Coaching the Person First – How One Class at Seventeen Shaped a Philosophy of Impact
- Brainz Magazine
- 2 days ago
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Updated: 2 days ago
Written by Aaron Rusnak, Innovation Tennis Coach
Aaron Rusnak is a 30-year tennis industry leader, mentor, and innovator recognized for shaping elite player and coach development through his forward-thinking methodologies, data-driven, and mentorship initiatives.
At seventeen, one unexpected coaching assignment quietly reshaped how I understood leadership. What began as a simple tennis class became a defining lesson in empathy, creativity, and human connection, shaping a lifelong philosophy rooted in coaching the person first and recognizing that true impact extends far beyond performance, titles, or results.
From a young age, I dreamed of becoming a professional tennis player. I trained relentlessly, structured my life around competition, and believed that playing at the highest level would define my future. Yet even as I pursued that dream, something else was quietly developing within me. By the time I was thirteen, I already loved coaching. My first coach, a female professional who worked with me early in my development, recognized this passion before I fully did. She didn’t just see a young athlete, she saw someone who genuinely cared about helping others learn and improve.
At seventeen, coaching felt like something I did between tournaments, not my future. I taught toddlers, middle school players, and adult beginners at a club nearly an hour and a half from home. My full-time coach at the time consistently challenged me, reminding me that if I couldn’t help beginners improve, I would never fully understand how to help advanced players grow long term.
“Great coaches are built by learning to serve others before serving their own ambition.”
One Saturday afternoon, my coach assigned me a class without telling me what level it would be. When a small yellow bus pulled into the parking lot, I immediately knew this session would be different. One by one, players stepped off, each with unique physical, cognitive, or developmental challenges. Standing there, I felt unprepared, anxious, and deeply responsible.
That day, coaching stopped being about instruction and became about empathy. With the help of an assistant, I designed creative lessons focused on consistency, engagement, and confidence, adapting every activity to the individual. I learned that creativity, patience, and belief could unlock potential where traditional instruction often falls short.
“The most meaningful victories often have nothing to do with the scoreboard.”
Week by week, I watched confidence replace hesitation. Players became more engaged, more empowered, and more proud of what they could accomplish. When the program ended, families shared how meaningful the experience had been for their children. Decades later, those players remain vivid in my memory, having shaped who I am as both a coach and a person.
As my career evolved, I realized my greatest impact would come from helping other coaches grow. When you coach coaches, your influence multiplies, extending into families, communities, and future generations.
That experience at seventeen continues to guide me today. I believe leadership begins with understanding the person in front of you, how they think, how they learn, and who they are beyond the surface. Growth does not come from comfort, but from curiosity, empathy, and the courage to lead with purpose.
Aaron Rusnak, Innovation Tennis Coach
Aaron Rusnak is a 30-year tennis industry leader, coach, and inspirational speaker known for developing players and coaches at every level of the game. As Director of Private Instruction at Five Star Tennis and founder of Innovation Tennis Coaching, he blends data-driven performance with mentorship and leadership education. A former USTA Pro Circuit competitor and GPTCA ATP Tour Coach, Aaron's passion lies in helping others grow through connection, purpose, and self-belief. Through his inspirational speaking, educational programs, and The Ripple Effect Podcast, he continues to empower coaches and players worldwide to lead, learn, and make a lasting impact both on and off the court.
