The Sweetest Revenge – Live an Amazing Life
- Brainz Magazine
- Sep 25, 2025
- 6 min read
Agnes Chau is an award-winning transformational life coach, PSYCH-K® facilitator, brain health trainer, writer, and speaker. With her training in various life-transforming modalities and her prior experience as an aerospace engineering executive, Agnes helps clients succeed in all aspects of life.
It’s tempting to seek revenge for all the wrongs done to you. When you have faced verbal, mental, or physical persecution, it affects your self-esteem, self-confidence, your sense of self-worth, and even your sense of safety in the world. When the attacks have come from those who affect your livelihood, or those who are the most trusted in your life, you may even question whether life is worth living.
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Stooping down to their level will bring temporary relief, if at all. It still means playing their game, where the rules are rigged in their favor. It also means buying into the dreaded drama triangle with the roles of victim, persecutor, and rescuer. When caught up in this dreaded drama triangle, you don’t get a choice of what role you play. You end up playing all three roles and not necessarily the ones you intended. Maybe you’re dealing with an overt or covert narcissist, someone very skilled at gaslighting and hoovering. You may even question your sanity by engaging in their word salad, one-sided verbal diarrhea.
What is the sweetest revenge?
There is an antidote to this crazy melodrama. It is the empowerment dynamic with the roles of creator, coach, and challenger. You can even play all three roles for yourself and live an amazing life. This is the sweetest revenge. Live an amazing life! Thank you to the late David Emerald Womeldorff for opening my eyes to the antidote to the dreaded drama triangle. The Power of Choice is Yours – Drama or Empowerment explores this antidote in greater depth.
This is not about taking the high road. This is about living the life you are meant to live. This approach is to view every challenge as an opportunity in disguise. This is an opportunity to break free from the drama and embrace your true life purpose. It is an opportunity to course-correct and discover the gifts of your humanity, aligning with your divine path in life. Your divine path in life is more than about doing. It is about being. Life is more than the constant dog-eat-dog or rat race. Life is more than the continuous pursuit of and accumulation of money, or the pursuit of an ever-elusive title.
Let your soul sing its song
Singing your soul’s song means discovering your authentic gifts, those talents and skills you were born with. These gifts may be hidden or buried beneath the walls you’ve created to protect yourself, to fit in, or to avoid persecution. Maybe you are meant to grow psychologically and spiritually. This is what is meant by “the inner work”. When you discover your soul’s mission and live a life in service to it, you will experience psychological and spiritual growth. Aligning with this divine path means taking the sweetest revenge by living an amazing life!
Consider an eagle. The only bird that dares to attack it is the crow. The eagle does not fight back. Instead, it soars higher. At higher altitudes, the crow cannot breathe and falls away. Similarly, you too can rise above the fray. By elevating your vibrational frequency, you can transcend the negativity to create life on your terms. Connecting with nature, playing uplifting music, eating nutrient-rich foods, engaging in a healthy mental diet, and discovering your authentic gifts are all high vibrational activities.
Engaging in uplifting activities will help your soul sing its song, so that you can soar higher and live an amazing life!
You are worthy
Know that you are worthy of the best that life and love have to offer. Your Higher Self (intuition, superconscious, divine intelligence) wants you to know this. Now it’s about aligning your conscious and subconscious minds with this belief. When you have faced stressors and trauma, you may feel like you’re in survival mode. Daily living may be a challenge, let alone letting your soul sing its song. Sometimes identifying what you don’t want helps you gain clarity on what you want instead. Then take steps towards creating the life you do want. It may be very different from the life you have already lived. You have permission to reinvent yourself. The challenges you have faced may be the opportunity to create an even better life for yourself. Any type of movement that gets you out of ruminating about the past is beneficial.
Upgrade your life
Have you ever had a hunch proven true, one that explained why certain challenges kept showing up in your life? Imagine discovering through a brain SPECT scan, one that measures blood flow, that what you’ve been experiencing isn’t just about willpower, but about how your brain is functioning. That kind of clarity can be life-changing. It can be the turning point that helps you see the importance of strengthening your brain health habits because brain health affects everything. Your decisions, your relationships, your performance, even your long-term well-being. Ignoring it can come at a high cost, including greater risks of dementia and Alzheimer’s.
Maybe you’ve felt it already, that inner nudge telling you it’s time to upgrade your life. That’s your invitation to transform. One powerful way to do this is with PSYCH-K®, a proven method to overcome stressful or traumatic events. It does this by aligning your subconscious mind with your desired goals so you can achieve a whole-brain state for any situation or condition. In this state, your logical, creative, emotional, and intuitive abilities work together in harmony. This leads to more resiliency, resourcefulness, and balanced decisions.
When you have experienced deep-seated trauma, chronic stress, or persistent limiting beliefs, it may be time to look beyond surface-level fixes and consider upgrades at the subconscious level. Outdated subconscious programs run like a high-speed train, while your conscious mind struggles to redirect them. By connecting with your Higher Self (Divine Intelligence, superconscious, intuition, higher mind), you can upgrade your subconscious to align with your divine path.
Through my own journey and the remarkable breakthroughs I’ve witnessed in my clients, I know that PSYCH-K® is a powerful catalyst for profound transformation. In a safe and sacred space, where their highest wisdom is revealed, clients are guided through simple postures, movements, and energy shifts. Outdated subconscious patterns can be rewritten to align with their highest goals and paths. The results have been extraordinary, individuals overcoming suicidal thoughts, healing after head injuries, repairing broken relationships, and even relearning how to walk. Imagine what might become possible for you when you connect with your divine intelligence, upgrade your subconscious, and step fully into your best life.
Experiencing the sweetest revenge
Your sweetest revenge is to live an amazing life. Let your soul sing its song. Rise above the fray. Engage in high vibrational activities. Create the life you want, one action at a time, one day at a time. Believe that you are worthy of the best that life and love have to offer. You have the power to overcome stressful and traumatic events, let go of outdated subconscious programs, and upgrade your life. Give yourself grace, and live an amazing life!
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Agnes Chau, Transformational Life Coach & Brain Health Trainer
Agnes Chau is an award-winning transformational life coach, brain health trainer, writer, and professional speaker. After retiring as an aerospace engineering executive, she transitioned into guiding individuals to be the CEOs of their own lives, upgrade their human operating systems, and become even better versions of themselves. Agnes is celebrated for her expertise in guiding individuals to upgrade their lives by tapping into the heart, mind, and body intelligence that she calls the human operating system. She teaches her clients to tap into their Divine Intelligence and align their conscious and subconscious minds, restoring balance and clarity. Agnes helps her clients eliminate outdated subconscious programming, overcome limiting beliefs, transform stress and trauma, optimize brain health, and gain a competitive edge in life. Her deep transformational work has earned her recognition as the Top Transformational Life Coach of the Decade, awarded by The International Association of Top Professionals (IAOTP). For more resources, visit here or Empowered-Heart.org.
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