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Anxiety in Relationships – Is it Toxic or Just a Signal?
Relationships, especially in the early stages, can evoke a range of emotions, from bliss and excitement to irritation and anxiety. When anxiety enters the room, we might wonder...
Jul 28, 20254 min read


Embrace the Gap in Support for New Fathers
I have been hearing the voices of new fathers since I became a mother myself. However, I wasn't always listening. The first postpartum male voice I heard was that of my husband. Breastfeeding was not...
Jul 28, 20253 min read


Five Red Flags of Limerence Instead of Real Love
Have you ever felt that your way of loving people is a bit too much? Has anyone ever expressed this to you or made you feel judged for it? Have you been ghosted or abandoned by someone you were really...
Jul 28, 20258 min read


Understanding the Adolescent Brain, Hidden Bonds, and Your Lasting Role as a Parent
As children transition into their teenage years, many rely on their parents for emotional grounding, even when they don’t always show it. The teenage desire for space doesn’t erase the need for security...
Jul 28, 20254 min read


How to Co-Parent With a Narcissist and Stay Sane – When the “No Contact” Rule Isn’t Fully an Option
Co-parenting with a narcissist isn't the traditional journey, it’s a psychological battlefield. When "no contact" isn't an option, women must employ strategies like parallel parenting and legal filters to manage...
Jul 23, 20254 min read


Sandcastles and the Silent Struggles – Navigating the Summer When Your Relationship is Unsure
The sun is setting low over the coastline. The kids are racing ahead, sticky from ice cream, sand, and sunscreen. Your dog is paddling, tail wagging excitedly as he chases the ball in and out of the waves...
Jul 22, 20255 min read


What Healing From Narcissistic Abuse Really Feels Like – The Good, the Bad, and the Unexpected
Narcissistic abuse doesn’t just break your heart; it shatters your sense of self, distorts your reality, erodes your confidence, and confuses your inner voice. It’s a trauma that lives under the surface...
Jul 22, 20256 min read


More Freedom, Better Sex – Is 40 the New 20?
Someone recently told me about an interview with Charlize Theron that had been discussed on TV. In it, she shared something that sparked a great conversation between my friend and me. Since then, it has...
Jul 16, 20258 min read


The Dark Side of Keeping the Peace and Why Your Niceness is Not Neutral
I was raised in a family deeply rooted in dysfunction and abuse. It shaped me quietly and invisibly into someone who believed that keeping the peace was survival. Later in life, I found myself building businesses surrounded...
Jul 16, 20254 min read


Seven Essential Strategies to Bridge the Gaps and Build Stronger Support for New Families
I initiated a radical social concept in the 1970s with my friends to support new families in our community. We were feminists and activists, and we believed men and women shared equally in the conception...
Jul 15, 20253 min read


What If Your Loyalty to Others Led You to Abandon Yourself?
Exploring how codependent patterns can quietly fuel addiction, and what it means to reclaim your sense of self. Addiction is often viewed as a personal battle with substances or behaviors, but it...
Jul 11, 20254 min read


How to Protect Your Children from Narcissistic Family Dynamics
Family law cases involving narcissistic personalities are among the most challenging and emotionally complex issues that a family can face. For parents navigating divorce or separation from a narcissistic..
Jul 11, 20254 min read


25 Tips for Partners of New Moms
Calling all support people! Congratulations: You have helped, in some way, to bring new life into the world, and I am sure you are eager to make this transition as smooth as possible for your significant other.
Jul 11, 20255 min read


Helping Your Children Prepare for the Arrival of Twins
If you already have children, preparing them for the arrival of their new twin siblings is important. While all children need preparation before a new baby joins the family, when it comes to twins...
Jul 10, 20258 min read


The Hidden Cost of Sex Positivity
There is a silent epidemic that no one is talking about. One that is hidden beneath hashtags of ‘empowerment’ and filtered selfies eluding to liberation. While society hails this era of sexual freedom...
Jul 9, 20257 min read


The Hidden Link Between Emotionally Unavailable Men and My Childhood Wounds
I wasn’t born with the desire to be someone’s second choice. I didn’t wake up one day thinking, “I want to be the woman in the shadows.” And yet, somehow, that’s where I ended up. The painful truth?...
Jul 9, 20253 min read


The Narcissist, the Triangle, and the Illusion of Love – Why It's Really About Validation
Love triangles often seem dramatic, even romantic, charged with passion, tension, and emotional chaos. We’re used to seeing them portrayed in films and literature as symbols of deep desire or moral conflict.
Jul 7, 20254 min read


Grieve, Burn & Worship – Come Back to Your Body in Devotion and Fire
This powerful piece invites you to reconnect with your body through the transformative rituals of grief, pleasure, and devotion. In a world that teaches us to shrink, hide, and punish our bodies...
Jul 4, 20256 min read


How Couples Can Truly Recover from Infidelity Through a Trauma-Informed Lens
Infidelity is one of the most devastating experiences a couple can endure. It shakes the foundation of safety, honesty, and emotional intimacy that a relationship is built upon. As a trauma-informed...
Jul 4, 20255 min read


People-Pleasing in Dating? – Why Being 'Too Nice' Is Blocking Your Love Life
You're the friend everyone counts on, the colleague who never says no, the date who's always 'flexible' about plans. Your dating profile probably proudly declares that you're 'easy-going' and 'drama-free.'
Jul 3, 20254 min read


The Psychology of Narcissism and How to Maintain Inner Strength
As someone who has struggled to understand narcissism through personal experiences with close relationships, I have discovered that there is much more beneath the superficial label. Narcissism is not merely selfishness...
Jul 2, 20258 min read


Embracing Self-Acceptance as a Parent and Loving Yourself More
Do you ever feel like you're failing as a parent, despite all the effort, care, and love you pour into your children? Like, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough? And when you hear all...
Jul 2, 20255 min read


11 Ways to Swap Drama for Devotion on Your Daughter’s Big Day
Now that my daughter is engaged, I’m finding myself in new emotional territory. Parts of me are beaming with joy, anticipation, and pride. Then there are other parts, quieter, more tender...
Jul 2, 20255 min read


Empty Nest, What Comes Next?
There are moments in life that you think you understand, until they become your own reality. While we’re taught to be empathetic, there are some experiences that simply can’t be fully...
Jul 2, 20259 min read
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