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- Embodied Experience and Psychological Adaptation in Breast Cancer
Written by Viviana Meloni, Private Chartered Principal Psychologist Viviana Meloni is the Director of Inside Out multilingual Psychological Therapy, a private principal psychologist, HCPC registered, chartered member of the British Psychological Society, EMDR UK member, with recognition for her clinical leadership, and author of specialist trainings in trauma, emotional dysregulation, and personality disorders. “I am not grateful for a breast cancer diagnosis, but I am grateful for the way it has transformed me”. Cancer is not a synonym for death, but a silent revolution of the Self, where endings become the hidden architecture of a new beginning. Written during my treatment for breast cancer, this article explores the lived experiences of illness through the lens of psychology, where theory and embodiment inevitably converge. It does not arrive as meaning. It arrives as a break in continuity that cannot be immediately integrated into experience. The sense of being a coherent self does not disappear gradually. It fails in real time. As soon as I was told “it’s cancer”, I held my head with both hands, immediately, as if to contain something that was no longer staying within its internal boundaries. It was not a thought-driven action, but a motor response to sudden psychological overload, as if holding the head could prevent fragmentation. Then I tried to shout “No” with urgency, but no sound came out, even though I felt myself screaming internally. Not language, but the discharge of a sound that preceded interpretation. After the word “cancer”, speech no longer arrived as full language. It arrived as fragments: “cancer, mastectomy, and chemotherapy.” Everything else remained present as sound, but without access to meaning. There is a moment when hearing continues, but comprehension withdraws. I remember my breath becoming too close, too loud, no longer aligned with the situation in the room. What follows is not a thought, but reactions. I covered myself with my coat, as if becoming less visible could restore internal coherence. Not a decision, but immediate withdrawal. I remember adjusting it twice, without knowing why once was not enough. I remember desperately trying to cover my face with the hood of my coat, it was not out of shame, but from a need to protect my identity, whatever it was in that moment. Then I went home. I deliberately and instinctively threw away all processed food, biscuits, sugar and meat. I emptied the kitchen following a sudden internal awareness that, in order to orient myself toward healing, something in my way of living had to change. The action was immediate, as if the external environment needed to be brought into alignment with a new internal state. What remained was reduced quickly, almost radically, as if space itself had to be reorganised around a new internal necessity. The collapse of before as lived reference Very quickly, the mind attempts to reconstruct continuity through “before and after.” But this is not narrative logic. It is a failed stabilisation attempt. The “before” remains known but no longer inhabited. It stops functioning as a reference for identity continuity. What collapses is not memory, but the sense of being the same subject across time. I remember trying to recall something ordinary and feeling its distance immediately, as if it belonged to someone I could describe but not be. What follows is not return, but reassembly under altered constraints. The body as intrusive system Attention detaches from external flow and is pulled inward by bodily signals. They are registered before they are interpreted, often too late to remain in the background. The body ceases to be neutral. It becomes an interruption. Even stillness feels slightly misaligned, as if constantly checked from within. Perception shifts from narrative continuity to internal monitoring. I remember myself lying on a sofa, looking at the ceiling for entire days, but I was not bored. I felt like a cleansing process, like a detox. I was freeing myself from everything that had previously felt like a problem, making space only for what truly mattered: my inner peace, so that I could heal. It may seem strange, but I began to sleep wonderfully from the day I was given my diagnosis, as if I had suddenly learned how to deeply take care of my vulnerable part. I started selecting everything that I allowed into my mind, my time, and my energy with a new and quiet clarity. I also began observing people and their capacity to support me in such a moment. For the first time, I felt I had nothing to give in return. In that silence, only those who were able to recognise the transformation behind it remained those who did not judge but were able to stay close to me as I was. I felt as if I were being carried on a small mattress in the ocean, without opposing any force, simply allowing myself to be held. Time as fragmentation of experience Time does not break conceptually. It loses consistency in experience. Waiting periods expand without structure, not felt as duration but as suspended attention without resolution. I remember sitting in a waiting room, unable to locate time in anything around me. Other moments compress abruptly, especially during medical information. I remember the devastation of hearing different oncologists offer conflicting opinions, each one pulling me in a different direction, while the weight of the decision rested entirely on me. In the end, I turned inward, listened to my body, and made the most important decision of my life. Between these states, no stable temporal line holds. The present becomes the only segment that does not require reconstruction. Control as relocation of causality Control does not disappear. It shifts location. It moves into concrete action, opening cupboards, removing objects, reorganising space. At one point, I stood in front of the open fridge longer than necessary, not deciding anything, but sensing the cold air as something that still responded to reality. These actions are not symbolic. They restore minimal causality, something I do still produce an effect. Control becomes not prediction but contact with consequence. Control under uncertainty Control is no longer anticipation. It becomes the capacity to continue acting without certainty. Expectation is reduced structurally because prediction exceeds available cognitive stability. What remains is operational continuity. Differential internal outcomes Responses diverge. Some systems reorganise into new internal structures of attention and priority. Others become more permeable, what was previously held at a distance becomes accessible without the same separation. This is not a resolution. It is reduced internal segregation. In this condition, silence is no longer absence but low, precious interference, a space where internal material is no longer immediately overridden. Identity as redistribution A new self emerges, it redistributes weight. Some elements lose salience. Others become unavoidable. Attention reallocates without decision. What changes is not the content, but the hierarchy of relevance. Psychological adaptation and embodied awareness during cancer treatment I have never conceptualised cancer as something to “fight against.” Rather, I found myself moving in the opposite direction, seeking to understand my experience within my body and to relate to it through awareness rather than resistance. From the perspective of psycho-oncology, I became interested in the complex and bidirectional interactions between psychological processes and physiological functioning, particularly the role of chronic stress in influencing neuroendocrine and immune system regulation. While the development of breast cancer is understood to be multifactorial, driven by genetic, hormonal, and environmental factors, it is also widely recognised that stress and emotional states can modulate immune responses and affect overall wellbeing and adjustment during illness. Within this framework, my experience became less about attributing cause and more about cultivating a reflective stance toward embodiment, attentiveness to internal signals, and psychological integration during illness. Selective living: Recalibration of thresholds and present dominance I am not grateful for a breast cancer diagnosis, but I am grateful for the way it has transformed me. Selection becomes automatic. Food is filtered through bodily sensitivity. Social proximity is no longer the default but tolerance-based. Energy is allocated according to internal capacity rather than expectation. But selectivity extends beyond behaviour into cognition itself. I become selective with my own mind: I filter what I allow to develop and what I interrupt before it consolidates. I become selective with people as well. I no longer simply adapt to proximity, I decide whether something deserves my psychological energy before I engage with it. I filter rather than absorb. Boundaries are no longer negotiated through external expectations but generated from internal state. What is acceptable or not is determined by internal regulation, not external judgment. Emotional input is filtered before consolidation. Across all domains, temporal processing shifts. Projection forward and reconstruction backward lose dominance because they require resources no longer consistently available. What remains is present-centred processing. Not as choice, but as lowest-load cognition the only mode that does not require reconstruction. Silence becomes a low-interference field where experience is not distorted by projection or interpretation. Collapse of continuity What disappears is not meaning. It is continuity as organising principle. Experience is no longer structured through temporal extension. It is structured through immediacy. The present dominates not because it is chosen, but because it is the only mode that does not require reconstruction in order to exist. Visit my website for more info! Read more from Viviana Meloni Viviana Meloni, Private Chartered Principal Psychologist Viviana Meloni is the founder and the clinical Director of Inside Out Multilingual Psychological Therapy, a London-based private psychology consultancy across popular locations including Kensington, Wimbledon, Chiswick, West Hampstead, and Canary Wharf. Viviana Meloni provides psychological consultations, assessments, formulations, and treatment in English, Italian, Spanish, and her company’s extensive network enables multilingual collaborations and liaison with Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Punjabi, and Russian languages. She firmly believes that in every challenge lies an opportunity to grow, heal, and inspire. References: Bury, M. (1982). Chronic illness as biographical disruption. Sociology of Health & Illness, 4(2), 167–182. Frank, A. W. (1995). The Wounded Storyteller: Body, Illness, and Ethics. University of Chicago Press. Leventhal, H., Meyer, D., & Nerenz, D. (1980). The Common-Sense Model of Illness Representation. Holland, J. C., & Weiss, T. R. (2010). Handbook of Psycho-Oncology. Oxford University Press. Stanton, A. L., & Bower, J. E. (2015). Psychological adjustment to chronic illness. Annual Review of Clinical Psychology. Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (2004). Posttraumatic growth: Conceptual foundations and empirical evidence. Psychological Inquiry, 15(1), 1–18. If you want, I can also help you with the submission package (email + abstract + pitch line), which is often what decides publication more than the article itself.
