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Act Before You Feel Ready – 4 Courage Catalysts That Turn Someday Into Right Now

  • Sep 26, 2025
  • 3 min read

Valerie Priester empowers high-achieving women entrepreneurs who know they’re capable of more to break through internal barriers and scale with purpose.

Senior Level Executive Contributor Valerie Priester

Friend, let’s pull up a chair and speak the unvarnished truth, most breakthroughs never arrive gift-wrapped in certainty. They come wrapped in butterflies, sweaty palms, and the unsettling thought, “Who am I to do this?” But here’s the revelation, waiting to “feel ready” is the quickest route to watching your vision collect dust.


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I can recall numerous times when I’ve felt like I wasn’t ready for the next step. When this happens, I find myself exploring everything under the sun to avoid acting. I rewrite a blog post three times or revise my bio ten times. You get the picture. Everything except acting on the thing that has my stomach in knots.


The problem is that the very thing I’m so afraid of is what moves the needle in my business. The next level of success is always on the other side of fear.


Today, I’m sharing four courage catalysts that will help you act before readiness shows up, because let’s be honest, readiness is usually late to the party.


1. Name the fear, then name the next micro-move


Fear hates specifics. The moment you identify both the worry and the very next bite-size action, momentum begins. Maybe the fear is, “If I raise my rates, clients will leave.” Your micro-move could be drafting a one-paragraph email that explains your new value. Tiny, tangible steps calm the nervous system and chip away at perfection paralysis, something Brainz contributor Dr. Kristen Lennox calls “decision paralysis” in her article "Overcome Perfectionism A Guide for Leaders."


2. Time-box a 10-second courage window


Courage is a habit, not a momentous wave. Give yourself a 10-second window to click “publish,” press “record,” or ask for the sale. Research shows that once action begins, the brain releases dopamine, reinforcing the behavior you just took. As you train this micro-bravery muscle daily, readiness starts showing up after you act, not before.


3. Launch the “messy-first” version


Clarity grows from action, not the other way around. Release the beta course, publish the soft-opening sales page, and test the talk with a small audience. Feedback you glean in the wild beats any amount of theorizing on the couch.


4. Keep an evidence-of-impact log


Every evening, list three ways your imperfect action made ripple effects, an email of thanks, a micro-sale, a comment saying, “This changed my perspective.” Neuroscience calls this evidence accumulation, I call it getting real about your progress. In two weeks, you’ll hold pages of proof that action, not endless polishing, creates the clarity and confidence you crave.


Why acting before you’re ready feels hard (for women entrepreneurs)


  • Conditioned caretaking: You were praised for getting it right, not for trying out loud.

  • Visibility fears: Social algorithms reward glossy highlight reels, so we hide our drafts.

  • Over-qualification culture: Studies show women wait to meet 100% of the criteria before leaping, while men leap at 60%. The result? Momentum stalls.


Awareness dissolves the shame. Once you see the pattern, you can choose differently. Remember, sister-friend, the dream in your heart isn’t waiting for perfect timing, it’s waiting for your first imperfect move. Act before you feel ready and watch clarity sprint to catch up. Let’s rise, together.


Ready to turn vision into motion?


If your spirit is nodding yes and you’d love a trusted guide to map your brave next steps, click here to schedule your private 30-minute next-level clarity session this month.


In half an hour, we’ll pinpoint the hesitation costing you revenue and craft a single, values-aligned action that pulls you toward your next level of success, before you “feel ready.”


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Valerie Priester, Mindset & Strategy Catalyst for Women Entrepreneurs

Valerie Priester empowers high-achieving women entrepreneurs who know they’re capable of more to break through internal barriers and scale with purpose. As Founder of Victorious Life Coaching LLC, Valerie blends deep mindset work with values-aligned business strategy, ensuring her clients don’t just set bold goals, they implement them with confidence and consistency.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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