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What No One Warns You About After Leaving a Toxic Partner, and 5 Ways to Get Through It
Leaving a toxic partner is rarely a clean break. While you might expect emotional freedom, relief, and clarity, the reality can feel quite different. For some, walking away triggers a spiral of...
Jan 298 min read


Why People Turn Their Backs on Addicts – Understanding the Psychology of Abandonment
I recently spent some time trying to support someone who, as the result of severe trauma, became addicted to alcohol. This period of time has been probably the second most difficult time in my life...
Jan 2310 min read


How To Spot A Leading Edge Deviant in Your Generation
Imagine being drawn to listening to a motivational speaker in a social media video, podcast, or audiobook. You fell in love with them because they inspire you with their positive insight surrounding...
Jan 178 min read


The Six-Letter Word That Saves Relationships – Repair
When it comes to relationships, we often highlight love, communication, and trust. But there’s one six-letter word that doesn’t get nearly enough attention for how powerful it is. It actually has the...
Jan 16 min read


Why Feeling Heard Matters More Than Being Right in Relationships
Many relationship conflicts aren’t really about the topic being argued. They’re about the emotional experience underneath it. Feeling dismissed, misunderstood, or unseen often hurts more than the disagreement itself.
Dec 30, 20254 min read


What are Karmic Relationships?
Understand what karmic relationships are so you can pull your power back and create freedom in all of your relationships. Karmic relationships force you to look at your shadow. The ultimate purpose is...
Dec 8, 20255 min read


Navigating the Holidays With Family After Trauma
The holidays can bring joy, connection, and warmth. They can also stir up old wounds, especially for survivors of abuse, neglect, or painful family dynamics. When you have lived through trauma, the pressure...
Nov 27, 20254 min read


How to Set Boundaries in Relationships
Boundaries are essential if you want a healthy relationship. Boundaries help you create freedom in your relationships. Boundaries allow you to be seen and loved for who you actually are...
Nov 24, 20256 min read


Distraction Is Slowly Ending More Relationships Than Conflict Ever Will
Relationships rarely fall apart in dramatic moments. Most thin out quietly, pulled apart by small interruptions that redirect attention before either person realizes what’s happening.
Nov 21, 20253 min read


Case Study – The Making of the Joker as an Abnormal Psychology Profile
Arthur Fleck’s transformation into the Joker is more than a villain origin story. It is a clinical profile of what happens when trauma, social neglect, and systemic labeling converge. Through psychology...
Nov 3, 20254 min read


What’s That Smell in the Fridge? How to Identify an Unhealthy Relationship
Who here loves a great mystery? I sure do. Not necessarily the stench from the fridge, but more like the super sleuth sagas with memorable characters with lots of depth. Layers of history in a story ring...
Oct 28, 20257 min read


When Love Feels Heavy – Recognizing and Healing Trauma Bonds and Toxic Relationship Patterns
When people think of bonds, they often imagine connections rooted in love and trust. The kind that feels safe and grounding. Not all bonds are healthy. Some are forged in fire, shaped by pain, and...
Sep 22, 20255 min read


Understanding Your Emotional Boundaries & Reclaiming Your Personal Spaces
Emotional boundaries are like a protective shield for your heart and soul. They define the limits of what you're comfortable with emotionally and help you maintain a sense of self. Unfortunately, trauma...
Sep 10, 20258 min read


Why Lust Is the Silent Destroyer of Souls and Generations
From ancient teachings to modern culture, lust corrodes integrity, love, and even lineage. Here’s how it infiltrates our lives and how to reclaim your soul from its grip.
Aug 21, 20255 min read


How Do I Stop Attracting the Same People Over and Over Again?
Have you ever found yourself asking why you keep attracting the same type of person, despite your best efforts to change? This article explores the "Mirror Effect" and how our inner beliefs and wounds...
Aug 14, 20253 min read


Anxiety in Relationships – Is it Toxic or Just a Signal?
Relationships, especially in the early stages, can evoke a range of emotions, from bliss and excitement to irritation and anxiety. When anxiety enters the room, we might wonder...
Jul 28, 20254 min read


Five Red Flags of Limerence Instead of Real Love
Have you ever felt that your way of loving people is a bit too much? Has anyone ever expressed this to you or made you feel judged for it? Have you been ghosted or abandoned by someone you were really...
Jul 28, 20258 min read


The Dark Side of Keeping the Peace and Why Your Niceness is Not Neutral
I was raised in a family deeply rooted in dysfunction and abuse. It shaped me quietly and invisibly into someone who believed that keeping the peace was survival. Later in life, I found myself building businesses surrounded...
Jul 16, 20254 min read


What If Your Loyalty to Others Led You to Abandon Yourself?
Exploring how codependent patterns can quietly fuel addiction, and what it means to reclaim your sense of self. Addiction is often viewed as a personal battle with substances or behaviors, but it...
Jul 11, 20254 min read


The Way You Love Might Be Hurting You, but It Doesn’t Have to Stay That Way
Have you been living with a broken heart? Loving through pain that never really left? Trying to give what you've never fully received? If you're anything like me, you’ve mistaken survival mechanisms for love...
Jun 26, 20255 min read


The Invisible Prison of Abusive Relationships and How to Become a Powerful Ally
As a psychotherapist with 16 years of experience, I’ve heard one question about abusive relationships more than any other: “Why don’t they just leave?” This question, while often well-intentioned...
Jun 13, 20255 min read


Four Damaging Effects of Toxic Secrecy
Here’s the reality. We all have chapters in our lives that we don’t read aloud. This is because society can be a cruel master toward those experiences. These experiences are a culmination...
Jun 12, 20254 min read


Life Is a Puzzle and the Pieces Don’t Always Fit
Life, in all its complexity, resembles a giant, evolving, three-dimensional puzzle. It is made up of millions of diverse experiences, turning points, and relationships.
Jun 5, 20257 min read


What If the Way You Love Is Your Toxic Trait?
One of my favourite songs by Whitney Houston is My Love Is Your Love. It speaks of an unconditional, unshakeable love that remains through poverty, war, even death. But what happens when the way we give...
May 27, 20256 min read
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