Leading the Team Meeting for the First Time Is a Transformative Journey for Women Leaders
- Brainz Magazine
- May 19
- 4 min read
Dr. Zoran M. Pavlovic is a Board-Certified Psychiatrist and a Certified Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT) Psychotherapist trained by the Albert Ellis Institute in New York. Additionally, he is a Certified Coach from the Henley Business School Coaches Center at the University of Reading, UK, and a Certified Executive Recovery and Wellness Coach from the Academy of Executive Coaching (AoEC). He also holds the International Coaching Federation (ICF) ACC Credential.
In recent years, the landscape of leadership has undergone a significant transformation, marked by increasing representation of women in managerial and executive roles. Yet, for many women stepping into leadership for the first time, especially in team meetings, the experience can be both exhilarating and daunting. This article explores the nuances of leading a team meeting for the first time as a woman leader, offering insights, strategies, and inspiration to empower emerging leaders to succeed.
The weight and growth of first-time leadership
Leading a team meeting for the first time is more than a procedural milestone; it is a rite of passage that signifies trust, authority, and professional growth. According to studies by McKinsey & Company, women in leadership often face unique challenges such as gender biases and societal expectations, which can influence their confidence and authority in these settings. Therefore, navigating this initial experience successfully can set the tone for future leadership journeys.
Overcoming imposter syndrome
Many women leaders experience imposter syndrome, doubting their abilities despite evident competence. According to Harvard Business Review, about 70% of women in leadership roles have felt imposter syndrome at some point. Recognizing this phenomenon is the first step toward overcoming it. Preparing thoroughly for the meeting, setting clear objectives, and reminding oneself of one's expertise can bolster confidence.
Preparation is key
Effective leadership begins with meticulous preparation. Before the meeting, a woman leader should:
Define clear objectives: What are the key messages or decisions needed? Setting a purpose ensures focus.
Understand participants: Know about their roles, concerns, and contributions—this fosters inclusiveness.
Prepare an agenda: Structured agendas guide the discussion, keep it on track, and demonstrate professionalism.
Anticipate questions: Anticipating possible queries and concerns paints a confident image and facilitates smoother communication.
Research published in the Leadership Quarterly emphasizes that preparation correlates strongly with perceived confidence and effectiveness, especially for first-time leaders.
Building authority and presence
Establishing authority without dominating is an art. Women often navigate societal stereotypes that can subtly undermine their authority. Techniques to build presence include:
Confident body language: Maintaining eye contact, upright posture, and deliberate gestures.
Clear communication: Speaking with clarity and assertiveness, avoiding filler words.
Active listening: Demonstrating genuine interest and engaging participants thoughtfully.
Fostering inclusivity and engagement
An effective leader cultivates an environment where all voices are heard. During the meeting:
Encourage participation: Ask quieter members open-ended questions.
Acknowledge contributions: Validating ideas boosts morale and engagement.
Manage dominance: Politely redirect conversations if someone monopolizes the discussion.
Inclusivity promotes diverse perspectives and reinforces the leader’s role as a facilitator rather than just an authority figure.
Handling challenges and biases
Women leaders might encounter biases or resistance, whether explicit or implicit. Addressing these requires tact:
Stay calm and composed: Emotional reactions can undermine authority.
Assert boundaries: Politely but firmly redirect inappropriate comments.
Seek support: Building alliances with colleagues or mentors provides reinforcement.
Research from the Catalyst organization highlights that women who proactively address biases are more likely to be respected and to advance into leadership roles.
Self-reflection and growth
Post-meeting reflection is crucial. Consider what went well and what could improve. This iterative process builds confidence and competence. Seeking feedback from trusted colleagues can provide valuable insights.
Inspiration from successful women leaders
Many women have navigated this journey before, offering inspiration. For instance, Reshma Saujani, founder of Girls Who Code, emphasizes that "leadership is about vulnerability and authenticity." Her approach underscores the importance of embracing one’s unique leadership style and voice.
Another example is Jacinda Ardern, former Prime Minister of New Zealand, whose empathetic yet decisive leadership style demonstrates that authenticity resonates powerfully, even in formal settings.
Conclusion
Leading a team meeting for the first time as a woman can be a transformative experience, an opportunity to demonstrate competence, build authority, and foster collaboration. Preparation, confidence, inclusivity, and resilience are key to transforming challenges into leadership success. As society continues to challenge stereotypes and amplify women’s voices, the future of leadership belongs increasingly to those who lead with authenticity and courage.
By embracing these principles, first-time women leaders can not only succeed in their initial meetings but also pave the way for broader influence, inspiring others to follow suit. Remember, every leader starts somewhere; what matters most is the vision and integrity brought to each step of the journey.
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Dr. Zoran M. Pavlovic, Certified Executive and Recovery and Wellness Coach
Dr. Zoran M. Pavlovic is a Board-Certified Psychiatrist and a Certified Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT) Psychotherapist trained at the Albert Ellis Institute in New York. He is also a Certified Coach from the Henley Business School Coaches Center at the University of Reading, UK. He holds credentials as a Certified Executive Recovery and Wellness Coach from the Academy of Executive Coaching (AoEC). He practices Buddhist meditation, and in 2017, he completed the Mindfulness Tools Course at the Center for Mindfulness, University of Massachusetts, in the United States. Additionally, he is an accredited ACC Coach with the International Coaching Federation (ICF). In 2024, he received the CEO Today award for Best Women's Leadership Development and Well-Being Programs.