- You're Not Stuck Because You're Not Working Hard Enough
Written by Jessica Lindfield, Founder & Corporate Leader Jessica Lindfield is a career strategist, speaker, and author of Play the Game. She supports ambitious women to build confidence, set boundaries, and pursue sustainable success through practical frameworks, workshops, and speaking. Let me say the thing that nobody will say to your face. You are probably working incredibly hard. You are showing up, delivering, going above and beyond, and doing all the things you were told would lead to progression. Yet something still feels off. The promotion hasn't come. The recognition hasn't landed. The career you pictured when you were starting out still feels just slightly out of reach. So you do what most high-achieving women do: you work harder. Here's the problem with that. Hard work is the entry point, not the strategy For a long time, I genuinely believed that if I was good enough at my job, someone would notice. That effort was currency. That eventually, the right person would tap me on the shoulder and hand me the next opportunity. Actually, the first time, that's exactly what happened. I was five months into a call centre sales role when a manager asked me to cover while they were away. I hadn't asked for it. I hadn't positioned for it. It just happened. So I assumed that was how it worked. It is not how it works. Every single opportunity after that, I had to fight for. I had to make myself visible, advocate for myself, seek out mentors, ask for things I wasn't sure I deserved yet, and push back against the boxes people tried to put me in. The shoulder tap was an anomaly one I'm genuinely grateful for, but an anomaly nonetheless. The moment I understood that was the moment everything changed. The passenger vs. The driver There are two ways to move through a career. You can be a passenger sitting in the seat, doing the work, hoping the vehicle takes you somewhere good. Or you can be the driver, hands on the wheel, clear on the destination, making active decisions about the route. The women I meet through my work are some of the most capable people I've ever come across. Unintentionally, brilliant passengers. Reliable, high-performing, and still somehow overlooked. And it's not because they lack talent. They are waiting. Waiting to feel ready. Waiting for the right moment. Waiting for someone else to see what they're capable of and act on it. We change that. Let me tell it to you straight, the people who get ahead are not always the most talented people in the room. They are the people who make it impossible to overlook them. They seek out opportunities rather than waiting for them. They articulate what they want clearly and without apology. They build relationships with intention. They make bold moves, even when they're not entirely sure the move will pay off. That is not arrogance. That is ownership. But let's be honest about why this is so much harder for us Here's what I want to be clear about when I talk about stepping into the driver's seat: I am not glossing over how genuinely difficult that is. Especially for women. Especially when you understand the full weight of what you are being asked to go against. From the moment we are born, we are taught (explicitly and implicitly) to be digestible. To be nice, agreeable, and accommodating. To not take up too much space, ask for too much, or want to be too visible. We learn early that being liked and being ambitious are somehow in tension with each other, and so we manage that tension by shrinking. By softening our edges. By making ourselves easier to be around, even when what we really need is to be heard. That conditioning doesn't disappear when you walk into a boardroom or sit across from someone who holds the decision about your next step. It follows you in. It shows up as the voice that says, "Maybe now isn't the right time," or "I don't want to seem too pushy," or "I'll wait until I'm more ready." It shows up as the habit of over-preparing, over-delivering, and under-asking, because if you are exceptional enough, surely you won't have to advocate for yourself at all. Taking ownership isn't just a strategy shift. It is an identity shift. Identity shifts are uncomfortable because they require you to be truly seen. Not the palatable, agreeable version of you, but the version that knows what she wants and is willing to say it out loud. That version is vulnerable. She might be told no. She might be perceived as difficult, or too much, or not quite what they were looking for. That fear is not weakness. It is the completely logical result of a lifetime of being rewarded for making other people comfortable. But here is the thing about staying comfortable: it keeps you exactly where you are. The women I have watched build careers that genuinely excite them are not the ones who had it easy or who found self-advocacy effortless. They are the ones who got comfortable being uncomfortable. Who decided that the discomfort of being seen was worth more than the safety of staying invisible. Who chose, over and over again, to go against the grain of what was expected of them, not because it stopped being scary, but because they stopped letting the fear make the decision. That is the real work and it is harder than any skill you will ever have to learn. What taking ownership actually looks like I want to be specific here, because "take ownership of your career" is one of those phrases that sounds meaningful but means nothing without context. Taking ownership looks like asking for the opportunity before you feel fully ready for it. It looks like having the conversation about progression that you have been putting off for six months. It looks like identifying the one bold move that would genuinely shift your trajectory (the one that makes you a little nervous) and committing to it rather than choosing the safer, tidier version. It also looks like an honest assessment of where you actually are right now. Not where you want to be, not where you think you should be, but where you are. That means being honest about what you are doing consistently and what you are avoiding. What you are waiting for. What story you have been telling yourself about why now isn't the right time. That kind of honesty is uncomfortable. It is also the only starting point that leads to anywhere real. The gap is usually not what you think it is When women come to me feeling stuck, the gap is almost never a skills gap. It is almost always one of two things: a self-belief gap or a decision gap. A self-belief gap means you have the capability, but you do not yet back yourself enough to act on it. You are waiting until you feel certain before you move, which means you are waiting indefinitely, because certainty rarely arrives before the action. A decision gap means you know what you need to do, but you have been actively choosing not to do it. Maybe because it feels risky. Maybe because it requires a difficult conversation. Maybe because doing nothing feels safer than doing something that might not work. Both are solvable. But you cannot solve either of them by working harder at the things you are already doing. One bold move The simplest reframe I can offer is this: instead of asking "what do I need to do more of," ask "what is the one bold move I have been avoiding?" It might be reaching out to someone who intimidates you. Applying for the role you think you are not quite ready for. Asking for the salary you actually want. Starting the thing you have been thinking about for two years. Whatever it is, write it down. Name the first concrete step you could take in the next seven days. Not eventually. Seven days. Then tell someone, because saying it out loud changes your relationship to it. It stops being an abstract intention and becomes a real thing. That is where progress starts. Not in working harder. In deciding to drive. Yes, getting behind the wheel will feel uncomfortable at first. It is supposed to. You are going against years of conditioning that told you to stay in your lane, be patient, and wait your turn. Feeling exposed is not a sign that you are doing it wrong. It is a sign that you are finally doing it. I'm bringing this conversation into a room very soon, live, practical, and nothing like your average career event. If you want to be in that room, keep an eye on my socials. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Jessica Lindfield Jessica Lindfield, Founder & Corporate Leader Jess Lindfield is a career strategist, speaker, and author of Play the Game. She helps ambitious women build confidence, clarity, and sustainable success through practical frameworks, workshops, and speaking. Alongside her work with Embrace Her, she works in commercial enablement at the Financial Times and is Co-Chair of FT Women. Her work blends lived experience with strategic insight, supporting women to pursue big goals without burning themselves out.
- Bridging Generations Launches Certification in Generational Leadership, Evolving from Life Coaching Firm
May 4, 2026 – Bridging Generations, formerly Unnatti Jain Inc., a life coaching practice founded in 2023, today announced the launch of its flagship certification program, the Generational Certified Professional (GCP) – a comprehensive training designed to equip professionals and organizations with the skills to lead effectively across a multi-generational workforce. The announcement marks a significant milestone in the company’s evolution from a boutique coaching firm into a growing authority in generational diversity, leadership development, and organizational alignment. From personal growth to organizational impact Founded in 2023, Bridging Generations began as a life coaching practice focused on helping individuals build resilience, clarity, and performance in their personal and professional lives. As client engagements expanded, a consistent theme emerged: Workplace challenges – ranging from communication breakdowns to disengagement – were often rooted not in capability, but in generational differences and misalignment. “What we were seeing wasn’t a lack of talent or motivation,” said Unnatti Jain, Founder and CEO. “It was a lack of shared understanding across generations – how people communicate, what they expect, and how they define success.” This insight led the company to deepen its work beyond individual coaching, integrating research, frameworks, and applied leadership strategies focused on generational dynamics in the workplace. Meeting a critical need in today’s workforce Today’s workforce is the most generationally diverse in history, with up to five generations working side by side. While this diversity brings a wealth of perspectives and innovation, it also introduces complexity for leaders navigating: Communication differences Evolving expectations of leadership Employee engagement and retention Organizational culture and alignment Bridging Generations developed the GCP certification in direct response to these challenges. Introducing Generational Certified Professionals (GCP) The GCP certification is a 12-module, on-demand program designed for: Organizational leaders HR and talent professionals Coaches and consultants Learning and development teams Participants gain practical, immediately applicable skills to: Improve intergenerational communication Diagnose and address workplace misalignment Reduce generational bias Strengthen engagement and retention Build aligned, high-performing teams The program combines expert-led instruction with immersive learning experiences, including real-world case studies, interactive simulations, and applied leadership exercises. A new chapter: Bridging generations The launch of the GCP certification coincides with the company’s official rebrand to Bridging Generations, reflecting its expanded mission: To help individuals, leaders, and organizations create alignment across generational differences and build stronger, more connected workplaces. “This rebrand represents the work we’re already doing – and where we’re going,” said the founder. “We’re not just coaching individuals anymore. We’re helping organizations solve one of the most relevant leadership challenges of our time.” Looking ahead With the introduction of the GCP certification, Bridging Generations is positioned to support organizations at scale through: Leadership development programs Organizational consulting Certification and credentialing Research-backed frameworks on generational dynamics As companies continue to navigate an evolving workforce, Bridging Generations aims to be a trusted partner in building cultures that are not only diverse but also aligned. About bridging generations Founded in 2023, Bridging Generations is a leadership development and organizational consulting firm focused on generational diversity in the workplace. The company provides coaching, training, and certification programs that help individuals and organizations improve communication, alignment, and performance across generations. Media contact Bridging Generations Website: www.unnattijain.com Email: info@unnattijain.com Call to action To learn more about the Generational Certified Professional (GCP) program or to explore partnership opportunities, visit here.
