Why the Wound Blocking Your Orgasm Could Also Be Blocking Your Bank Account
- Brainz Magazine
- May 7
- 4 min read
Updated: May 11
Ramona Robinson, founder of RoRa Hypnosis, blends personal resilience with professional expertise, guiding individuals on transformative paths. Drawing from diverse life experiences, including triumphs over cancer, she helps them rediscover the joy and vitality of life, reclaiming strength with newfound resilience and hope.
Many of us carry unhealed emotional wounds that silently shape our lives, often in ways we don’t realize. What if the very pain disrupting your pleasure is also disrupting your prosperity? In this article, we explore how unresolved trauma can create energetic blockages that limit both sexual fulfillment and financial abundance.
Can’t climax? Can’t cash in?
It might be the same problem.
The key to more income and more intimacy?
Learning to receive—without apology.
When pleasure and prosperity feel equally out of reach
You’ve done the work.
Read the books.
Repeated affirmations until you were blue in the face.
Taken every abundance mindset course out there.
Still, you’re stuck.
Exhausted.
Maybe even … numb.
And your sex life? Feels eerily similar.
What if it’s not two separate problems?
What if the same core wound is quietly limiting your capacity for both orgasm and income?
The wound that keeps us from receiving
There’s a hidden pattern at play.
To receive wealth or pleasure, we must feel safe receiving.
Not earning.
Not proving.
Not performing.
Just receiving.
But many of us never learned how.
We were taught that needing is weakness, asking is selfish, and giving is noble—even when it depletes us.
So instead of opening to receive, we overgive, disconnect, and resist what we crave. And we call it love. Or professionalism. Or humility.
The culture of performance
Whether it’s the boardroom or the bedroom, we’ve been taught to perform.
Be sexy, but not too sexy.
Be confident, but not arrogant.
Be successful, but never intimidating.
So we adjust.
We seek approval.
We live in our heads.
But performance isn’t magnetic.
Presence is.
Presence lives in the body
Something powerful happens when we stop outsourcing our worth and return to ourselves.
When we drop out of the mind and into the body.
We reconnect with truth.
Boundaries become clear.
Pleasure becomes real.
Desire awakens.
This isn’t just mindfulness. It’s embodiment.
Being in your body enough to feel, discern, and receive.
When you’re embodied, you’re no longer guessing or grasping.
You know what feels right, and you move from that truth.
You don’t need hours of meditation or a sacred ritual to begin. Start small:
Notice your breath
Pay attention to sensation
Let emotion rise without judgment
This is where power lives—not in the hustle, but in the felt, honest now.
Receiving starts with safety
You may understand abundance intellectually.
But when more is offered—touch, money, visibility—you contract.
Why?
Because your nervous system isn’t wired for receiving.
It’s wired for surviving.
These moments speak volumes:
You deflect compliments
You raise your rates, then panic
A partner reaches for you … and you disconnect
These aren’t quirks. They’re cues.
Messages from your body saying:
“This doesn’t feel safe.”
Exploring the origin of the block
Transformation doesn’t begin with fixing. It begins with curiosity.
When did you first learn that receiving wasn’t safe?
Whose love did you have to earn?
What did you internalize about wanting more?
What are you afraid might happen if you get everything you desire? The answers aren’t just in your thoughts.
They live in your body—your posture, your energy, your habits.
This isn’t about doing more
You don’t need more strategies.
You don’t need perfect affirmations.
You need to feel again.
To tend to the part of you that braces.
That got used to disappointment.
That confused overgiving with love.
Healing isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about returning to who you were before the world taught you to shrink.
From disconnected to magnetic
The shift is subtle, but powerful.
You speak clearly
You charge fully
You receive compliments and gifts with ease
You welcome intimacy without flinching '
You stop performing.
You start embodying.
Creating safety in the body
So how do we begin?
Not with force.
Not with more mindset work.
But with curiosity, gentleness, and small acts of reconnection:
Breathwork: Slow, deep breaths signal to your body that it’s safe
Movement: Let your body express—dance, stretch, walk
Reflection: Notice when you resist goodness and explore why
Compassion: Meet discomfort like a child needing care—not a flaw to fix
Your body already holds the wisdom.
It just needs a safe space to remember.
You were meant to receive
With ease.
With joy.
With openness.
The same nervous system that braces can soften.
The same body that overperforms can rest.
And when it does:
Your bedroom becomes a space for connection
Your business becomes a channel for impact
Your life begins to turn you on
This isn’t a quick fix – It’s a quiet revolution
One that begins when you stop asking,
What’s wrong with me?
And decide,
I am safe to receive.
Read more from Ramona Robinson
Ramona Robinson, Hypnotherapist & Mindset Coach
Ramona Robinson, founder of RoRa Hypnosis, is a seasoned hypnotist and mindset coach dedicated to guiding individuals on transformative journeys. With a compassionate approach and a wealth of personal and professional experience, she empowers clients to overcome challenges, reclaim their strength, and embrace life with renewed resilience and hope. Through her work, Ramona aims to inspire others to discover their inner power and live authentically.
