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- 250 Years, Where Do We Go From Here?
Written by William Davis, Leadership Blueprint Consultant William Davis is a leadership expert, speaker, and mentor dedicated to helping executives, managers, and aspiring leaders develop the skills to lead confidently and successfully. July 4th marks a monumental point in history for the United States, our 250th birthday. Unfortunately, when we discuss the price paid for the freedom we enjoy, the axiom is true, out of sight, out of mind. To all generations alive today, we have to ask the following question. Do you know what the men who fought in the Revolutionary War and who signed the Declaration of Independence were actually risking? Not their reputations. Not their careers. Not friendships. Their lives. Their families. Their land. Everything that they held precious in life. It is believed that between 250,000 and 375,000 Patriots fought for the cause of freedom in total. That is about 10% of the total colonial population at that time. Fifty-six men signed the Declaration of Independence. Nine died in the war that followed. Five were captured and tortured. Twelve had their homes burned to ash. Seventeen lost everything they had built. These weren't rebels looking for a fight. They were business owners, ministers, lawyers, and farmers who had families to feed and futures to protect, just like we do. The difference is that they looked at the most powerful military empire in the world and chose freedom over safety. That choice cost blood. Real blood. On real ground. I think most of us have forgotten that. But let me make sure you understand what risk actually meant in 1776, because we've watered it down into a bumper sticker. These men weren't broke. They weren't desperate. They weren't people with nothing to lose. They were the most successful, most established men in the colonies. Merchants, plantation owners, judges, physicians. They had built wealth, built standing, built lives that most people around them would have envied. They put every single bit of it on the table. When you signed that document, you signed a death warrant. Not a metaphorical one. The British Crown called it treason, and treason had one sentence. You would hang. Publicly. You were made an example. The British made sure everyone understood that. They didn't just come for the men. They came for the families. Francis Lewis signed the Declaration, and the British burned his home to the ground and threw his wife in prison. She was given no bed, no change of clothes, no basic provisions. She died from what they did to her. Lewis buried her and kept going. Thomas Nelson Jr. signed it, and when the war reached his home in Virginia, he found out that British General Cornwallis had taken his personal estate as his military headquarters. Nelson turned to Washington and told him to open fire on his own house. His own home. Because defeating the British mattered more than saving what he'd built. Carter Braxton of Virginia signed it and lost his entire fleet of merchant ships to the British Navy. He sold off his properties to help fund the war. He died poor. Robert Morris signed it and spent his personal fortune financing the Continental Army, literally writing checks out of his own accounts to keep Washington's men fed and armed when Congress couldn't or wouldn't. He later went bankrupt. Richard Stockton of New Jersey signed it, was captured by the British, beaten, thrown into prison, and treated so brutally that he broke, the only signer who ever recanted his signature under that kind of pressure. He came home to find his estate ransacked, his papers burned, his horses stolen. He never recovered his health. He died at fifty-one, broken and impoverished, his land mortgaged to feed his own family. John Hart of New Jersey signed it and spent the following months hiding in the woods and caves around his farm while the British hunted him. His wife died while he was in hiding. He couldn't even go home to bury her. When he finally made it back, the farm was destroyed, and his children had scattered. He died the following year, some say, from the grief alone. I don't want you to read those as history. I want you to feel what this country actually costs the people who built it. Benjamin Franklin was seventy years old when he picked up that pen. Seventy. He knew exactly what he was doing. When someone in the room made a nervous joke about the need for them all to hang together, Franklin didn't laugh it off. He said, "Yes, we must indeed all hang together, or most assuredly we shall all hang separately." He wasn't joking either. The British offered pardons. Multiple times. All you had to do was denounce your actions and feelings, swear loyalty to the Crown, and you could keep your land, your business, your family, your life. Most of these men said no. Not because they were reckless. Because they were convinced, down to the bone, that what they were building was worth more than what they were risking. Nobody was coming to save them. No backup. No way out. Just the thing they believed in and the will to see it through. So when I say most of us have forgotten, I don't mean a date on a calendar. I mean, we've forgotten the people who paid for every freedom you woke up with this morning. Out of their actions and their courage, a Constitutional Republic was born. Here's something else most of us have forgotten. We are not a democracy. Hopefully, that's going to stop you and cause you to think. Good. It should. The men who built this country read history. They knew exactly what pure democracy looked like, and they wanted no part of it. James Madison said it was "a spectacle of turbulence and contention." John Adams said it murders itself. They weren't being dramatic. They had watched it happen. So they built something different. A Constitutional Republic. Here's the difference, and it matters more right now than it ever has. In a democracy, the majority wins. All the time. Every time. Which means your rights exist only as long as enough people agree to let you keep them. Fifty-one percent of the room can take from the other forty-nine, legally. That's not freedom. That's a mob with a voting booth. In a Constitutional Republic, your rights don't come from the government. They don't come from a vote. They don't come from what's popular right now. They come from God, and the Constitution's only job is to make sure the government keeps its hands off them. That's not a small distinction. That is the whole point of leadership. What we're watching happen in this country right now is not a policy disagreement. It is counter to the ideals under which we were established. Some will say Democratic socialism, and in many cases, communistic rhetoric, sounds reasonable. It sounds kind, even. The government steps in, takes care of people, and makes things fair. How about getting things for free? Who could argue with that? I can, and I will. Because when the government takes on the job of deciding what's fair, it also takes on the job of deciding who deserves what. Once that door opens, it doesn't close. It never has. Not once in the history of the world. You give the government enough control over your income, your property, and your choices, and you stop being a citizen. You become a dependent. Dependents don't have rights. They have allowances. Nothing is free! Everything has a price. The question is what it is and who pays. That's not a theory. That's a pattern that has repeated itself in every country that has walked that road, every single time. When Marxist ideas start showing up in our classrooms dressed up as progress, when individual liberty gets reframed as selfishness, when personal responsibility gets replaced with collective guilt, we are not debating economics anymore. We are fighting for the foundation this country was built on. Here is my ask on America's 250th birthday. Before you fire up the grill and watch the fireworks, stop for one minute and actually think about what you're celebrating. Think about Valley Forge. Winter of 1777. Twenty-some-odd degrees below zero. Washington's army had no food, no medicine, and no shoes. No shoes. Men were wrapping their feet in rags and leaving bloody footprints in the snow just walking from their huts to the fire. They weren't fighting the British that winter. They were just trying to stay alive. Nearly 2,000 of them didn't make it, not from bullets, but from cold, starvation, pneumonia, typhus, and dysentery. They stayed. At least 17,000 died in the war from illnesses like typhus, smallpox, and dysentery, which spread rapidly through military camps and overcrowded British prison ships. The winter at Morristown two years later was worse. Six blizzards. Snow is piling up to six feet. Soldiers eating fire-cakes, flour, water, and nothing else, when they had anything at all. Some of them chewed on bark. Some boiled their own leather. Washington wrote letter after letter to Congress begging for supplies that never came, and they stayed. Smallpox tore through the ranks. Washington made a decision that was considered dangerous and controversial at the time, he inoculated the entire army. Soldiers got sick from the inoculation before they got immune. They lay in their own sweat in freezing barracks with no guarantee they'd survive it, and stayed. Nobody was coming to save them. No backup. No way out. Just the ideals they believed in and the will to see them through. So don't just celebrate. Recommit. Know what was built here. Not the legend, the actual design, the actual cost, the actual men who paid it. Read the Constitution. Understand why it was written the way it was. Teach your kids before someone else teaches them a version of this country they'd be ashamed to defend. Here's the part I really need you to hear, be loud about it. Right now, the 2026 World Cup has brought hundreds of thousands of people from every corner of the earth to American soil. Something remarkable is happening that the liberal media is doing its dead-level best to ignore. People are losing their minds over how wonderful this country is. Visitors from South America, from Europe, from Africa, from Asia, people who have been told their entire lives that America is broken, corrupt, dangerous, and falling apart, are walking around our cities with their jaws on the floor. They're posting videos from their phones, saying things like "why did no one tell me it was like this?" and "everything I was taught about America was a lie." They're talking about how clean it is, how kind the people are, how the infrastructure works, how you can walk into a store and the shelves are full, how strangers smile at them on the street. These are people who came here skeptically because the global press, led by the American liberal media, has spent decades telling the world that this place is a disaster. Racist. Oppressive. Crumbling. Not worth admiring, let alone emulating. Real people, with no political agenda, are arriving and finding out they were lied to. That is your moment. Don't let it pass quietly. Say something. Share those videos. Point to them and say, "This is what we are. Not what the narrative says we are. Not what gets ratings at 6 o'clock. What we actually are." Refuse to be embarrassed into silence about a country that men bled barefoot into the snow to build. Be proud, not blindly, not without acknowledging our failures, but genuinely, unapologetically proud of what this framework has produced and what it still makes possible that nowhere else on earth can match. When you see the framework being quietly traded away for promises of safety and fairness, say something. Do something. Because silence has never once protected freedom. Not here. Not anywhere. The men at Valley Forge didn't freeze in silence. Since the Revolutionary War ended, 646,596 American troops have died in battle, and more than 539,000 have died from other, non-combat-related causes. You don't get to either. 250 years is a long time to hold an idea together. The idea we're holding, that free people, governed by law and not by rulers, can actually build something that lasts, was radical when they wrote it. It still is. Most of them fail. Not because the people didn't want freedom, but because greed wins. Fear wins. The man promising to take care of you wins. Without most people noticing, the freedom gets traded away one compromise at a time. We've come close. More than once. But we're still here. The reason we're still here isn't luck. It's the framework. It's the document. It's the conviction, carried forward by generation after generation of ordinary people who refused to let it die, through two world wars, a civil war, a Great Depression, cold wars, culture wars, and every kind of internal fracture you can name. They handed it to us. Now it's our turn. The question on this 250th birthday isn't whether the idea was worth the blood that bought it. That's not even a question. The men who paid for it knew the answer. We just keep forgetting. The real question is whether we love it enough to defend it, not just from foreign threats, but from the slow, quiet erosion happening right now, inside our own institutions, inside our own classrooms, inside our own culture. The men who froze at Valley Forge couldn't have imagined that the greatest threat to what they were building wouldn't come from an army. It would come from apathy. From comfort. From a generation too distracted to notice what was being taken, and too afraid to say anything when they did notice. Don't be that generation. 250 years since our country's birth. The world is watching, and right now, they're seeing the real America, and they like what they see. Are we perfect? Far from it. But we are free because of the blood of the generations before us. I won't see our 300th birthday, but if we live by the ideals under which we were established, we will continue to be a shining light for all the world. Leadership is and will always be about people. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn for more info! Read more from William Davis William Davis, Leadership Blueprint Consultant William Davis is an expert in the leadership arena with an impressive 38-year career in senior positions within corporate America. Throughout the decades, William has honed a multifaceted understanding of leadership dynamics, management, and organizational development. Bridging various industries, his tenure is marked by a consistent track record of loyalty, support, guidance, and empathy for his teams. This style allowed him and his teams to successfully deliver numerous large-scale projects that delivered significant stakeholder value. He advocates for ethical leadership practices and treatment of teammates, believing that these elements are pivotal to nurturing future leaders and staying ahead in a rapidly evolving business landscape.