- The Healthcare Revolution – Direct Primary Care, Regenerative Medicine, and Age Management
Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. Discover the future of healthcare with Direct Primary Care, regenerative medicine, and age management. Explore how innovative therapies, such as stem cells, CBD, and hormone optimization, are transforming health, wellness, and longevity while addressing rising healthcare costs and promoting prevention over symptom control. From sick care to wellcare Traditional insurance-based medicine struggles with rising costs, aging populations, and the opioid crisis, pushing patients and physicians toward prevention, regeneration, and long-term healthspan optimization. The global regenerative medicine market is projected to grow from about tens of billions in the mid‑2020s to well over USD 100 billion by the mid‑2030s, reflecting strong demand for root‑cause therapies rather than symptom control. In parallel, the global anti‑aging market, already tens of billions in 2024, is forecast to exceed USD 110-150 billion by 2034, underscoring the broad shift toward age management and longevity solutions. New core health and pain therapies Regenerative medicine now spans stem cells, exosomes, peptides, platelet‑rich plasma (PRP), and amniotic/tissue‑derived products used in orthopedics, wound care, aesthetics, and ophthalmology. Stem‑cell and gene‑based approaches underpin much of the projected rise in regenerative revenue, with oncology and orthopedics leading current applications and cardiovascular uses growing rapidly. PRP, a concentrated fraction of a patient’s own platelets, is one of the fastest‑growing modalities, and tissue‑engineering technologies continue to expand as they replace damaged structures with living constructs. Cannabidiol (CBD) and cannabis‑derived products address chronic pain and help reduce opioid reliance, with the CBD market projected to grow from roughly USD 11 billion in 2024 to more than USD 200 billion by 2032 at over 40% CAGR. Pain and wellness applications dominate demand, and adoption is accelerating globally as regulators clarify frameworks and consumers seek non‑addictive alternatives. Hormones, functional medicine, and aesthetics Hormone replacement therapy (HRT) for women and men is expanding steadily as a tool for symptom control and performance optimization, supported by digital health platforms and new delivery technologies such as patches and long‑acting injectables. Functional and naturopathic medicine, along with complementary modalities like chiropractic, acupuncture, and shockwave therapy, emphasize systems biology, lifestyle, and the body’s innate healing potential. Aesthetic and performance technologies, lasers, energy devices, injectables, IV nutrient therapy, peptides, and PRP‑driven aesthetic procedures, are increasingly framed as regenerative interventions that improve tissue quality, not just appearance. Longevity science and personalized programs The anti‑aging and longevity field is moving from cosmetics toward healthspan extension, with markets for anti‑aging drugs and nutraceuticals projected to grow rapidly over the next decade. Agents like NMN, peptides, resveratrol, metformin, rapamycin, and senolytics are being investigated or self‑administered, especially among health‑conscious adults under 60 in urban markets. Personalized age‑management programs integrate genomic and biomarker testing, hormone optimization, targeted supplementation, exercise, cognitive support, sleep, and stress management into coordinated, continuously monitored protocols. Evidence, regulation, and care models This transformation remains science‑driven but constrained by evolving regulation, uneven evidence, and limited insurance coverage for many regenerative and alternative treatments. Regulators such as the FDA are tracking a rapidly rising number of investigational applications in regenerative and gene‑based products, and academic centers are building a growing evidence base even as long‑term data gaps persist. Direct Primary Care, Concierge Medicine, and fee‑for‑service structures provide clinicians the flexibility to integrate non‑covered therapies, spend more time with patients, and focus on prevention and optimization rather than throughput and coding. Technology, economics, and global growth Artificial intelligence and precision medicine tools now optimize PRP preparation, personalize regenerative protocols, and accelerate drug discovery in anti‑aging and longevity. Manufacturing and delivery innovations, such as advanced CBD extraction, non‑hormonal neuromodulators, and novel drug delivery systems, are broadening therapeutic options. Economically, regenerative and preventive approaches aim to reduce long‑term costs by addressing root pathology, while out‑of‑pocket direct‑to‑consumer platforms and e‑commerce channels are making HRT and anti‑aging products more accessible, with online sales in the category projected to grow at high single‑digit CAGRs through 2030. Challenges, opportunities, and the call to action Key challenges include variable quality, lack of standardization, unclear reimbursement, and the need for more rigorous, long‑term clinical evidence. At the same time, new applications in cardiovascular disease, oncology, neurodegeneration, and sports medicine, along with the rise of personalized regenerative therapies highlighted at dedicated forums, signal enormous upside for innovators and early adopters. Global momentum is strong in North America, China, Central America, and accelerated within Asia‑Pacific, where countries like Thailand have moved early on medical cannabis and markets such as India are opening to hemp and CBD. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer Started at Mojo Interactive in 2000 as a marketeer for the American Academy of Ophthalmology, AACS, ASPS, Boston BioLife, and AACD. Helped in the Development of "Locate a Doc" and TrainNowMD, along with developing marketing lead generation strategies. Expanded into 34+ medical specialties. Founded Social Media Solutions for Doctors (2016).
- A Guide to Effective Performance Reviews for Medical Staff
Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. Effective performance reviews play a crucial role in cultivating a highly productive and engaged workforce within medical practices. These reviews provide a structured opportunity to evaluate employee performance comprehensively, identify strengths and areas needing improvement, and support continuous professional development. Performance reviews are more than periodic evaluations, they are key milestones in an ongoing process of feedback and growth. Through clear communication of expectations and collaborative goal-setting, reviews help align individual contributions with the practice’s objectives and values. This fosters a positive workplace culture where employees feel supported and motivated to excel. By integrating regular performance assessments into your management approach, your practice can enhance team effectiveness, improve patient care, and build a foundation for long-term success. The 30-day review During the initial 30-day review, new employees undergo orientation, receive their official job descriptions, benefits packages, and work schedules. This period is crucial as they acclimate to your practice's processes, procedures, and culture. Observing the new hire during this time is critical to ensure they are adapting well and determining if they fit into the team and organization. This is also an opportunity to provide feedback and address any concerns early on. The 90-day review The 90-day review serves as a checkpoint to evaluate if the new employee has met or exceeded their job expectations. If they have performed well, consider offering a modest raise, typically a percentage of what might be awarded during an annual review. However, if further improvement is necessary, this review sets the stage for additional support and development, with the next evaluation scheduled for six months. The 6-month review The 6-month review is designed to ensure employees remain on track and address any ongoing issues from both sides. This is also an ideal time to discuss potential incentives, such as a portion of the annual raise, to motivate continued performance improvement and engagement. The annual review The annual review is an opportunity to conduct a comprehensive assessment of an employee's performance over the year. While it may seem that any staff member is easily replaceable, the reality is that replacing experienced personnel incurs significant time and financial costs. High turnover can disrupt productivity and hinder growth as remaining team members may struggle to manage additional responsibilities during the transition. Profitability and sustainability in your practice rely on teamwork, and you, as the team leader, play a pivotal role. Be flexible, coach your team, and celebrate their successes, especially when they provide excellent service to both internal and external customers. For further insights on employee retention, please read this compelling article: People Quit Their Boss, Not Their Job. Building a positive work environment As a team, you spend more than forty hours a week together. Make this time meaningful and supportive. Strive to create a practice that is regarded as an elite workplace where employees genuinely want to work. This positive environment will ultimately reflect in your practice's success and enhance your overall peace of mind. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer Started at Mojo Interactive in 2000 as a marketeer for the American Academy of Ophthalmology, AACS, ASPS, Boston BioLife, and AACD. Helped in the Development of "Locate a Doc" and TrainNowMD, along with developing marketing lead generation strategies. Expanded into 34+ medical specialties. Founded Social Media Solutions for Doctors (2016).
