The Shocking Truth About Your Thoughts
- Brainz Magazine
- 2 days ago
- 7 min read
Updated: 19 hours ago
Tarrent-Arthur Henry, known by the pen name Tarrent ‘Authur’ Henry, is a devoted husband and stepfather to two exceptional young men. The founder of 'Righteous Uplifting Nourishing International, Inc.,' a 501(c)(3) Non-Profit Organization, he passionately leads its global mission to empower individuals to achieve their dreams.
We live in a world overflowing with distractions, competing narratives, and endless streams of information. Our minds are constantly absorbing, processing, and filtering through thoughts, many of which never stop looping in the background of our consciousness. Yet one timeless truth remains: whatever you think about the most will grow.
This principle, rooted in psychology, neuroscience, and even spirituality, has profound implications for our mental health, relationships, careers, and overall quality of life. The thoughts we nurture do not simply remain invisible inside our heads; they shape our habits, attitudes, and even our physical reality.
In this article, we will explore the science behind why thoughts expand, the dangers of neglecting this truth, and how you can intentionally harness it to create growth in the areas that matter most.
The science of thought growth
Neuroscience has shown us that the brain is not a static organ but is highly adaptive. Through a phenomenon known as neuroplasticity, neural pathways can strengthen or weaken depending on how often they’re used. In other words, the more you think about something, the more “wired” your brain becomes to continue thinking that way.
Repetition strengthens connections. Just like exercising a muscle, repeating a thought reinforces the neural pathway associated with it. This is why practicing gratitude can make you a naturally more grateful person, while rehearsing fear or anger can make those emotions your default.
Your brain doesn’t distinguish between real and imagined. Studies show that imagining an action can activate many of the same brain regions as physically performing it. If you constantly think about failure, your body can respond as though failure has already occurred, raising stress hormones and lowering motivation.
Thoughts affect emotions and behavior. Every thought generates chemical reactions in the brain. Positive thoughts release dopamine and serotonin, chemicals linked to motivation and happiness. Negative thoughts trigger cortisol, the stress hormone. Over time, these repeated reactions influence how you show up in life.
Put simply, thoughts are seeds, and the brain is fertile soil. Plant enough of the same seed, and you’ll eventually see a harvest.
The dangers of letting the wrong thoughts grow
While this principle has tremendous potential, it also carries risks. If left unchecked, the growth of negative, fearful, or limiting thoughts can be just as real as the growth of positive ones.
1. Worry and anxiety
Dwelling on worst-case scenarios strengthens the brain’s association with fear. This makes it easier to spiral into anxiety, where every thought becomes tinged with “what if” scenarios. The more you feed worry, the more it grows.
2. Resentment and bitterness
Rehearsing past hurts keeps wounds fresh. Instead of healing, resentment grows, and bitterness can consume relationships and personal peace.
3. Limiting beliefs
Thoughts like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never succeed” may start as whispers but grow into unshakable internal narratives if repeated often enough. These beliefs influence decisions, preventing people from pursuing opportunities.
4. Negative self-talk
What you tell yourself daily becomes the voice you live with. If that voice is critical and harsh, it grows stronger, often louder than encouragement from others.
Allowing negative thoughts to grow unchecked is like planting weeds in a garden, they spread quickly and choke out life-giving growth.
The power of intentional thought
The flip side is equally true, by deliberately choosing which thoughts to water, we can cultivate an inner landscape that promotes resilience, creativity, and peace.
Gratitude: Repeatedly focusing on what’s good in your life strengthens your ability to notice positivity. Over time, gratitude can rewire your brain to default to joy rather than complaint.
Hope: Choosing to imagine a brighter future, despite challenges, keeps motivation alive. Hopeful thinking grows perseverance.
Love and compassion: Thinking empathetically about others builds patience, kindness, and the capacity for deeper connection.
Possibility thinking: When you regularly think, “What if it works?” instead of “What if it doesn’t?” you open yourself to opportunities you might otherwise overlook.
Intentional thought isn’t about ignoring reality; it’s about training your focus to magnify what you want to grow.
Practical steps to harness the growth principle
So, how can we apply this in everyday life? Here are proven strategies that shift your mental focus:
1. Monitor your mental diet
Just as your body reflects what you eat, your mind reflects what you consume. News, social media, conversations, and entertainment all feed your thought life. Ask yourself, does what I’m consuming align with the growth I want to see?
2. Practice thought awareness
Start noticing your dominant thoughts. Journaling can help you capture repeated patterns. Awareness is the first step in interrupting cycles that no longer serve you.
