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Linda Fraim on Shaping Romantic Relationships, Communication, Emotional Well-being, and Self-Awareness

Born in Istanbul, Turkey, in 1973 to an American father and a Turkish mother, Linda Fraim spent her childhood between Turkey and the United States. She is fluent in both English and Turkish. She initially pursued chemical engineering as a pre-med student before changing direction to psychology. After several years working as an international tour guide, her life changed dramatically following the 1999 Izmit earthquake, when she joined an Israeli search and rescue team as a translator and spent nearly a year working at the disaster site. The experience inspired her to return to academia.


Linda went on to earn a Master's degree in Counseling Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy, followed by a PhD in Clinical Health Psychology. During her training, she worked as an on-call sexual assault counselor while conducting pioneering research on breast cancer awareness among young adults in North Cyprus.

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