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The Breadwinner Has Changed and What Happens When the Wife Earns More in Divorce?
For generations, conversations about divorce often began with a familiar financial assumption: the husband earned more, while the wife was more likely to be financially dependent. That picture no longer reflects...
Aug 115 min read


The Modern Marriage Has Changed, Shouldn’t the Divorce Process Change Too?
Marriage today looks very different than it did a generation ago. In many households, both spouses work. Women increasingly serve as primary breadwinners, business owners, executives, physicians, attorneys...
Aug 106 min read


Five Ways to Support Clients Through Divorce When Conflict Keeps Circling Back
You know the feeling. Your clients come in, and the conversation circles again around the same conflict. The same accusations, the same deadlock, the same exhaustion on both sides. You try to stay neutral...
Jul 286 min read


The Cost of Not Understanding Your Finances
For many years, I thought I was financially secure. On paper, everything looked fine. We had a home, savings, investments, and a comfortable lifestyle. I had spent years working as a Management Accountant...
Jul 224 min read


How to Trust Yourself Again After Divorce
Many women believe divorce is the hardest part, but for many, the real challenge begins afterward, when years of people-pleasing, self-doubt, and putting others first leave them questioning their own...
Jul 106 min read


Staying Close to Your Children on Father’s Day After Separation
Father's Day can look very different after a separation or divorce. For some fathers, it may be the first Father's Day spent apart from their children. For others, it may be a day divided between...
Jun 184 min read


A Father's Future – Navigating Divorce, Custody, and Parenting Time
Father's Day is often a celebration of the moments that matter most. Bedtime stories, coaching little league games, helping with homework, family vacations, and the countless everyday moments that shape...
Jun 35 min read


Five Steps to Reclaiming Your Life After Divorce
Divorce was one of the most painful, disorientating, and transformational experiences of my life. After over 30 years together and a long-term marriage, I found myself standing at the beginning of a...
May 295 min read


Pivot and How Life Events Shape Your Path
Drawing on her teaching experience since 2006, she is a SENDCo, an Assistant Educational Psychologist, and a parent. She supports families in rebuilding relationships and helps young people to thrive amid the...
May 16 min read


Too Many People Suffer Needlessly During Separation and Divorce
Before separating, spouses call a lawyer, they’ll want to learn about non-adversarial divorce. It’s not just a new way of proceeding, but a much-needed movement! Of course, most separating couples feel as if...
Apr 274 min read


How to Give Yourself the Closure They Couldn’t Give You
A sudden break-up of a relationship can pull the rug from under the feet of even the toughest and strongest out there. It can feel like being struck by lightning on a clear summer day. Especially when there’s...
Apr 88 min read


Identity After Divorce – How Professionals Rebuild Their Baseline
Divorce changes more than your relationship status. It shifts the internal structure you have relied on to navigate your life, your work, and your sense of self. Driven professionals often feel this shift...
Mar 165 min read


How Women Changed the Way Families Navigate Divorce
Every March, Women’s History Month invites us to reflect on the extraordinary contributions women have made across every field of society, including the legal profession. In family law in particular...
Mar 164 min read


How Driven Professionals Regain Clarity and Rebuild Their Sense of Self After Divorce
Divorce has a way of interrupting your internal direction, even when you are someone who is used to leading with certainty. Driven professionals often move through the practical parts of divorce with...
Feb 215 min read


Stop Marrying Your Trauma and Claim the Identity Divorce You Didn’t Know You Needed
In the world of personal development and psychology, we often talk about finding ourselves. But what happens when what you find is a label that weighs more than the wound itself? To move toward...
Feb 176 min read


The Hidden Psychology of Divorce
Divorce is often considered a legal process, yet for the individuals involved it feels highly emotional, visceral. When your life is unravelling, everyone tells you to ‘make good decisions.’
Feb 710 min read


The Overlooked Cost of Personal Transitions Driven Professionals Rarely Address
Driven professionals understand structure. When organizations experience transition, leaders know that stability does not return on its own. Planning, strategy, and intentional recalibration are required...
Jan 223 min read


Mediating Divorce in the New Year – Why January Is an Ideal Time for a More Peaceful Approach
The start of a new year often brings a renewed focus on clarity, intention, and long-term wellbeing. For many couples, it is also the moment when difficult but necessary conversations about separation...
Jan 215 min read


Navigating Divorce in the New Year – Why January Marks a Turning Point for Many Families
The new year has long been associated with fresh starts, personal reflection, and major life decisions. In family law, January consistently emerges as one of the busiest months for divorce...
Jan 75 min read


Rushing Into a New Relationship After Divorce or Heartbreak? Here’s the Truth You’re Missing
When a marriage, long-term partnership, or deeply invested relationship ends, whether through divorce, separation, or a painful breakup, the world expects you to “move on.” But the human psyche doesn’t...
Jan 17 min read


The No-Man’s-Land Week – 5 Ways to Prepare for Telling Your Partner You Want a Divorce After New Year
Christmas has ended. The outdoor lights continue to shine but your inner self remains completely still. The seven days between Christmas and New Year create a strange period, it’s almost like life and...
Nov 21, 20258 min read


7 Ways to Navigate Christmas When Divorce Is Around the Corner in January
Most people experience Christmas as a time of comfort because they enjoy the holiday's traditional elements and familiar sounds. The knowledge that your relationship will end in January creates a sense...
Nov 17, 20256 min read


Freedom From the Fairytale – How Childhood Beliefs & Fears Cloud the Decision to Leave Our Marriage
It’s often in the stillness of the night that fear creeps in. You lie awake, staring at the ceiling, wondering if you can keep going in your marriage. You’ve thought about leaving before, perhaps ...
Aug 28, 20257 min read


How to Deliver the Decision to Divorce – A Thoughtful and Compassionate Approach
Data from UK family law sources indicate that September is the second most popular month for people to break the news that they want to separate. With the flourish of summer holidays ending and children...
Aug 20, 20256 min read
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