The Healing Power of Community in Bariatric Journeys and the ObesityHelp National Conference
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 28
- 5 min read
Char Holmes is a Certified Life Coach, keynote speaker, and mindset mentor specializing in trauma-informed coaching. She empowers entrepreneurs and individuals to break through limiting beliefs, cultivate confidence, and manifest their fullest potential.
There is an unmatched kind of magic that happens when people come together, not just to learn, but to feel seen, heard, and celebrated. In the bariatric world, that kind of space can be rare. That’s why the ObesityHelp National Conference, happening October 17–18 in Irvine, California, stands out as a cornerstone of connection, education, and celebration for those who have faced the challenges of obesity and chosen the path of transformation.
"Community doesn’t just help you survive the hard parts; it reminds you that you were never meant to go through them alone. The right people don’t just cheer for your transformation; they hold space for your healing too." — Char Holmes
As a trauma-informed life coach, bariatric patient, and host of the award-winning podcast Talk Bari To Me, I know firsthand how isolating the journey of weight loss, especially surgical weight loss, can be. We often celebrate the physical transformation without tending to the emotional and social support that’s necessary for true healing and long-term success. This is why community isn’t just important; it’s essential.
A legacy of support since 1998
Founded in 1998, ObesityHelp has been a pillar in the bariatric community for over two decades, creating a judgment-free space where individuals from all walks of life can connect, learn, and thrive. Their annual national conference isn’t just a gathering; it’s a celebration of perseverance, progress, and purpose.
What makes this event so powerful is its holistic approach to the post-op experience. Yes, there are renowned professional providers, mental health experts, and plastic surgeons offering evidence-based knowledge and support. But equally important are the moments of joy, from group yoga sessions and wellness walks to their annual costume party and the community-centered bariatric clothing exchange, where guests share and swap clothing from all stages of their journey.
And one of the most emotionally moving and empowering moments of the conference? The Annual Fashion Show Sponsored by Premier Protein.
A stage to shine: The annual fashion show
Each year, Premier Protein partners with ObesityHelp to sponsor a bariatric fashion show unlike any other, a runway event where real people take center stage. This tradition was born out of a deep understanding that many in the bariatric community have never felt seen, celebrated, or confident in their own skin. At ObesityHelp, that narrative is rewritten.
This isn’t just a show; it’s a healing moment. It’s a celebration of self-expression, resilience, and joy. For many attendees, walking that runway represents reclaiming their power after years of hiding or shrinking. Surrounded by a cheering, tearful, joy-filled audience of their peers, these brave individuals are uplifted in a way that’s rarely experienced in other spaces.
It’s a reminder that this community sees you and celebrates you.
A space to be seen and belong
This isn’t your typical health conference. It’s a space where no one asks, "How much have you lost?" but rather, "How are you feeling? How are you healing?"
Whether you’re pre-op, post-op, or simply exploring your options, you’ll find something meaningful here. From expert speakers to emotional safe spaces, ObesityHelp gives attendees what they didn’t know they needed: each other.
As someone who has walked the path myself, I know how vital these spaces are. The moment I attended my first ObesityHelp event, I knew I had found my people. That’s why I’m beyond proud to be returning as an official ambassador this year, bringing with me the same energy of vulnerability, empowerment, and joy that my Talk Bari To Me audience knows and loves.
Why community is the secret ingredient to long-term success
In my coaching practice, I often remind clients that weight loss isn’t the finish line; it’s the starting point. Emotional resilience, identity reconstruction, self-worth, and sustainable wellness, these are all journeys best taken in the company of others who truly understand.
Community gives us mirrors, cheerleaders, and safety nets. It offers comfort in the moments when doubt creeps in and amplifies the joy when milestones are reached. It reminds us that we are never alone in our struggles or our triumphs.
At the ObesityHelp National Conference, this kind of support isn’t a side dish; it’s the main course.
Come as you are, we’ll meet you there
The ObesityHelp event provides an emotional safe haven, an affirming, inclusive space that recognizes weight loss surgery isn’t just a procedure; it’s a rebirth. Whether you're attending solo or bringing a friend, I promise this: you'll leave feeling more connected, confident, and recharged than when you arrived.
To make it even more accessible, scholarships are available on a first-come, first-served basis for those who may be financially unable to attend. And for those ready to claim their spot now, you can save $20 using my exclusive code: VSGBestie20.
Let’s celebrate you
I invite you to join me and hundreds of others for this powerful weekend in October. Come meet your community. Come learn, dance, cry, laugh, and grow. Come walk the runway, literally or figuratively, and find yourself in a room that doesn’t just see you, but celebrates every single inch of your journey.
Because at the end of the day, healing happens in community, and this is one community you’ll want to be part of.
Ready to join us?
Use code VSGBestie20 to save $20 off your ticket.
Apply for a scholarship while spots are available.
Learn more here.
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Charlene Holmes, Professional Life Coach and Podcaster
Char Holmes is a trauma-informed life coach, keynote speaker, and mindset mentor dedicated to helping others unlock their fullest potential. After overcoming obesity through mindset shifts and personal development, Char empowers entrepreneurs to break through limiting beliefs and create lives they love. As the host of the Talk Bari To Me podcast and a published author, she uses her platform to inspire others on their journey of self-discovery and transformation. Her mission: Helping others transform their minds to manifest the life they deserve. Char Holmes is a trauma-informed life coach, keynote speaker, and mindset mentor dedicated to helping others unlock their fullest potential. After overcoming obesity through mindset shifts and personal development, Char empowers entrepreneurs to break through limiting beliefs and create lives they love. As the host of the Talk Bari To Me podcast and a published author, she uses her platform to inspire others on their journey of self-discovery and transformation. Her mission: Helping others transform their minds to manifest the life they deserve.
