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The Hidden Cost of Sex Positivity
There is a silent epidemic that no one is talking about. One that is hidden beneath hashtags of ‘empowerment’ and filtered selfies eluding to liberation. While society hails this era of sexual freedom...
Jul 97 min read


Grieve, Burn & Worship – Come Back to Your Body in Devotion and Fire
This powerful piece invites you to reconnect with your body through the transformative rituals of grief, pleasure, and devotion. In a world that teaches us to shrink, hide, and punish our bodies...
Jul 46 min read


What High-Achieving Women Can Learn About Intimacy From the Divine Feminine
There’s a quiet truth many high-achieving women carry but rarely speak aloud: the more competent, efficient, and “in control” we become, the more elusive intimacy can feel. Not just sexual intimacy...
Jul 18 min read


Why So Many Settle for Mediocre Sex and What to Do About It
There is a sentiment that echoes in therapy sessions, intimate conversations, and those rare moments of vulnerability when someone finally voices their inner struggle: You are not alone in this.
Jun 306 min read


Commitment: The Real Decision – A Meditation on Relationships, Growth, and Choosing Without Forcing
Recently, I found myself in a deep conversation with two friends, each of us standing at a different threshold of relationship commitment. One friend is in the midst of a separation, wrestling with the question...
Jun 275 min read


Kink Isn’t a Symptom and Debunking the Trauma Myth
You’ve heard the whisper: “My god, what is wrong with them!? Look at what they’re into, who would want to do that to themselves?”
Jun 204 min read


The Power of Touch in Relationship Wellness with a Focus on Ethics and Boundaries
In an era where loneliness has reached epidemic proportions, as highlighted by former U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy, marriage counselors and relationship coaches must explore innovative ways to help couples...
Jun 184 min read


Love Hurts and Your Brain Knows It
We’ve all felt it. The heavy chest. The racing thoughts. The sleepless nights. That dull ache and emptiness that follows you everywhere after a breakup or the loss of someone you love.
Jun 185 min read


Velvet Thunder – The Love That Dared to Remember
Velvet Thunder, The Love That Dared to Remember is a powerful exploration of memory, identity, and the kind of love that transcends time and silence. Through tender reflection and unapologetic...
Jun 114 min read


The Shadow of Expecting Nothing and Reclaiming Worth in Love After Trauma
Many of us are taught that expecting nothing from love is a sign of strength, detachment, or even spiritual enlightenment. But what happens when that belief collides with the lived...
Jun 96 min read


What to Do When You Have Lost the Spark Before It Is Too Late
There comes a point in many relationships where love starts to feel more like a shared calendar than a shared soul. The to-do lists grow longer, but the eye contact shortens. You remember you love...
May 234 min read


Compersion, Empathy, the Art of Sensual Massage and Reclaiming Intimacy Through Touch
In a culture often driven by instant gratification, performance-based sex, and transactional intimacy, sensual massage stands apart as a tender, intentional, and powerfully healing practice.
May 224 min read


How a “Sex Chore WOD” Can Turn Everyday Tasks Into Steamy Connection
What if folding laundry or doing the dishes could actually bring you and your partner closer, way closer? The “Sex Chore WOD” flips mundane household tasks into playful, sensual rituals that build...
May 163 min read


Understanding Conscious Love and Why the Honeymoon Phase Never Has to End
When my future mother-in-law asked how long I’d been with her son, I smiled and said, “Three beautiful years.” She leaned back, gave me a kind yet knowing look, and replied, “Ah, don’t worry, the...
May 76 min read


When He Shuts Down and She Reaches – Understanding Nervous System Differences in Relationships
If you've ever found yourself in a familiar cycle where one partner withdraws and the other pursues harder, you're not alone. What feels intensely personal – "He doesn't love me," "She's too much" – is often not about love. It's about biology.
May 45 min read


Therapeutic Power of Domination and Submission Through Psychosomatic and Psychological Healing
“A somato-spiritual version of a cutting-edge therapeutic modality. Honestly, this has been an experience like no other to understand myself. It goes deep and it is absolutely life changing”. This is the testimonial that one of our most loyal customers, the head of advertising of the fastest growing social network...
Apr 206 min read


What's Wrong With Me If I Don't Want to Have Sex? – The Truth is Nothing, But Let's Go Deeper
There's a quiet ache in so many of my conversations across my practice, my communities, and even the most private moments in my heart. It often starts as a question laced with shame...
Apr 174 min read


The Truth about Sex, Stress, and the Couch and Why Intimacy Can’t Wait
Let’s be real: between the kids, the deadlines, and the dishes, sex often becomes the last thing on the to-do list. But intimacy isn’t just a bonus feature of your relationship; it’s the glue that...
Apr 154 min read


When Love Feels Like Friendship but it Hurts and How to Rekindle Passion in Your Relationship
A couple is sitting on the floor in a cozy embrace, smiling at each other lovingly in a relaxed, intimate setting.
Apr 24 min read


Unlock Deeper Intimacy and Passion Through Soulful Communication in Your Relationship
I heard words that felt like a punch to the gut, knocking the air from my lungs. And I’ve heard words that made my panties drop to the...
Mar 285 min read


The Psychosensual Treatment That Transforms Female Sexual Wellbeing
For many women, the journey toward deeper sexual intimacy and self-discovery is fraught with obstacles. These challenges may stem from...
Mar 215 min read


Navigating Age-Gap Relationships with Confidence and Clarity
You've built a life most people only dream of: the career, the lifestyle, the freedom. You have options, especially when it comes to dating.
Mar 145 min read


Unlocking Deeper Intimacy and Self-Discovery Through Conscious Role-Play
In the world of intimacy and self-exploration, conscious kink has emerged as a powerful psychosomatic tool for personal growth and deeper...
Mar 64 min read


Understanding Somatic Sexology and How to Reconnect with Your Pleasure to Empower Your Life
Intimacy is a powerful form of medicine, deeply rooted in the biological exchange between partners. Through physical closeness and...
Mar 49 min read
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