- Are You Equipment-Rich and Revenue-Poor? Here’s How to Fix It
Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. Every year, physicians are pitched innovative devices that promise to revolutionize their practice. From regenerative lasers to diagnostics and aesthetic technology, the message is the same: “Buy now, earn more later.” But when “later” doesn’t come, many practices find themselves underwater, struggling to make payments on expensive equipment that fails to generate consistent revenue. The result is an all-too-common situation: your office is equipment-rich and revenue-poor. This issue has quietly eroded profits for independent physicians, medspas, aesthetic clinics, and fee-for-service practice owners alike. The root cause, almost always, is mismatched strategy: high equipment cost without a sustainable patient acquisition plan. How it starts: The perfect pitch that fails you The buying process almost always begins the same way. A sales representative showcases a sleek machine, shares success stories from other doctors, and presents a spreadsheet estimating revenue based on “projected patients per month.” At first glance, it seems foolproof. Yet these projections often rely on ideal conditions, not real-world marketing environments. Once the machine is delivered, training begins, and the salesperson moves on to the next opportunity, possibly with a competitor down the street. Suddenly, you’re solely responsible for generating awareness, demand, and sales for a service no patient has heard of before. Why doctors become equipment-rich and revenue-poor Unrealistic revenue expectations: Sales forecasts frequently overestimate how quickly patient adoption happens. Most devices take 6-12 months before achieving sustainable use. Lack of marketing strategy: Doctors often rely on brochures, free flyers, or vendor-generated ads that fail to localize messaging. Without a consistent strategy that includes SEO, social proof, paid ads, and follow-up systems, the device never reaches profitability. Market oversaturation: Many vendors sell the device to multiple clinics within the same area, diluting exclusivity. The result? Competing clinics promote the same service, reducing expected revenue for all. Neglecting the education phase: Patients don’t request what they don’t understand. Without ongoing content explaining benefits and results in simple terms, new technology often sits unused. Underestimating total ownership cost: Maintenance, consumables, staff training, loan interest, and marketing spend add layers to the total cost of ownership. Each one reduces return if not calculated upfront. True ROI math: The real cost of equipment ownership Before committing to any technology purchase, run a simple profitability formula: ROI = (Projected Annual Revenue − Total Annual Expenses) * Total Investment Cost Include these direct and indirect expenses in the calculation: Lease or loan payments Consumable and part replacements Staff training and certification fees Initial marketing campaign cost Ongoing ad spend and agency fees If ROI is below 15 percent within the first two years, the purchase likely won’t be financially viable without major marketing improvements. Top 10 ways to avoid being “equipment-rich and revenue-poor” These strategies apply to any medical practice considering a new technology investment or already struggling to monetize one. Start with patient research, not vendor promises Before buying, conduct patient surveys and focus groups to identify interest, affordability, and perceived value. Use your CRM to review past appointment analytics and identify the top conditions or treatments patients want. Example: Before purchasing a pain management laser, survey how many patients would pay $200 per session for non-invasive therapy. Compare that percentage to the monthly payment obligation. Require pre-marketing support from vendors Ask device companies to launch local promotions or generate leads before the purchase closes. Vendors that believe in their technology’s performance should be willing to share marketing responsibility. Negotiation ideas: Shared ad campaigns using their brand resources Exclusive service area agreements Conditional purchase based on lead performance in your region Build an internal marketing launch plan Design your own 90-day launch roadmap that includes: Announcing the new device via email campaigns and patient newsletters Producing patient-focused videos explaining the procedure Creating a local SEO landing page optimized around treatment keywords Using Google Ads to capture regional demand Include calls to action such as “Call now” or “Schedule your first discounted session,” and use analytics tracking to measure success. Offer early patient adopter discounts for deposits Motivate early adoption with introductory packages such as “First 15 patients receive 40% off.” Require deposits upfront to ensure actual cash flow during your equipment’s first payment cycle. This approach funds the early months while creating social proof through testimonials and reviews. Integrate the device into existing services Don’t market new equipment as an isolated procedure. Bundle it with popular services patients already use. Example: Pair an LED facial device with existing acne or rejuvenation programs. Combine shockwave therapy with physical therapy plans. Tie a regenerative treatment to wellness or aesthetics packages. This multiplies the perceived value and eases patient decision pressure. Train your staff for persuasive patient communication Your staff are your sales force. Equip them with scripts explaining: What the treatment does Who it benefit most Why now is the best time to act When the whole team understands and believes in the technology, conversion rates rise significantly. Use ongoing patient education Marketing new technology is an ongoing process, not a one-time campaign. Keep your patients informed through: Monthly email education segments Blog updates about real patient outcomes Short social media clips highlighting before-and-after benefits Education builds familiarity, and familiarity builds trust and conversion. Create recurring revenue with membership or package models Turn your equipment into a year-round income generator by offering subscription or membership-style programs. Examples include: Monthly skin health plans combining routine facials and device-based treatments Pain management package deals, for example, six-session bundles with maintenance follow-ups “VIP patient memberships” offering treatment flexibility at lower per-session costs Recurring models stabilize income and improve long-term ROI. Run strategic promotions instead of discounts alone Avoid constant discounting, it devalues your brand. Instead, run purpose-driven promotions tied to patient education or awareness events: “Pain-Free Summer” for musculoskeletal treatments “Skin Renewal Month” for phototherapy “Stress and Circulation Week” for body rejuvenation When promotions are education-based, patients see value instead of sales desperation. Measure ROI and adjust quarterly Monitor data quarterly to ensure the equipment meets performance benchmarks. Measure: New leads generated per campaign Conversion rates Average revenue per treatment Cost per lead and cost per acquisition If numbers lag, tweak your message, offer structure, or ad targeting rather than divesting from the equipment prematurely. For those already equipment-rich If you already have underperforming equipment, don’t panic. There is still potential to recover lost revenue. Host “New Technology Experience Days”: Invite existing patients for live demonstrations or mini-consultations with short, low-risk trial sessions. Use these events to record testimonials, collect content, and boost visibility. Offer complimentary add-ons: Add free introductory sessions or mini-treatments using the device to popular appointments. This lets patients experience its benefit without risk and often leads to paid follow-up treatments. Partner with other clinics: If your device is niche, form cooperative agreements with non-competing practitioners nearby. Offer to treat their patients at wholesale rates, turning idle equipment into a passive revenue source. Optimize your content library for local SEO: Create educational web content around your device’s name, the conditions it treats, and the outcomes patients care about. Target long-tail searches like “non-surgical pain relief laser near me” or “cellulite treatment Orlando clinic.” This positioning can gradually build new lead inflows. Building a sustainable marketing system Medical technology investments perform best when supported by consistent, layered marketing. An effective system includes: Clear brand identity and message Automated follow-up systems for leads Monthly newsletters and ongoing education Relevant blog articles with optimized treatment keywords Paid ad retargeting to re-engage past web visitors These ongoing strategies convert unknown equipment into recognizable patient solutions over time. Reframing success: From owning equipment to building assets Technology doesn’t create profits. Strategy does. Real profitability comes from aligning three pillars: Smart equipment selection. Buy based on data, not hype. Marketing infrastructure. Promote intelligently and consistently. Patient engagement systems. Nurture repeat visits through education and satisfaction. Together, they turn advanced medical devices from liabilities into sustainable income systems. Conclusion: Equip smart, market smarter. New equipment can absolutely transform your medical practice, but only with pre-planning, patient validation, and marketing systems designed for longevity. Avoid the trap of being equipment-rich and revenue-poor by partnering with vendors who share your goals, marketing teams who understand healthcare, and patients who value outcomes more than novelty. Own technology that earns, not equipment that collects dust. Expert support for smarter marketing Social Media Solutions for Doctors helps healthcare professionals nationwide create marketing systems that turn expensive technology into lasting profit streams. Our team designs launch plans, automation systems, and promotional campaigns tailored to your equipment’s success. For a free strategy assessment, call 407-702-4408 or visit here. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer Started at Mojo Interactive in 2000 as a marketeer for the American Academy of Ophthalmology, AACS, ASPS, Boston BioLife, and AACD. Helped in the Development of "Locate a Doc" and TrainNowMD, along with developing marketing lead generation strategies. Expanded into 34+ medical specialties. Founded Social Media Solutions for Doctors (2016).
- Why Aren't Your Medical Marketing Leads Closing?
Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. Most medical practices aren’t struggling because they lack leads, they’re losing patients because of how those leads are handled after the first interaction. With conversion rates often as low as 3-5%, the real opportunity lies in improving response speed, phone handling, and follow-through to turn existing inquiries into booked appointments. The real numbers behind online leads, calls, and emails Most practices massively overestimate how well their team converts digital inquiries into paying patients. Recent multi-practice analyses show that, on average, only about 1 in 9 inquiries ever becomes a patient. Put differently, if you get 90 “leads” in a month, you may only be booking around 10 new patients unless your systems are tight. Across healthcare, the typical overall lead-to-patient conversion rate hovers around 3 to 5 percent, while top-performing practices routinely exceed 20 percent, more than a 4x to 7x difference on the same marketing spend. That gap explains why some groups scale predictably while others feel like they are burning money on ads and SEO. On the channel side, the picture is even clearer: Phone calls still dominate. About 88 percent of healthcare appointments are scheduled by phone, while only about 2.4 percent are booked fully online. Speed matters. Leads contacted within five minutes are 20 to 100 times more likely to convert than those contacted after 30 to 60 minutes. Yet many practices still take 24 to 40+ hours to respond to online inquiries. Put simply, the average practice is losing 80 to 90 percent of its potential new patients after they have already raised their hand. That is a huge problem when you are dealing with high-ticket, self-pay, or non-covered services where every lead is expensive and patients are price-sensitive from the start. Why your phone leads are not converting Common pitfalls in converting phone call leads usually show up long before the doctor notices a decline in new patients. These failures quietly damage the patient experience and directly reduce practice revenue. 1. Missing or mishandling calls A high percentage of missed calls during business hours, often 20 to 40 percent or more in real audits directly equals missed appointment opportunities. Phones ring too long, roll to voicemail, or leave callers on hold, even though a large share of callers placed on hold will eventually hang up and call a competitor. There is no backup plan, such as an overflow line, answering service, or call-routing rules, when front-desk staff are busy with in-person patients. 2. Weak first impression and poor call etiquette Greetings are rushed, robotic, or unclear, instead of a warm, confident introduction of the practice and staff member. Staff speak too fast, interrupt, or show little empathy, which makes patients feel unheard and more likely to shop around. Calls open with “Doctor’s office, can you hold?” rather than acknowledging the person and their concern. 3. Leading with insurance and price instead of access and value Staff ask about insurance or “How are you paying?” as the first or second question, which can shut down self-pay or out-of-network callers. Pricing is given with no context, then the caller is allowed to hang up instead of being guided toward a visit or consultation. Team members recommend competitors or discourage callers when something is not covered, instead of reframing around options, benefits, and next steps. 