If Your Mind Had a Team Meeting
- Brainz Magazine
- Apr 22
- 5 min read
Written by Jen Hamilton, Conscious-Life Coach
Jen Hamilton is a renowned Conscious-Life Coach specialising in clinical hypnotherapy, past life regression therapy, NLP, and empowerment events. As a number one best-selling author, the host of the enLIFEned podcast, she inspires others to achieve liberation, fulfillment, and pleasure through deep inner transformation and awakening.
If you’ve ever been in the corporate world, run a business with a team around you, or have a family that gathers to discuss important internal affairs, then you’ll know all too well the concept of a team meeting. Whether it’s rolling into the office with a long black and a dash of cream to sit around the boardroom table with your colleagues, or gathering at the family dining table over a bowl of pasta bolognese, a bottle of Shiraz, and laughter you’ll know that each person always has something to say, needs to be heard, and adds value to the collective group.
Well, in most cases anyway. Sometimes an email would have sufficed. But there’s nothing quite like human interaction and personal connection.
Now imagine this: what if the internal parts of your own mind came together for a team meeting, each one holding the talking stick and contributing to the greater good?
What if instead of keeping parts of your mind compartmentalized, every aspect of your inner world had airtime to be seen, heard, and acknowledged?
From a psychological perspective, compartmentalization is a defense mechanism, a subconscious strategy the mind uses to cope with conflicting thoughts, emotions, or beliefs by mentally separating them into distinct "compartments." Think of it like putting different parts of your life into separate boxes and not allowing them to touch.
This can look like:
Someone who is nurturing at home but ruthless at work, keeping their personal and professional values separate to avoid inner conflict.
A person whose spiritual beliefs contradict their daily behavior, but doesn’t feel the dissonance because the two aspects are mentally walled off.
Suppressing trauma or guilt by boxing it away mentally and carrying on as if it doesn’t exist, a temporary way to keep functioning without breaking down.
Compartmentalization helps protect our psyche from emotional overload, shame, or cognitive dissonance. It allows us to function in environments or relationships that might otherwise feel too painful or contradictory. But while that may bypass the discomfort in the short term, it’s not moving us any closer to the life we truly want. It’s a Band-Aid effect that covers a wound still festering beneath one that only grows over time.
When used unconsciously or long-term, it can create a deep disconnection from the self, lead to emotional suppression, and block authentic integration. It’s a way of surviving, not thriving.
True liberation comes when we begin to integrate the compartments and bring our whole self into conscious awareness.
Integration isn’t about becoming perfect; it’s about becoming whole. It’s how we move from fragmented living to embodied self-mastery.
So why not rip the Band-Aid off and heal things once and for all? It’s going to require giving a voice to the repressed parts of yourself, and that can feel a little daunting if they’ve been silenced for quite some time.
And remember, some departments might show up messy, emotional, or resistant, especially the ones that haven’t had a voice in years. Meet them with compassion. Even the loudest or most disruptive parts are often just trying to protect you.
There are many ways to do this, and you can be as creative as you like. Whether it’s sitting at a table and physically moving around to different chairs, creating a talking stick, or going for a long walk to hold your internal meeting, the outcome will always be to your advantage.
The way I like to do it? I see myself as the CEO of my life, and I invite each "head of department" forward to give an update. They get to voice any concerns, speak about conflicts with other departments (this happens more often than you’d think), and because managers are solution-focused, offer practical suggestions without too much emotional charge.
My heads of department include: Finance, Spirituality, Movement and Exercise, Health and Nutrition, Business Owner, Podcast Host, Coach and Mentor, Parenting, Relationship, Self-Love and Personal Nourishment, Rest and Relaxation, Fun and Adventure, Emotions and Feelings, Hormones and Cycle, House and Land, and of course, Miscellaneous.
Sometimes conflicts happen. The Health and Nutrition department might feel concerned about the priorities of Movement and Exercise, especially if more energy is going in than going out. Another common dispute? When Fun and Adventure want to book an overseas trip, and Finance steps in with a firm, "Love the idea, but not the priority right now."
Occasionally, Hormones and Cycle pass Emotions and Feelings in the hallway and gently remind them they’re on the same team and that it’s okay to acknowledge one another more often.
Then there’s Fear, one of the assistants in the Emotions department, who sometimes sneaks into the CEO's chair when no one is watching, spinning around like she owns the place and trying to call the shots. That is, until the big boss Love steps in with a firm but kind reminder: "Playtime’s over. Back to your cubicle. You’ve got work to do, and running the whole show isn’t one of them."
It's common for a Business Owner who is passionate, driven, and constantly inspired to try to override Rest and Relaxation. That’s when Self-Love and Personal Nourishment must step in, reminding the Business Owner to slow down, breathe, and set realistic goals.
When Self-Love and Personal Nourishment aren’t being heard, it can create disharmony in the Parenting and Relationship departments. Then the CEO (me) feels like she’s managing a room full of bickering children, all scrambling for attention, demanding to be right, louder, and more important.
By now, I hope you can see how all parts of your mind can function and thrive when they’re working in collaboration.
If your spiritual side isn’t nourished, it may show up as emotional disconnection or resentment. If you’re not prioritizing health and movement daily, every department might feel sluggish, uninspired, and harder to motivate.
But just like any effective team meeting, when each participant is acknowledged, given space to express, and validated for what they bring to the table, transformation happens, not from chaos, but from clarity.
Try this: Set aside ten minutes with a journal and write down the different departments that operate within you. Ask each one: What do you need from me right now? or Where do you feel unheard? Let your answers flow without judgment. You might be surprised at what your inner team has been trying to say.
It’s time to schedule that meeting. Your inner team has been waiting and when all parts of you are working together, that’s when the magic really begins.
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Jen Hamilton, Conscious-Life Coach
Jen Hamilton is a conscious life coach, clinical hypnotherapist, and women’s empowerment mentor dedicated to empowering people to awaken their inner alchemy. Her mission is to help people discover their inner world so their outer world reflects their true selves. Jen's work combines science-driven techniques and spirituality, creating a powerful synergy that initiates deep transformation, fostering self-love, and guiding people to a purpose-driven life filled with fulfilment and growth.
