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You Can Be Two Things at Once and Why Holding Opposites is Part of Being Human
Ever since I was a child, I remember being asked the familiar question, "Is the glass half full or half empty?" It always seemed that there had to be a right answer. Half full meant optimism. Half...
Aug 255 min read


Five Ways to Know You Are Ready to Experience Rapid Transformational Therapy®
Depending on who you talk to, therapy for maintaining a healthy mind is gaining momentum. Some people still think seeking therapy is taboo. Some people don’t believe they need therapy. Some...
Aug 2410 min read


The Hidden Echo of Childhood Trauma and How a School Incident Shaped My Fear of Being Seen
As children, we are often unaware of the profound impact that early experiences can have on our lives. For some, these moments become echoes, persistent feelings that shape our identity and...
Aug 249 min read


Four Insights Into My Lived Experience With Recovery
In my previous article, ‘Why The Surf of Life is Recovery Reinvented’, I briefly mentioned my lived experience with medication, therapy, loss, and grief during my recovery process. These are the first...
Aug 247 min read


Self-Leadership and How Discipline Creates Freedom
Most people think freedom means doing whatever they want, whenever they want. No rules. No structure. No pressure. No discipline. But in reality, this kind of “freedom” often leads to the opposite...
Aug 245 min read


The Plan You Made on Sunday Wasn't Written by the Person Who Has to Live on Wednesday
I didn't grow up a runner. I grew up playing sport, the kind with a ball, a team, and other people to carry you on the days you didn't feel like showing up. Running was never the plan. It became the...
Aug 246 min read


Is Being Introverted a Bad Thing? How to Embrace Your Introverted Personality and Bask in It
Is being introverted a bad thing? No. Introversion is a normal personality trait, not a flaw that needs fixing. The important question is whether your choices come from genuine preference or fear. You...
Aug 235 min read


The Third Culture Identity Crisis No One Talks About
If you have travelled extensively, lived abroad, or seamlessly navigate multiple cultural environments, you have likely asked yourself this exact question. It is a question I face regularly in my private...
Aug 237 min read


Five Common Misconceptions About Stoicism and What the Stoics Actually Taught
Most people who tell you they’re into Stoicism have never studied Stoicism. Instead, they’ve consumed a lot of so-called Stoic content on social media and mistaken that content for an education in the...
Aug 238 min read


The Inner Child That Shapes the Leader
Every leader is evaluated by performance, strategy, decisions, and outcomes. But what is rarely evaluated yet deeply felt in every boardroom, team dynamic, and leadership decision is the emotional architecture...
Aug 238 min read


How Shame Keeps You Stuck and Impacts Your Relationships, Self-Worth, and Success
Have you ever achieved something you’ve worked incredibly hard for, only to feel like you didn’t deserve it? Or found yourself pulling away from someone who genuinely loved you, even though...
Aug 225 min read


Giving the World All of Me – Part 3
For a long time, I lived two completely separate lives, trapped in a silent war within my own mind. When I was drowning in the dark, I was ashamed to admit that I ever wanted better for myself. I thought...
Aug 225 min read


The Man Crystals and the Stories That Helped His Sons Believe Anything is Possible
For quite a few years, things kept growing out of my back. They weren't particularly attractive. They would grow beneath the skin, occasionally reaching something approaching the size of a golf ball...
Aug 217 min read


The Silent Erosion of Childhood Self-Acceptance
I have always believed that healthy self-care should begin early. As a skincare professional, I see tremendous value in teaching young girls how to care for their skin and bodies as they begin taking...
Aug 2111 min read


From Felon to Fabulous – Part 2
If you only knew the first half of my life, you would have bet against me every single time. If you looked at the 14-year-old kid holding a smoking gun, the teenager labeled a felon before he reached...
Aug 214 min read


The Woman You’ve Been Missing Is Still Within You – Discover Your Inner Flirt and Reclaim Her
There is a moment many women know but rarely talk about. It happens when you catch yourself in the mirror and realize you don't quite recognize the woman looking back at you. Somewhere between careers...
Aug 216 min read


Intuition vs. Anxiety, How to Finally Tell the Difference
What if the goal isn't to always know which choice is “right,” but to trust yourself enough to choose? “Is this my intuition… or am I just anxious?” I’ve asked myself some version of this question...
Aug 218 min read


Why Being Self-Sufficient Isn't the Strength You Think It Is
Have you ever been called strong, capable, or the one who has it all together, and felt a strange loneliness in it? The kind of strength that means you never ask for help, never fall apart in front of anyone...
Aug 215 min read


The Real Reason Men Feel Like Frauds, and Why Confidence Won't Fix It
There are seventeen men in the room and every single one of them is looking at me. We had been building toward this weekend for months, through the calls and the planning and the logistics and the...
Aug 2114 min read


From the Back of the Line – Part 1
Look at me today, and you might see a success story. You might see a man who moves with purpose, writes with intention, and earned respect in high-level rooms. But before you can ever understand where...
Aug 205 min read


Where to Look for Clues to Find Your Life Path
People search for their life path like it’s this hidden path that they need to find, when the truth is, they’re already walking it. The expectation that we should somehow find our life path can be paralysing...
Aug 206 min read


10 Ways to 5X Your Business by the End of 2026
You don’t need to become less human to become more successful. You need to become better at being human because your business can only expand to the degree that you can hold the...
Aug 205 min read


When Life Comes Full Circle
20 August 2020. It is a date that will forever be etched into my memory. In the morning, my eldest son received his General Certificate of Secondary Education (GCSE) results. It was a moment of...
Aug 205 min read


Confidence Begins With Belonging and How One Caring Adult Can Change a Child’s Life
Have you ever thought about the one adult from your childhood who made you feel like you mattered? Maybe it was a parent, teacher, grandparent, coach, counselor, or simply someone who believed in you...
Aug 2012 min read
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