3. Use affirmations wisely
Affirmations are more than positive slogans, they are mental rehearsals of belief. Choose affirmations that resonate deeply and repeat them often. Over time, your brain accepts them as reality.
4. Replace, don’t just resist
It’s nearly impossible to stop thinking about something by sheer willpower. Instead, replace unhelpful thoughts with constructive ones. For example, replace “I can’t handle this” with “I am learning to manage challenges with strength.”
5. Visualize growth
Athletes, leaders, and high performers use visualization to rehearse success. Close your eyes and see yourself growing in the areas you value most. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between imagined and real practice.
6. Surround yourself with growth-minded people
The company you keep influences your thoughts. Conversations with encouraging, possibility-minded people can water your mental garden in ways solitude cannot.
A faith perspective: Thoughts as seeds of the spirit
Spiritual traditions have long affirmed what modern science is now proving. In the Christian Scriptures, the Apostle Paul writes, “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, think about such things” (Philippians 4:8).
This was not simply advice for positivity; it was a recognition that thoughts shape the inner life, and the inner life eventually manifests outwardly. Jesus Himself taught that what is sown in the heart will produce fruit, good or bad.
From a faith perspective:
Thoughts of trust and hope in God grow into peace and courage.
Thoughts of fear and doubt, when watered, grow into paralysis.
Thoughts of love and forgiveness can grow into reconciliation.
In this way, the principle of “whatever you think about the most will grow” is both spiritual and scientific truth.
Real-life stories of thought growth
The athlete who visualized victory
Olympic athletes often credit visualization as part of their training. Michael Phelps, for example, famously rehearsed every race in his mind before entering the pool. By the time he competed, his brain had already experienced victory thousands of times. What he thought about grew into gold medals.
The entrepreneur who focused on possibility
Countless entrepreneurs testify that focusing on solutions rather than problems allowed their businesses to grow. While others fixated on obstacles, they chose to think about opportunities. That mindset expanded their capacity for innovation.
The survivor who chose hope
Cancer survivors frequently share how focusing on hopeful thoughts even in the face of grim diagnoses, helped them not only endure treatment but thrive afterward. Their thought life became a form of medicine.
The ripple effect of growing thoughts
It’s important to recognize that thoughts don’t just affect individuals, they ripple outward.
A parent’s dominant thoughts influence the atmosphere of a home.
A leader’s thought patterns shape an organization’s culture.
A community’s collective focus on fear or on possibility, determines its resilience in times of crisis.
When individuals choose to grow thoughts of hope, compassion, and vision, they contribute to environments where others can flourish. In this sense, tending to your thoughts isn’t selfish, it’s an act of service to those around you.
How to cultivate a thought garden
Think of your mind as a garden. You cannot control every seed that blows in, but you can control what you water.
Weed out destructive thoughts. Identify recurring negative beliefs and challenge their validity.
Plant intentional seeds. Decide daily what values and goals you want to grow.
Water regularly. Repetition is key. Consistently focus on the thoughts that align with your vision.
Prune when necessary. Sometimes, even good thoughts need refining so they don’t become overwhelming.
Celebrate the Growth. Acknowledge when your thought life begins bearing fruit, more patience, joy, or clarity.
Just as a neglected garden becomes overrun with weeds, a neglected mind becomes crowded with unhelpful thoughts. Growth is inevitable, the question is what will grow?
The bottom line: Your mind is either your garden or your prison
The truth that “whatever you think about the most will grow” is both sobering and empowering. It reminds us that we are not passive recipients of life’s circumstances, we are active participants in shaping our reality.
If we dwell on fear, anger, or lack, we will see more of those in our lives. If we choose to nurture gratitude, hope, and possibility, we will see growth in joy, resilience, and opportunity.
The mind is not just a place where random thoughts pass by; it is the birthplace of transformation. By intentionally cultivating your thought life, you are shaping not only who you are but also who you are becoming.
So the next time your mind drifts, ask yourself, what am I feeding right now? Because whatever it is, good or bad, will not stay small. It will grow.
Tarrent-Arthur Henry, Mental Wellness Specialist and Advocate
Tarrent-Arthur Henry, known by the pen name Tarrent ‘Authur’ Henry, is a devoted husband and stepfather to two exceptional young men. The founder of 'Righteous Uplifting Nourishing International, Inc.,' a 501(c)(3) Non-Profit Organization, he passionately leads its global mission to empower individuals to achieve their dreams. He is also a best-selling author and poet. Henry serves as a Pastor, Chaplain, Mental Wellness Specialist, and advocate. And holds certifications as a Coach, Speaker, Teacher, Trainer, and Facilitator with Maxwell Leadership.