- Stop Managing Stress, Start Eliminating It
Written by Georgiana Danet, Holistic Life Coach Georgiana Danet is an expert in holistic transformation, dedicated to helping high-achieving women redefine success without burnout. Drawing on over 33 years of experience in neuroscience, psychology, and spiritual growth, she equips women with practical tools to cultivate resilience, well-being, and a deeply fulfilling life. You finally sit down at the end of the day. Your inbox is under control, and meetings are over. The children are asleep. House is quiet. Yet your mind refuses to stop. Tomorrow's to-do list has already begun. You replay conversations, worry about what's ahead, and wonder why you still feel tense when everything that needed to be done is finally done. So you tell yourself, "I just need a holiday." But if you're honest, you know what usually happens. You take a few days off. You feel better. You recharge. Then, within a week of returning to your routine, you're right back where you started. If this sounds familiar, let me share something that may change the way you think about stress forever. Stress isn't something you leave behind, you carry it with you For more than 33 years, I've worked with women from all walks of life, entrepreneurs, executives, educators, healthcare professionals, mothers, and business owners. Although their circumstances were very different, they all had one thing in common. They believed stress was an unavoidable consequence of living a successful, responsible life. I don't. We've been solving the wrong problem For decades, we've been taught to manage stress. Manage your time, manage your workload, manage your emotions, manage your calendar, manage your expectations. While these strategies certainly have their place, they rarely solve the real problem. They're dealing with the effects, not with the root cause. Because stress is not created by your schedule. It is created by the way your mind and nervous system respond to your experiences. Two people can face exactly the same situation. One remains calm, focused, and creative. The other becomes anxious, overwhelmed, and emotionally exhausted. The circumstances are identical. The internal experience is completely different. That's why I believe we need to stop asking, "How can I manage my stress?" Instead, we should ask, "Why am I responding with so much stress in the first place?" That single question changes everything. Stress is an inside job This may sound controversial, but most of the stress we experience doesn't come from life itself. It comes from how we interpret life, from perfectionism, from the pressure to prove ourselves, from believing we have to do everything alone, "It's all up to me!", from saying "yes" when every part of us wants to say "no," from constantly comparing ourselves to others, and from feeling guilty every time we slow down. These patterns become so familiar that we stop questioning them. We simply assume this is what adult life looks like. But it doesn't have to. The real issue isn't that life is busy or challenging. It's life. The issue is that we've trained our nervous system to remain in a constant state of alert, even when there is no real danger. Many women tell me, "I don't even know how to relax anymore." That isn't because they've forgotten how. It's because their bodies have forgotten what safety feels like. Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable The women I work with are intelligent, capable, and deeply committed. They're the ones everyone relies on. They solve problems, they lead teams, they care for their families, and they support everyone around them. Yet behind their success, many quietly carry an invisible burden. They rarely stop. They struggle to switch off. They feel guilty when resting. They measure their worth by their productivity. The irony is that the very qualities that helped them succeed can also become the source of chronic stress if left unchecked. Ambition isn't the problem. Losing yourself in your ambition is. Stress management isn't enough This is why I don't teach stress management. I teach stress elimination. There is an important difference. Stress management helps you cope with symptoms, and stress elimination addresses the patterns that create unnecessary stress in the first place. It uproots the cause of it. It means becoming aware of the beliefs that keep you trapped in overthinking, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or constant self-pressure. It means learning how to regulate your nervous system instead of living in survival mode. It means replacing automatic reactions with conscious responses. It means creating a new relationship with yourself. When that happens, life doesn't necessarily become easier. You simply become calmer, clearer, and more centered within it. That changes everything. Small daily choices create extraordinary change One of the biggest misconceptions about personal transformation is that it requires dramatic action. In reality, lasting change is built through small decisions repeated consistently, a few minutes of conscious breathing before opening your laptop, taking a mindful pause before responding to an email, going for a walk without your phone, creating moments of silence in a noisy world, choosing progress over perfection, speaking to yourself with kindness instead of criticism. These simple practices may appear insignificant. Yet they gradually retrain your brain, regulate your nervous system, and transform the way you experience everyday life. You train neuroplasticity. Inner peace isn't created in one life-changing moment. It's created in hundreds of ordinary moments that slowly become your new way of living. Success should never cost you your well-being Somewhere along the way, we've accepted the idea that stress is simply the price of success. I believe that's one of the most damaging beliefs of our time. Success should enhance your life, not consume it. It should allow you to experience vibrant health, meaningful relationships, emotional balance, and genuine fulfillment alongside professional achievement. Because what is the value of reaching the top if you're too exhausted to enjoy the view? True success isn't measured only by what you accomplish. It's measured by how you feel while accomplishing it, and most importantly, by who you become while doing all of that. When you cultivate emotional resilience and intelligence, self-awareness, and inner balance, success no longer feels like an endless race. It becomes a natural expression of who you truly are. Perhaps it's time we stopped asking how to become better at managing stress. Perhaps the better question is this, "What would my life look like if I no longer created stress in the first place?" Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Georgiana Danet Georgiana Danet, Holistic Life Coach Georgiana Danet is a holistic coach, author, and self-development teacher with more than 33 years of experience helping high-achieving women overcome stress, unlock their potential, and create lives of health, balance, and purpose. She combines neuroscience, psychology, and spirituality into practical methods that empower women to thrive without sacrificing their well-being. Having coached thousands of people across 15 countries and authored six books, Georgiana shares science-backed insights and timeless wisdom to help women build lasting resilience, fulfillment, and success from the inside out.
- GoodVibes Summer Movement Guide
Written by Madeleine Daleng Nyland, CEO of MAD Madeleine Daleng, a five‑time Norwegian figure skating champion, now empowers people through rehabilitation, obesity coaching, and fitness training, blending elite‑sport insight with a human, down‑to‑earth approach. Summer has a way of disrupting routines, but that does not mean your progress has to disappear with them. By embracing a more flexible and playful approach to movement, the season can become an opportunity to recharge, stay active naturally, and return feeling stronger than before. Move like it’s summer: Simple ways to stay active without a plan Summer has a reputation for “ruining” routines, especially movement and workout routines. As a coach with many years of experience, I’ve heard countless people say that everything they’ve built through the year disappears the moment vacation starts. But here’s the truth. Summer doesn’t destroy your progress, it can actually strengthen it. We need a break from our normal. We need to switch things up, breathe differently, move differently, and think differently. Summer gives us exactly that. Why structure often fails in summer Summer changes our rhythm. Days are longer, routines loosen, and our environment shifts. Research shows that when structure drops, motivation based on discipline alone becomes harder to maintain. That doesn’t mean we become passive, it means we move differently. That’s not a bad thing. Strict routines can be great during the year, but summer invites us to explore a more intuitive, playful relationship with movement. This is not “giving up.” This is resetting the system. Hidden movement: The summer activities you forget to count Most people underestimate how active they actually are during vacation. Non-structured movement, also called lifestyle activity, is proven to support cardiovascular health, mobility, and mental wellbeing just as effectively as formal exercise. Think about it: Walking to the beach Swimming Playing with kids Hiking Beach volleyball Paddleboarding Jumping on a trampoline Exploring a new city Carrying groceries to the cabin Diving, splashing, laughing These activities challenge strength, balance, agility, mobility, and cardio, without you even noticing. Summer movement is not “less.” It’s simply different. If you stay open, playful, and curious, movement will find you. Say yes. Enjoy having a body that works. Let your mind and your muscles breathe. The mental reset your body actually needs Letting go of strict routines is not laziness, it’s recovery. Even elite athletes have off-season periods to restore their nervous system, rebuild energy, and return stronger. Summer gives you mental decompression, reduced stress hormones, more sunlight (which boosts serotonin and regulates sleep), social connection, and time to reflect and reset. These are not “extras.” They are essential components of long-term health. When you allow yourself to rest, play, and move freely, you often return to autumn with: Higher motivation More energy Better mood A stronger desire to train A deeper connection to your body A simple goal for the season Instead of chasing structure, try this. Do something active every day, structured or not. That’s it. A walk, swim, stretch, game, and dance. Ten minutes or two hours, it all counts. Leave the summer feeling rested, restored, energized, grateful, and ready for autumn. You might be surprised by how strong you feel when September arrives. For those who do want a tiny routine Some people feel better with a small anchor in their day. If that’s you, here’s a simple GoodVibes option, The 10-Minute GoodVibes Morning Flow. Perfect for the cabin, the balcony, the beach, or your living room. Follow me on Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Madeleine Daleng Nyland Madeleine Daleng Nyland, CEO of MAD Madeleine Daleng is a five‑time Norwegian figure skating champion who now channels her competitive drive into helping people rebuild strength, confidence, and health. With a background from the Norwegian School of Sports Science, she works across rehabilitation, obesity coaching, and fitness training. Her approach blends elite‑athlete discipline with warmth, humor, and real‑life understanding. As the founder of MAD, she supports clients through personal training, group fitness, and long‑term lifestyle change. She also inspires a wider audience through her YouTube channel, Madeleinedaleng_goodvibes.
