Written by: Brooke Summer Adams, Senior Level Executive Contributor
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Embarking on the journey of becoming a coach is an empowering decision, but it often comes with a shadow companion – the inner critic. This voice of self-doubt can be particularly loud for new coaches who are navigating the transition from preparation to action. Brooke Summer Adams – an Internationally Accredited Mindset Transformation Coach, rated Top-10 for Coaches – globally, and International 1 Best-Selling Author – works closely with first-time coaches to help them become the coach within them who has what it takes to create their vision. She is here with us today to explain the dynamics of the inner critic and discuss strategies to unmask and overcome this common obstacle on the path to coaching success.
The inner critic's role in self-doubt
The inner critic is that nagging voice in your head that questions your abilities, undermines your achievements, and fosters self-doubt. As a new coach, the desire to be perfect and fear of judgment can amplify the inner critic's influence. It often manifests as thoughts like, "Am I good enough to help others?" or "What if I fail, and everyone sees it?"
Recognizing the impact
The inner critic can paralyze progress, hinder authentic expression, and impede the very action necessary for a successful coaching career. Procrastination, perfectionism, and the fear of being seen can all be traced back to the influence of this internal adversary. To navigate the path from doubt to confidence, unmasking the inner critic becomes essential.
Strategies for unmasking the inner critic
1. Awareness and identification
Begin by recognizing when the inner critic is at play. Pay attention to negative self-talk and the moments when self-doubt creeps in. Identifying these instances is the first step in dismantling their power.
2. Challenge negative thoughts
Actively challenge negative thoughts by asking yourself questions like, "Is this thought based on evidence, or is it a fear?" Challenge the validity of your inner critic's claims and replace negative thoughts with affirmations of your capabilities.
3. Embrace imperfection
Understand that perfection is an unattainable goal. Embrace the concept of imperfect action, knowing that taking small steps forward is more valuable than waiting for the perfect moment. This mindset shift can significantly weaken the grip of the inner critic.
4. Celebrate small wins
Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Recognizing your progress reinforces positive self-regard and counteracts the tendencies of the inner critic to undermine your capabilities.
5. Seek support
Share your thoughts and fears with a trusted mentor, coach, or supportive community. Often, an external perspective can provide valuable insights and help you realize that you are not alone in facing these challenges.You can connect with Brooke by using any of the links below.
Navigating self-doubt as a new coach is an integral part of the journey toward success. By unmasking the inner critic and implementing strategies to counter its influence, you can cultivate a mindset of confidence and authenticity. Remember that self-doubt is a common companion on the path to greatness, and with each step forward, you are silencing the inner critic and stepping into the powerful role of a new coach.
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Brooke Summer Adams, Senior Level Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine 1 International Best-Selling Author, Workshop Facilitator For The Worlds 1 Coaching Academy, A Top 10 Female Life Coach – Globally, An International Speaker And Trainer, A Senior Level Executive Contributor For Brainz Magazine And FOUNDER Of ‘The Ready, Set, GLOW’ Programme – Helping First Time Coaches To Transform, So They Feel Ready To Transform Others.
Inspired by first-hand experience of overcoming hardship and transformation, Brooke began her journey to become a Coach. Initially convinced that her personal experience, qualifications, and expertise would empower her to change not only her own life but also the lives of other women, she was surprised to find herself feeling severely out of her depths. The fear of judgment prevented her from showing up confidently and acquiring clients. Lacking confidence in her ability to make the desired impact, she procrastinated and failed to take action. She became paralyzed by the overwhelming steps involved in launching her business. This lack of results convinced her that she was unworthy and incapable of being the coach she truly wanted to be. She felt like an imposter, fearing that others would see her in the same way. After hiring a coach to help her do the work on herself, everything changed. She left her 9-5 job, made a MASSIVE impact on women's lives, and gained recognition as one of the world's top-10 female life coaches. This led to her being contracted as a Coaching Advisor for the world's largest online coaching community, assisting other first-time coaches in their journeys. This experience led her to realize that most first-time coaches face similar obstacles of fear, doubt, and concern for others' opinions. She understood the importance of confidence in coaching, the futility of a killer business strategy without implementation, and the limitations of constant planning and learning without taking action. This realization led her to create her Ready, Set, GLOW program, enabling other first-time coaches to transform themselves into versions capable of creating their vision.
Brooke Summer Adams is an internationally accredited Mindset-Transformation Coach, master-level certified in NLP, advanced-level certified in Holistic Modalities, and holds a 1st Class Honors Degree in Psychology (BS.c).
