Redefining Success by Balancing Leadership, Ambition, and Personal Fulfillment
- Brainz Magazine
- Feb 19
- 3 min read
Marline C. Duroseau is well-known when it comes to empowering women, leadership and infertility support. She is the founder of MCD Business Enterprise LLC, where Women Matter is a company dedicated to all things women for ultimate personal development! Marline is a speaker and the author of 3 books, including It'll Happen By 30, published in 2021.
Leadership often comes with a heavy price: long hours, high expectations, and the pressure to perform. Many leaders find themselves caught in a cycle of achievement, chasing external success while quietly feeling drained, unfulfilled, or disconnected from their deeper values. But what if success didn’t have to come at the cost of well-being?
How leaders can thrive without sacrificing their values or well-being
Personal experience:
For years, I defined success by traditional measures: career achievements, titles, and milestones. But as a C-suite executive, infertility survivor, and mother, I’ve learned that true success lies in balance. Finding fulfillment meant aligning my career with my values and prioritizing what matters most: my family, my purpose, and my well-being. This shift helped me redefine success on my own terms and inspired me to guide others in doing the same.
7 ways to redefine success and achieve balance
1. Identify your core values
Success feels empty when it conflicts with your values. Take time to define what truly matters, whether it’s family, purpose, or personal growth and let those guide your decisions.
2. Prioritize self-care without guilt
As leaders, we often put ourselves last, but self-care is non-negotiable. Schedule time for rest, hobbies, or wellness activities to maintain your energy and focus.
Reference: Studies by the World Economic Forum highlight the role of self-care in preventing burnout.
3. Set boundaries that protect your peace
Success isn’t worth sacrificing your mental health. Establish boundaries with work and personal commitments to create space for what truly fulfills you.
4. Define success for yourself
Reject societal pressures to conform to one-size-fits-all definitions of success. For me, success means empowering others through my coaching programs and honoring my family’s legacy.
5. Embrace flexibility in your goals
Life evolves, and so should your ambitions. Be open to adjusting your goals as circumstances change. My journey from executive leadership to coaching and writing was fueled by this flexibility.
6. Celebrate intangible wins
Success isn’t just about metrics; it’s about impact. Whether mentoring a future leader or inspiring women through my resilience story, I’ve found fulfillment in the influence I’ve had on others.
7. Seek support when needed
Thriving requires a community. Rely on mentors, coaches, and loved ones to help you balance ambition with fulfillment.
Conclusion
Success is not a destination; it’s a journey shaped by your values and aspirations. If you’re ready to redefine success and find balance in your leadership and personal life, let’s connect. Together, we can create a personalized plan for achieving your goals without compromising your well-being.
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Marline C. Duroseau, Author, Speaker, Financial and Leadership Executive
Marline C. Duroseau is a thought leader in the infertility support realm, executive leadership, and women's empowerment and confidence building. As a child born in Miami, FL, to Haitian immigrants, Marline created a path to her success by focusing on garnering an extensive educational background that catapulted her to dramatically enhance her financial and leadership performance during her 22-year career. After also enduring and overcoming a 15-year infertility journey, she has since dedicated her life to helping people on their family-building journey and helping women unleash their inherent power and confidence. She is the Founder of MCD Business Enterprise, LLC (MCDBE), the premiere company for women, with the slogan: Women Matter!