- Dr Clare Allen Interview on the Leadership Identity Shift Executives Can’t Afford to Ignore
After more than three decades leading organisations and a billion-dollar infrastructure portfolio as a CEO, Dr Clare Allen has turned her attention to a different leadership challenge, identity. She is the founder of the Identity Anchoring Methodology®, a neuroscience-based 5 stage framework, delivered through her platform, The Inner Executive System, which helps senior leaders move from performing success to genuinely leading from who they are. In this interview, Clare unpacks why identity, not strategy or skill, is the real driver of leadership performance, the early warning signs of what she calls the “Performance Tax,” and what it takes for a leader to feel anchored in a role they’ve long since outgrown Dr. Clare Allen, Executive Leadership Coach After three decades as a CEO, what led you to focus your next chapter on leadership identity? I spent over thirty years in the CEO seat, running large organisations and winning awards and disrupting conventional thinking. What I noticed, in myself and in the leaders around me, was that success and self-recognition rarely arrived together. You could hit every target, sit at every table, and still feel like you were performing a role rather than living it. The leaders who struggled most weren’t lacking capability, they were lacking a ‘felt sense’ of their own worth underneath the achievement. That’s not a skills problem, and no amount of strategy fixes it. It’s an identity problem, built over decades of reinforced behaviours, inside systems that reward performance over authenticity, what is called an imposter system. This is why I set up ‘The Inner Executive System’ to unlock that code, the specific pattern holding a leader back, formed long before they ever reached the top job. When I left my last CEO role, I knew I didn’t want to teach leaders another framework to perform. I wanted to help them stop performing altogether and lead from who they actually are. What patterns have you seen in leaders who achieve significant success yet still feel disconnected from themselves? The clearest pattern is what I call the four hidden identities, the Pleaser, the Performer, the Perfectionist, and the Protector. Each develops early, usually as a completely reasonable response to whatever kept a person safe or approved of at the time. The Pleaser keeps everyone comfortable at their own expense. The Performer believes worth is earned through the next achievement, so the achievement never lands. The Perfectionist won’t put anything forward until it’s flawless, which quietly slows their influence. The Protector stays guarded, so no one in the room ever really meets them. These patterns are often invisible to the leaders themselves because they’ve been so successful. That’s precisely why they persist. They’re rewarded for the very behaviour that’s costing them. Disconnection isn’t a sign something is wrong with them. It’s a sign they’ve been running someone else’s script for a long time, and it worked well enough that they never questioned it. Why do you believe identity is a stronger driver of leadership performance than strategy alone? Strategy tells you what to do. Identity determines whether you can actually do it under pressure. I’ve watched brilliant strategies fail, not because the thinking was wrong, but because the leader delivering them was still operating from an identity that couldn’t hold the weight of the decision, over-consulting and softening the message to keep the room comfortable. Identity is the operating system strategy runs on. If it’s misaligned, even the best plan gets diluted in execution. This is also where neuroscience matters. Surface-level confidence tactics don’t survive contact with real pressure, because they haven’t changed anything at the level where identity actually lives, the subconscious. Anchoring works differently. It rewires the belief system underneath the behaviour, so the leader isn’t managing their nerves in the boardroom, they simply show up differently. Once identity is anchored, strategy has somewhere solid to land. That’s the order most leadership development gets backwards. What is the biggest mistake organisations make when developing leaders today? Organisations keep investing in skills when the gap is identity. They send leaders to another course on communication or executive presence, and the leader comes back with more tools and the same underlying pattern, still overpreparing, still deflecting credit, still adapting themselves to fit a room rather than leading it. A 360 review will tell you what colleagues observed. It won’t tell you what’s actually driving that behaviour under pressure, and that’s the piece organisations consistently skip. The other mistake is treating senior leaders’ development as a confidence problem. It rarely is. Most of the leaders I work with are not short on capability or self-belief. They are exhausted from performing a version of themselves that doesn’t fully fit the role they’ve already earned. Until organisations are willing to address identity directly, they’ll keep funding development that produces more polished performance, without producing more anchored leadership. How do you see executive presence changing in a world where AI can increasingly replicate knowledge and expertise? When AI can produce the analysis, the report, and the answer, knowledge stops being the differentiator. What’s left is judgement under uncertainty, the ability to hold a room in a genuinely difficult conversation, and a presence people trust when the stakes are high, none of which can be generated. That makes anchored identity more commercially relevant, not less. A leader who is still performing authority rather than carrying it will find that gap increasingly visible, because the parts of leadership that used to be masked by expertise are now the whole job. The leaders who will matter most in the next decade are the ones whose presence doesn’t depend on having the answer first. They’re anchored enough to sit with not knowing, to make a call, and to be believed when they do. AI can replicate expertise. It cannot replicate an anchored human being in the room. You talk about the “Performance Tax”, what are the earliest signs that a leader is paying it? The Performance Tax is the ongoing cost of leading from a performed identity rather than an anchored one, and it shows up long before burnout does. The earliest sign is usually a gap between how capable someone is and how depleted they privately feel, success on paper, exhaustion underneath. Watch for over-preparing for situations they’re more than qualified for, saying yes automatically and calculating the cost afterward, or feeling relief rather than pride after a big win, because the achievement never quite lands. Another tell is needing recognition to arrive from somewhere else before they’ll believe it themselves. None of this looks like failure from the outside, it often looks like high performance. That’s what makes the tax so easy to miss and so expensive to keep paying. Left unaddressed, it doesn’t resolve on its own. It compounds, usually until something forces the leader to stop and ask what they’re actually building toward. For someone who feels stuck in an outdated version of themselves, where does the process of Identity Anchoring begin? It begins with awareness, not action. Most leaders try to fix a stuck feeling by doing more, another qualification, another stretch project, another round of proving. But you can’t change a pattern you can’t see, so the first stage is simply making the invisible visible, mapping the gap between how they see themselves and how they’re actually operating, identifying which of the hidden identities is running the show, and getting honest about whose definition of success they’ve been living by. Only once that’s clear do we move to anchoring, rewiring the underlying belief at a subconscious level, not through affirmation, but through building an evidence base the brain can’t dismiss. It’s slower than a quick confidence hack, and it’s the only version that actually holds under pressure. The leaders who get the furthest are the ones willing to look honestly at the pattern before they try to change it. How has your own definition of success changed since leading large organisations and a billion-dollar portfolios? For a long time, success looked like the next title, the next portfolio, the next number that proved I’d earned my place. I hit most of those markers, and I can tell you directly, the feeling I expected to arrive with them never quite did. Each achievement had a shelf life of about a week before I was looking for the next one. What’s changed is that I no longer measure success by what I’ve accumulated. I measure it by whether I’m leading from an identity I actually recognise as mine, in that moment, regardless of what’s being asked of me. That’s a much harder thing to fake and a much more sustainable thing to build a life around. I still care about impact and results, probably more than I ever did. I just no longer need them to tell me who I am. If every leader could make one profound identity shift tomorrow, what would you hope that shift would be? I’d want every leader to stop treating their worth as something they have to earn through the next achievement and start operating from the understanding that it was never up for negotiation in the first place. That single shift changes almost everything downstream, how they speak in a room they used to defer in, what they say yes to, how they receive credit instead of deflecting it. It doesn’t make them softer or less driven. It makes them considerably harder to knock off course, because they’re no longer performing for a sense of ‘being enough’. Leaders who make this shift don’t lead less ambitiously. They lead more precisely because so much of what used to go into managing how they were perceived is now available for the work itself. That’s the whole promise of anchored leadership, not becoming someone new, just finally leading as who you already are. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Dr. Clare Allen
- How Much Does It Cost to Make Your Health and Wellness Practice Look and Feel Like You Online?
