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Reflections on Empathy, Presence, and the Self
I have felt an affinity for Carl Rogers since I first learned about his work and recently decided to study him in more depth. My understanding of empathy, previously a rather static concept–either you...
1 day ago5 min read


Where Will You Be Next Year?
Take a quick and simple snapshot of your last year. What changed? What improved? What’s going wrong? What’s your North Star? Most people on the planet cannot answer these questions. They are so stuck in stress...
2 days ago3 min read


Consequence-Tested Judgment and Why Human Wisdom Still Matters in the Age of AI
Every profession has a moment when the manual goes silent. Procedures preserve hard lessons, create discipline, and protect lives. But reality does not arrive in chapters. It arrives all at once, with incomplete...
3 days ago5 min read


How Discipline Turns Overlooked Voices Into Leaders and Builders
What happens when the people who have spent their lives being overlooked stop waiting for permission? They build companies. They build communities. They build opportunities. They build industries...
3 days ago5 min read


The Double Empathy Problem and Why Autistic People Are Not the Communication Problem
A psychologist called an autistic therapist about a client they shared. The psychologist was conducting an autism assessment and wanted to know whether the client met the criteria. The questions came...
3 days ago7 min read


The Hidden Family Patterns That Shape Your Biggest Life Decisions
Why the choices that define your life may have begun long before you were born. For more than a decade, I have accompanied people through profound processes of personal transformation. Again and again...
3 days ago5 min read


The Hidden Suffering of Outgrowing an Identity
There is a particular kind of suffering that rarely gets talked about. It isn't the suffering of a toxic workplace. It isn't the suffering of burnout. It isn't even the suffering of failure. It is the suffering...
4 days ago6 min read


Where is Your Sacred Place?
Where is your safe and sacred place? Where do you find growth? Is it in nature, with friends, at home, or maybe in another country while on vacation? Where do you feel most like yourself? For me, it...
4 days ago4 min read


Exploring the Physical and Metaphysical Messages of Bladder Leakage
Have you ever coughed, sneezed, laughed, exercised, or made a sudden movement and unexpectedly leaked a little urine? For many women, the answer is yes. Bladder leakage is often...
4 days ago4 min read


The Credential Crisis in Regional Sport, and Why Your Child's Coach Might Not Be Who They Claim
There's a conversation I have more often than I'd like. A parent reaches out, sometimes frustrated, sometimes just confused, and starts describing the program their son or daughter has been in. They talk about the...
6 days ago9 min read


What Superman Left Blank
I was about seven years old when I discovered my dad wasn't the strongest man in the world. Christopher Reeve was. I saw Superman at the cinema, and I was completely captivated. You have to remember that...
6 days ago8 min read


Echo or Embodiment? Why Our Ideas Need a Body Again
A couple of weeks ago, while co-hosting a gathering, I said something that has continued to deepen for me: “Some of the most honest answers to the most honest questions aren’t spoken through words.” We live in a...
6 days ago3 min read


Kindness is Contagious, and Simple Acts Can Brighten the World
Lately, it seems like everywhere we turn, there’s something new to worry about. Rising prices. Political disagreements. Economic uncertainty. Social media debates. It’s no wonder people are feeling stressed...
6 days ago3 min read


Seven Signs Psychedelic Therapy is Not Right for You Right Now
Psychedelic medicine is having a moment. Podcasts, retreats, clinical trials, breakthrough therapy designations. The conversation has moved from the fringe to the mainstream, and for good reason. For many...
6 days ago5 min read


How the Way You See the World Shapes Your Reality
What if the most powerful force shaping your life isn't what happens to you, but the perspective through which you experience it? From neuroscience and psychology to philosophy, spirituality, leadership...
Aug 108 min read


Are You Living Your Life or Just Reacting to It? How to Become the Observer
Between every thought and every reaction, there is a moment. Most people never find it. In that gap lives something precious, the freedom to choose how you respond rather than simply execute the...
Aug 106 min read


Is It Moral Decay, Deficit, or Disguise?
How do you rot what never grew? We use the phrase moral decay to describe conduct that shows no moral character, but decay is decomposition, and decomposition requires something that was once alive...
Aug 911 min read


When Uncertainty Becomes Freedom
We often say that human beings are afraid of uncertainty. But uncertainty, by definition, contains no conclusion. It does not tell us that something bad will happen. It does not tell us that we will fail, be...
Aug 75 min read


The Success Trap Nobody Talks About
"Fake it till you make it." Few pieces of advice have been repeated more often in business, leadership and personal development. For many, it has served as permission to step beyond self...
Aug 74 min read


Who Am I When I’m No Longer Needed in the Same Way?
A month ago, my husband and I travelled to spend time with our adult children. Like many parents, I had quietly imagined what those few days would look like. Long conversations. Family bonding.
Aug 68 min read


Creating Rhythms That Restore and Moving Beyond Routines to Sustainable Living
For much of my life, I have been very good at creating routines, schedules, systems, plans, and goals. I like knowing what needs to happen and when it needs to happen. There is comfort in...
Aug 65 min read


Defeating Imposter Syndrome and Why You Deserve to Stand in the Room
Imposter syndrome can make even successful people question whether they truly belong. Jean Bernard Fatal explores why these feelings arise and shares practical ways to overcome self-doubt, build confidence...
Aug 64 min read


Why The Surf of Life is Recovery Reinvented
The idea that life is not linear, but rather like a set of waves, is ancient. The Roman Stoics and Taoism already gave us a hint, but the idea really took off when modern-day writers like Jon Kabat-Zinn and...
Aug 67 min read


Why Personal Growth Always Precedes Business Growth
When people look at a successful business, they usually focus on what is visible, revenue, growth, teams, systems, clients, products, and results. What they rarely see is the inner growth that made...
Aug 55 min read
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