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5 Ways to Help Your Child Stay Calm and Confident at Equestrian Competitions
Supporting a young rider during equestrian competitions can feel like walking a tightrope; do too much, and they pull away; do too little, and they feel alone. Whether it’s their first horse show or a...
Oct 97 min read


6 Tips for Navigating ADHD Challenges in Relationships
If you’ve spent any time online recently, you’ve likely noticed that the conversation around ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) has exploded. As awareness grows, so does our understanding...
Oct 15 min read


The Motherhood Shift – Why Growing Up With Your Kids Is the Real Journey
Motherhood is marketed to us like a highlight reel, newborn snuggles, toddler tantrums, school lunches, teenage eye rolls, then a beautifully curated empty nest. What makes me sad, and what we don't...
Sep 186 min read


The Secret to Helping Kids Stay Curious in a World Full of Answers
In an age where answers are just a click away, children risk losing the spark of curiosity that drives true learning. This article explores why nurturing curiosity is more important than ever, how instant...
Sep 174 min read


Navigating Legal Rights as a Stepparent in New York
Every year on September 16, National Stepfamily Day recognizes the unique love, challenges, and dedication of blended families. Millions of children across the country are raised in homes that...
Sep 164 min read


The Wounds Left by Parents
At A Mindful Message, healing begins when silence is broken. Many of us carry invisible wounds from childhood, often shaped by the dynamics we had with our mother, father, or primary caregivers.
Sep 114 min read


Parenting a Neurodivergent Child and Rewriting the Rulebook with Compassion and Evidence
Every parenting book assumes one thing: that children will follow the script. What happens when your child doesn’t? What if the “rules” never apply to your family? That is the reality for parents...
Sep 24 min read


How to Set an Effective Limit When You Need to Win Your Child’s Cooperation
A note before you read: to accommodate both girls and boys, the text below alternates between the two in each section. There are limits where we can impose our will on our child, such as whether to get a snack...
Aug 2014 min read


How to Reclaim Your Presence and Legacy Before It's Too Late
In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to lose yourself in the roles you play: mother, partner, and professional. But have you ever stopped to ask yourself what your children will remember about you?
Aug 128 min read


Embrace the Gap in Support for New Fathers
I have been hearing the voices of new fathers since I became a mother myself. However, I wasn't always listening. The first postpartum male voice I heard was that of my husband. Breastfeeding was not...
Jul 283 min read


Understanding the Adolescent Brain, Hidden Bonds, and Your Lasting Role as a Parent
As children transition into their teenage years, many rely on their parents for emotional grounding, even when they don’t always show it. The teenage desire for space doesn’t erase the need for security...
Jul 284 min read


Seven Essential Strategies to Bridge the Gaps and Build Stronger Support for New Families
I initiated a radical social concept in the 1970s with my friends to support new families in our community. We were feminists and activists, and we believed men and women shared equally in the conception...
Jul 153 min read


25 Tips for Partners of New Moms
Calling all support people! Congratulations: You have helped, in some way, to bring new life into the world, and I am sure you are eager to make this transition as smooth as possible for your significant other.
Jul 115 min read


Helping Your Children Prepare for the Arrival of Twins
If you already have children, preparing them for the arrival of their new twin siblings is important. While all children need preparation before a new baby joins the family, when it comes to twins...
Jul 108 min read


Embracing Self-Acceptance as a Parent and Loving Yourself More
Do you ever feel like you're failing as a parent, despite all the effort, care, and love you pour into your children? Like, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough? And when you hear all...
Jul 25 min read


7 Strategies for Comfort, Encouragement, and Guidance in Embracing the New Parent Gap Challenges
Many years ago, I was pregnant, single, and alone. I gave birth in a foreign country and never saw my baby. I had no emotional support. Several years later, I was happily married, and we got...
Jul 14 min read


10 Secrets to Helping Your Child Do Their Homework Independently
Are you one of those parents who worry intensely about their child’s performance at school? I get you. You want your child to learn fast, to overcome obstacles, and to master her work...
Jun 2413 min read


The Book Every Cycle-Breaking Parent Needs This Summer – Wiggles McGee- The Magic Within
Thank you for sharing this beautiful and insightful introduction to Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within. It sounds like a truly powerful and much-needed resource for families seeking to break generational...
Jun 135 min read


5 Steps to Being a Healthy Single Parent
Are you ready to be present, mentally and emotionally, or your child or children? Life is evolving, sometimes faster than we can keep up, and single parents need to move at the speed...
May 207 min read


Will Having a Baby Change Who I Am?
Before having children, I had plenty of time to think about myself. Looking back on that time makes me realize that there was not much actual self-reflection happening, though.
May 124 min read


What is Patrescence? –understanding the Psychological Shift in Modern Fatherhood
You’ve heard of matrescence, the psychological, emotional, and physical transition into motherhood. But did you know that something just as profound happens to men when they become fathers?
May 84 min read


Helping Twins Get Along with 5 Gentle Strategies to Reduce Twin Conflict and Build Stronger Bonds
Twins may be best friends, but even best friends fight. Sharing space, toys, and attention 24/7 often leads to conflict, and that’s understandable. While we can’t force twins to get along, we can help them navigate conflicts with productive...
May 59 min read


7 Common Reasons Why Separation Anxiety Might Persist Past the Toddler Years
Have you ever been the only parent with your child on your lap at the beginning of a birthday party? Or, even for a good part of the entire party? It can happen, and it feels awkward if your child...
Apr 239 min read


Why Children Live in a Hypnotic State Until Age 8 and How It Shapes Who We Become
Children live in a natural state of hypnosis until around the age of 8, absorbing everything around them like sponges, without filters or critical thinking. During these formative years, their...
Apr 225 min read
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