversations That Matter as a Community Approach to Suicide Prevention
Suicide is complex. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), it is rarely the result of one circumstance or event. Many factors can increase risk, but there are also factors...
5 days ago8 min read


When A Child Can Speak, But Their Anxiety Won’t Let Them
A child chats happily and confidently at home. They’re funny, opinionated, noisy and perhaps even difficult to interrupt. But at school, they barely speak, and they can’t answer their uncle or family...
7 days ago7 min read


Why Postpartum Mental Health Support Must Begin Before Mothers Reach a Crisis
Right now, with the Lindsay Clancy trial bringing postpartum mental health into the national conversation once again, many people are hearing terms like postpartum depression and...
Sep 29 min read


What Organizations Forget About Mental Health
Organizations cannot control everything that affects an employee’s mental health. They can control whether the processes an employee moves through protect that person’s dignity or slowly wear it ...
Sep 17 min read


How Martial Arts Training Supports Mental Health, Cognitive Function and Neurodiversity
As a psychotherapist, I’m constantly on the lookout for solutions beyond the couch to combat anxiety, fight depression and build self-esteem. Martial arts have been proven to help in these areas.
Aug 316 min read


The Missing Link in Workplace Wellness
Most workplace crises don't begin at work. They begin quietly, and the opportunity to help often appears long before a situation reaches the breaking point. Having the right support in place can make it easier...
Aug 317 min read


Understanding Anxiety That Feels Too Big to Control
There are moments when anxiety is more than worry. Your heart races. Your thoughts speed up. Your muscles tighten. You may feel restless, shaky, nauseated, irritable, overwhelmed, or completely exhausted...
Aug 304 min read


Why Letting Go Is the Secret to Feeling Alive and What Detoxification Really Means
What if the secret to feeling more energized, more clear-headed, and more alive was not about adding something new to your life, but about gently releasing what your body no longer needs?
Aug 284 min read


Coming Home to Nature Through the Healing Power of Ecotherapy
What if healing begins not by escaping life’s challenges, but by reconnecting with the natural world and ourselves? This article explores ecotherapy as a journey of mindfulness, self-discovery, and...
Aug 283 min read


What Is My Body Whispering That My Noisy Mind Cannot Hear?
You know those days when you feel like your head is about to explode? The noise inside gets so loud that you wish there were a mute button, but you can't seem to find it. Your mind is constantly...
Aug 287 min read


Why Understanding Yourself is More Powerful Than Trying to Fix Yourself
You know the behavior is not helping you. You have promised yourself you will stop. So why do you keep doing it? The answer may have less to do with willpower than you think. Understanding what a behavior...
Aug 276 min read


Why Are People Still Dying? America’s Behavioral Health Crisis
Lives lost to suicide, overdoses, mass shootings, human trafficking, eating disorders, and trauma are rising despite several questionable government reports seeking to minimize the nation’s growing...
Aug 268 min read


OCD vs. Anxiety – Seven Clues Your Overthinking May Be a Compulsion
Worry and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) can both fill your mind with endless “what if?” questions, but just having these thoughts does not show which issue you are facing. The best clue is what you feel...
Aug 2510 min read


Why Hope Is More Powerful Than Positive Thinking
When life becomes frightening or uncertain, we are often told to “stay positive”. It is usually said with love, but when you are facing cancer, grief, trauma or another life-changing experience, positivity...
Aug 248 min read


Your Life Is Not Over Just Because It Didn't Go According to Plan
Have you ever looked around and felt like everyone else's life is moving forward while yours is falling apart? Maybe you've failed at something important. Maybe your relationship ended. Maybe...
Aug 244 min read


Healing Heartbreak and 7 Steps to a Whole-Hearted State
Wondering why your heartbreak is hard to heal? In this article, a Chinese medicine practitioner introduces practical steps for reconnecting with your whole heart. This pathway explores how to use...
Aug 245 min read


Is Your Workplace Mentally Healthy? Seven Signs Your Culture Needs Attention
A company can have a wellness programme, an Employee Assistance Programme, mental health talks, gym memberships and even a beautifully written wellbeing policy and still have an unhealthy or underdeveloped...
Aug 197 min read


Merula Manifesto IV – My Heart Scares You, and a Gun Doesn't?
When a sociopathic, narcissistic mother raises you, you grow up entirely devoid of an identity. “You wouldn't last an hour in the asylum where they raised me!” (Taylor, please, I just started typing, but you go, girl!).
Aug 1813 min read


Why Rest is Productive and Five Ways Slowing Down Can Move You Forward
In a world that celebrates constant motion, slowing down can feel like falling behind. But what if the moments you pause are the very moments that help you think more clearly, make better decisions...
Aug 185 min read


The Griefs No One Sends a Card For
Walk down the sympathy card aisle, and you'll find a card for almost anything: the death of a father, a mother, a spouse, a beloved dog. Soft watercolors, gentle language, permission to grieve–all pre...
Aug 175 min read


Who Are You Beneath the Patterns, Expectations, and Programming?
Who were you before you learned who you were supposed to be? Before the expectations, before the conditioning, before the experiences that taught you which parts of yourself were safe to reveal...
Aug 175 min read


The Secrets My Brain Was Hiding and What a Cognitive Clarity Scan Revealed
How well do we really know our own brains? As a health professional who has spent years exploring my own patterns, behaviours and personal experiences, I thought I knew mine pretty well. I recognised...
Aug 149 min read
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