4. Not knowing the schedule or failing to lead the caller Call handlers do not know the next new-patient opening and repeatedly put callers on hold to “check the schedule.” They ask open-ended questions like “When would you like to come in?” instead of confidently offering specific times, which lowers commitment. Staff lack authority to book or offer alternatives, creating friction and drop-off. 5. Poor information capture and follow-through Essential contact details such as name, mobile number, and email are not captured on the first call, so there is no way to follow up if the call drops or the patient hesitates. Key details, such as date, time, location, and prep instructions, are not confirmed clearly, leading to confusion, no-shows, and reschedules. There is no consistent process for documenting call outcomes or flagging “hot leads” for same-day follow-up, so revenue leaks silently. 6. Lack of training, scripts, and quality assurance There are no standardized scripts or call flows for new-patient inquiries, benefits questions, or self-pay services. Every staff member improvises. Little or no call monitoring, such as recordings, mystery calls, or scorecards, happens, so there is no coaching and no systematic improvement. Phone handling is treated as low-skill admin work instead of a revenue-critical role, even though the vast majority of appointments are still scheduled by phone. How to fix it: Training phones as a skill The most effective way to eliminate these phone pitfalls is to treat phone handling as a teachable skill with a clear playbook, practice, and accountability, not something staff “pick up” on the job. 1. Build a simple call playbook Create a 1 to 2 page guide that every front-desk or call-center team member uses: Standard greeting, who you are, practice name, and offer of help (e.g., “Thank you for calling [Practice]. This is [Name]. How can I help you today?”). Primary goal, secure an appointment or at least a next step, not just answer questions. Required data, name, mobile number, email, how they found you, and their main concern. Standards for holds, transfers, and closing, clear, polite phrasing for each. Print it, keep it at every phone, and use it as the baseline for training and quality assurance. 2. Use scripts and role-play, then make them sound natural Develop specific scripts for new patient calls, price or insurance questions, self-pay or non-covered services, and “shopping around” callers. Role-play regularly in team meetings, one staff member as patient, one as receptionist, one observing with a checklist. Coach tone (warm, unhurried, confident) as much as wording, and encourage staff to adapt scripts while keeping structure. 3. Train value first, not insurance first Teach staff to lead with benefits and access before coverage and price, acknowledge the concern, briefly explain how you can help, then move to scheduling. Provide approved phrasing for non-covered or out-of-network scenarios (“Here is how we work with patients when insurance does not cover this.”). Practice redirecting “I am just shopping” into a concrete next step (“Let us get you on the schedule for a consultation so the provider can see what is going on and give you exact options.”). 4. Define non-negotiables for availability and speed Set standards, phones answered within a set number of rings, voicemails and web leads returned within a set number of minutes. Cross-train so at least one person’s primary role is answering and converting calls. Use call routing, overflow services, or after-hours answering so you do not miss high-intent leads. 5. Coach with recordings, scorecards, and feedback Where allowed, record calls (with proper notice) and review a few each week as a team or in one-to-one coaching. Build a simple scorecard (greeting, empathy, data capture, value explanation, clear appointment offer, confirmation) and grade calls. Share wins and improvements publicly and tie performance to clear metrics such as call-to-appointment conversion and missed-call rate. 6. Train on services and systems, not just etiquette Make sure call handlers understand your procedures, ideal patients, pricing ranges, and typical care pathways so they can speak confidently. Train them on your scheduling or electronic health record system so they can book efficiently without long holds. Keep an updated FAQ at the desk with clear, approved answers to common questions. Measuring improvement – From guesswork to numbers You will know training is working when your metrics move, not just when calls “sound better.” 1. Define 3 to 5 core key performance indicators Track these monthly: New-patient call conversion, booked new-patient appointments divided by new-patient calls. Many practices discover they are under 50 percent. A realistic post-training target is 60 to 70 percent or better. Lead-to-appointment conversion, booked appointments divided by total new leads (calls, forms, emails). Call answer or abandonment rate, percentage of calls answered live versus going to voicemail or being abandoned. High performers watch this daily. Average hold time, long holds drive hang-ups, so the goal is shorter, consistent times. First-call resolution, percentage of calls fully handled on the first contact without callbacks or transfers. 2. Capture a clean “before” baseline For 2 to 4 weeks before training, track: New-patient calls and how many resulted in scheduled visits. Total inbound calls and how many were answered versus missed or abandoned. Average time to answer and average hold time (from your phone system or call tracking). This becomes your baseline. 3. Measure at 30, 60, and 90 days after training Re-run the same key performance indicators and look for: Higher new-patient call conversion rates More calls answered, fewer missed or abandoned Shorter hold times and fewer transfers Improvement often continues over 60 to 90 days as staff gain confidence with scripts and workflows. 4. Use simple tools and scorecards Start with a basic spreadsheet, one column for “new patient calls,” another for “booked,” plus daily or weekly percentages. Add columns for “calls answered,” “missed,” and “abandoned” if your system does not report them. Pair the numbers with a monthly sample of scored call recordings. 5. Link metrics to coaching and incentives Share key performance indicator results in monthly huddles so staff can see progress. Recognize improvements (“We moved from 45 percent to 62 percent conversion this month”) and consider small rewards when targets are met. Use backsliding metrics as coaching triggers, not punishment. What “good” looks like in 2026 When you tighten systems, your numbers can look very different from the averages. Industry data shows average healthcare lead-to-patient conversion around 3 to 5 percent, while top performers regularly exceed 20 percent, often 2 to 7 times better on the same lead volume. High-performing front desks convert 60 to 70 percent of new-patient calls into booked appointments, instead of the sub-50 percent many practices discover once they start tracking. Leads contacted within five minutes are dramatically more likely to convert, up to 20 to 100 times better than those contacted after 30 minutes or more. Yet typical response times are still 40+ hours in many organizations. If you are selling services that insurance does not cover, such as cash-pay procedures, concierge medicine, direct primary care, regenerative medicine, sexual health, or age-management and wellness, the math is unforgiving but fixable. For every 100 people who click your ad or visit your page, only a small fraction will reach out. You have an opportunity to convert a large share of those, especially by phone, if you respond fast and manage the conversation well. If you would like, I can now condense this into a one-page front-desk checklist or phone script specifically tailored to your specialty and highest-value services. Follow me on Facebook, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer Started at Mojo Interactive in 2000 as a marketeer for the American Academy of Ophthalmology, AACS, ASPS, Boston BioLife, and AACD. Helped in the Development of "Locate a Doc" and TrainNowMD, along with developing marketing lead generation strategies. Expanded into 34+ medical specialties. Founded Social Media Solutions for Doctors (2016).
- The Front Desk – Your Practice's Most Impactful Role
Written by Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer As CSO at Help My Medical Practice, Quintin draws on 25+ years in healthcare consulting and practice growth to help underperforming medical practices become patient-focused, profitable, and operationally efficient. The front desk is often the first, and most powerful touchpoint in a patient’s journey with your practice. From shaping first impressions to turning inquiries into booked consultations, this role plays a critical part in building trust, communicating value, and driving practice growth. Here's why the least paid person can have the biggest impact on the practice: 1. The critical first impression Often, the person answering the phone provides the very first impression of your practice. You only get one chance to make a first impression, so make it count. Being friendly, polite, and caring reassures people they have called the right place for treatments and service, and that they will be well cared for when they come for their initial consultation or treatment. If your tone is flat, monotone, unconcerned, or dismissive, you can expect that the prospect will seek service or treatment elsewhere, or delay their decision until later. As the old saying goes, put your best foot forward. 2. Connecting with prospects: Make a friend When making calls to prospects, have fun and make a friend. People buy from people they like. Act like you're calling a family member or a close friend that you haven't heard from in a while. Identify yourself, confirm that it's a good time to talk, and then identify what made them send their request in the first place. What issue or concern are they trying to solve? Once you know, tell them a little bit about the treatment and how it works to address their need. 3. Highlighting doctor credentials and reviews It is critical to highlight the doctor’s skills and credentials in the initial call. Ask the prospect if they have looked at the doctor’s reviews and patient testimonials. If not, take them online and show a few. Have you read the reviews yourself? If not, you should. It's nice to know what people are saying about your doctor and the practice. This helps build credibility and confidence that the patient prospect made the right decision in choosing your office for service. 4. Scheduling the consult Thereafter, confirm what day they'd like to schedule a consult with "The Best Doctor" to learn more about the treatment or procedure. Usually, giving two date options ensures that they will pick one. Always state you're setting aside this special consulting time for them to have one-on-one time with the doctor. His goal will be to truly understand their needs and goals. The role of booking consults for the practice is critical to practice income. It's urgent that the front desk person recognizes the seriousness of their role, it's part of how salaries get paid. 5. This is not insurance: Value-based communication The way you treat the prospect is critical to the outcome of the calls you receive or make to new prospects. Insurance is referral-based and is paid through company benefits. We are asking people to spend their hard-earned money in a tight economy. So you've got to give them a reason to do so by highlighting the skills of your doctor, the value and benefit of the treatment option, as well as the wonderful practice environment they will find upon arrival. Reassure them that this is the best decision and best place they can come to have a procedure performed. This is all based on the things identified above. 6. Log all calls: Understanding buying patterns All calls made and received need to be logged. Why did they not schedule the consult? Is there a good time to follow up on their decision if a consult was not booked? Be specific and slightly persistent, your goal is to help and get the consult booked. Additionally, the purpose of this is to determine buying patterns so as to address and overcome objections going forward. Was it price? What did they expect a procedure like this would cost? If so, did you make them aware of your patient financing options? Was it location? Do you have an out-of-town package? Can you offer a gas card if they are willing to drive for the consult and procedure? Was the product not what they expected? What were they looking for? Is it timing that needs to be determined? Try to book in the next 30 or 45 days? Exactly why did they not book the consult? 7. Follow Up, Follow Up, Follow Up! Although many prospects may not book on the initial contact, by following up you lay the groundwork to get them on the schedule in the future. Your mission is to help them achieve their goals and satisfy the reason for their call or email. Obviously, the reason for their call or email is that the office provides something they want, like, or need. Your role is to identify what that is, answer their questions, and fulfill the request or desire by booking the consult. All reasons for decline need to be documented. Without that, you don't learn how to overcome that objection, and marketing can't know how to adjust the offer. With all that being said, if you apply these few strong recommendations, not only will you book more consults, but you'll have more fun in the role of the front desk or patient care coordinator. In most cases, there is a bonus program that acts as a motivator. If you have any additional questions about best practices or how to generate more qualified leads using social media, we are here to help, and you can reach us at the number below! Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Quintin Gunn Quintin Gunn, Chief Strategic Officer Started at Mojo Interactive in 2000 as a marketeer for the American Academy of Ophthalmology, AACS, ASPS, Boston BioLife, and AACD. Helped in the Development of "Locate a Doc" and TrainNowMD, along with developing marketing lead generation strategies. Expanded into 34+ medical specialties. Founded Social Media Solutions for Doctors (2016).
