A Mother's Journey – Celebrating Strength, Love, and Triumph
- Brainz Magazine
- 5 days ago
- 4 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
Danielle catalyses children and adults to rise like a phoenix from the flames and to reach their optimum potential. She is an entrepreneur, an inspiring 11+ and 7+ entrance exams tutor, a rapid transformational therapist, a business coach for overachievers, a life coach for all, and an NLP Master practitioner, and she is also certified by the ILM.
Liz Lindenbauer is a talented writer and producer, and above all, a devoted mother to Eva. With pride and warmth, she introduces her remarkable daughter, whose strength, spirit and individuality continue to inspire everyone who meets her. She begins this article...
As a mother blessed with an extraordinary autistic teen daughter who also has ADHD, our journey together has been nothing short of transformative. Through every challenge, every milestone, every moment of uncertainty and triumph, the bond between my daughter and I has been our anchor. What we've built together, through tears and laughter, through struggles and victories, is a connection that grows more beautiful and unbreakable with each passing day.
Watching my daughter blossom into the remarkable young woman she is becoming fills my heart with a pride that words can barely capture. Together, we've faced a world that doesn't always understand, and every obstacle we've overcome has woven another thread of strength into the tapestry of our relationship. Our love has been tested, and it has emerged radiant and resilient.
My wisdom for fellow parents
You are the author of your family's story. Never let anyone else tell you what your story is. You know your child's heart, their dreams, their needs in ways no one else ever could. Trust that is enough and protect it fiercely.
Give yourself permission to need support, and lots of it. The beautiful myth that we can do everything alone serves no one. If raising a neurotypical child takes a village, then raising your extraordinary child might take a whole town, and that's not just okay, it's something to embrace with open arms.
You are your child's greatest advocate and most important expert. Research, learn, question, explore, then trust your own conclusions. Your maternal instinct, combined with your intimate knowledge of your child, makes you the ultimate authority on what they need to thrive.
Celebrate abilities, not just navigate challenges. Yes, understanding diagnoses matters, but never let labels overshadow possibilities. Focus on nurturing the incredible skills waiting to bloom within your child. Watch them surprise the world, and sometimes even themselves.
Meet my incredible Eva
My daughter has just turned fourteen, and she is a force of nature wrapped in compassion and creativity. Eva dreams big, she's an aspiring actress, writer, and gamer with talent that takes my breath away.
Watch her dance, and you'll see pure joy in motion. Listen to her sing, and you'll hear a soul expressing itself fearlessly. See her act, and you'll witness transformation. She's highly sociable, making friends with ease and authenticity that reminds me daily what truly matters in this world. Her compassion knows no bounds, and she never hesitates to open her heart to new connections.
Eva is remarkably perceptive, and honestly? I wish I'd had even half the confidence she radiates when I was her age. She carries herself with a self-assurance that inspires me daily, proof that our children often become our greatest teachers.
Her future sparkles with possibility. Eva is already planning for university, researching internship opportunities for after school, and exploring career paths in writing, acting, hair, and technology.
The truth is, I have no idea which direction she'll ultimately choose, but I know with absolute certainty that whatever she does will be nothing short of brilliant.
I asked my daughter the following questions.
What challenges have you faced as an autistic teen?
The challenges I have to deal with are behavioural issues. Sensory issues as well.
How did you overcome these challenges?
I found a way through learning to express myself better, as I was told when a baby I would never speak, and my mum helped me overcome everything.
How do you stay confident and empowered?
I focus on something that is important to me. Thinking positively has helped me! I want people to be more confident, and be more themselves.
What advice would you share with other parents raising teen girls with autism?
You need to listen to your child. Also parents need to recognise when their kids need specialist help. People need to be more aware of girls with autism and how it affects their life.
How do you believe society can better embrace and support autistic girls?
Listen to more girls, give more help when it's needed. Government needs to listen more to autistic children and need to fund more support for them.
What do you want in the future for yourself?
I see myself going to college and becoming a hair stylist one day.
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Danielle Baron, Life and Business Coach & Licensed Integrative Therapist
Danielle catalyses children and adults to rise like a phoenix from the flames and to reach their optimum potential. She is an entrepreneur, inspiring 11+ and 7+ entrance exams tutor, rapid transformational therapist, business coach for overachievers, a life coach for all, and an NLP Master practitioner, and she is also certified by the ILM.
One of Danielle’s much-loved abilities is being an overachiever because she thrives on the excitement and follows her passion, which is to help people live fulfilling lives.
