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Should Kids Study Over the Summer? Why the Usual Answers Are Both Wrong
A teacher and EdTech founder on the summer slide, the case for rest, and how much study actually helps. Every June, the same question lands in my inbox. It comes from parents, and lately it comes from...
8 hours ago6 min read


Why Co-Regulation Matters More Than Discipline
Many adults were taught that discipline means controlling behavior. But neuroscience shows us something different: children regulate through connection before they regulate independently. Long...
4 days ago3 min read


Raising Kids in the Age of Doomscrolling, Algorithms, and the Highlight Reel
I asked my sixteen-year-old recently whether he wanted me to lift the screen time limit on a game he enjoys, after a bit of a moan about how he only has 15 minutes. He thought about it for a moment...
Jun 86 min read


Social Media is Not Safe for Gay Dads
Most of our lives are spent online. We work. We shop. We chat. We share. We connect. All online. However, this online world - much like our real world, does not treat everyone equally. LGBTQ+ people are...
Jun 74 min read


How To Manage Parenting Grief
When we become parents, naturally our focus shifts heavily from self to other and this is part of the beauty of raising a child. However, this focus can sometimes lead us to deny or not fully process our...
May 319 min read


What If Your Teenager’s Behaviour is Nervous System Communication?
This article explores how nervous system dysregulation can show up in teenagers through posture, breath, movement, and shutdown responses and why these physical patterns are often misread as behaviour...
May 197 min read


What Children Really Need When They Are Dysregulated and Why Calm Down Doesn’t Work
Every parent, teacher, and caregiver has experienced it. A child melts down over something seemingly small. A sibling argument escalates quickly. A student shuts down during a lesson. In these moments...
May 134 min read


The 5 Baby Brain Secrets That Can Address School Readiness, Communication, and Neurodiversity
Whilst a lot of good progress has been made to support children aged 0 to 3 years, the ages of 3 to 7 years constitute a key stage of brain development that plays a major role in their school readiness...
May 37 min read


Tantrums as Data and What Your Child’s Outbursts Reveal About Their Needs
Every tantrum tells a story. Behind the tears, the stomping feet, or the sudden silence lies valuable information about a child’s wants, needs, and challenges. When parents learn to see tantrums not as chaos...
Apr 3012 min read


The Challenges of Parenting and How to Overcome Them
Parenting is a complex role and situation. It involves emotions, care, guidance, responsibility, awareness, listening, understanding, respect, anticipation, boundaries, and patience. You get the...
Apr 2811 min read


The Pressure to Be a Calm Parent and What to Do When You’re Not
There is a moment most parents know well. Your child is melting down over something small. You’ve already had a long day. You try to stay calm, but then your voice gets sharper. Your patience runs...
Apr 65 min read


Morning Stress into Calm – 6 Quick Self-Care Rituals for Busy Parents
Every morning, I find myself constantly running back into the house to retrieve something I have forgotten after the kids are all buckled up and ready to go. Sometimes, I make this trip 2 to 4 times.
Apr 46 min read


How Ancient Greek Philosophy Can Help Modern Parents Find Balance
What if the secret to surviving modern parenthood isn’t in the latest parenting hack or self-help trend, but in ideas that are over 2,000 years old? From Aristotle’s concept of human flourishing to the Stoic...
Mar 319 min read


How Nervous System Awareness Can Transform the Way You Parent
Parenting is often described as joyful, meaningful, and deeply rewarding. It is all of those things. But it is also exhausting, overwhelming, and at times, completely dysregulating for both parent and child...
Mar 303 min read


A 3-Step Checklist to Help You With Boundaries
To me, one of the hardest parts of parenting is the contrast between being patient, positive, and supportive (and all the other things we are expected to be these days) and sometimes being “the bad guy.” You know...
Mar 244 min read


6 Tips for Promoting Healthy Attachment with Your Child
Parenting is a very serious job. How we raise our children will determine so much of their health, self-esteem, curiosity, productivity, values, beliefs, confidence, empathy, relationships, and how they love...
Mar 247 min read


Understanding Addiction and the Role of Conscious Parenting in Prevention
Vancouver is a paradox of fancy hotels, chic restaurants, and unaffordable real estate within walking distance of the Downtown Eastside. This neighborhood is known for its human misery, where sidewalk...
Mar 238 min read


Your Child’s Big Feelings – Why They Trigger You and What to Do
Let me paint you a picture. Your child has just melted down in the middle of a grocery store or at the dinner table, or in the car, or really anywhere that is not convenient, which is to say, everywhere...
Mar 2010 min read


The Hidden Ways Parents Reinforce Anxiety in an Anxious Child and What to Do Instead
As a parent, seeing your child anxious can be heartbreaking, and your instinct is often to make it better by reassuring or avoiding triggers. However, this well-intentioned approach can inadvertently reinforce...
Mar 135 min read


Early Airway Support in Children and How Myofunctional Therapy May Help Prevent Sleep Apnea
When parents hear the words “sleep apnea,” it can feel alarming. Images of sleep studies, medical equipment, and restless nights often come to mind. But for most children, airway concerns do not appear...
Mar 125 min read


Why Removing Every Struggle May Be Holding Our Children Back
One of the most common patterns I observe when working with young athletes and their families has very little to do with soccer. It has to do with discomfort. More specifically, how quickly adults move to remove it...
Mar 55 min read


They Gave Me Everything, A Different Way to Understand the Empty Nest
There is a narrative we often hear about the empty nest. It is a story of loss, silence, and identity fading when children grow up and move forward into their own lives. It paints a picture of a house...
Mar 25 min read


Raising Children Who Can Feel in a Noisy World With Nervous System Wisdom
Picture this. A child sits at a small desk, juggling a flurry of notifications from multiple devices while trying to focus on math homework that requires a calculator and a stack of reference books...
Mar 16 min read


Is It Your Child or Your Parenting That’s Causing Issues?
After a childhood fraught with her parents’ mental and physical illness, abandonment, and profound loss, Tina Feigal is grateful to use her experiences as powerful "fuel". What she went through as a kid...
Feb 193 min read
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