Finding Love Like a CEO and Why Matchmakers Are the Ultimate Executive Advantage
- Brainz Magazine
- May 2
- 4 min read
Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating.
When you're a top executive, you know the value of your time. You delegate, build dream teams, and rely on experts to help you perform at your best. Hence, why would it be any different regarding something as necessary and personal as finding love?
Today's executives no longer leave their dating lives up to chance or endless apps. They're hiring professional matchmakers because they hire consultants or advisors to get better results faster and with less stress.
Here's why matchmaking has become the ultimate advantage for high-performing leaders who want to find real, lasting love.
1. Time is your most precious asset
You already know that swiping through endless profiles, making small talk with strangers, and going on low-quality first dates can consume hours you don't have. Every wasted evening is time you could spend on your passions, company, or with the people who already matter.
A professional matchmaker saves you hundreds of hours by doing the heavy lifting, such as pre-screening candidates, filtering for true compatibility, and setting you up with people who are genuinely serious about a relationship. You don't have to "play the numbers game." Your time is treated like a high-value asset.
2. You get a strategic partner in love
You wouldn't make a significant business move without a strategy. Dating shouldn't be any different.
Matchmakers are more than just connectors. They act like executive coaches for your love life, helping you clarify what you want, sharpen how you present yourself, and identify the patterns that may have held you back. It's not just about meeting someone; it's about growing into the version of yourself who effortlessly attracts the right partner. Instead of leaving love to chance, executives work with matchmakers to create a plan, a process, and measurable results.
3. Privacy and discretion matter
The higher you rise in your career, the more complicated dating can become. You're visible. You're recognizable. You don't want your personal life splashed across gossip circles.
Matchmakers offer total discretion. There are no public profiles, no swiping, and no awkward encounters. Relax and be ready with curated introductions to serious, vetted people who are just as invested as you are.
4. Quality over quantity
Dating apps have made it easier than ever to meet people, but for busy executives, convenience doesn't always equal compatibility. Constant swiping and surface-level connections can be frustrating, time-consuming, and overwhelming, especially for someone used to making high-stakes, high-quality decisions.
Matchmakers focus on precision, not volume. Instead of meeting dozens of "maybes," you meet a handful of highly compatible "yeses." Every introduction is intentional and based on deep conversations, values alignment, and long-term vision, not just superficial attraction. In short, it's matchmaking designed for someone who values results over randomness.
5. A competitive edge in a changing dating landscape
The dating world has shifted dramatically. Emotional intelligence, authenticity, and communication skills now matter more than ever.
A matchmaker helps you navigate the modern dating landscape with ease. They provide coaching on first impressions, body language, mindset, and communication patterns, ensuring you present your most authentic, attractive self without losing your edge.
Finding the right relationship is no longer just about chemistry. It's about connection, compatibility, and commitment.
6. Love, optimized
Ultimately, executives hire matchmakers because they hire specialists in every other area of life: they believe in investing in what matters most.
Your career is thriving. You've built success through vision, hard work, and expert guidance. Why leave something as critical as your happiness up to chance?
Like any worthwhile venture, love deserves strategy, intention, and the right partners behind you. Working with a matchmaker isn't about handing off your love life. You're optimizing your chances with what you bring to other vital areas of your life.
CEO thinking, CEO love
If you're an executive who values depth and connection, it's time to bring that same clarity to your personal life. Working with a matchmaker isn't outsourcing. It's applying the same strategic mindset you use in business to love.
Are you ready to be as intentional in your relationships as you are in your career? To start building something just as fulfilling, contact Lorii Abela Matchmaking
You've built a remarkable life. Now, create something meaningful to share it with deliberately and with heart.
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Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert and Professional Matchmaker
Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating. Lorii's approach not only saves them time but also brings happiness by guiding them into the right mindset, resulting in meeting quality, relationship-oriented matches 93% of the time. As a five-time international bestselling author, her debut book, "Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life," has garnered acclaim. Lorii is a dynamic TV host and producer of "Matchmaker Secrets," "Ready, Jetset, Go!," and "Scale Up." These shows air on CAN TV Chicago, Roku, and Firestick.