- Why We Self-Sabotage – The Hidden Survival Pattern Keeping You Stuck
Written by Jehan Sattaur, Guest Writer Self-sabotage is rarely laziness, lack of discipline, or personal failure. It is often an unconscious protection mechanism rooted in early conditioning, fear, and identity. Self-sabotage coach and hypnotherapist Jehan Sattaur explores why people unconsciously block their own progress and how real healing begins by addressing the subconscious patterns driving the behavior and not by working harder against yourself, but by finally understanding yourself. There is a painful contradiction many people quietly live with. Wanting something deeply. And repeatedly doing the very thing that pushes it further away. They want the relationship, yet keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners. They want financial freedom, yet procrastinate on the opportunities that could create it. They want better health, yet abandon the habits that would transform their body and energy. From the outside, it looks irrational. From the inside, it feels exhausting and shameful. But self-sabotage is rarely random. It is made of patterns and patterns are intelligent. When you understand that self-sabotage is often protection dressed as destruction, everything changes. You stop attacking yourself and start understanding yourself. That shift is where real healing begins. What self-sabotage actually is Self-sabotage is when your thoughts, behaviors, or decisions consistently work against your own stated goals and desires. It shows up as procrastination, self-isolation, emotional eating, relationship avoidance, financial self-destruction, and chronic under performance, even when you are clearly capable of more. Neuroscience helps explain why. The brain's primary function is not happiness. It is survival. Research from neuroscientist Joseph LeDoux on the amygdala, the brain's threat detection system, shows that emotional memories formed early in life can continue to trigger protective responses in adulthood, even when no real danger is present. The subconscious mind consistently prioritizes what feels familiar over what feels fulfilling. It will choose what is known, even when what is known is painful, over what is uncertain, even when that uncertainty holds something genuinely good for you. This is why self-sabotage is not a character flaw. It is a conditioned response and it almost always has roots. Where self-sabotage comes from Most self-sabotage begins long before the behavior itself. It starts in adaptation. As children, we build core beliefs about safety, worthiness, love, and belonging based on repeated experiences and emotional environments. If love felt unpredictable or conditional, the nervous system may have learned that closeness leads to pain. If success attracted criticism or jealousy, the subconscious may have coded achievement as dangerous. If emotional needs were consistently dismissed, the internal operating system may have concluded that your needs simply do not matter. These early experiences do not stay in the past. They become subconscious blueprints which are invisible filters through which you interpret every new opportunity, relationship and risk. Research in developmental neuroscience shows that prolonged emotional stress in childhood physically reshapes neural pathways through a process called experience-dependent plasticity. The brain literally wires itself around the emotional environments it grows up in. When growth feels threatening at a nervous system level, the brain activates its protection mechanisms. What looks like procrastination from the outside is often a threat response from the inside. The subconscious is not working against you. It is working exactly as it was programmed. Understanding that distinction is one of the most powerful shifts a person can make. Why willpower alone does not work One of the most common and costly mistakes people make is trying to solve a subconscious conflict with conscious force. They use discipline, motivation, accountability, and sheer willpower. And while those tools have genuine value, they consistently fail when the root of the problem lives below conscious awareness. You cannot sustainably outperform a subconscious identity that believes success is unsafe, love leads to abandonment, or visibility invites punishment. The conscious mind may want the goal. The subconscious mind will quietly find a way to avoid it. This is why hypnotherapy is one of the most effective tools for addressing self-sabotage. Hypnosis works by shifting brainwave activity from beta our normal waking state into alpha and theta states, where the subconscious becomes significantly more receptive to new information and change. Neuroscientist and psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Siegel's work on interpersonal neurobiology demonstrates that the brain retains the capacity to form new neural connections throughout life a quality known as neuroplasticity. In the relaxed states accessed through hypnosis, deeply held beliefs can be examined, reframed, and replaced with identity-level shifts that actually last. Healing self-sabotage requires more than strategy. It requires integration between the conscious intention and the subconscious operating system driving behavior. Common signs you may be self-sabotaging Chronic procrastination on meaningful goals: Procrastination is rarely about time management. It is most often fear in disguise – fear of failure, fear of success, or fear of being truly seen. Repeating the same relationship patterns: When painful relationship dynamics repeat across different people and contexts, the pattern is almost always internal, not external. These patterns are often mirrors of unresolved attachment wounds formed in early life. Quitting when progress becomes real: This is one of the clearest indicators of subconscious sabotage. When genuine progress begins to challenge your familiar sense of self, the nervous system can activate avoidance to restore what feels known. Persistent self-doubt despite evidence of capability: Imposter syndrome and chronic self-criticism are often signs of a subconscious identity that has not yet integrated the possibility of being enough. What Healing Self-Sabotage Actually Looks Like: Healing begins with honest curiosity rather than self-judgment. Every self-sabotage pattern carries a payoff. Avoidance reduces anxiety. Withdrawal prevents the risk of rejection. Playing small shields you from criticism and expectation. The first step is asking clearly: what is this behavior protecting me from? That question reveals far more than judgment ever will. From there, the work involves tracing the emotional origin of the pattern, identifying where you first learned that this protection was necessary. Healing accelerates dramatically when origin becomes conscious rather than remaining buried in automatic behavior. The deeper work involves identity-level change. Behavior follows belief. The subconscious does not respond to effort alone. It responds to identity. The shift is not from "I am trying to be successful" to forcing yourself into action. It is from "success is dangerous" to "I am safe being successful." That internal shift changes everything downstream. Nervous system regulation is also essential. Breathwork, somatic processing, and clinical hypnotherapy help create genuine internal safety, because healing self-sabotage is not just psychological. It is biological. The perspective most people miss Self-sabotage is often grief – grief for the version of you that had to develop these patterns to survive. Grief for the conditioning that once made sense and now quietly limits everything you are trying to build. Real transformation does not come from being at war with yourself. It comes from understanding why the pattern existed, releasing it with compassion and building the internal safety that allows you to grow without the nervous system sounding the alarm. The goal has never been to become someone entirely new. It is to remove what has been blocking who you already are. Work with a self-sabotage coach If you recognize yourself in this article and are ready to understand and break the patterns keeping you stuck, I work with people one-to-one to address the subconscious roots of self-sabotage using coaching and clinical hypnotherapy. Contact me at selfsabotageinfo@proton.me to book a self-sabotage coaching session. Real change is possible. It begins with understanding yourself, not fighting yourself. Follow me on Instagram for ongoing insights on self-sabotage and personal growth. Jehan Sattaur, Guest Writer Jehan Sattaur is a self-sabotage coach and hypnotherapist specializing in subconscious reprogramming, behavioral transformation, and helping individuals break destructive internal patterns so they can build healthier relationships, stronger self-worth, and lasting personal success. Jehan is also the host of 2 podcasts: the Boundless Authenticity Podcast and Why You Self Sabotage (And How To Heal From It).
