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Why Most Women Are Being Lied to About Perimenopause (And What They Actually Need to Know)
What if your brain fog, body changes, and midnight meltdowns aren’t random or wrong? In this piercing reframe, Menopause Mastery Mentor Zapheria reveals the 5 hidden stages of Peri/Menopause no one...
Nov 17, 20254 min read


The Psychology of Happiness – How to Cultivate a Fulfilled Life
Happiness. It’s the one thing we all chase, yet it often feels elusive. Some find it in relationships, others in achievement, and some in the quiet moments of solitude. But what is happiness, really?
Nov 14, 20254 min read


Why People with ADHD Lie, Avoid, and Procrastinate and How Compassion Changes Everything
Why do people with ADHD lie, avoid, or procrastinate, even about things they truly care about? These behaviors aren’t about laziness or lack of motivation; they’re emotional coping mechanisms driven by fear...
Nov 10, 20257 min read


The Compassion Trap – How Empaths Get Stuck in Cycles of Service and How to Break Free
In a world that often misunderstands sensitivity, empaths carry both a gift and a burden. This piece is for those who feel too much, give too much, and are ready to reclaim their energy.
Nov 4, 20255 min read


Why Balancing Non-Judgment, Empathy, and Compassion Is the Key to Understanding Others
A story: Judgment, empathy, and compassion walk into a bar. Judgment pushes ahead of everyone else and orders first. Empathy asks what's really going on with the bartender today. He normally...
Oct 23, 20253 min read


Why 9 Out of 10 People Feel Misunderstood
Have you ever tried to explain how you feel, only to have someone completely miss the point? You try to explain yourself, share your heart, or tell your truth, and somehow, it still lands wrong.
Oct 21, 20257 min read


Emotional Triggers as Teachers – How Shadow Work Expands Emotional Intelligence
Transforming reactivity into revelation, and pain into power. There’s a moment we all know too well, that quick rush of heat in the body when something or someone hits a nerve. Words blur, the breath shortens...
Oct 17, 20256 min read


From Panic to Peace – How My Daughter’s Pain Became Our Journey to Healing
When a mother’s ten-year-old daughter began suffering from panic attacks, their world changed forever. What followed was a profound journey of emotional healing and transformation, one that revealed...
Oct 16, 20256 min read


When Working Harder Isn’t Working – The Inner Game Of Financial Freedom
It was 7:30 p.m. again. I was in the car, rushing home after another long day, phone buzzing with client messages I still needed to respond to. My daughter was already asleep by the time I walked through...
Oct 15, 20254 min read


Life Beyond Reproduction – Humanity as a New Element of the Cosmos
Most biological entities in the natural world live, driven by the basic instinct of reproduction. Life sustains itself through the continuous renewal of generations, through the endless cycle of birth and death.
Sep 29, 20256 min read


When Discomfort Has No Name and the Strategy to Regain Your Peace
Imagine going through your day and encountering situations that leave you feeling uneasy, yet the rush of your routine doesn’t allow you the space to reflect. You arrive home at the end of the day...
Sep 26, 20254 min read


The Search for Peace and Happiness
Do people often say to you, “You are never happy”? Or have you caught yourself thinking, “Once I get there, I’ll be happy”? Many of my clients struggle to articulate what truly makes them happy and...
Sep 26, 20255 min read


From Shut Down to Wide Open – Choosing to Truly Live
For many years of my life, I was shut down. Shut down from my feelings. Shut down from love. Shut down from the uninhibited laughter that bubbles up when you’re truly free. It felt safer that way...
Sep 25, 20254 min read


How I Transformed Suppressed Emotions into Nervous System Resilience
Ever since I was a child, I've carried an inner knowing. Life will place us in situations meant for our growth. Some of these moments are beautiful. Others will shake us to our core. However, every single one...
Sep 17, 20258 min read


Alice In Wonderland – The Bending Reality of Abuse
Wonderland glitters, but it cages. Drawing on trauma science and lived experience, this piece shows how emotional abuse distorts truth, why gaslighting erodes self-trust, and how naming the pattern...
Sep 17, 20254 min read


What Does Home Mean Across Different Cultures?
The more important question is, what does it mean to you? “Home” seems like a simple word, but its meaning can change a lot depending on culture, background, and personal experience.
Sep 12, 20255 min read


Emotional Detox – How to Stop Carrying Other People’s Feelings
Man is by nature sympathetic. In our design, we have been created to relate, to share the feelings of others, and to feel them. But this gift itself may become a burden when we start to digest what...
Sep 11, 20255 min read


When Emotions Become Weapons – Recognizing Emotional Abuse and Manipulation
Emotional abuse is often invisible, but its scars can be profound. Unlike physical violence, it leaves no visible marks but can severely damage a person’s mental health, self-esteem, and sense of...
Sep 8, 20255 min read


When Caring Feels Costly and the Price of Witness Fatigue
When pain lingers without resolution, relationships often shift in ways that feel confusing and isolating. Friends and family who once offered support may quietly step back, not out of malice, but from...
Sep 5, 20255 min read


The Shocking Truth About Your Thoughts
We live in a world overflowing with distractions, competing narratives, and endless streams of information. Our minds are constantly absorbing, processing, and filtering through thoughts, many of...
Sep 4, 20257 min read


Could Your Anxious Attachment Style Be Costing You Money and Real Love?
What if I told you that how you do one thing is how you do everything? The way you attach in love often mirrors how you attach in business, friendships, money, and even your dreams. I didn’t see this...
Sep 3, 20253 min read


The Economy of Dreaming – Complexes and the Filters of Consciousness
The experience of dreaming is inseparable from the experience of forgetting. On waking, one may hold a fragmentary image, a fading phrase, or an affect that resists symbolization, while the vast...
Aug 28, 20259 min read


Envy, Resentment, Jealousy, and Schadenfreude – The Dark Side of Human Emotions
There are feelings that inspire, motivate, and connect us. And there are feelings that divide us, burden us, and, in the worst case, poison us subtly but effectively. These feelings include envy...
Aug 28, 20254 min read


How Homeschooling Became My Family’s Greatest Healing Tool
I never set out to become a homeschooling mother. Like many parents, I assumed my daughter would follow the traditional path: preschool, primary school, maybe we'd worry about high school later.
Aug 25, 202512 min read
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