Harnessing Resilience as Your Superpower and Thriving Instead of Just Surviving
- Brainz Magazine
- Jun 25
- 3 min read
Wilene Dunn is the CEO of WCD Enterprises, a marketing and publishing agency that helps authors, speakers, and entrepreneurs share their message through books, branding, and business strategy.
In today’s high-pressure world, “resilience” has often been reduced to the ability to bounce back, push through, or toughen up. But what if true resilience isn’t about bracing for the next storm or grinding through the hard times? What if it’s about something deeper, more regenerative, and even joyful?
Dr. Heather Denniston, a renowned wellness strategist and keynote speaker, offers a radical reframe of resilience in her session, Harnessing Resilience as Your Superpower. According to Dr. Denniston, resilience isn’t just a trait you’re born with or a limited resource; it’s a renewable fuel that can be built, harnessed, and expanded.
“Resilience is not just surviving the storm,” says Denniston. “It’s learning how to dance in the rain, laugh during the thunder, and find energy in the eye of the hurricane.”
Here are the key concepts from her approach that are reshaping how leaders, teams, and individuals can access well-being and sustainable performance:
1. Guard your energy for ultimate influence
Energy is your most critical currency, and resilience starts by protecting it. Dr. Denniston challenges high achievers to stop overextending and start setting boundaries that prioritize mental and physical well-being.
“If your energy is leaking everywhere, your impact is diluted,” she explains. “Protecting your energy is not selfish, it’s strategic.”
She encourages leaders to ask, "What drains me?" "What fuels me?" This awareness helps redirect focus toward energy-rich activities, improving decision-making and influence.
2. Use curiosity and a growth mindset as secret weapons
Rather than fearing adversity, resilient individuals meet it with curiosity. By shifting from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What can this teach me?”, you move from victimhood to empowerment.
Denniston explains:
“Curiosity dissolves fear. It’s hard to be afraid when you’re genuinely curious about what’s on the other side of a challenge.”
This mindset builds flexibility, adaptability, and the ability to recover with insight instead of exhaustion.
3. Cultivate courage and grit to make you bendy, not brittle
Grit isn’t about pushing harder; it’s about staying flexible in the face of pressure. Resilience, Dr. Denniston says, is like bamboo: strong yet supple.
“We often reward stoicism in the workplace, but resilience is not about rigidity. It’s about being bendy enough to adapt without breaking.”
Grit, when balanced with grace, allows individuals to endure while maintaining wellness, not burnout.
4. Mine for joy to build leverage in chaos
Resilient people don’t just survive chaos; they leverage it. One of Denniston’s most powerful tools is the intentional mining of joy, even in difficulty.
“Joy isn’t frivolous, it’s fortifying. It is an antidote to chaos and a catalyst for strength.”
By identifying micro-moments of joy each day, you train your nervous system to find light, which builds resilience over time.
5. Discover your resilience-building true north
Lasting resilience comes from clarity of purpose. When you align with what Denniston calls your “resilience-building true north,” your personal values, purpose, and passions, you access an inner compass that keeps you steady no matter the external turmoil.
“When you’re connected to what truly matters,” Denniston says, “you stop reacting to the noise and start responding from the center.”
Resilience isn’t about bouncing back; it’s about expanding forward with intention. By protecting your energy, approaching life with curiosity, and finding joy amidst challenge, you don’t just endure, you evolve.
So, the next time life gets chaotic, don’t just dig in. Dig deep. Your greatest superpower might just be how you choose to respond.
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Wilene Dunn, Marketing and Publishing Agency CEO
Wilene Dunn is the CEO of WCD Enterprises, a marketing and publishing agency that helps speakers, authors, and entrepreneurs bring their message to the world. With over 16 years of experience, she offers expert guidance in branding, book publishing, business strategy, and accountability coaching. Whether you're launching a business, writing a book, or preparing to speak on stage, Wilene helps you move from idea to execution with clarity and confidence. If you have a message that matters, she can help you make it seen, heard, and impactful.
