Written by: Debra Whitson, Executive Contributor
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Mother’s Day is a special day to celebrate the most important woman in our lives – our mothers. However, for those who have gone through a divorce, Mother’s Day can be a challenging and emotional time. After all, the day is typically spent with family, and the dynamics of family relationships can change drastically after a divorce.
If you are a divorced mother, it is important to take the time to celebrate Mother’s Day and find ways to enjoy the day, even if your family looks different now. Here are five ways to spend Mother’s Day after divorce.
1. Celebrate with Your Children
If you have children, spending Mother’s Day with them is a great way to celebrate the day. You could plan a special activity, such as a trip to the zoo or a picnic in the park. Spending time with your children is a great way to connect and bond with them, and it will create special memories that you will cherish for years to come.
If you share custody of your children with your ex-spouse, it is important to communicate with them about your plans for Mother’s Day. You could agree to split the day, with one parent spending the morning with the children and the other spending the afternoon. Alternatively, you could celebrate Mother’s Day on a different day if it is not your scheduled parenting time.
2. Pamper Yourself
Mother’s Day is a day to celebrate and appreciate all that mothers do. So, why not treat yourself to a day of pampering? You could book a massage, a facial, or a manicure and pedicure. Alternatively, you could spend the day at a spa or wellness retreat.
Taking care of yourself is important, especially after a divorce. It can help you feel refreshed, rejuvenated, and ready to take on the challenges of single parenthood.
3. Spend Time with Your Own Mother
If your relationship with your own mother is good, Mother’s Day is a great day to spend time with her. You could plan a special outing, such as brunch or a trip to a museum. Spending time with your mother can be a great way to connect and share stories about your own experiences as a mother.
If you do not have a good relationship with your mother, or if she has passed away, consider spending time with another important woman in your life, such as a grandmother, aunt, or close friend.
4. Volunteer
Mother’s Day is also a great day to give back to others. Consider volunteering at a local charity or community organization. You could help at a food bank, read to children at a library, or visit a nursing home to spend time with elderly residents.
Volunteering is a great way to give back to your community, and it can also be a great way to meet new people and make new friends.
5. Take a Trip
If you have the time and resources, consider taking a trip to celebrate Mother’s Day. You could plan a weekend getaway to a nearby city, or you could take a longer trip to a destination that you have always wanted to visit.
Taking a trip can be a great way to relax, recharge, and gain perspective after a divorce. It can also be a great way to create new memories and start new traditions.
In conclusion, Mother’s Day can be a challenging time for divorced mothers, but it is also an important day to celebrate all that mothers do. By taking the time to celebrate with your children, pamper yourself, spend time with your own mother or another important woman in your life, volunteer, or take a trip, you can make the day special and meaningful. Remember, no matter what your family looks like now, you are still a mother, and you deserve to be celebrated on this special day.
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Debra Whitson, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
For the first half of her career, Debra Whitson was a prosecutor, and she spent the latter half specializing in Matrimonial and Family Law. She is an experienced mediator and collaborative divorce practitioner as well as a recognized expert in working with victims of domestic violence. Debra believes that legal battles are more harmful to families than helpful, and is passionate about helping people find ways to make their own decisions for their families, rather than leaving their outcomes in the hands of a stranger in a black robe. When court is unavoidable, Debra aims to educate and support people to make the legal process less costly, scary, uncertain, and stressful.
