10 Unexpected Reactions To Your Spiritual Growth And How To Navigate Them

Written by Jassiri Nassor, Spiritual Life Coach

With 13+ years of deeply researching esoteric studies like Hermeticism, Tarot, and Numerology, Jassiri Nassor guides transformative self-discovery journeys. His background in education enhances his ability to help others overcome obstacles and unlock their true potential.

Have you noticed a change in how people treat you as you grow spiritually? Do dismissive comments and jealousy seem to cloud your positive transformations? Are you struggling to understand why your spiritual journey is causing tension in your relationships? Discover the surprising ways people might react negatively to your spiritual growth and learn practical tips on how to handle these challenges. Uncover effective strategies for maintaining your peace and confidence while navigating these reactions, and continue your transformative journey with grace and resilience.

Peace, love and light?

I am sure you are familiar with the phrase “Peace, Love and Light.” It is a phrase that is repeated often in spiritual circles, in person and online. It is meant as a term of endearment in which one shows compassion and a sense of kinship towards a person that is on the same spiritual path of learning or “enlightenment.” 

The problem is, it is expected that when a choice is made to walk on this life path, that life becomes instantly smooth and you will only see the good in others as they obviously will only see the good in you. Unfortunately, this path does not work that way, as a “funny” thing happens while you are making these life changes, life has a way of providing unrelenting clarity on your old way of life as you pursue a much more peaceful and new way.

Why would a spiritual path create difficulties?

Your visible positive changes are triggering to insecure people. When someone experiences significant positive transformations in their life, such as improved emotional well-being, financial success, or better relationships, it can inadvertently highlight others' insecurities or unfulfilled aspirations. The psychological term for this is called “irrational fear” which is an extension of a person’s personal fear of change and irrational thinking patterns.

Five irrational fears a traditionalist has against spiritual seekers

Irrational fears manifest in various forms, each with its own distinct characteristics. These types include:

The skeptic

Constantly questioning the validity of spiritual practices and feeling threatened by beliefs that challenge their own worldview. They may dismiss spiritual growth as irrational or delusional, causing tension in relationships with those who embrace such practices.

The envious

Feeling resentful towards individuals experiencing positive transformations through spiritual growth, leading to jealousy and a desire to undermine their successes. They may struggle with feelings of inadequacy or bitterness, unable to celebrate the achievements of others.

The insecure

Experiencing heightened feelings of insecurity when confronted with someone confidently living their spiritual truth, fearing their own shortcomings or lack of direction. They may react defensively or withdraw emotionally, struggling to confront their own inner turmoil. Related Spiritual Awakening & Divorce: 9 Unexpected Signs

The control freak

Feeling threatened by the unpredictability and uncertainty inherent in spiritual growth, leading to attempts to control or manipulate the individual's beliefs and behaviors. They may exhibit controlling tendencies in relationships, fearing the loss of influence or power.

The conformist

Feeling pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations, viewing spiritual growth as a deviation from the mainstream and fearing social rejection or ostracization. They may suppress their own curiosity or desire for personal growth to maintain acceptance within their social circles.

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Signs and symptoms of traditionalist fears toward spiritual seekers

A traditionalist may show signs of irrational apprehension towards spiritual seekers by demonstrating apprehension and uncertainty towards unfamiliar beliefs and practices. They might perceive a threat to their established beliefs and cultural norms, leading to defensive responses or avoidance of discussions about spirituality. This unease may result in dismissive attitudes or avoidance of individuals who embrace spiritual growth, contributing to social tension or isolation. Such apprehension could also manifest as discomfort or unease in the presence of those exploring spirituality, stemming from a lack of understanding or acceptance of alternative viewpoints. Ultimately, these behaviors reveal a deep-seated resistance to unfamiliar ideologies and a preference for stability over exploration.

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10 unexpected reactions to your spiritual growth 

Irrational fear of one’s positive life change through spiritual growth manifests in various forms, each with its own distinct characteristics. These types include:

1. Jealousy and envy: Signs of envy can include backhanded compliments, passive-aggressive behavior, or outright expressions of jealousy regarding the positive changes in your life.

2. Social withdrawal: Friends, family, or colleagues might start distancing themselves, avoiding conversations

3. Increased criticism: There might be a noticeable increase in critical comments about your choices, lifestyle, or successes, often framed as "concern" or "advice."

4. Gossip and rumors: You may become the subject of gossip or rumors, with people spreading unfounded stories or negative assumptions about your practices.

5. Hostility & argumentative behavior: Some individuals might become more confrontational, picking arguments or trying to challenge your beliefs aggressively.

6. Undermining success: Attempts to downplay or undermine your achievements, suggesting that your success is due to luck rather than your spiritual practices or personal growth.

7. Invasive questions: Persistent, intrusive questioning about your lifestyle choices, often with a skeptical or judgmental tone.

8. Comparative statements: Frequent comparisons that subtly imply their way of life is superior, or that your success is a result of something other than your spiritual journey.

9. Isolation Attempts: Efforts to isolate you by encouraging others to view your practices negatively or to exclude you from social activities.

10. Dismissive comments: People might make belittling or mocking remarks about your spiritual practices or beliefs, even without fully understanding them.

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Continue your spiritual journey 

The number 1 strategy to maintain your confidence

1. Keep you spiritual journey to yourself

This may seem troubling and disingenuous considering the positive changes that are taking place in your life and as a person who is developing more love and compassion for others…it would seem that the right thing to do would be to share your discoveries with others…especially those that you love and care for…because you want them to experience the same joy as you. No…your journey is your own and your aura alone is going to reveal much in the way of personal growth. Telling people what you are doing in private as a spiritual practitioner can be very troubling for others and for YOU as I have outlined. When someone is genuinely interested they will ask questions based on YOUR RESULTS. Be encouraged and KEEP POSITIVELY GROWING…

The number 2 strategy to maintain your confidence

2. Find others who share your perspective

Though the spiritual path is in essence an individual endeavor, it is good and necessary to find other people who are seeking a spiritual connection with the All as well. You need to share experiences, your difficulties, your wins, you need to have the ability to ask questions of people in person and not just online.

It may feel overwhelming and demoralizing to honestly want to better yourself and yet receive criticism for your authenticity and the desire to know yourself at the deepest level but, you don't have to face it alone. 

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Jassiri Nassor, Spiritual Life Coach

Jassiri Nassor, an expert in esoteric studies and spiritual exploration, embarked on a transformative journey over 13 years ago. Through deep dives into Hermeticism, Tarot, Numerology, and more, Nassor gained profound insights into ancient wisdom. With a background in education and a passion for guiding others, Nassor's mission is clear: illuminating paths to personal enlightenment and self-discovery. Explore Nassor's articles to embark on your own transformative journey today.