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Why Perfectionism is Harmful for Families and How to Break the Cycle
I wanted a happy family, the perfect, loving kind I had wished for as a child. Instead, I struggled as a parent, feeling alone and isolated. I found myself overwhelmed with anger, sadness, and resentment.
Dec 157 min read


What’s Your Biggest Child Behavior Concern Today?
Do you ever feel like life gets out of control way too often with your child? I get it. Parenting in this day and age just gets more complex every day. With screen time, AI, questions about how much...
Dec 36 min read


Before You Decide to Become a Mom, Read This
Motherhood is beautiful, meaningful, and transformative. But it can also be overwhelming, unexpected, and isolating. As a clinician and a mother of two, I’ve seen firsthand how often women...
Dec 25 min read


Is It Defiance, Bad Behaviour, or Pathological Demand Avoidance?
Is your child a tiny tyrant? Do the simplest requests or tasks (think tooth brushing, putting on socks) trigger apocalyptic meltdowns? Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) has been floating around as...
Nov 298 min read


From Enthusiasm to Restraint – What Parents Need to Know About the College Hiring Shift
Last week, the National Association of Colleges and Employers (NACE) released data confirming what many college students and families have been sensing: the college hiring market has entered a new...
Nov 1913 min read


Compassionate Discipline Is the Future of Parenting
There was a time when I believed that discipline was about control, about structure, consistency, and firm boundaries. I thought being a good parent meant teaching obedience, enforcing rules...
Nov 135 min read


5 Ways to Help Your Child Stay Calm and Confident at Equestrian Competitions
Supporting a young rider during equestrian competitions can feel like walking a tightrope; do too much, and they pull away; do too little, and they feel alone. Whether it’s their first horse show or a...
Oct 97 min read


6 Tips for Navigating ADHD Challenges in Relationships
If you’ve spent any time online recently, you’ve likely noticed that the conversation around ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) has exploded. As awareness grows, so does our understanding...
Oct 15 min read


The Motherhood Shift – Why Growing Up With Your Kids Is the Real Journey
Motherhood is marketed to us like a highlight reel, newborn snuggles, toddler tantrums, school lunches, teenage eye rolls, then a beautifully curated empty nest. What makes me sad, and what we don't...
Sep 186 min read


The Secret to Helping Kids Stay Curious in a World Full of Answers
In an age where answers are just a click away, children risk losing the spark of curiosity that drives true learning. This article explores why nurturing curiosity is more important than ever, how instant...
Sep 174 min read


Navigating Legal Rights as a Stepparent in New York
Every year on September 16, National Stepfamily Day recognizes the unique love, challenges, and dedication of blended families. Millions of children across the country are raised in homes that...
Sep 164 min read


The Wounds Left by Parents
At A Mindful Message, healing begins when silence is broken. Many of us carry invisible wounds from childhood, often shaped by the dynamics we had with our mother, father, or primary caregivers.
Sep 114 min read


Parenting a Neurodivergent Child and Rewriting the Rulebook with Compassion and Evidence
Every parenting book assumes one thing: that children will follow the script. What happens when your child doesn’t? What if the “rules” never apply to your family? That is the reality for parents...
Sep 24 min read


How to Set an Effective Limit When You Need to Win Your Child’s Cooperation
A note before you read: to accommodate both girls and boys, the text below alternates between the two in each section. There are limits where we can impose our will on our child, such as whether to get a snack...
Aug 2014 min read


How to Reclaim Your Presence and Legacy Before It's Too Late
In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to lose yourself in the roles you play: mother, partner, and professional. But have you ever stopped to ask yourself what your children will remember about you?
Aug 128 min read


Embrace the Gap in Support for New Fathers
I have been hearing the voices of new fathers since I became a mother myself. However, I wasn't always listening. The first postpartum male voice I heard was that of my husband. Breastfeeding was not...
Jul 283 min read


Understanding the Adolescent Brain, Hidden Bonds, and Your Lasting Role as a Parent
As children transition into their teenage years, many rely on their parents for emotional grounding, even when they don’t always show it. The teenage desire for space doesn’t erase the need for security...
Jul 284 min read


Seven Essential Strategies to Bridge the Gaps and Build Stronger Support for New Families
I initiated a radical social concept in the 1970s with my friends to support new families in our community. We were feminists and activists, and we believed men and women shared equally in the conception...
Jul 153 min read


25 Tips for Partners of New Moms
Calling all support people! Congratulations: You have helped, in some way, to bring new life into the world, and I am sure you are eager to make this transition as smooth as possible for your significant other.
Jul 115 min read


Helping Your Children Prepare for the Arrival of Twins
If you already have children, preparing them for the arrival of their new twin siblings is important. While all children need preparation before a new baby joins the family, when it comes to twins...
Jul 108 min read


Embracing Self-Acceptance as a Parent and Loving Yourself More
Do you ever feel like you're failing as a parent, despite all the effort, care, and love you pour into your children? Like, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough? And when you hear all...
Jul 25 min read


7 Strategies for Comfort, Encouragement, and Guidance in Embracing the New Parent Gap Challenges
Many years ago, I was pregnant, single, and alone. I gave birth in a foreign country and never saw my baby. I had no emotional support. Several years later, I was happily married, and we got...
Jul 14 min read


10 Secrets to Helping Your Child Do Their Homework Independently
Are you one of those parents who worry intensely about their child’s performance at school? I get you. You want your child to learn fast, to overcome obstacles, and to master her work...
Jun 2413 min read


The Book Every Cycle-Breaking Parent Needs This Summer – Wiggles McGee- The Magic Within
Thank you for sharing this beautiful and insightful introduction to Wiggles McGee – The Magic Within. It sounds like a truly powerful and much-needed resource for families seeking to break generational...
Jun 135 min read
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