Written by Rachel Simms, RGD, Creative Director Rachel Simms, RGD, is the founder and Creative Director of Broadbent Studio, a brand strategy and design studio helping health and wellness practitioners build ethical, expert brands that attract the right clients and grow with integrity. You went into your field because you wanted to help people, not because you wanted to become an expert in design budgets. So when it comes time to build or refresh how your practice looks and feels online, the cost question can feel overwhelming fast. You search, you get wildly different numbers, and you're left more confused than when you started. This article is here to change that. Whether you're a therapist, naturopath, chiropractor, or osteopath opening a new practice, or simply outgrowing something that no longer reflects the calibre of your work, understanding what shapes the cost of this kind of investment is the first step to making a decision you'll feel confident about for years to come. Why the prices you’re seeing are all over the place If you've done any research, you've seen numbers that range from a few hundred dollars to tens of thousands. That range isn't arbitrary. It reflects real differences in what you're actually getting, who you're working with, how deeply they understand your field, and whether they're starting with a plan or just jumping straight to making things look nice. Making your practice look and feel professional online isn't just about picking colours you like and putting your logo on a website. For practitioners in regulated fields, it's about building something that communicates trust before you've said a word, something that holds up over time and doesn't need to be completely redone in two years. When you understand what's actually driving those price differences, you stop comparing things that aren't comparable and start asking better questions. What you're actually paying for The thinking that happens before anything gets made This is the single biggest factor most practitioners don't account for. There's a real difference between a designer who asks you to pick your favourite colours and a designer who spends time understanding your story, your ideal client, the goals you have for your practice five years from now, and the professional guidelines you have to work within before a single design decision gets made. That upfront thinking is what makes the difference between something that looks good and something that actually works. The practices still using their original logo and website a decade later didn't get lucky. They invested in the thinking before the making. Who you're working with Not all designers are the same, just as not all practitioners in your field are the same. A designer who holds a professional designation, who specializes in working with health and wellness practices, and who understands your professional environment is bringing something genuinely different to the table than someone who designs for anyone and everyone. In Canada, the RGD, Certified Registered Graphic Designer, or CDP, Certified Design Professional, designations are the highest professional credentials in graphic design, similar in spirit to the way your own designation signals your level of training and accountability to your clients. Working with an RGD means the person designing your visual identity is held to a professional standard of ethics, education, and quality. Specialization matters too. A designer who understands that regulated health professionals often can't use client testimonials the same way other industries do knows how to build accessibility into a website from the ground up. Those who have spent years learning what actually works for practices like yours are providing something a generalist simply cannot. What's actually included When you're comparing quotes, the most important thing to check is whether you're comparing the same thing. A logo on its own is very different from a complete visual identity system, sometimes referred to as a brand identity system. A complete visual identity system often includes your logo in multiple formats and configurations, your colour palette, your font choices, and a reference document that keeps everything consistent. Both a logo and a visual identity are different from a full package that combines your visual identity with a designed, functional website. A $1,500 logo and a $7,000 package that includes your logo, visual identity system, and a complete website are not competing products. They're solving different problems at different stages of practice growth. Something made for you versus something made for everyone Online tools and template platforms have made it easier than ever to put something together quickly. This also includes GenAI. The result is that many health and wellness practices launch with a look that's almost identical to every other practice in their city, the same sage green, the same minimalist layout, and the same stock photo of someone meditating or talking on a couch. When someone is searching for a practitioner at eleven o'clock at night, they want to find someone who feels right. Custom work, built specifically for you, communicates what makes your practice unique and trustworthy, unlike templates that feel generic. Custom work costs more because it requires more, more research, more thinking, and more iteration. What it produces is something that actually looks and feels like you. What to expect at different investment levels The ranges below reflect the Canadian market, with particular reference to Ontario. Design pricing across Canada varies by region, the designer's experience and credentials, and the scope of what's included, so treat these as a general orientation rather than a fixed rulebook. That said, they reflect the landscape as it actually exists for most health and wellness practitioners making this decision. Lower investment, under $2,000 CAD: At this level, you're typically working with someone early in their career, a template-based service, or a logo-only package with minimal planning. This can make sense for a practice in its earliest stages, testing a concept before committing to a full investment. The risk is building on a foundation you'll outgrow quickly and paying to redo it sooner than you'd like. Mid-range investment, $2,000 CAD to $5,000 CAD: This range typically covers a more complete visual system, your logo in multiple versions, your colour palette, your fonts, and a basic reference document, with some strategic thinking involved. Whether a website is included varies significantly at this level. The depth of the process and the quality of the outcome also vary, which is why looking at someone's past work and credentials matters so much here. Full investment, $5,000 CAD and above: This is where you're building a complete, strategic foundation, a visual identity and website designed to last, built on a clear understanding of your practice, your clients, and your goals. For established practitioners, or those ready to show up online in a way that matches the level of work they're actually doing, this is the investment that holds. The real question underneath the cost question When practitioners ask about cost, they're often really asking, "Is this going to be worth it?" That depends on what your current situation is quietly costing you. A website that doesn't feel trustworthy is costing you the consultations that don't book. Looking identical to every other practice in your area is costing you the clients who scroll past without stopping. A logo you're quietly embarrassed by is costing you referrals you don't make because you hesitate to hand over your card. For a regulated professional who can't lean on testimonials to build trust, how your practice looks and feels online is one of the most important tools you have to communicate your expertise before anyone walks through your door. Questions worth asking before you commit Before working with any designer, it's worth asking: What does your process look like before anything gets designed? Someone who skips the thinking and goes straight to making is a risk, regardless of price. Do you have experience working with regulated health professionals? The guidelines you operate under shape what your messaging can and can't say, and your designer needs to understand that. What do your past clients say about working with you? Look for specific outcomes, not just general praise. What happens at the end of the project? A finished logo or website that you can't update, access, or actually use without calling someone isn't really finished. You should have access to your website backend to update your pricing or add a blog post, at a minimum. Ready to build something that lasts? If you're a health and wellness practitioner who has outgrown a DIY look, or who wants to launch with something that reflects the calibre of work you actually do, the right next step is a conversation. At Broadbent Studio, every project begins with the Diamond Blueprint. This strategic discovery process makes sure everything we build together is grounded in who you are, who you serve, and where you're going. No guesswork. No generic templates. Just something that finally feels like you. Book a consultation call with us today. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn for more info! Read more from Rachel Simms, RGD Rachel Simms, RGD, Creative Director Rachel Simms is the founder and Creative Director of Broadbent Studio, a brand and website design studio based in Hamilton, Ontario. As a Registered Graphic Designer (RGD), the highest professional designation in Canada, she brings over a decade of strategic design experience to health and wellness practitioners and professional service firms who are ready to stop being the best-kept secret in their field. Her proprietary Diamond Blueprint methodology puts strategy before aesthetics, building brands that communicate trust before a word is spoken. Her mission is to help the most trusted experts become the most visible ones.
- Would I Be the Woman I Am Today If I Hadn't Become a Mom at 16?
Written by Sarah Pearce, Certified Doula Sarah Pearce is a nationally recognized full-spectrum doula, previous pediatric nurse, placenta specialist, and midwifery student with nearly a decade of experience supporting families through fertility, birth, postpartum, and newborn care. She is the founder of Trinity Doula Services, one of the largest doula agencies in the St. Louis region. We are 75 percent water, 25 percent dry mass, 50 percent spiritual beings, and 50 percent physical beings. These are also a map to the layout of our universe. We are lymphatic fluid, bones, and flesh, spirit, soul, and body. Have you ever seen a Russian or Japanese nesting doll? Imagine you have a total of seven, and you remove them one by one, they reveal themselves smaller and smaller. Let's take a closer look. Growing up under the weight of expectations I was raised in a religious family in the heart of the Bible Belt. Faith was central to our lives, but so was something I didn't fully understand until I became an adult, the pressure to appear as though everything was perfect. When I became pregnant at sixteen, I didn't just fear becoming a mother, I feared becoming an embarrassment. As my pregnancy became more noticeable, my mother sometimes asked me to stay home because she worried about what the neighbors would think, what people at church would say, and how our family would be perceived. Looking back today, I understand she was carrying her own fears and doing what she believed would protect our family from judgment. But sixteen-year-old me interpreted it very differently. I felt like I needed to disappear. I painted my baby's crib at a friend's house because my mother didn't want the neighbors seeing us prepare for a baby. I stopped participating in many of the activities my friends enjoyed. Even going to the grocery store felt overwhelming because I was convinced everyone was staring at me, whether they actually were or not. Shame has a remarkable ability to convince us that everyone is watching. It teaches us to become smaller, quieter, invisible. No young mother should ever feel like she has to hide while preparing to welcome her child into the world. Statistics didn't define my future If you looked only at the statistics, my future probably wouldn't have looked very promising. Research has consistently shown that teen mothers are significantly less likely to graduate from high school than their peers, and only about half earn a diploma by their early twenties. I graduated a year early while raising a one-year-old daughter. Statistics also suggest that adolescent mothers are less likely to pursue higher education and often face long-term financial challenges. Since then, I've become a Licensed Practical Nurse, founded one of the Midwest's largest full spectrum doula agencies, serve as Executive Director of a growing nonprofit organization, educate future birth professionals, and am currently pursuing certification as a Certified Professional Midwife. Statistics matter because they identify where support is needed. They should never become ceilings that limit what people believe is possible. The difference between judgment and support As I navigated pregnancy, birth, and early motherhood, one truth became painfully obvious. There was no shortage of opinions, criticism, or people willing to tell me what I had done wrong. What was missing was support. Years later, when I discovered birthwork, something inside me clicked. I realized I wasn't simply choosing a career, I was becoming the person I desperately needed when I was sixteen. Every family deserves someone who sees them before they judge