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Why Everyone Talks About Making A Decision

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • 6 days ago
  • 5 min read

Updated: 6 days ago

Patricia Kaulmann supports the balance between body and mind. She published the book "My Little Big Transformation" in Portuguese and German in 2024 and is a co-developer of HTGMusic, a supportive, energetic method with sound/frequencies.

Executive Contributor Patricia Kaulmann

If there is one thing that is part of life, it is having to make decisions again and again. Be it at school, at work, at home, with family, with friends, while shopping, etc. What is the saying? It is like, not giving an answer is also an answer. Oops, well, not quite that, but almost.


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Positioning and the role in life


Especially if you are self-employed, you should position yourself. This puts you in touch with your customers' frequencies. You sense what they need and what you can do better. You work more purposefully and efficiently.


To do this, you first have to decide. Then come the fears, the questions, the uncertainty of having chosen the wrong option. When doubts arise, you make things difficult for yourself and interrupt the possible frequencies that could provide you with answers.


Who are you? Who have you become? What do you do?


For almost all questions, a decision was necessary. Your name was probably chosen by your parents. What fits and what absolutely does not. How you perceived your life and chose your path was, believe it or not, your decision. If you do not broadcast what you want but what you absolutely do not want, guess what manifests? That is exactly what the field confirms.


Manifestation and its meaning


For a very long time, the idea has been perpetuated that you have to imagine exactly what you want, feel it as truth, and trust that it is ready to be so. This is how you create everything and succeed in achieving it. It is not wrong.


Now, it is much easier to find explanations. Everything already exists, within reach, right under your nose. You just have to decide. What? Yes, decide to be in the frequency where you want to be. Like when you search for a radio station and then stay on the right frequency so you can listen to your music. The same applies to the TV channel. Choose what feels closer to you as an example.


Yes, decide to allow yourself to be where you want to be. Is it that simple? Let us put it this way, your consciousness can be active 24/7, nurture your mindset, and bring you back to center. Life is constantly moving, and the same applies to everything.


Acceptance and letting go


Another decision is acceptance and letting go. Am I irritating you now? Cool, goal achieved. Joking aside, you have to decide in these cases too. Everything that was is over, it is one of those things you cannot change. Accept even the difficult things. Forgive. Let go of what has been. Be happy about what is. What is, in the now, defines your tomorrow. Your tomorrow is then again now. That is how it is. We only live in the now.


Pareto principle


Do you know the Pareto principle? It is used everywhere. The 20/80 principle. For example, you have 80 percent control over your life. The other 20 percent is left to other people, the weather, machines, etc. Another example, 20 percent of what you do is responsible for 80 percent of your results. So, plan and repeat those 20 percent throughout your day to significantly improve your results.


Trust and move on


And now we come to a crucial point. What are you putting your trust in? Do you trust that it will work, or rather not? Have you considered this yet? You either trust 100 percent that it is a good fit, or 100 percent that it is not. You can adjust all topics this way. You do not learn to trust. You do things one way or the other. Now comes the unexpected, that is your decision alone.


From the moment you trust that things are the way you want them to be and you move on, situations, opportunities, and chances arise that want to move you there, to where you want to be. This is not a fairy tale. I can say this from my own experience, in both a positive and negative sense. Before I knew all this, I used it wrongly. The results spoke for themselves.


Once, I wanted to know, no matter what, what was better for me. I was in love as a young girl, and my boyfriend had moved away. We were in a long-distance relationship. But something inside me told me it was over. Because I trusted him in an inaccurate, unclear way, an accident occurred. A lot happened. It turned out he already had another relationship and was unable to end our relationship.


Then I kept trusting that I would get better, physically and emotionally. There were indeed highs and lows. That is just how life is. My life changed completely. Today I am happily married and have a wonderful son.


What do we have left then?


Accept, let go, trust, and move forward with gratitude. Gratitude for every hurdle, every stage in life. Gratitude for the hard times and the good times. That is what defines us. Always have a big goal to achieve, but take it step by step in the present. Use tools for your actions and be conscious and active. The secret is to vibrate exactly the way you want to be, even if it is not there yet.


To awaken, last words in making decisions


“In every moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.” Theodore Roosevelt.

In the Bible, you read in Mark 11:24, “Therefore I say to you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be done for you.”


Bashar said, “To those who believe, the way will be revealed before they understand.”


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Patricia Kaulmann, Specialist for Biological Emotional Balance

Patricia Kaulmann helps people understand how they can activate their self-healing through their thoughts and emotions and how they can get rid of blockages and beliefs through emotional intelligence and energetically supported frequencies. The right mindset plays a major role in healing. For this, it is essential to understand your own body embryologically, biologically, and emotionally. This is where Patricia brings in her expertise. Everyone should have access to this information and be able to live happily.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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