The Soul-Tired Season – When Healing Leaves You Worn
- Brainz Magazine
- Aug 6
- 3 min read
Aviry Reich is a counselor and consultant with an MS and PhD in Counseling & Counselor Education. She is the founder of Courage at Every Crossroad, where she empowers individuals and organizations to navigate life's pivotal moments with confidence, guiding them toward success, fulfillment, and alignment.
There comes a time on the healing path when your soul feels more tender than triumphant. Your prayers feel quieter, your body heavier, and your mind spins in circles. Your inner work, once illuminating, begins to feel like a dim hallway you keep walking down, unsure if the light will come back on.
You wonder:
Is this resistance? Regression? Or is it something else entirely?
A holy pause.
A divine exhaustion.
A gentle turning point, from effort to embodiment, from fixing to simply being.
This is the part of the journey many don’t talk about. Not the breakdown that sparked your awakening, not the breakthrough that made you feel invincible.
But the middle stretch, the slow, soul-tired season where even the work of becoming begins to feel like too much, that’s the part no one warns you about. You’re no longer in crisis, but you’re not yet fully grounded in ease.
You’ve shed the old skin, but the new one still feels uncertain.
Your vision has shifted, but your energy hasn’t caught up. This is the valley between revelation and restoration, where you know too much to go back, but not enough to feel confident about what’s ahead.
Where healing no longer feels like a mountaintop moment, but a quiet, mundane unfolding.
It’s where the growth gets real, slow, steady, and sacred in ways no one else may see.
And that’s where something lasting begins to take root.
Why we burn out on the healing journey
It’s not because you’re doing it wrong; it’s often because you’ve been doing it all the time.
Spiritual and emotional burnout creeps in quietly, often disguised as devotion. You meditate, journal, release, realign, analyze, and reflect until your body becomes a battleground and your spirit a spreadsheet. Even sacred work can become self-abandoning when it’s fueled by fear or performance.
Here are three deeper currents beneath healing fatigue:
1. You’ve outgrown the tools, but haven’t updated the practice
What once supported you may now be constricting. Growth means regularly releasing tools that were right for a version of you that no longer exists.
2. You mistake stillness for stagnation
You’ve forgotten that integration is progress, too. The quiet isn’t failure; it’s embodiment. Silence is a voice of its own. You just have to make room to listen.
3. You’re healing from hypervigilance
Constant self-scanning and overanalyzing every trigger or emotion can keep your nervous system in a state of low-grade alert. You’re not resting; you’re on watch.
What you can gently shift
(To move from soul-tired to soul-tended)
1. Let the doing rest. Let the being rise
Unclench from the idea that your worth lives in your wellness “work.”
Give your soul permission to rest without performance.
2. Practice devotion, not discipline
Light the candle, not to fix yourself, but to be with yourself.
Let your rituals become invitations, not obligations.
3. Create a sanctuary outside the healing space
Walk without a podcast. Paint without purpose. Dance without processing.
You are more than what you’re trying to overcome.
4. Bless the boring days
Not every moment must be a breakthrough. Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is breathe in an ordinary moment without trying to change it.
5. Ask your body, not just your mind
Pause and ask: What would feel like relief right now?
Trust the whispers. The rest you need is often softer than the plans you made.
Final reflection
Healing is less about fixing and more about befriending your whole self. The parts that shine, the parts that ache, the parts you want to hide. In this friendship, you find strength, your peace, your home. So, if you feel weary, hold space for the mystery unfolding beneath the surface.
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Aviry Reich, PhD, Wellness & Performance Consultant
Aviry Reich is an entrepreneur, thought leader, and hope specialist who believes in the transformative power of turning fear into courage to cultivate a meaningful, connected, and abundant life. Her business, Courage at Every Crossroad, draws from her personal journey of embracing and overcoming both personal and professional challenges with bravery and authenticity. Aviry is passionate about empowering individuals by offering the internal and external resources needed to navigate pivotal transitions, big or small, and step into the best version of themselves with courage and confidence.