them, someone who educates before they criticize, and someone who walks beside them instead of standing above them. That belief became the foundation of Trinity Doula Services. Today, our team serves families throughout Missouri, Illinois, Indiana, and Kentucky through birth support, postpartum care, childbirth education, placenta encapsulation, and newborn services. But what we truly provide is something much harder to measure, we provide belonging. When one mission became two Working with families taught me something I hadn't anticipated. Birth support alone wasn't enough. Parents also needed diapers, formula, baby clothes, community, and someone willing to say, "We're here." That realization led me to become Executive Director of The Little Resource Center. What began as a single location in Arnold, Missouri, has expanded into six locations throughout Eastern Missouri and Southern Illinois. Every expansion has been driven by one simple belief, people thrive when they feel supported, not judged. Three lessons becoming a teen mom taught me about leadership Looking back twenty years later, I realize becoming a mother at sixteen taught me lessons that no classroom ever could. Compassion creates more change than criticism: People rarely become their best selves because someone shamed them. They grow because someone believed they were capable of more. That philosophy guides every birth I attend and every team member I mentor. Your circumstances don't determine your contribution: My story could have ended at sixteen. Instead, it became the beginning of everything meaningful I've built. Leadership isn't determined by where you start, it's determined by what you choose to build from where you are. Support changes outcomes: I didn't overcome difficult circumstances because I was extraordinary. I succeeded because people invested in me, believed in me, challenged me, and opened doors for me. Today, I have the privilege of doing the same for other families. Success looks different than I once imagined I've had the honor of being featured in publications including Brainz Magazine, Wellness Master Club, Voyage STL, and CanvasRebel. I've been recognized as one of Southern Illinois' 20 Under 40. Those are accomplishments I'm incredibly grateful for, but they aren't what define success. Success is the mother who tells me she finally felt heard during her birth. The postpartum family who gets to sleep because someone showed up. The student who discovers a career serving families. The parent who walks into one of our resource centers feeling ashamed to ask for help and leaves feeling seen instead. Those moments matter far more than any headline. So, would I be the woman I am today? I still don't know. Maybe I would have found another path. Maybe I would have discovered another purpose. But I do know this, the little girl I gave birth to twenty years ago didn't keep me from achieving my dreams, she inspired them. Everything I've built began the day I became her mother. If there's one lesson I hope readers take away from my story, it's this, your hardest chapter doesn't have to become your identity. Sometimes it becomes your introduction. Sometimes, the life you never planned becomes the one you were always meant to live. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Sarah Pearce Sarah Pearce, Certified Doula Sarah Pearce is a highly sought-after birth and postpartum expert, a previous LPN specialising pediatrics, a placenta encapsulation specialist, and the founder of Trinity Doula Services, a rapidly growing full-spectrum doula agency serving Missouri and Illinois. With over a decade of hands-on experience in fertility, labor support, physiologic birth, postpartum recovery, newborn care, and high-pressure pediatric nursing, she has become known for combining evidence-based education with deeply intuitive support. Sarah has supported families through all types of birth settings and is working towards becoming a Certified Professional Midwife. Her work empowers families during life's most transformative moments.
- From Knowing How to Succeed to Knowing How to Belong
Written by Lindy Lelij, Founder of Mpowerme Coaching Lindy Lelij is the founder of Mpowerme Coaching. With more than 30 years of leadership and international experience, she helps people navigate migration, cultural transitions, and identity to thrive personally and professionally. Have you ever stood beneath an old tree and wondered what makes it so magnificent? Our eyes are usually drawn upward. We look at the broad canopy stretching towards the sky, the strong trunk weathered by time, and the branches that seem to move effortlessly with every changing season. We are in awe of what we see. Yet the tree tells a different story. Long before its branches reached towards the light, its roots were quietly reaching into the earth. Hidden from view, they searched for nourishment, stability, and connection. The roots receive no applause and are rarely photographed. Yet they are a fundamental reason the tree can weather a storm. I sometimes wonder whether our lives are much the same. When we think about success, we tend to think about what is visible. We celebrate promotions, qualifications, thriving businesses, financial security, personal achievements, and dreams realised after years of hard work. These accomplishments reflect discipline, resilience, and commitment, and rightly so. They deserve recognition. But what if they are only the branches? What if the real story is unfolding beneath the surface? The success we can see Take a moment to consider your own life. How would you define success? Is it the career you have built, the family you have raised, the challenges you have overcome, or the goals you have achieved? Most of us have spent our lives learning how to succeed. We are encouraged to work hard, persevere, solve problems, and keep moving forward. Success is often described as arriving somewhere, a destination reached through determination and effort. There is nothing wrong with this. In fact, our achievements often become opportunities to contribute, provide for others, and grow. But I wonder whether success tells only part of our story. When success does not feel like home When I immigrated to New Zealand, I believed that my previous experience would naturally help me build a successful new life. After years of leadership, professional responsibility, and international experience, I assumed that hard work and determination would once again open doors for me. In many ways, they did. But while I was rebuilding my career, learning new systems, and adapting to a different culture, another journey was quietly taking place. I was beginning to understand that succeeding in a country and belonging in a country are two very different experiences. I had questions that no qualification or professional achievement could answer. Who am I when the familiar markers of my identity have changed? Can I embrace a different culture without losing myself? Can I remain authentic while learning unfamiliar ways of thinking, communicating, and connecting? These questions had very little to do with my résumé. They had everything to do with my roots. Becoming an expert beginner This experience is not unique to immigration. Think about the transitions in your own life: A new leadership role Becoming a parent Starting over after redundancy, divorce, or perhaps retirement A move to another city or another country Every major transition has an external journey that others can observe and an internal journey that only we experience. The external journey is about achievement. The internal journey is about identity. I would describe this experience as becoming an “expert beginner.” Have you ever been there? You know your profession, your strengths, and your values. Then, suddenly, you find yourself in unfamiliar territory where expertise alone is not enough. Your professional knowledge comes with you, but the unspoken rules do not. Relationships must be rebuilt, trust must be earned, and confidence must be grounded in new “soil.” Like a mature tree, you discover that survival depends not on the size of your branches, but on your willingness to grow new roots. It is a humbling and often uncomfortable experience. Yet it may be one of life’s greatest invitations to grow. Belonging begins where inner rootedness meets outer welcome When we enter unfamiliar environments, our first instinct is usually to adapt. We observe, adjust, work harder, and learn how things are done. Adaptation is necessary. It helps us function and find our footing. But adaptation alone can become exhausting if it is driven by a constant need to prove ourselves. Belonging is something different. It does not ask us to pretend to fit in. Growing roots through contribution One of the greatest privileges I have experienced through coaching and working with volunteers at the hospital has been watching people discover belonging through contribution. There comes a moment when the question changes. Instead of asking, “Will I ever fit in?” they begin asking, “How can I contribute here?” That subtle shift can be transformational. Contribution has an undeniable way of growing roots. Whether through volunteering, mentoring, supporting a colleague, joining a local community, or simply extending kindness to a neighbour, we begin participating in the life around us rather than waiting for permission to belong. When the compass begins to turn As I have reflected on my own journey, I realise that success and belonging are not competing ideas. To me, they are partners. For a long time, I believed that people found belonging once they felt more confident. But through my own experiences and the privilege of walking alongside others during times of change, I have come to believe something different. Belonging does not begin when uncertainty disappears. It begins when uncertainty is no longer allowed to decide who we become. The circumstances may not change. The questions may remain. The future may still feel unclear. But something within us realigns. Perhaps you have experienced it yourself. You pause before walking into a new workplace on your first day, or you sit in your car for a moment before entering a meeting where you know no one. Maybe you have just arrived in a new country, or you are returning to work after years away. Your heart beats a little faster. You wonder whether you will be accepted, whether you will fit in, and whether you are enough. Then something shifts. Instead of asking, “What if I do not belong?” you begin asking, “How do I want to show up?” When something within us realigns, we begin making different choices. Purpose becomes more important than certainty. Instead of worrying about whether you will be accepted on your first day in a new role, you remind yourself that you are there to make a meaningful contribution and to learn. Purpose answers, “Why am I here?” Values become stronger than fear. As you sit in your car before walking into a meeting where you know no one, you decide that kindness, integrity, and respect will guide your behaviour, regardless of how others respond. Values answer, “Who do I want to be?” Curiosity becomes greater than the need to have every answer. Having just arrived in a new country, workplace, or community, you replace the pressure to know everything with a willingness to ask questions and listen carefully so that you can understand the culture around you. Curiosity answers, “What can I learn?” Contribution becomes an expression of character rather than a reward for feeling confident. Rather than waiting until you feel that you belong, you look for one small way to make someone else’s day a little easier by offering help, sharing your experience, encouraging a colleague, or simply bringing warmth into the room. Contribution answers, “How can I serve?” Uncertainty may still travel with us, but it no longer gets to choose the direction. This is where we begin to reclaim our agency, not by controlling our circumstances, but by choosing how we will meet them. Our decisions no longer arise from uncertainty alone. They arise from our inner compass. So before you move on with your day, I invite you to pause for a moment. Ask yourself: What is more important to me than certainty? Which values do I want to carry into this situation? Where is life inviting me to become an expert beginner once again? What might change if I stopped waiting to feel ready and started growing where I am planted? If these questions have stirred something within you, perhaps your own Cultural Compass is already pointing towards the next chapter of your journey. I would love to continue the conversation with you. At MPowerMe Coaching, I help people explore their own Cultural Compass, not by giving them a map for life, but by helping them navigate change with clarity, dignity, and a growing sense of belonging. “The strongest trees are not recognised by the height of their branches, but by the depth of their roots.” Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Lindy Lelij Lindy Lelij, Founder of Mpowerme Coaching With Māori and European heritage, Lindy knows firsthand what it means to live between cultures. She spent over four decades abroad before returning “home” to Aotearoa New Zealand. Today, as founder of Mpowerme Coaching, Lindy helps people navigate migration, cultural transition, and identity. Through positive psychology, deep journaling, energetic tuning, and narrative reframing, Lindy offers clients practical tools for growth and resilience. Backed by more than 30 years of leadership, governance, and business experience across Health, governance, and international trade, she brings both professional expertise and lived wisdom to her work.
