Mirror, Mirror – How Parental Habits Shape Children’s Health And Well-Being
- Brainz Magazine
- Sep 16, 2024
- 6 min read
Esté Bell, is a holistic health and nutrition coach with a specific interest in sleep, stress and recovery management. As a teenager she developed disordered eating habits, followed by a diagnosis with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome a couple of years later. The resulting health and weight management issues led to a passion for holistic nutrition and the desire to help others transform their health.
Most of us have the honour of raising children. On the road to raising the new generation, parents often find themselves under a magnifying glass, with every action and decision scrutinized by the most observant eyes—those of their children. While we all would like to raise children who are independent, confident, and successful, we often forget that the example parents set profoundly influences our children’s health, weight, and activity levels, creating a ripple effect that can last a lifetime.
The power of modelling
Children are natural imitators. From an early age, they observe and mimic the behaviours of those around them, especially their parents. When parents prioritize healthy eating, regular physical activity, and balanced lifestyles, they set a powerful precedent for their children. Studies have shown that children whose parents engage in regular physical activity are more likely to be active themselves. This modelling effect extends beyond physical activity to dietary habits and overall lifestyle choices.
Nutrition: The family table
The family table is more than just a place for meals; it is the arena where lifelong habits are formed. Parents who emphasize the importance of balanced nutrition, incorporating a variety of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, imprint these values in their children. Conversely, parents who frequently opt for fast food or processed snacks inadvertently encourage similar preferences in their children. The act of sharing meals together also provides an opportunity for parents to demonstrate mindful eating practices, such as portion control and savouring food, sitting down to eat, and eating without distractions. All of which can help prevent overeating and promote a healthy relationship with food.
Physical activity: Leading by example
Physical activity is another domain where parental influence is paramount. Active parents often have active children. Whether it is through family walks, bike rides, or playing sports together, parents who prioritize physical activity create an environment where movement is a natural and enjoyable part of daily life. This not only helps in maintaining a healthy weight but also fosters a cheerful outlook towards exercise that can persist into adulthood. Exercise becomes a fun activity with like-minded people, rather than a chore.
The role of routine
Establishing a routine that includes regular physical activity, and healthy eating can significantly impact a child’s health. Parents who maintain consistent schedules for meals, exercise, and sleep provide a structured environment that supports healthy habits. This routine helps children understand the importance of routine, balance, and discipline in maintaining their well-being.
The emotional connection
Beyond physical habits, the emotional environment parents create also plays a crucial role. Stress, anxiety, and emotional eating are often interlinked. Parents who manage stress effectively and model healthy coping mechanisms can help their children develop similar strategies. Encouraging open communication about feelings and promoting activities that reduce stress, such as yoga or meditation, can further support children’s emotional and physical health.
Breaking the cycle
For parents who may not have the healthiest habits themselves, the journey to setting a positive example can be challenging but possible. It is about making small, sustainable changes and involving the whole family in the process. Celebrating successes, no matter how small, and maintaining a positive outlook can inspire children to adopt and maintain healthy habits. Including children in the journey not only provides encouragement but also fosters an atmosphere of camaraderie and strengthens the family relationship.
1. Lead by example
Eat A Variety Of Whole Foods: Include a variety of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins in your diet. Show your children that healthy eating can be delicious and satisfying. Steer clear of highly processed foods most of the time.
Stay Active: Incorporate physical activity into your daily routine. Whether it is a morning jog, a family bike ride, or a weekend hike, let your children see you enjoying exercise.
2. Create a healthy home environment
Stock Healthy Foods: Keep healthy snacks like fruits, nuts, and yogurt readily available. Limit the presence of sugary drinks and processed snacks.
Cook Together: Involve your children in meal planning and preparation. This can be a fun way to teach them about nutrition and cooking skills.
3. Establish routines
Regular Mealtimes: Have set times for meals and snacks to help regulate hunger and prevent overeating.
Consistent Sleep Schedule: Ensure everyone in the family gets adequate sleep by maintaining a consistent bedtime routine.
4. Encourage physical activity
Family Activities: Plan regular family activities that involve physical movement, such as playing sports, dancing, or going for walks.
Limit Screen Time: Encourage your children to engage in active play rather than spending too much time on screens.
5. Promote mindful eating
Eat Together: Make mealtimes a family affair. Eating together can encourage healthier eating habits and provide an opportunity to model good behaviour.
Listen to Your Body: Teach your children to listen to their bodies and eat food when they are hungry, rather than snacks. Make them aware that many times we eat out of boredom or mistake thirst for hunger.
6. Manage stress
Healthy Coping Mechanisms: Show your children how to manage stress through activities like yoga, meditation, or deep breathing exercises.
Open Communication: Encourage your children to talk about their feelings and provide a supportive environment for them to express themselves.
7. Be positive and supportive
Celebrate Successes: Acknowledge and celebrate healthy choices and achievements, no matter how small.
Stay Positive: Focus on the positive aspects of healthy living rather than using negative reinforcement.
8. Educate and empower
Teach Nutrition: Educate your children about the benefits of different foods and how they contribute to their health.
Empower Choices: Allow your children to make their own healthy choices, fostering independence and confidence in their decision-making.
By incorporating these tips into your daily life, you can create a supportive and health-conscious environment that encourages your children to adopt and maintain healthy habits. Remember, the small changes you make today can have a lasting impact on your children’s future well-being.
Conclusion
The influence parents have on their children’s health, weight, and activity levels cannot be ignored. By modelling healthy behaviours, creating structured routines, and fostering a supportive emotional environment, parents can set their children on a path to lifelong well-being. The mirror parents hold up to their children reflects not just their actions but their values and priorities, shaping the next generation’s approach to health and wellness.
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Esté Bell is a holistic health and nutrition coach with a specific interest in sleep, stress and recovery management. As a teenager she developed disordered eating habits, followed by a diagnosis with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome a couple of years later. The resulting health and weight management issues led to a passion for holistic nutrition and the desire to help others transform their health. It was during her marriage to an emotional-abusive alcoholic that she personally experienced the importance of sleep, and stress and recovery management. She is the CEO of LevelUp Nutrition, based in South Africa, and has dedicated her life to encourage, equip and empower her clients to make change happen.