- Aligning Business Strategy with Innate Gifts – An Exclusive Interview with Loann Phoenix
Loann Phoenix, a business strategist and founder of Gifted Impact™, is an expert in helping purpose-driven founders transition from "performing success" to leading with Natural Authority. After years of following the conventional corporate script, Loann reached a pivotal point of disconnection, realizing that scaling learned skills alone leads to burnout and misalignment. This breakthrough allowed her to escape the trap of "miserable comfort" and develop the Gifted Impact™ methodology, a framework that helps leaders move beyond commoditized skills to leverage their 5–8 innate gifts as their ultimate competitive edge. Today, she guides entrepreneurs to realign their business structures with their natural brilliance to create sustainable, human-first, and impact-driven businesses that are deeply rooted in purpose. Loann Phoenix, Leadership & Business Coach You make a clear distinction between "Skills" and "Innate Gifts." Why is this difference the "ultimate human edge" in today’s market? Skills are abilities that are learned, acquired, and developed. While necessary and helpful, they require a higher level of mental effort compared to innate Gifts. Gifts are inherent within us, they feel natural, often instinctual, and they energize us. I intentionally use the word 'Gifts' because it describes the intuitive and natural way someone creates value or helps others. It is something that comes naturally to you while solving another’s problem or need. The biggest difference between Skills and Gifts is that your Skills may help get the work done, but your Gifts move and touch people. This isn't about avoiding new skills, because we do want to continue to grow. But it’s about understanding how you naturally excel in creating value first. From there, you can identify which Skills will further harness your Gifts and to help you reach your goals. In a world where learning a new skill is more accessible and AI lowers the barriers to knowledge, your innate gifts aren't just your internal compass; they become your ultimate competitive edge. When a founder leads from their gifts, they create a human experience that technology and competitors simply cannot replicate. Many high-achievers feel "miserably comfortable" or disconnected despite their success. What is happening internally during this phase? “Miserable comfort” is a quiet thief of life. It is the space where you are comfortable enough to settle, but miserable enough to feel the weight of a life unlived. It’s the gap between the life you’ve built and the life that is actually calling you. Before you know it, years pass by and you find yourself in the same place: questioning, doubting, miserably comfortable and trapped by the very security you worked so hard to build. Research shows that regret often stems from the things left unsaid and undone, the courageous paths we secretly wished to take but didn't. This often happens because of conditioning by families, schools, culture, or society, leading founders to over-rely on learned skills and external validation to perform a confidence they don't always feel internally. They are checking all the 'boxes', the right degrees, the respected career, but they are operating against their natural grain. This leads to a breaking point of disconnection because their work, while productive, lacks internal integrity and human-level resonance. How does discovering one's innate gifts transform the actual ROI and sustainability of a business? By using the Gifted Impact™ proprietary framework to extract 5-8 innate gifts with evidence, founders can finally name the brilliance they may be "too close" to see. This clarity allows them to reproduce their "genius moments" consistently. When a business is fueled by a founder's natural authority, the 'Return on Effort' is significantly higher. You move away from higher effort and towards more ease and a sense of flow. This prevents burnout and creates a sustainable, high-impact business built to last. Furthermore, work and leadership become energizing and meaningful, this is what sustains some of the most passionate and successful leaders over the long term. What role does self-awareness play in navigating a professional landscape that is being reshaped by AI? In an era where the scope of automation and AI are growing at record speed, technical strategy alone and borrowed blueprints have become a commodities. The answer to staying relevant isn't just learning more tools, it’s returning to yourself and understanding your differentiated value. Self-awareness regarding how you are uniquely wired and energized to solve problems and create value will not only set the leader apart, but also brings clarity and conviction to keep building. My approach facilitates this by providing a roadmap for leaders to build with alignment and presence. Your natural talents become your internal compass, allowing you to stay adaptable and lead with authority even when the market shifts and as we can see, will continue to change at growing speed. What are the most common blocks that prevent founders from activating their natural gifts? The two most common blocks are fear and unsupportive environments. High-achievers often battle perfectionism and an underlying fear that they are not as "capable" as they may appear. This is often compounded by systems that prioritize fixing weaknesses rather than maximizing highest potential. After five years of doing this work, I have seen that the greatest activator for a person's innate gifts is a supportive environment where those gifts are actually valued. Because gifts are highly intuitive, they activate most powerfully when they are needed and welcomed. To overcome these blocks, we highlight real, lived examples of the founder's innate gifts in action. Seeing tangible evidence of their own brilliance builds a sense of self-trust that is transformative; once you see your impact through this lens, it cannot be "unseen." For the founder standing at the threshold of their next evolution, what is the first step toward "Gifted Impact"? Stop treating your purpose or your success as a destination to be "found". Your gifts are already there, expressed in how you show up and the ripple effect you create everywhere you go. The first step is to stop building for approval and start building from somewhere real. Ask yourself, 'What parts of my work energize me versus drain me?' and 'What is the unique experience people have when they work with me?' Transitioning from a business you 'perform for' to one that is 'fueled by who you are' begins with the courage to lead with your natural brilliance. How do you guide founders to align their business strategy with their innate gifts? The process begins by extracting specific evidence of moments when the founder's innate gifts were activated and called them to take inspired action. We start with an assessment form, followed by deep dive sessions where I help the founder recognize the patterns in those moments when they felt truly energized and present. The challenge for most high-performers is that these moments of brilliance are often buried under years of operating in "survival mode": acting out of fear, doubt, or compliance. This process highlights the winning moments when real impact was made and felt by those around them. My job is to isolate the signal from the noise. Using the Gifted Impact™ framework, we identify where a founder’s gifts are currently underutilized and realign their business environment to support their natural brilliance. Whether it’s through team leadership, client delivery, or overall company strategy, we move the founder from a place of "performing confidence" into a state of intentional impact that was intuitively called in moments that mattered most. Are you ready to stop “performing confidence” and lead with your Innate Gifts? Connect with Loann and schedule a free discovery call here! Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Loann Phoenix
- Understanding Old Man Syndrome and How to Live with Purpose
Written by Shaun Sargent, Co-Founder STAIT That we age is a given, how we age is a choice. STAIT – Unapologetically Strong. A first-class academic, award-winning professional, and global CEO, he is dedicated to continuous growth and inspiring others along the way. Recently, I’ve become more aware that as people get older, many things happen or are taken for granted as a normal part of life. Being a member of several men’s circles, it’s clear to me that the societal norm is that as we age, things can become more difficult, and aging is something to be fought off at all costs, rather than embraced and celebrated. There is some truth in this, but also a lot of misinformation. We are all different, so how can one norm fit all? Are we products of the environment we find ourselves in, blindly accepting what society expects of us at 'our age'? This got me thinking about old man syndrome (OMS). Is that a real thing, or folklore? So I googled it. "Old man syndrome" isn’t a formal medical diagnosis, but a colloquial term for various age-related changes. It often manifests as grumpiness, irritability, or emotional shifts due to factors like declining testosterone (andropause/late-onset hypogonadism), physical ailments, loneliness, chronic pain, mental health issues (depression, anxiety), loss of purpose, or grief from life changes, all leading to a sense of reduced relevance or vitality. It’s a mix of hormonal, psychological, and social factors. Common causes and factors of old man syndrome Hormonal changes (andropause): A gradual testosterone decline (late-onset hypogonadism) can affect mood, energy, and libido, leading to depression or irritability. Physical ailments: Chronic pain, hearing/vision loss, fatigue, and other age-related health issues can worsen mood. Mental health: Unaddressed depression, anxiety, or stress can present as anger or grumpiness. Social and emotional losses: Retirement, loss of social status, loneliness, empty nest syndrome, or grief over lost youth and relevance can trigger these feelings. Grief: It can be a form of grief for lost youth, strength, and purpose, a protest against feeling sidelined by society. When I return to where I was raised, this is prevalent. I remember driving down the street and seeing this 'old man' hobbling down the road, on his way to the pub at lunch. “S**t, is he still alive?” I thought. “He must be well over 100 years old now, as he was in his 70s when I was a kid.” What a shocker to find that it wasn’t who I thought it was. It was his grandson, whom I went to school with! WTF? He was sadly just waiting out his years, following his norm and reference points. Was his body a mess due to age or due to environmental and cultural factors? If what Google says is true, I can understand it. Where he lives, these causes are prevalent. It really shook me for many reasons. Not because I am Superman, nor immune to the environment, but it’s clear that as my number of journeys around the sun increases, things may need to change so that I thrive, not merely survive. My motto is, "To live as well as I can for as long as I can," so I will do all I can to make that happen. Another favorite is, "To die young, as old as possible." When discussing this with other guys, there seem to be some worrying practices emerging, some of which I am also guilty of. Things like: Trying to behave like we are still 18. Not listening to our bodies, forcing them into things they are no longer optimized to do. Trying to kill the issue, while only in reality killing ourselves. Ask yourself, why is testosterone replacement therapy so popular all of a sudden? Why are men turning to unproven science products (peptides, SARMs, etc.) in the hope of eternal youth? Why is masters-level sport now ultra-competitive? Why use Botox and plastic surgery rather than embracing that Clint Eastwood-wisened (is that shorthand for "wise-end") look? Why is the golf course one of the most dangerous places a man can go? Men (I include myself in many of these energies, if not behaviors) long for the glory days. How many old football or rugby stories do we relive with our peers? How many "I could have been if" excuses do we use as reasoning for our behavior now? How many trinkets do we buy ourselves, trying to substitute what we no longer have with something shiny and new? No judgment here, I still personally think and see the world through the eyes of my 18-year-old self, and I don’t see anything wrong with that, as long as it’s not harmful to me doing daft stuff. Does this energy come from lack? From regret, or from fear of the unknown, something unfamiliar and scary? From the loss of the old self, and not being willing to trust and celebrate the new self? How many of us have grandparents or parents who kicked and screamed when 'put' in a nursing home, only to find it’s some of the best years of their lives? Is it the fear of missing out (FOMO) while actually missing out on amazing things that await us by clinging to the old, which no longer serves us or is possible? To say I have been shaken by this is a huge understatement. It’s been a cause of depression for a while now. What if I cannot take care of my