- The Visibility Gap – Why Women Leaders Must Claim Credit for Their Ideas
Written by Lisa Gaines, Leadership Wellbeing Coach Lisa Gaines is a leadership and welbeing coach, empowering mid-life women leaders to redefine success, break through barriers, and thrive. Drawing on her expertise in neuroscience and emotional intelligence, Lisa supports her clients with navigating change, finding renewed purpose, and creating sustainable growth in both work and life. Too many women have learned to accept having their ideas overlooked, repackaged, or credited to someone else as simply part of the workplace landscape. But claiming visibility is not about ego or self-promotion, it is about recognising that your voice, your expertise, and your contributions deserve to be seen, heard, and acknowledged. Visibility isn’t vanity, it’s your birthright. Empowering women leaders is a passion of mine, and sometimes that passion gets me fired up when I hear something that disempowers the women leaders I’m coaching. This happened recently during a coaching conversation with an inspiring young female leader when she said, "When my boss hears my idea at a meeting one week and then presents it back as his idea a week later, I take it as a compliment." It didn't sit well with me. I knew exactly why. I was reminded of Rebecca Solnit's story, where she was lectured for a full 20 minutes at a party by a man about a book she had written. He regurgitated her own work back to her and refused to accept she was the author, even as her friend stood there confirming it. Rebecca went home and wrote the article "Men Explain Things to Me", which gave us the term "mansplaining." What strikes me about that story isn't just the audacity, it's that her voice, her work, and her expertise had been completely erased in the moment. That, along with learning recently that only 14% of world leaders are women and only 11% of women are CEOs of Fortune 500 organisations, means we absolutely cannot allow our contributions to be erased or minimised. There may not even be ill intent at play here. My sense is that we are more often than not dealing with unconscious bias, and this is a blind spot we have learned to tolerate. Being brought up in Ireland, it's natural for me to be feisty and fiery at times, let’s call it passionate. Sometimes, to my own detriment, it’s also a wonderful aspect of being human that creates empowerment when there’s a need to speak up. I love having the courage to argue for what’s right and fair according to my values. What's fair for all of us is simple, credit where credit is due. So, my client and I brainstormed. How would it be if she started documenting her ideas before presenting them? Put them on a meeting agenda, send a quick email beforehand, or capture them in meeting minutes? It's not about distrust, it's about visibility and fairness. Your ideas should have your name on them, and you should get that credit. Something wonderful happens to women in midlife. As tough as it can be to navigate the changes that come at this time of life, one of the gifts is caring a bit less about people-pleasing and more about what is right and fair. That shift is powerful. I love supporting women with leaning into it, speaking up, asking for their fair share, and claiming the credit they've earned. Because visibility isn't vanity. It's not arrogance. It's simply knowing that your voice matters, your ideas matter, and you deserve to be seen for your brilliant ideas and for being the brilliant woman you are. More empowered women in leadership positions, speaking up and claiming their space, is what this moment in time calls for. It starts with each and every one of us. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Lisa Gaines Lisa Gaines, Leadership Wellbeing Coach Lisa Gaines is a leadership and wellbeing coach devoted to helping mid-life women leaders reconnect with themselves, overcome roadblocks or burnout, and thrive. With over 15 years of experience and drawing on her expertise in neuroscience and emotional intelligence, Lisa supports her clients through meaningful transitions in work and life. Her coaching style is nurturing, insightful, and practical, and empowers clients to overcome their barriers and step into new chapters with clarity, courage, and balance. Lisa is passionate about supporting women to step up, stand tall, and create sustainable success on their own terms.
- Lewis Howes' Summit of Greatness Returns to Hollywood This September
Entrepreneur, bestselling author, and podcast host Lewis Howes is bringing his signature live event, Summit of Greatness, back to Hollywood this September, continuing a tradition that has become one of the most recognized gatherings in the personal development and entrepreneurship space. Hosted at the iconic Dolby Theatre, the two-day experience is designed to bring together entrepreneurs, leaders, creators, and individuals committed to personal and professional growth. According to the official Summit of Greatness website, the event is created to inspire attendees to "take the leap, dig deeper into your purpose, ignite your passion, and go all in on your dreams and goals." Over the years, Summit of Greatness has welcomed an impressive lineup of speakers from the worlds of business, leadership, health, and personal development. Previous events have featured names including Tony Robbins, Jay Shetty, Mel Robbins, David Goggins, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Esther Perel, Gabby Bernstein, and Dr. Mark Hyman, among many others. Since moving from Columbus, Ohio to Hollywood, the Summit has continued to grow as Lewis Howes' flagship live event, creating opportunities for attendees to learn from world-renowned speakers while connecting with a community focused on purpose, leadership, and meaningful impact. As interest in entrepreneurship, mindset, and personal development continues to grow, Summit of Greatness remains a destination for individuals looking to invest in both their personal and professional journey. Readers interested in learning more about Summit of Greatness can visit the official website here.
- 10 Red Flags in Group Therapy Programs That May Slow OCD Recovery
Written by Ricky Scoggan, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Ricky Scoggan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety, blending therapies with mindset leadership. As the founder of The Scoggan Institute in Scottsdale, AZ, he empowers high achievers like business owners, athletes, and celebrities via behavioral reprogramming and neuroplasticity for mental freedom and success. If you treat OCD or have walked alongside someone who has it, you know the pitch well: group therapy makes treatment more accessible and affordable under managed care. It sounds sensible on paper. In reality, for many people experiencing an active flare, this approach often keeps the disorder’s core mechanisms running instead of shutting them down. OCD is not mainly a problem of unprocessed feelings or missing insight. It is a neurological loop. Obsessions function like persistent system alerts. The real drivers are compulsions, especially mental ones such as rumination, mental reviewing, and silently “figuring it out.” Every time those drivers operate and deliver even temporary relief, the pathways strengthen. Effective treatment interrupts the drivers through precise response prevention so the brain can learn that it no longer needs them. When programs default to process-oriented groups and talk therapy under cost pressures, clients frequently end up rehearsing the very mental compulsions we are trying to weaken. What feels like support becomes co-rumination. The drivers stay installed. The research on concentrated individual ERP The strongest evidence base for OCD treatment centres on Exposure and Response Prevention, or ERP, the gold standard intervention recognised by the International OCD Foundation and supported by decades of clinical research. Seminal work by Edna Foa and Jonathan Abramowitz demonstrated that intensive formats, including daily sessions that allow close supervision of exposures and rapid correction of compliance issues, produce robust outcomes. In one key comparison, patients who received 15 ERP sessions lasting roughly two to three hours each, delivered daily over three weeks, showed strong symptom reduction. There was also a trend toward greater improvement after treatment compared with patients receiving the same number of sessions twice weekly over eight weeks. Daily treatment intensity supports tighter coaching on subtle mental rituals and faster habituation. Modern intensive outpatient programs at leading centres often build on this concentrated model, delivering multiple hours of specialist-led ERP work per day in structured blocks. These formats align with what the evidence shows works best for moderate to severe cases: a high dose of individualised response prevention rather than diluted or primarily group-based delivery. The IOCDF notes that ERP is effective in both standard outpatient and intensive programs, particularly when standard weekly care has not produced adequate gains. Why group therapy studies often fall short for acute OCD Group CBT and ERP formats have shown benefits in various meta-analyses, with moderate to large effect sizes reported in some reviews. However, these studies frequently contain significant methodological confounds that make it difficult to isolate the specific contribution of the group format itself. Variability in how groups are facilitated, differences in leaders’ expertise in strict ERP, the inclusion of individual components in many “group” protocols, and the challenge of controlling for factors such as support, attention, and group cohesion all complicate interpretation. In less structured, process-oriented groups, the risk of co-rumination or symptom accommodation rises, and these elements are not always measured or controlled. For clients experiencing an active flare, the precision required to build individualised hierarchies and block subtle mental compulsions in real time is harder to maintain consistently across a group. Research from experts such as Abramowitz emphasises that intensive individual work allows the kind of moment-to-moment coaching that spaced or primarily group-based models often cannot match at the same intensity. While well-designed groups focused on ERP can serve as useful adjuncts or maintenance tools, the evidence does not support them as a primary replacement for concentrated individual specialist time during acute phases. The managed care reality driving the model Insurance and managed care systems prioritise cost control. A true intensive individual model, involving several hours a day of focused ERP with a licensed specialist trained in blocking mental rituals, registers as more expensive on paper. Group sessions are billed at lower rates and allow for higher volume. Programs respond by stretching treatment timelines, reducing individual specialist hours, and shifting more of the work into groups that are often run with mixed staffing. Families then watch months pass with limited measurable movement because the actual dose of response prevention remains too low. This is not a conspiracy. It is an incentive structure that can quietly compromise the integrity of what the research actually supports. 