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Fear of Emotions and What if Feeling Was Never the Problem?
What if emotional freedom isn’t about feeling good all the time, but about no longer being afraid of what you feel? Rob Brooke explores why we learn to suppress, avoid and sometimes even fear our...
5 days ago7 min read


The Pain We Can't Avoid and the Suffering We Add
The pain is real. You don’t need to hurt yourself for hurting. Life will hurt us. I wish there were a more comforting way to say that. People we love will disappoint us. Bodies will change. Relationships...
5 days ago4 min read


None of This Should Be Happening, Yet All of It Had to Happen
I noticed it before I had words for it. In posts scrolling past on social media, on the evening news, in conversations with people I love, and in quiet moments with clients who trusted me with what they were...
5 days ago11 min read


When Everything is Fine, Why Do You Still Feel Empty? The Nervous System Explains Why
Have you ever looked around and realized that, on paper, your life is going well, yet you still feel strangely empty? Maybe your career is moving forward, your relationships are stable, and you have...
Sep 225 min read


EQ and IQ, and the One Thing Smart Men Get Wrong About Both
It’s 5 p.m. on a Saturday afternoon. The sun is hanging low in the autumn sky, casting its nostalgic long shadows in a warm, glowing light. The grapefruit tree above is bursting with fruit, ready to...
Sep 2112 min read


Supporting Children and Young People Through Grief
Grief can be a confusing and overwhelming experience for anyone, but for children and young people, understanding and expressing grief can be particularly challenging. Children may not always have the words...
Sep 88 min read


What If There Is a Positive Intention Behind Anger?
Anger is an interesting emotion because, as uncomfortable and sometimes destructive as it can be, it usually has a positive intention behind it. That may sound contradictory. What could be positive...
Sep 26 min read


Emotional Intelligence and Mindfulness at Work
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) at work is no longer negotiable, according to emerging research. Similarly, mindfulness in leadership and organizational teams has lost its value through overused shortcuts...
Aug 313 min read


You Can Be Two Things at Once and Why Holding Opposites is Part of Being Human
Ever since I was a child, I remember being asked the familiar question, "Is the glass half full or half empty?" It always seemed that there had to be a right answer. Half full meant optimism. Half...
Aug 255 min read


The Hidden Echo of Childhood Trauma and How a School Incident Shaped My Fear of Being Seen
As children, we are often unaware of the profound impact that early experiences can have on our lives. For some, these moments become echoes, persistent feelings that shape our identity and...
Aug 249 min read


The Inner Child That Shapes the Leader
Every leader is evaluated by performance, strategy, decisions, and outcomes. But what is rarely evaluated yet deeply felt in every boardroom, team dynamic, and leadership decision is the emotional architecture...
Aug 238 min read


Is Your Inner Voice Building or Bullying You?
You may have escaped the people and experiences that once made you question your worth, yet still hear their tone inside your own mind. Discover how changing that conversation can soften your...
Aug 1910 min read


The Neuroscience of Self-Worth, Identity and Emotional Memory
There are stories you keep repeating in silence, questioning the reality behind every line. Stories that shape the narratives you have been carrying throughout your life. Narratives are how you make sense of what...
Aug 187 min read


Challenging the Myth of Moving On From the Loss of Someone You Loved
I want to talk about something that we have been led to believe: the idea that we need to have some kind of timeline for grief and loss. After this timeline is complete, we will simply carry on with...
Aug 114 min read


Hearing vs. Listening – Why Some Conversations Feel One-Sided
Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like the other person wasn't listening at all? Maybe you were sharing something important, but their response had almost nothing to do with what...
Jul 227 min read


The Hidden Grief Keeping So Many People Stuck
When most people think about grief, they think about death. They think about funerals, condolences, and learning to live without someone they loved. But some of the deepest grief we experience has no funeral.
Jul 2013 min read


The Four Happy Hormones
Physical exercise is inherently linked to your mental health, which is why exercising can have a significant impact on your mood. When you exercise, you produce a range of hormones that make...
Jul 153 min read


Why You Need to Feel to Heal and How Allowing Emotions Supports Mental, Emotional, & Physical Healing
Many of us grow up being told to “be strong” and “keep it together,” but suppressing emotions can have lasting consequences. This article explores the neuroscience and trauma-informed perspective on...
Jul 114 min read


The Wisdom Hidden in Regret
What if regret is not something to avoid, but a valuable emotion that helps us understand ourselves and grow? This article challenges the idea that a life free from regret should be our ultimate goal and explores...
Jul 47 min read


Emotions as Messengers and What Your Anger is Trying To Tell You
Most people treat anger as a problem. They try to suppress it, control it, avoid it, or get rid of it altogether. But what if anger isn’t the problem? What if anger is actually information? Think about...
Jun 254 min read


The Alchemy of Worry – 95% of the Things We Worry About Never Happen
A study at Cornell University suggests that 95 percent of our worries never come to pass, yet the body still suffers the ghosts of futures that never arrive. There are seasons in life when the mind...
Jun 245 min read


Why Slowing Down Helps When Emotions Feel Too Big
In my first year abroad, in 2019, I started on a solo trip to Bali, where I got my yoga teaching certificate. Almost two months later, I joined a travel group for a four-month consierge trip through East Asia...
Jun 218 min read


How Mindfulness and Daily Routine Build Emotional Resilience
Emotional resilience is often thought to emerge from life's biggest challenges, but its foundation is usually built in the quiet moments we repeat each day. Simple practices such as mindful breathing...
Jun 166 min read


Raising Kind Kids in a Dysregulated World and Why Emotional Safety Matters More Than Ever
Children today are growing up in a world filled with stimulation, pressure, comparison, and emotional overwhelm. While we cannot remove every challenge they will face, we can give them something equally powerful...
Jun 163 min read
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