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Stemming the Tide of the Hollow Echoes of Abuse
Trauma does not always begin with life-altering events, it can also take root through subtle, repeated experiences that quietly shape how we think, feel, and respond. This article explores how healing...
Aug 46 min read


The Difference Between Rest and Retreat
You have stepped back from your life, and part of you feels relieved. But quiet does not always mean healing. Sometimes it means hiding. Here is how to tell which one you are actually doing, and why...
Aug 310 min read


Nobody Warns You That Perimenopause Comes With Opinions
Inside twenty-four hours, I managed to annoy no fewer than five people, one of whom was a good friend and another a recruitment agent. It was not a coordinated campaign. It simply happened, the way...
Aug 34 min read


Five Ways Your Brain Can Learn Something New
When I was diagnosed with autoimmune disease at seventeen, nobody spoke to me about my brain. They spoke about my eyes, my immune system, and medication. They explained that my body was attacking itself...
Aug 37 min read


The Rising Tide of Preeclampsia
Preeclampsia remains one of the most serious complications of pregnancy and one of the leading contributors to maternal and infant morbidity and mortality worldwide. Along with obstetric hemorrhage, infection...
Aug 36 min read


When Grief is Complicated and How to Mourn a Parent Who Caused You Harm
My father died recently. I have sat with that sentence for a while now, turning it over, feeling its weight and its strange lightness. My father died. A former pastry chef and guitarist who achieved some fame...
Aug 39 min read


Endurance Training is Stress and Here’s Why That’s Not a Bad Thing Until It Is
There is a strange contradiction built into endurance sports. We spend enormous amounts of time deliberately teaching the body to tolerate stress while simultaneously being told that stress is something we...
Aug 312 min read


Finding Stillness in an Age of Infinite Prompts
In my previous article, I explored how attention, repetition, and awareness shape identity. Awareness, however, is only the beginning. Once we recognize the patterns shaping our lives, another challenge...
Aug 35 min read


When You Hold Everything Together but Feel Alone in Your Own Relationship
The quiet erosion of intimacy can happen when a high-achieving woman carries too much for too long without anyone noticing what it is costing her. She is dependable to her colleagues, friends, family...
Aug 310 min read


How to Set Boundaries as a Mom Without the Guilt
Have you ever asked any mother whether she struggles to say no? You probably didn't get a simple answer. You'll get a story instead, about the playdate she agreed to when she was already running on empty...
Aug 25 min read


When All That Matters Is a Healthy Baby Isn’t Enough
“My only goal is to survive.” I see this sentence far too often. Pregnant people share it in online birth communities. They say it jokingly. They say it as a coping mechanism. They say it because they have...
Aug 25 min read


The Rescuer Syndrome and When Saving Everyone Else Becomes a Way of Abandoning Yourself
“For so long, you thought your purpose was to save everyone else. The greatest awakening comes when you realise you were never meant to be their rescue boat; you were meant to become your own safe...
Aug 26 min read


Why Digestive Health is Never One-Size-Fits-All, Lessons From Crohn's Disease
The human digestive system is remarkable. It nourishes every cell in the body, supports immunity, influences energy production, and plays a significant role in emotional and mental well-being. Yet, despite it...
Aug 14 min read


Is It Really Micromanagement, or is Something Else Going on?
We are often told to find the root cause of a problem, and for the most part, that is very good advice. That is why I want to talk about a topic we explore during August as part of *The Fellowship...
Aug 16 min read


When Ageing Becomes a Blessing and Seven Daily Choices That Helped Me Feel Younger at 56 Than at 46
If someone had told me ten years ago that I would feel healthier, calmer and more energised at 56 than I did at 46, I would probably have smiled politely and dismissed the idea. Like many people, I...
Jul 315 min read


The Difference Between Anxiety, Intuition, and OCD Urgency
“I just have a gut feeling.” It’s a phrase I hear often in my therapy office. Sometimes it’s true. Sometimes it isn’t. The challenge is that anxiety, especially obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD),...
Jul 304 min read


What Brokenness Taught Me About Hope and the Story Behind My Book
People often ask me why I wrote From Brokenness to Hope. The simple answer is that I never wanted anyone to believe they were beyond healing. But the real answer goes much deeper than...
Jul 304 min read


Five Tests That Catch Insulin Resistance Years Before Your Doctor Will
Your doctor said your labs are normal, but you don't feel normal. You don't have the energy you used to. You carry extra weight that won't go away. Your thinking isn't as clear. You don't recall...
Jul 309 min read


Why I Stopped Asking What Was Wrong With Me, and What I Asked Instead
I want to start by saying that this piece is not a prescription, a recommendation, or a comparison. Every woman's journey through perimenopause and menopause is her own. If hormone replacement...
Jul 3012 min read


How to Stop Emotional Eating with 7 Proven Mindset Shifts That Work
You ate well all day. Then, somewhere between dinner and bedtime, you found yourself standing in front of the fridge, eating something you were not even hungry for and wondering why this keeps...
Jul 297 min read


Have We Become Afraid of Light?
As I write this, the UK is experiencing yet another heatwave. News bulletins are filled with warnings to stay indoors, avoid the midday sun, wear hats, apply sunscreen and drink plenty of water. It's...
Jul 294 min read


Stop Holding Committee Meetings About Your Feelings
One of the quietest ways we lose ourselves isn't through a dramatic breakup, a betrayal, or one life-changing argument. More often, it happens gradually, through hundreds of seemingly insignificant moments...
Jul 298 min read


He Had Accepted Eight Years of Restricted Mobility – Then, in 20 Minutes, His Ankle Began to Change
Why many people living with chronic conditions quietly stop believing recovery is possible, and why openness may be the first step towards healing. After eight years of restricted mobility, one man had accepted...
Jul 298 min read


Why Walking is Your Best Bet for Easy Exercise
Walking, a simple and effective workout, is not just a means of transportation but a powerhouse exercise that doesn’t require a gym membership, fancy gear, or intense training. All you need is a pair...
Jul 292 min read
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