10 red flags in managed care OCD programs that rely heavily on group therapy When evaluating programs or referring clients, watch for these observable patterns: Minimal individual time with a licensed OCD specialist, often only one to two hours per week. Groups run primarily by unlicensed staff or technicians rather than clinicians trained in ERP. Treatment stretched across three to four months or longer instead of being delivered in concentrated blocks. A heavy emphasis on open “processing,” emotional sharing, or detailed discussion of obsessions in a group. The absence of clear, individualised exposure hierarchies with live response prevention coaching. Families reporting little to no measurable progress or reduction in rituals within the first three to four weeks. Resistance to offering true intensive daily individual ERP, even when clinically indicated. Explanations for the model that rely heavily on “cost-effectiveness” or scalability rather than clinical outcomes. Clients showing increased rumination, reassurance seeking, or mental reviewing after group sessions. Little structured planning for support after remission. The focus remains on keeping clients in the active phase, which is often heavily group-based. When group formats can help Once someone has completed concentrated individual ERP and reached meaningful remission, well-facilitated support groups or skills-based groups can reduce isolation, reinforce gains, and catch early slips. The key distinction is timing and structure. During active symptoms, when the drivers are running hot, the priority is the precise interruption of those drivers. This work is best delivered through intensive individual contact with a specialist. The standard we should hold OCD does not negotiate with billing models or census targets. It responds to the consistent, high-quality interruption of the compulsions that maintain it. Research from leading figures such as Foa and Abramowitz, along with the positions of the International OCD Foundation, supports concentrated individual ERP as a powerful, efficient path for many clients. When managed care incentives push programs toward lower-cost models that rely heavily on groups, the risk is that we inadvertently strengthen the very loops clients came to us to break. Clinicians, referrers, and families deserve clarity. Ask direct questions about the ratio of individual ERP time to group time. Look at these red flags. Demand treatment that matches the disorder’s actual requirements rather than the payment system’s preferences. The people we serve have already carried this burden long enough. They need care that disables the drivers, not care that accidentally keeps them running in the background. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Ricky Scoggan Ricky Scoggan, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Ricky Scoggan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and founder of The Scoggan Institute in Scottsdale, Arizona, specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders through innovative blends of ERP, sound frequencies, and mindset coaching. With over 20 years of experience from distressed adolescents and substance recovery to high-profile clients like business leaders, athletes, and celebrities, he has empowered thousands to overcome challenges via neuroplasticity and behavioral reprogramming. A devoted family man and passionate educator, Ricky inspires purposeful living with a mission to expand nationwide and launch an online school for broader mental freedom. Key references (narrative style for accessibility): Abramowitz, J. S., Foa, E. B., and Franklin, M. E. (2003). Exposure and ritual prevention for obsessive-compulsive disorder: Effects of intensive versus twice-weekly sessions. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology. Work and clinical programs associated with Jonathan Abramowitz, PhD, and leading intensive OCD centres, including structures that emphasise daily or near-daily specialist ERP. International OCD Foundation treatment guidelines and resources on ERP as a first-line intervention and the role of intensive formats. Meta-analyses of group CBT and ERP for OCD by various authors consistently note benefits alongside high heterogeneity, a risk of bias in many trials, and challenges in isolating effects specific to the group format.
- Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport, Symptoms and Causes Beyond Athletes
Written by AnneMarie Smellie, Neurodevelopmental Practitioner, Kinesiologist, and Hypnotherapist AnneMarie Smellie is a UK-based neurodevelopmental practitioner, kinesiologist, and hypnotherapist with over 20 years’ experience helping children and adults build resilience, regulate anxiety, and strengthen brain-body foundations for learning and life. As practitioners, we never stop learning. Recently, I attended a kinesiology conference where I was introduced to a condition I had never previously encountered: Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport, or RED-S. I was genuinely surprised. Having worked with clients for many years who present with chronic fatigue, poor recovery, hormonal imbalances, digestive issues, anxiety, and unexplained health concerns, I found myself wondering why RED-S is still relatively unknown outside sports medicine. The more I learned, the more I realised that the name itself may be part of the problem. It isn't just about sport Although RED-S was first recognised in athletes, it can affect anyone whose body does not have enough energy available to support all its normal physiological functions. Energy availability simply means the amount of energy left over for the body to carry out essential processes after accounting for physical activity. When energy intake is consistently too low for the body's needs, the body begins to make adaptations in order to survive. This isn't a sign of weakness. It's an intelligent survival response. The body starts prioritising the systems that are essential for immediate survival while reducing the energy available for processes that can temporarily function at a lower level. Over time, this can influence many different body systems. The ripple effect throughout the body Research has shown that RED-S may affect multiple aspects of health, including hormonal balance, bone health, muscle function and recovery, immune function, cardiovascular health, metabolic function, reproductive health, growth and development in adolescents, cognitive performance, and mood and psychological well-being. Many people assume that someone experiencing RED-S will look obviously underweight. That isn't necessarily the case. Someone may appear perfectly healthy externally while their body is quietly adapting to an ongoing energy deficit. More common than we might think While elite athletes are certainly at risk, many others may unknowingly find themselves in a similar situation. Examples include highly active adults who train regularly without increasing their food intake, teenagers involved in multiple sports while going through rapid growth, individuals following highly restrictive diets, and people experiencing chronic stress, where the body's energy requirements may increase. Those recovering from illness or surgery may also be affected, as can individuals whose digestive or nutritional challenges make it difficult to absorb or utilise nutrients effectively. The important point is that every person's energy needs are different. What is sufficient for one individual may be inadequate for another. Looking beyond the symptoms One aspect that particularly resonated with me was how easily RED-S symptoms could be mistaken for unrelated conditions. A person may experience persistent fatigue, poor concentration, brain fog, recurrent illness, frequent injuries, reduced exercise performance, low mood, anxiety, disturbed sleep, and hormonal changes, including irregular menstrual cycles. Each symptom may be investigated individually, yet the underlying issue of insufficient energy availability may never be considered. As healthcare practitioners, this serves as an important reminder that symptoms rarely exist in isolation. The importance of looking at the whole picture As a kinesiologist, my work has always centred around understanding the body as an interconnected system. Rather than focusing on a single symptom, I aim to explore the broader picture. This means asking whether the body is receiving adequate nutrition, whether nutrients are being properly absorbed and utilised, whether chronic stress is increasing physiological demand, whether digestive issues could be affecting nutritional status, and whether recovery is keeping pace with physical and emotional demands. These questions don't replace conventional medical assessment. Instead, they complement it by encouraging a broader understanding of the factors that may influence well-being. Whether RED-S is ultimately the explanation or not, considering overall energy availability is an important part of supporting long-term health. Raising awareness One of the greatest lessons I took away from the conference was the importance of awareness. We often admire people who continually push through exhaustion, train harder, eat less, or keep going despite feeling depleted. Yet the body has remarkable wisdom. When it doesn't have enough energy, it adapts. Those adaptations may help us survive in the short term, but over time, they can affect health, performance, and quality of life. RED-S reminds us that health is not simply about exercise, diet, or determination in isolation. It is about ensuring that the body's demands and its available resources remain in balance. As practitioners, parents, coaches, and individuals, recognising when the body may be running on empty could allow us to intervene much earlier, supporting health before more significant problems develop. Sometimes, the most valuable discovery isn't finding a new treatment. It is becoming aware of a condition that helps us ask better questions. Because when we ask better questions, we are often one step closer to finding the answers our clients have been searching for. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from AnneMarie Smellie AnneMarie Smellie, Neurodevelopmental Practitioner, Kinesiologist, and Hypnotherapist AnneMarie Smellie is a UK-based neurodevelopmental practitioner, kinesiologist, and hypnotherapist with over 20 years of clinical experience. She specialises in anxiety, neurodiversity and learning differences, working at the intersection of brain development, nervous-system regulation and emotional resilience. Through her work at Quester Therapies, AnneMarie helps children and adults uncover and address the root causes behind behavioural, emotional, and cognitive challenges. Her writing focuses on practical, compassionate insights that make complex brain-body concepts accessible and empowering. Disclaimer: This article is intended for educational and informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice or used to diagnose or treat any health condition. RED-S, Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport, is a recognised medical syndrome that requires appropriate clinical assessment. If you are experiencing persistent fatigue, recurrent injuries, hormonal changes, poor recovery, changes in menstrual function, or any other ongoing health concerns, it is important to consult your GP or another suitably qualified healthcare professional for assessment and advice. As a kinesiologist, I believe in working alongside conventional healthcare by supporting individuals in exploring the broader factors that may influence their wellbeing, while encouraging appropriate medical investigation whenever needed.
