Beyond Ovulation – What Your Cycle is Trying to Tell You
- Brainz Magazine
- Sep 8, 2025
- 5 min read
Constanza is a psychologist specializing in reproductive health and fertility and the founder of Rudaviva. She is passionate about supporting women in connecting with their bodies and cycles, empowering them to cultivate holistic well-being through education and practical tools.
Why understanding your fertility is about so much more than getting pregnant? When we hear the word fertility, most of us think of one thing, reproduction. Fertility has been so tightly linked to the idea of conceiving a child that we often forget it is also a reflection of our overall health and emotional well-being. And while the ability to conceive is a powerful expression of the body’s intelligence, it is not the only thing our fertility is trying to tell us.
In this article, we will explore how your menstrual cycle is a mirror, not just of ovulation and hormonal balance, but of your energy, emotions, stress levels, and internal needs. Whether or not you are trying to conceive, understanding your cyclical rhythms can be a profound tool for self-knowledge and empowerment.
Redefining fertility cycle: More than reproduction
For decades, fertility has been discussed almost exclusively within the context of pregnancy. But what if we could shift the narrative? What if fertility were seen not just as a capacity to create life, but as a vital sign that helps us stay in tune with our own?
As a fertility educator and holistic reproductive health practitioner, I have witnessed how many women feel disconnected from their cycles unless they are actively trying to conceive or trying not to. This binary view overlooks something essential, our fertility is with us every day. It is present in how we feel, how we move, how we respond to stress, and how we engage with the world around us.
Our hormonal rhythms influence everything from digestion to memory, skin health to sleep patterns. Ignoring that inner rhythm does not just limit our health, it can disconnect us from our deepest intuition.
Reframing fertility
Instead of asking, “What is wrong with my cycle?” we might begin to ask:
What is my body trying to tell me?
What am I ignoring or overriding?
What might change if I slowed down and listened?
The body speaks in sensations, symptoms, and patterns. Fertility is not just a biological clock, it is a compass. It can point us toward what needs healing, what is out of balance, and what is ready to shift.
Emily Martin and the cultural myth of fertility
Anthropologist Emily Martin, in her groundbreaking work The Woman in the Body, analyzed how Western medicine tends to frame the menstrual cycle in mechanistic, male-centric terms. Ovulation is described as “productive,” menstruation as “debris,” and the body is often portrayed as failing unless it is moving toward conception.
This language, subtle but powerful, reinforces the idea that a woman’s worth is tied to her reproductive success, and that any variation, such as not ovulating, experiencing irregular cycles, or choosing not to have children, is a problem to be fixed.
As Martin writes, “The processes of menstruation and reproduction are described in ways that mirror cultural gender roles, female biological processes are less worthy than male ones.”
Reading her work changed the way I talk about fertility, not just with clients, but with myself. It reminded me how much of our experience is shaped not only by biology but also by the stories we tell about it.
And I believe it is time to tell a new story.
Fertility as a mirror of emotional and physical health
Let’s look at some of the signals your cycle is constantly giving you, beyond reproduction:
Energy levels: Do you notice a surge of energy before ovulation and a need to slow down before menstruation? That is your body’s rhythm speaking.
Emotions: The luteal phase (premenstrual phase) often reveals what has not been processed emotionally. It is not just “PMS,” it is a mirror.
Stress sensitivity: High stress can delay ovulation or suppress it altogether. Chronic stress can even lead to cycle loss (amenorrhea).
When we begin to observe and honor these signals, we develop a more compassionate and intelligent relationship with our bodies.
You don’t have to want a baby to care about your fertility
This might be the most important message of all, fertility awareness is for everyone with a menstrual cycle.
Whether you are avoiding pregnancy, planning for the future, healing from contraceptive side effects, or simply trying to feel more at home in your body, fertility awareness gives you tools to live in alignment with your biology.
Understanding your cervical mucus, tracking your temperature, or simply noticing your mood changes throughout the month does not mean you are preparing to get pregnant. It means you are getting to know yourself on a deeper level.
Rewriting the narrative
The menstrual cycle is not a flaw to manage or a limitation to overcome. It is a source of power. When we stop treating our bodies as problems to be solved and start treating them as ecosystems to be understood, we unlock a whole new relationship with ourselves.
And if we can listen, not just to our ovulation days but to the whispers of our energy, mood, libido, sensitivity, clarity, and craving for solitude, we start to lead our lives with more agency and less self-judgment.
This is the promise of fertility awareness, not just knowledge, but freedom.
A call to reconnection
We live in a world that rewards output over attunement, speed over sensitivity. But the menstrual cycle calls us into a different pace, a slower, deeper, more embodied rhythm. One that honors rest, change, and renewal.
Understanding your cycle is an invitation to come back to yourself. It is about reclaiming your body, not as a problem to solve, but as a source of insight, power, and wisdom.
If this resonates with you, if you’ve ever felt that quiet tension between your ambition and your desire for something more, know that you’re not alone.
I share reflections like this in my weekly newsletter (in Spanish), where I write about fertility, cyclical living, and emotional well-being from a place of honesty and softness.
You can also find me on Instagram, where I offer tools, stories, and real conversations for women who want to lead without leaving themselves behind.
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Constanza Araujo Nagore, Specialist in Psychology and Reproductive Health
Constanza is a psychologist specializing in reproductive health and fertility awareness methods and the founder of Rudaviva. She enjoys helping women connect with their cycles and bodies through education, fostering holistic well-being and self-awareness. Her mission is to empower women to embrace their natural rhythms and cultivate meaningful relationships with themselves and their health. Constanza inspires transformative journeys toward physical and emotional balance through workshops, personalized guidance, and innovative resources.
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