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Why Women Become Anxious and Men Become Avoidant Yet Carry the Same Wound
Not long ago, I published a social media post with a simple sentence: “I have body hair. I have a soft belly. I haven’t worn makeup in two years. And I love myself anyway.”
May 26, 20253 min read


A Trauma-Informed Take on Mel Robbins' Viral Concept of "Let Them" But Not Without Feeling
When I first heard Mel Robbins share her now-famous mantra, 'Let them', I experienced a profound exhale and a flicker of resistance. The idea of letting them walk away, letting them misunderstand...
May 24, 20255 min read


How Childhood Trauma And Past Experiences Can Shape Your Entire Life?
If you experienced traumatic events as a child, it can influence the choices you make in life and the relationships you get into.
May 23, 20253 min read


Breaking the Cycle and Healing Family Trauma to Build Healthier Relationships
When people hear the word “trauma,” they often think of major life-altering events: a car accident, a natural disaster, or the sudden loss of a loved one.
Apr 25, 20254 min read


Why Healthy Love Feels “Boring” and What It Really Means
If you’ve grown up with chaos or experienced toxic relationships, emotional stability might feel strange or even boring. But that’s not boredom. It’s healing.
Apr 23, 20253 min read


Why Avoiding Conflict Can Quietly Break a Relationship and What You Can Do Instead
If you and your partner tend to avoid arguments, you might assume that’s a good thing. After all, who wants to fight? Staying calm, letting things go, or “not making a big deal out of it” can feel like the mature thing to do.
Apr 10, 20253 min read


Trauma Bonds and the Addictive Cycle of an Abuser’s Control
There’s a common misconception that an abusive relationship is a 50/50 situation and this is deeply damaging.
Apr 6, 202511 min read


Recognizing the Difference Between Trauma Bonds and True Love
Love should feel safe, supportive, and fulfilling. But sometimes, what we mistake for love is actually a trauma bond, a toxic connection...
Mar 21, 20256 min read


7 Micro-Traumas That Are Harming Your Relationship
Micro-traumas are subtle emotional wounds that may not seem significant individually but can accumulate and weaken the foundation...
Mar 13, 20254 min read


Loving and Thriving With an ADHD Partner Takes Patience, Humor and the Right Strategies
When I married my husband 35 years ago, I knew I was signing up for adventure, but I didn’t realize it would include finding the remote...
Mar 11, 20253 min read


Knowing When to Walk Away and Choose Yourself
When is enough truly enough? When do we recognize the importance of setting boundaries and walking away from situations that...
Mar 10, 20258 min read


A Guide to Breaking Free From Addiction to Chaos and Overcoming Toxicity in Relationships
Do you find yourself constantly drawn to the emotional turbulence of chaotic relationships? Are you addicted to the drama, the highs, and...
Mar 5, 20255 min read


The Role of Relationship Therapy in Rediscovering Connection
In a world where technology bridges gaps yet often deepens emotional distances, relationships require more nurturing than ever before.
Mar 3, 20253 min read


Are You in an Abusive Relationship? – 4 Things to Stop Doing Now
It can be extremely heartbreaking when the once loving, kind, and caring person you fell in love with is no longer there.
Mar 3, 20254 min read


The Role of the Mind in Creating Our Reality and What It Has to Do with Our Relationships
Our thoughts shape the world we experience, influencing not only our personal reality but also the quality of our relationships.
Feb 27, 20254 min read


Two Proven Clinical Ways to Heal Betrayal and Rebuild Trust with Martina Magnery
Betrayal in a relationship can feel like a deep wound that disrupts the very foundation of trust. Whether through infidelity, dishonesty...
Feb 19, 20255 min read


Healthy Shame Vs. Toxic Shame – Navigating the Emotional Landscape of Relationships
Shame is a powerful emotion that can significantly impact our relationships. While often viewed negatively, not all shame is harmful.
Jan 27, 20253 min read


Gaslighting 10 Signs And What You Can Do
The phrase Gaslighting comes from the 1938 British play called Gas Light and later a film starring Ingrid Bergman and Angela Lansbury...
Sep 26, 20247 min read


Navigating Toxic Relationships – Identifying And Dealing With Toxic Person
In our journey through life, we encounter a diverse range of individuals.
Sep 8, 20237 min read


Is Your Relationship Toxic Or Abusive? 4 Covert Tactics That Trap You In An Abusive Relationship
Relationships are meant to be a source of joy, love, and companionship. However, finding oneself in a "bad" relationship can be immensely...
Jul 2, 20234 min read


If You Are In A Toxic Relationship, It Means You Are Toxic Too
Take a moment to consider this statement. What was your initial reaction? Did you accept it and agree? Or did you violently disagree and...
Jun 12, 20236 min read


The Impact Of Toxic Relationships On Mental Health
Toxic relationships can wreak havoc on our mental well-being, causing profound emotional distress and long-lasting effects.
Jun 6, 20233 min read


How To Consciously Deal With Toxic People
They are out there – “those people” who are unconscious, toxic, and downright mean.
Apr 16, 20235 min read


How To Get Out Of A Toxic Relationship
We've all been there, it's like the gift that keeps on giving. You make the decision to leave and the next moment, you find yourself...
Jan 27, 20234 min read
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