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Hormones, Not Willpower, Are the Real Reason You Can't Lose Weight and How to Fix It Naturally

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Dec 8
  • 4 min read

Betiana Marquez is a Holistic Nutrition & Hormone Health Coach with a degree in Food Science. She specializes in weight loss through hormonal balance and personalized nutrition, targeting underlying causes, empowering clients with tools and strategies for lasting health.

Executive Contributor Betiana Marquez

Millions of women struggle with a frustrating truth, they eat healthy, they exercise, they try every new diet and still don’t lose weight. If this sounds like you, you’re not failing, your hormones are asking for help.


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For years, the wellness world has repeated the same advice:


  • “Eat less.”

  • “Cut carbs.”

  • “Train harder.”


But when your hormones are out of balance, these strategies can actually backfire. As a certified holistic nutrition and hormone health coach, I’ve seen this pattern in hundreds of women. They’re disciplined, committed, and doing “everything right.” Yet their metabolism doesn’t respond, or even slows down. The reason? Sustainable fat loss is not about restriction, it’s about hormonal regulation. And the three hormones with the biggest impact are: Cortisol, Insulin, and Thyroid Hormones.


The hormonal trifecta behind stubborn weight


1. Cortisol: The stress signal that blocks fat burning


Cortisol is designed to protect you, but when it stays high for too long due to stress, poor sleep, or irregular eating patterns, it sends your body into “survival mode.”


High cortisol can:

  • Increase belly fat

  • Trigger cravings

  • Slow thyroid function

  • Elevate blood sugar

  • Increase inflammation

Many women eating clean still struggle because their metabolism is constantly being slowed by stress-driven cortisol spikes.


Balancing cortisol isn’t about “eliminating stress”, it’s about regulating your nervous system through habits like:

  • balanced meals

  • sunlight exposure

  • breathwork

  • gentle movement

  • proper sleep hygiene


2. Insulin: The hormone that decides whether you store or burn fat


If cortisol is the stress signal, insulin is the storage signal. Every time your blood sugar spikes from refined carbs, snacking, emotional eating, or skipping meals, insulin rises. And when insulin stays elevated throughout the day, fat burning becomes almost impossible.


Insulin imbalance leads to:

  • weight gain

  • constant hunger

  • energy crashes

  • evening cravings

  • fat accumulation around the belly

Balancing insulin isn’t about eliminating carbs, it’s about eating them in the right combinations and at the right time, with:

  • protein

  • fiber

  • healthy fats

  • slow-digesting whole foods

When insulin stabilizes, the metabolism wakes up quickly.


3. Thyroid: The engine of your metabolism


Your thyroid hormones control how efficiently your body burns calories, uses energy, and regulates temperature, digestion, and mood. But here’s the part most women don’t realize, cortisol and insulin imbalances can suppress thyroid function.


That’s why many women experience:


  • weight gain

  • fatigue

  • cold hands and feet

  • constipation

  • bloating

  • mood changes


Even when eating clean and exercising.

Supporting thyroid hormones naturally means:

  • stabilizing blood sugar

  • lowering stress

  • restoring key nutrients (iodine, selenium, zinc)

  • balancing your circadian rhythm (your sleep-wake cycle)

When the thyroid is supported, the entire metabolism shifts.


Other hidden factors that make weight loss harder


Although the “big three” (cortisol, insulin, thyroid) are the main drivers, your weight loss resistance can have other common contributors:


  • Gut imbalances: An unhealthy microbiome impacts digestion, cravings, fat storage, and inflammation.

  • Poor sleep: Sleeping less than seven hours raises cortisol and increases appetite.

  • Research shows that poor sleepers have a higher BMI and more belly fat.

  • Estrogen/progesterone imbalance: Estrogen dominance, PMS, heavy periods, and perimenopause symptoms often accompany slower weight loss.

  • Blue-light exposure at night: This disrupts melatonin, sleep, insulin sensitivity, and fat metabolism.

  • These factors don’t replace the big three, they amplify them.


Why dieting harder doesn’t work


Extreme dieting and intense training increase cortisol, disrupt blood sugar, and slow thyroid function even further. Your body doesn’t need more discipline. It needs restoration, not restriction.


My approach focuses on reversing weight loss resistance through three foundational pillars:


  1. Personalized nutrition: Meals designed to stabilize insulin and cortisol, tailored to your symptoms and hormonal patterns.

  2. Targeted supplementation: Natural support (e.g., magnesium, adaptogens, omega-3, B vitamins, liver support, myo-inositol, etc.) depending on your hormonal needs, not based on trends.

  3. Lifestyle reset: Circadian alignment, stress reduction, appropriate movement, and sleep optimization.

When these systems return to balance, fat loss becomes natural instead of forced.


Real transformation without restriction


When I help women identify which hormone is out of balance, whether cortisol, insulin, thyroid, estrogen, progesterone, or testosterone, their weight begins to shift without extreme rules.


My client's experience:

  • reduced bloating

  • fewer cravings

  • more energy

  • better sleep

  • improved mood

  • steady, effortless fat loss

Because when your hormones are aligned, your metabolism works with you, not against you.


The natural solution that works


If your body feels stuck, it’s not a lack of effort, it’s a lack of hormonal clarity. Through my Hormone Balance Program, you discover:

  • which specific hormone is blocking your weight loss

  • how to rebalance it naturally

  • and receive a 1-month personalized meal plan tailored to your hormonal profile

This is not a diet. It’s your body’s blueprint.


Ready to finally understand your hormones?


If you’ve tried everything and still can’t lose weight, it’s time to stop guessing. Discover your hormonal imbalance here. You deserve to feel lighter, energized, and balanced, naturally.


Follow me on FacebookInstagramLinkedIn, and visit my website for more info!

Read more from Betiana Marquez

Betiana Marquez, Holistic Nutrition & Hormone Coach

Betiana Marquez is a Holistic Nutrition & Hormone Health Coach with a degree in Food Science. Having personally struggled with weight loss due to hormonal imbalances, she understands what it takes to achieve lasting results. Betiana helps clients reach their wellness and weight loss goals through hormonal balance and personalized nutrition targeting underlying causes. She empowers clients with practical tools, like reading food labels and creating sustainable lifestyle habits. Her holistic approach focuses on long-term results tailored to each individual’s unique biology and goals.

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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