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Case Study – The Making of the Joker as an Abnormal Psychology Profile
Arthur Fleck’s transformation into the Joker is more than a villain origin story. It is a clinical profile of what happens when trauma, social neglect, and systemic labeling converge. Through psychology...
Nov 34 min read


What’s That Smell in the Fridge? How to Identify an Unhealthy Relationship
Who here loves a great mystery? I sure do. Not necessarily the stench from the fridge, but more like the super sleuth sagas with memorable characters with lots of depth. Layers of history in a story ring...
Oct 287 min read


When Love Feels Heavy – Recognizing and Healing Trauma Bonds and Toxic Relationship Patterns
When people think of bonds, they often imagine connections rooted in love and trust. The kind that feels safe and grounding. Not all bonds are healthy. Some are forged in fire, shaped by pain, and...
Sep 225 min read


Understanding Your Emotional Boundaries & Reclaiming Your Personal Spaces
Emotional boundaries are like a protective shield for your heart and soul. They define the limits of what you're comfortable with emotionally and help you maintain a sense of self. Unfortunately, trauma...
Sep 108 min read


Why Lust Is the Silent Destroyer of Souls and Generations
From ancient teachings to modern culture, lust corrodes integrity, love, and even lineage. Here’s how it infiltrates our lives and how to reclaim your soul from its grip.
Aug 215 min read


How Do I Stop Attracting the Same People Over and Over Again?
Have you ever found yourself asking why you keep attracting the same type of person, despite your best efforts to change? This article explores the "Mirror Effect" and how our inner beliefs and wounds...
Aug 143 min read


Anxiety in Relationships – Is it Toxic or Just a Signal?
Relationships, especially in the early stages, can evoke a range of emotions, from bliss and excitement to irritation and anxiety. When anxiety enters the room, we might wonder...
Jul 284 min read


Five Red Flags of Limerence Instead of Real Love
Have you ever felt that your way of loving people is a bit too much? Has anyone ever expressed this to you or made you feel judged for it? Have you been ghosted or abandoned by someone you were really...
Jul 288 min read


The Dark Side of Keeping the Peace and Why Your Niceness is Not Neutral
I was raised in a family deeply rooted in dysfunction and abuse. It shaped me quietly and invisibly into someone who believed that keeping the peace was survival. Later in life, I found myself building businesses surrounded...
Jul 164 min read


What If Your Loyalty to Others Led You to Abandon Yourself?
Exploring how codependent patterns can quietly fuel addiction, and what it means to reclaim your sense of self. Addiction is often viewed as a personal battle with substances or behaviors, but it...
Jul 114 min read


The Way You Love Might Be Hurting You, but It Doesn’t Have to Stay That Way
Have you been living with a broken heart? Loving through pain that never really left? Trying to give what you've never fully received? If you're anything like me, you’ve mistaken survival mechanisms for love...
Jun 265 min read


The Invisible Prison of Abusive Relationships and How to Become a Powerful Ally
As a psychotherapist with 16 years of experience, I’ve heard one question about abusive relationships more than any other: “Why don’t they just leave?” This question, while often well-intentioned...
Jun 135 min read


Four Damaging Effects of Toxic Secrecy
Here’s the reality. We all have chapters in our lives that we don’t read aloud. This is because society can be a cruel master toward those experiences. These experiences are a culmination...
Jun 124 min read


Life Is a Puzzle and the Pieces Don’t Always Fit
Life, in all its complexity, resembles a giant, evolving, three-dimensional puzzle. It is made up of millions of diverse experiences, turning points, and relationships.
Jun 57 min read


What If the Way You Love Is Your Toxic Trait?
One of my favourite songs by Whitney Houston is My Love Is Your Love. It speaks of an unconditional, unshakeable love that remains through poverty, war, even death. But what happens when the way we give...
May 276 min read


Why Women Become Anxious and Men Become Avoidant Yet Carry the Same Wound
Not long ago, I published a social media post with a simple sentence: “I have body hair. I have a soft belly. I haven’t worn makeup in two years. And I love myself anyway.”
May 263 min read


A Trauma-Informed Take on Mel Robbins' Viral Concept of "Let Them" But Not Without Feeling
When I first heard Mel Robbins share her now-famous mantra, 'Let them', I experienced a profound exhale and a flicker of resistance. The idea of letting them walk away, letting them misunderstand...
May 245 min read


How Childhood Trauma And Past Experiences Can Shape Your Entire Life?
If you experienced traumatic events as a child, it can influence the choices you make in life and the relationships you get into.
May 233 min read


Breaking the Cycle and Healing Family Trauma to Build Healthier Relationships
When people hear the word “trauma,” they often think of major life-altering events: a car accident, a natural disaster, or the sudden loss of a loved one.
Apr 254 min read


Why Healthy Love Feels “Boring” and What It Really Means
If you’ve grown up with chaos or experienced toxic relationships, emotional stability might feel strange or even boring. But that’s not boredom. It’s healing.
Apr 233 min read


Why Avoiding Conflict Can Quietly Break a Relationship and What You Can Do Instead
If you and your partner tend to avoid arguments, you might assume that’s a good thing. After all, who wants to fight? Staying calm, letting things go, or “not making a big deal out of it” can feel like the mature thing to do.
Apr 103 min read


Trauma Bonds and the Addictive Cycle of an Abuser’s Control
There’s a common misconception that an abusive relationship is a 50/50 situation and this is deeply damaging.
Apr 611 min read


Recognizing the Difference Between Trauma Bonds and True Love
Love should feel safe, supportive, and fulfilling. But sometimes, what we mistake for love is actually a trauma bond, a toxic connection...
Mar 216 min read


7 Micro-Traumas That Are Harming Your Relationship
Micro-traumas are subtle emotional wounds that may not seem significant individually but can accumulate and weaken the foundation...
Mar 134 min read
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