- Time Strategies for SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 Success
Written by Lee Lin Cher, SEC (O Level) English Tutor Mr Lee Lin Cher, SEC (O Level) English Tutor and Exam Strategist. Mr Lee Lin Cher is a veteran teacher and tutor, coaching students on the subject of English language for the Singapore-Cambridge SEC (O Level) English exams. He has been teaching since 1993 and has authored (to date) a total of 16 books on the subject. Every year, I meet students who know the English language reasonably well, who can speak confidently, who can even write decent essays at home, and yet somehow collapse during the Singapore-Cambridge SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 examination. The problem is not always vocabulary. It is not always grammar. It is not always an expression. Sometimes, the real enemy is time. In my previous article, 3 Keys to Success at the Singapore-Cambridge Secondary Education Certificate (SEC) English Exams, I explained that the critical factors for success in SEC English remain vocabulary, grammar and expression. These are the foundations of language performance. Without vocabulary, the student has no range. Without grammar, the student has no control. Without expression, the student has no impact. The article may be found here. I also wrote about the importance of reading seriously, not scrolling casually, in How to Read for SEC (O Level) English Success – A Guide for the Serious Student. Reading builds the intellectual arsenal that students bring into both Paper 1 and Paper 2. That article may be found here. Yet, beneath vocabulary, grammar, expression and reading lies something even more fundamental: the love of the English language. I explored this in Love of the English Language and the Greatest Love of All, where I argued that raw willpower alone will not carry a student through the long journey of English mastery. Love is the foundation that keeps the serious student moving when the work becomes repetitive, difficult and inconvenient. That article may be found here. This article, however, deals with a different problem. It is not about what to learn. It is about how to execute. Specifically, it is about how students should manage their time in the SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 examination so that they do not sabotage themselves before the battle has even properly begun. The SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 exam: What students are facing Under the English Language Syllabus 1184, Paper 1 is the writing paper. It carries 70 marks and lasts 1 hour and 50 minutes. The paper is divided into three sections, appearing in this order: Editing, Situational Writing, and Continuous Writing. Section A is Editing. Candidates identify and correct grammatical errors in a short written text. This section carries 10 marks. Section B is Situational Writing. Candidates write 250 to 350 words based on a given situation, usually involving a visual text. This section carries 30 marks. Section C is Continuous Writing. Candidates write 350 to 500 words on one of four topics. This section also carries 30 marks. On paper, the structure looks simple. In practice, it is a trap for the undisciplined student. Not because the components are mysterious, but because students often fail to respect the time economy of the examination. The time trap in Paper 1: Why students spend too long on Situational Writing The biggest time management problem in SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 is usually not Editing. Editing is short, technical, and contained. The real danger begins in Situational Writing. Why? Because Situational Writing gives students help. It provides a situation. It provides a purpose. It provides an audience. Most importantly, it provides pointers, often through a visual text such as a poster, notice, advertisement, or information sheet. These pointers make students feel safe. They think, “Good. I know what to write.” That sense of safety is exactly where the danger lies. Because the student has been given material, the student starts expanding. One point becomes one paragraph. One visual detail becomes two examples. One required idea becomes a mini essay. Before long, the student has written far more than necessary, polished more than required, and spent far too much time on a section that should have been handled with discipline and precision. The damage then appears in Continuous Writing. The student turns the page, sees the essay topics, chooses one in panic, and realises that only twenty minutes remain. Twenty minutes for a 350 to 500 word essay is not ambitious. It is ludicrous. It is not strategy. It is survival. Survival writing rarely produces distinction-level work. The correct principle: Work backward from the end The solution is not to tell students vaguely, “Manage your time better.” That is useless advice. Students do not need slogans. They need a system. The correct strategy is to work backward. The SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 examination lasts 1 hour and 50 minutes. That gives students 110 minutes in total. The final 20 minutes should be protected for checking. This checking time is not optional. It is not spare time. It is not a luxury. It is a necessary part of exam execution. Why? Because Paper 1 is a writing paper, and writing is judged not only by ideas but also by accuracy. Grammar, spelling, punctuation, and sentence structure matter. A student who writes well but leaves behind careless mistakes is like a soldier who wins the battle and then drops his weapon before the victory parade. The work is not complete until it has been checked. Once 20 minutes are reserved for checking, 90 minutes remain. From this, the first 10 minutes should be allocated to Editing. For a 10-mark editing section, 10 minutes is more than enough time if the student has trained properly. That leaves 80 minutes for the two major writing components. Those 80 minutes should then be divided equally: 40 minutes for Situational Writing and 40 minutes for Continuous Writing. This is the cleanest and most practical allocation. It gives each major writing component enough space to breathe while preventing Situational Writing from cannibalising Continuous Writing. The recommended SEC English Paper 1 timing strategy Component Marks Recommended Time Purpose Editing 10 10 minutes Identify and correct grammatical errors quickly and accurately. Situational Writing 30 40 minutes Respond to the situation, audience, purpose and visual prompts with discipline. Continuous Writing 30 40 minutes Plan and write a full essay of 350 to 500 words with structure and control. Checking – 20 minutes Correct errors in grammar, spelling, punctuation and sentence structure. This allocation is not glamorous. It is not complicated. It is not revolutionary. But it is effective because it respects the reality of the examination. Students do not rise to the level of their hopes. They fall to the level of their systems. Editing: 10 minutes of technical precision Editing should be treated like a technical drill. Students are not writing here. They are diagnosing. They are looking for grammatical errors, checking sentence structure, identifying agreement problems, tense inconsistencies, wrong word forms, and other common traps. The student who spends 20 minutes on Editing is not being careful. He is being inefficient. The Editing component is important, but it must not become a black hole. Ten minutes is enough for a trained student to read, detect, correct, and move on. Situational Writing: 40 minutes of controlled execution Situational Writing rewards relevance, clarity, organisation, and awareness of purpose, audience, and context. It does not reward uncontrolled expansion. Students must understand that the visual text is not an invitation to write everything possible. It is a resource to be used selectively. The student should first identify the required format, the audience, the purpose, and the key content points. Then he should decide what must be included, what should be developed briefly, and what should be ignored. The discipline lies not in writing more, but in writing what the task requires. Forty minutes gives the student enough time to read the task, interpret the visual, plan the response, write in the correct format, and maintain language accuracy. It does not give the student permission to turn Situational Writing into a personal literary performance. Continuous Writing: 40 minutes for the real essay battle Continuous Writing is where many students expose the truth of their preparation. This section requires the student to choose one topic and produce a 350 to 500 word essay. The task may involve narrative, descriptive, expository, argumentative, or reflective writing. Whatever the form, the student must demonstrate control of content, structure, and language. This cannot be done properly in twenty minutes. A student who begins Continuous Writing with only twenty minutes left is already in trouble. There is no time to think deeply, organise properly, develop ideas convincingly, or craft expression with control. What emerges is usually a rushed script: thin introduction, underdeveloped body, abrupt conclusion, and careless language. Forty minutes, on the other hand, is workable. It allows a student to spend a few minutes choosing the question and planning the essay, then the bulk of the time writing, and finally a short internal check before moving into the final overall checking phase. This is not comfort. It is combat readiness. Checking: The final 20 minutes that students must protect The final 20 minutes are sacred. They are not for finishing an essay that should have been completed earlier. They are not for extending Situational Writing. They are not for panicked decoration. They are for checking. Students should check systematically. First, they should look for sentence errors: fragments, run-ons, and awkward constructions. Next, they should check grammar: subject-verb agreement, tense consistency, pronoun reference, and word form. Then they should check spelling, punctuation, and paragraphing. Finally, they should make sure that both writing tasks actually answer the question. This is where vocabulary, grammar, and expression return to the centre of the battlefield. The student who has built strong language fundamentals will be able to recognise weaknesses in his own script. The student who has read widely will have a better instinct for rhythm, clarity, and tone. The student who loves the language will care enough to polish the work properly. Why time strategy is really language strategy Some students think time management is separate from English ability. It is not. Time management determines whether English ability can appear on the page. A student may have vocabulary, but without time, he cannot select the best words. A student may know grammar, but without time, he cannot correct careless mistakes. A student may possess expression, but without time, he cannot shape sentences for effect. A student may have read widely, but without time, he cannot convert that reading into thoughtful writing. This is why the timing strategy matters. It is not merely administrative. It is academic. It protects the student’s ability to think, write, refine, and perform. The foundation: Love of the English language Still, let us not pretend that a timing strategy alone can save a student who has never cared about the language. The 10, 40, 40, 20 structure is powerful, but it is not magic. It works best when the student has already built the foundation: vocabulary, grammar, expression, and reading. Beneath all of these lies love. Not the sentimental kind that appears in greeting cards, but the practical kind that makes a student return to the page again and again. The love that makes him underline unfamiliar words. The love that makes him rewrite a clumsy sentence. The love that makes him read when no one is watching. The love that makes him care about whether a sentence is merely correct, or alive. Without love, English becomes a subject to be endured. With love, English becomes a language to be mastered. That distinction changes everything. Final word: The exam rewards discipline The SEC (O Level) English Paper 1 examination is not simply a test of what the student knows. It is a test of what the student can produce under pressure. That pressure is real. The clock is real. The blank page is real. The temptation to overwrite Situational Writing is real. Therefore, the serious student must enter the examination hall with a clear timing strategy: 10 minutes for Editing, 40 minutes for Situational Writing, 40 minutes for Continuous Writing, and 20 minutes for Checking. Do this, and the student gives himself a fighting chance. Ignore this, and even strong English ability may be wasted in the chaos of poor execution. In the end, success in SEC English still returns to the same truths: build vocabulary, strengthen grammar, sharpen expression, read seriously, love the language, and then execute with discipline. That is how students move from knowing English to performing English when it matters most. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Lee Lin Cher Lee Lin Cher, SEC (O Level) English Tutor Mr Lee Lin Cher, SEC (O Level) English Tutor and Exam Strategist. Mr Lee Lin Cher is a veteran teacher and tutor, coaching students on the subject of English language for the Singapore-Cambridge SEC (O Level) English exams. He has been teaching in one way or another since 1993 and has authored (to date) a total of 16 books on the subject. An unwilling educator, Mr. Lee had been trying to escape from the education industry forever. A life-changing experience in May 2025 convinced him that escape is not an option and that it is in his destiny to continue teaching and transforming the lives of his young charges.