business, body, mentality, and so on? What if my world changes such that I don’t recognize it and cannot function in it? What if, what if, what if driving me insane with worry. All the while, the only certainty we cannot halt is Father Time, and death awaits us. That famous saying, "Some people die in their 40s, and are buried in their 80s," rings true. Why is it that many people diagnosed with terminal illnesses start to live life fully until they don’t? Why do they seem to kick off the fear of death, to celebrate their remaining time here? I saw that personally with my own mum, drinking champagne daily and embracing her love of life until the very end. In essence, we are all terminally ill, we just haven’t got the formal exit date yet (thankfully). As my wife (a huge inspiration and support for me) says, “It’s better to live every day as your last, because you never know when it could be.” She embraces that with full integrity of being, saying, “Why worry about what we cannot do as we did? What if we focused all our energy on what we can do, and do it, rather than focus on lack?” Energy follows thought, and we create what we focus on. Recently, I took huge inspiration from Mark Omrod MBE, Royal Marines veteran, triple amputee, and REORG BJJ Trustee. He doesn’t focus on what he lost, he focuses on what he still has and uses it to his full advantage. Many, many people in the veteran community inspire this energy too. Why do I worry that my shoulders ache, my knees too, or that it takes a moment in the morning to stretch out the joints, when people like Mark are out there killing it? It’s better to focus on what you can do and be, rather than what you cannot. Energy does follow thought. No doubt Mark must have his days, but even more so, his mindset is not to be beaten. My dear friend Will Burrnett is the same. His film "Unbreakable Will" is a must-watch. If there is ever someone who inspires me that mindset matters, it’s Will. I just need to remember that and practice it daily, moment to moment. So, as I write this, as much a note to myself as anything, I realize the following: I have lived a great life up until now, and that is just preparation for the great things I am yet to create. All I didn’t do until now doesn’t mean I cannot do even greater things moving forward. The “difficulties” I have faced have all forged the “me I see” daily, and that should be celebrated. We all slip up, it’s not the slip that’s key, it’s how you get up that matters. Life is a death sentence waiting to happen, you cannot stop it, only hasten it. If we don’t know for sure what follows, if anything, why waste a single moment of this life? Regret and reminiscing are stuck energy. As one of my favorite anthems (Flower of Scotland) says, “Those days are gone now, and in the past, they must remain, but we can still rise now.” It’s just a choice. Look back and be stuck, or look forward and create something new. These words are stuck to my gym wall. There are other bits to work on as well, that help all of the above to move forward. In terms of the solutions I am working on (as it’s a daily practice), I split them into various categories: Hormonal That we age is a given, how we age is a choice. It is primarily a mindset thing, but there are physical aspects too. Does testosterone decline as we age, and/or are other factors at play? Yes and yes. Does chronic stress play a role? Yes, for sure.Does daily toxicity harm hormones? 100%. Will adding in external hormones solve the issues or plaster over the fault lines? It won’t solve the root cause of the problem, and the human body is very adept at removing things it cannot use at that moment. Do we want quick fixes (seems to be societal norms) or long-term healthy solutions? Are we willing to make the changes required? There is hope that testosterone doesn’t need to decline. Receptor sites for hormones don’t need to be blocked with toxins. Stress hormones don’t need to be present constantly. It is possible to stimulate repair and recovery in the body without pharmaceuticals. Mental Depression and anxiety, all part of daily life. But does it have to be? How about incorporating some relaxation time in daily life? Meditation, a walk in nature, a swim in the sea, an ice bath, or a sauna. Some "me" time, without feeling guilty about doing it. Physical A double-edged sword for me. I love to lift heavy and often, but how do I train now vs when I was 18? Is it helpful to ache for days, or jump into something new without a warm-up and prep? Can I still squat six plates a side? What for? (I still can, by the way!) I heard a sad story recently about two guys in their mid-40s who were once elite in physical prowess. Father Time had taken its toll, and they decided to start training again. Sadly, with no warm-up, just straight into the good ol' days. The sadness is that both have died, one permanently, once revived. Their bodies weren’t ready to go where their minds wanted. I can relate to this, hence the shock for me. There but for the grace of God. A lesson to me, how many times do I do daft stuff, thinking I am invincible, only to hurt myself? Exercise is good, just do it sensibly and work up to things. As a great friend and world-class athlete, he reminds me, "At our age, we should train to stimulate the muscle, not annihilate the body." Great advice from someone who knows. As an aside, I am stronger now than ever, but my joints are a lot more worn. So warm up, stretch, and listen to the body, and it will help you get over OMS. Social A big one for many (me included). People who held positions of title or importance suddenly retire and have no identity. I remember going from a part-owner of a highly successful accountancy practice, where everyone in the area knew me, to a simple employee. That loss of status and identity took time to process. People who suddenly lose purpose, status, and the like have to come to terms with "normal life." Sports stars who retire, for instance, how many fall into depression and despair? Why do a lot of men die soon after retirement? The loss of connection, purpose, and role, maybe? Boredom, perhaps? But all is not lost. Gym membership, clubs, societies, family, and travel are all ways to create new social connections and replace those former ones. I know it took me a while, but I have even more connections now than before, it just takes time and commitment to self. It goes without saying that the STAIT community is always here for anyone who wishes to come in and belong. Grief As above with social, there can also be grief at the lost possibilities life is reminding us of. That loss of job, the loss of youth, loss of close relationships, and more. Do we focus on the lack or the creation of new? Personally, grief is a big one for me, something I am working through. The loss of a life lived long, the thought of "not being able to do x, y, or z." However, my therapist guides me to see the blank sheet of paper waiting for my new ideas, the new creations that can come through, and that the grief is only my lack of self-belief manifesting into reality. There’s a famous quote by Marion Williamson: “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” What if we can turn the energy of grief, of loss, of lack, into the power of creation? Hard to do, but if we don’t try, then it’s impossible. Remember, "impossible" really spells out "I’m possible." A dear friend reminds me often of the "power of letting go." His phrase is something like: "A new train cannot enter the station until the old one has left." It takes courage to let go, because do we truly trust ourselves? For me, that’s a big one. Do I trust my own capability to create even more? My wife says I am a master creator, she doesn’t lie, but do I believe her? That’s all, a work in progress for me. So as I end this note to myself, I am reminded that "I am capable of creating any life I wish to have, so it’s best I choose wisely." Quantum physics is now proving the old saying of "like attracts like." If you don’t like what you see in front of you, change it. To say this one really raises my blood pressure is an understatement, but sometimes the truth is hard to swallow. Final point Remember, doing the right thing isn’t always easy, but it’s always right. So when considering if OMS applies to you, remember, it’s just a choice for you, and there are other choices possible. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Shaun Sargent Shaun Sargent, Co-Founder STAIT As a co-founder of STAIT, my personal search for health and personal development is relentless. I seek out the best of the best to learn from and share with. To be the best you can be on a daily basis is the key to human growth.
- Perception-Based Leadership Hits the Global Stage
Written by Mark Branson, Leadership Theorist Mark Branson has combined 20 years of experience, 5 State Titles, and one World Record into the first advancement in leadership theory in 50 years. Branson's first book, The Illusion of Competence, introduced perception-based leadership. Branson's second book, Unified Leadership Theory (2025), advances the theory further. I started working on my first leadership theory, The Illusion of Competence, in 1999. The Illusion of Competence started as a personal mission because of a scenario that played out repeatedly at work. The corporation sent down a directive. My associates disengaged from the directive. I was caught in the middle, expected to gain buy-in from associates where there was none. I always did things differently because I was always searching for a better way. When I found a better way, my associates bought into my methods. However, straying from the company way brought unwanted attention from corporate executives. There had to be a way to get employees to do processes my way while ‘corporate’ believed processes were being completed its way. Turns out there was a way. My bosses did not need to know processes were completed their way. As long as my bosses perceived processes were completed their way, it did not matter how the processes were completed. I had a high school education when I started developing The Illusion of Competence. I started college in 2009 at age 44, earning a dual master’s degree in business and leadership in 2016. I did not go to college to learn about leadership. I already knew leadership was broken. When I talked about leadership, I wanted my words to matter. I knew being a store manager from Albuquerque with a high school education was not going to cut it. My first book, The Illusion of Competence, was completed in the fall of 2016. My Mom, a former Intel executive, was the first person to read The Illusion of Competence. Mom liked the concepts within The Illusion of Competence, but stated bluntly, companies are never going to buy into your strategies. I hired my future wife at Famous Footwear in 2001. Lisa never left, starting as a part-time associate and working up to managing her own stores. Lisa considers me her mentor. However, she maintains the same sentiment as Mom. Companies will never buy it. I published The Illusion of Competence in February 2017. In conjunction, I started writing a blog on a long-dormant LinkedIn account with four followers. I had ideas to share, but no idea what to expect. I used to send connection requests weekly to grow my account. My LinkedIn account grows on its own now, with 17,000 plus followers and an average of three new followers a day. I joined the prestigious International Leadership Association in July 2025. The ILA is the premier organization for leadership scholars, educators, and practitioners to share their leadership knowledge. ILA members were asked to submit proposals to ILA’s 28th global conference in Toronto, Canada, this fall. Initially, I felt the ILA was for its known scholars, educators, and practitioners, not myself. An ILA administrator’s personal request for a proposal piqued my interest. Maybe the ILA was speaking to me. I did a little research and started writing a proposal five days before the deadline, submitting it with a day to spare. My proposal spoke to how perceptions are processed in the brain compared to emotional intelligence and the advantages thereof. I had low expectations for my proposal due to a lack of insight into the entire process. In consequence, I was genuinely shocked when my proposal was accepted. I will be conducting a roundtable at the ILA’s 28th Annual Global Conference, introducing the inner workings of perception-based leadership and its inherent advantages over behavior-based leadership constructs. Not bad for a store manager from Albuquerque whose concepts would never be accepted. I knew my words on leadership would matter. One day, you will too. See you in Toronto! Visit my website for more info! Read more from Mark Branson Mark Branson, Leadership Theorist Mark Branson set the world record for the arcade game Asteroids in 1981, playing for 55 hours in a quarter. Branson then applied his concepts of greatness to winning 5 New Mexico state racquetball titles over a 15-year career. Branson then created a leadership theory from scratch, combining 30 years of leadership experience and his habit of winning into the first advancement in leadership thought since the turn of the century.














