Don’t Be Afraid to Start All Over Again, You May Like Your New Story Better
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Written by Dilan Abeya, Mindset & Life Coach
Dilan Abeya is the founder of a company that builds Bespoke AI Persona's, having previously been an Investment Banker and model-based in the UK. Abeya also has a mentoring company that uses an AI version of himself, "AI DILAN," on its platform.
For a long time, my identity was easy to explain. I was a J.P. Morgan equities sales-trader, operating in global risk markets, trusted with capital, relationships, and high-pressure decisions. The role rewarded discipline, precision, and performance. From the outside, it looked like a completed story, successful, defined, and stable.
But internally, it had stopped evolving. After nearly 15 years in financial markets at JPM, I began to notice something that had little to do with price action and everything to do with people. Everywhere I looked, I saw extraordinary human expertise, founders, consultants, operators, creators, all carrying deep knowledge and hard-earned judgement.
Yet that expertise was constrained by the same limits time, bandwidth, and burnout. The more valuable someone’s expertise became, the more trapped they were by it. That realisation became the start of my reinvention.
When identity becomes the bottleneck
Leaving a successful career is rarely dramatic. It doesn’t happen in a single bold moment. It begins quietly, with discomfort, persistent questions, and the growing sense that optimising harder no longer moves you forward.
In financial markets, leverage is everything. You look for asymmetric outcomes, small inputs that create outsized results. Outside of markets, I saw the opposite, smart, capable people trading more of themselves for diminishing returns.
The problem wasn’t a lack of tools.It wasn’t even a lack of technology. It was identity. Expertise was inseparable from the individual who held it, meaning scale always came at a personal cost.
Most AI solutions I encountered focused on automation, removing humans from processes. Useful, yes. But something was missing. Automation stripped out judgement. Chatbots talked, but didn’t understand. Efficiency improved, but authenticity disappeared.
So instead of asking, “What can we automate?” I asked a different question: What if we could digitise the person instead?
The birth of AI personas
That question led to the founding of yoorz.ai and the concept of AI Personas. An AI Persona isn’t a chatbot or a virtual assistant. It’s a digital extension of a human being’s expertise, their thinking patterns, decision-making frameworks, communication style, and lived experience.
In other words, it’s identity encoded into a scalable asset. To test the idea properly, I started with myself. I built AI DILAN, not as a product demo, but as an experiment and a legacy to leave for my family. What happens when your expertise is no longer bound to your physical presence? When your knowledge can engage, educate, and create value without you being there?
The result was confronting and clarifying. For the first time, my experience could scale without burning me out. It could exist independently. It could earn. That’s when it became clear, AI Personas aren’t a feature. They’re a new category.
AI that earns, not just talks
The AI conversation today is noisy. Everyone is launching tools. Everyone is automating workflows. Everyone promises speed and efficiency. But efficiency isn’t the real bottleneck.
Trust is. Judgement is. Human expertise is.
At yoorz.ai, we work with founders, experts, and creators whose knowledge is the business. They don’t need more content, dashboards, or notifications. They need leverage, without dilution.
AI Personas provide that leverage. They allow people to scale their impact and income without cloning themselves, without being permanently “on,” and without losing the human essence that made them valuable in the first place. This is AI that earns, not just talks.
Reinvention First. Infrastructure Second.
Reinvention doesn’t start with a website.It starts with identity. Only once that identity is clear does infrastructure make sense. Platforms, brands, and systems are consequences, not causes. They exist to support a clearer story, not to announce one.
That sequencing matters.
When you lead with identity:
Authority comes before visibility
Meaning comes before marketing
Substance comes before amplification
This is how reinvention compounds rather than becomes noise.
Writing a new story
Starting over isn’t about failure.It’s about honesty. It’s about recognising that who you were no longer fully represents who you are becoming, and having the courage to act on that truth.
In an AI-driven world, the future won’t belong to those who automate the most tasks. It will belong to those who understand how to scale who they are. AI Personas aren’t about replacing humans.They’re about preserving and amplifying human value.
And for anyone standing at a crossroads, wondering whether it’s too late to begin again, I’ll leave you with this, don’t be afraid to start all over again. You may like your new story better.
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Dilan Abeya, Mindset & Life Coach
Dilan Abeya is the founder of a company that builds Bespoke AI Persona's, having previously been an investment banker and model-based in the UK. Abeya is also the founder of a mentoring company that uses an AI version of himself, "AI DILAN," on its platform. He was born in London with Sri Lankan heritage. He did his schooling at the University of Leeds, gaining a joint honours degree in Japanese and Economics. Abeya has been credited as the UK's top model and financial personality by Entrepreneur and Forbes. He’s an ex-JPM, having started his career at Merrill Lynch as a trader, working in London and New York.
