Your Life is Full, So Why Do You Feel Flat?
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 10
- 4 min read
Written by Jayne Robinson, Spiritual Coach & Advisor
Jayne Robinson is a skilled, intuitive spiritual advisor and coach. Director of JR Coaching, International Best Selling Author of That Impact Book, and Founder of the Good Initiative.
You know that feeling. You’re successful. On paper, everything looks great. The business is humming, the clients are showing up, and the calendar is full. But inside? It’s starting to feel like Groundhog Day.
I had a conversation last week that lit up my thinking, and I think it might strike a chord with you as well. A brilliant entrepreneur, a published author, someone who leads at a high level, shared something most wouldn’t admit out loud: “It feels like I’m living the same day, over and over again.”
She’s up at 5:13 AM (yes, exactly that), tea in hand, walking out to her shed-office, jumping on call after call, leading, supporting, creating. And yet? She felt stuck in the loop.
If you’ve ever seen the film Groundhog Day (1993), you’ll know the plot:
Bill Murray plays a jaded weatherman, doomed to relive the same day, trapped in an endless cycle. At first, he exploits it, indulging in quick pleasures, manipulating situations, numbing himself to the monotony. But eventually? The repetition eats away at him. Until he breaks the cycle by breaking himself open, by helping, growing, and choosing differently.
Sound familiar?
The entrepreneur’s hidden trap
This is where many driven, high-performing entrepreneurs and professionals find themselves, running a business or career that outwardly works, but inwardly feels like they’re just hitting “repeat.” Sure, it’s comfortable. Predictable. Even impressive to those watching from the outside. But inside? It starts to suffocate your spirit. But why? Because variety isn’t a “nice-to-have.”
The human need you might be starving
Tony Robbins talks about the 6 human needs, drawn from Maslow’s hierarchy but adapted for modern life. And variety (or uncertainty) is one of them.
We need change. We crave surprise, challenge, and growth.
Without it? We stagnate.
With it? We feel alive.
And here’s where many of us fall into the trap: When we don’t consciously meet this need, we reach for quick fixes like shopping, scrolling, snacking, drinking, and distractions. Temporary hits of variety that ultimately leave us emptier.
The shift that changes everything
The successful entrepreneur I mentioned decided to change things up. She said yes to variety in meaningful ways, from house sitting in new places (yes, even minding 13 chickens), to going on retreats, doing medicine journeys, and mixing up her workdays.
And that’s what I invite you to reflect on too: What’s one thing you could do today to break your own Groundhog Day?
Here are some small (but mighty) ideas:
Work from a new spot, maybe even a different café or co-working space.
Say yes to an invite you’d normally decline.
Walk a different route.
Book a spontaneous night away.
Take that class you’ve been curious about: salsa, pottery, aerial yoga, improv.
Call someone you miss.
Because here’s the thing: The shift starts small. That one choice to do something different is how we reclaim our aliveness. It’s how I went from feeling empty to waking up in:
Bali healing centers
Tuscan villas
The jungles of Costa Rica
It started with one decision: I’m ready for something different. So, what’s yours today?
Because here’s the truth. There are so many people walking around today who look wildly successful on the outside, the title, the income, the lifestyle, but inside? They feel spiritually empty. They’re stuck on a treadmill of their own making, ticking all the boxes, living the life they once dreamed of, but not feeling it. Not anymore.
If that’s you, you’re not alone. This is the silent epidemic of modern success. And this is exactly the work I do.
I help high-achieving, deeply capable people break free from that invisible loop, the one that leaves you performing, perfecting, and pushing, but never truly fulfilled.
I help you pause the cycle, get under the surface, and reconnect with your real self, the one you’ve buried under responsibility, identity, and pressure.
If you’re ready for something different but don’t know where to start, here’s how we begin:
The 90-minute blueprint to breakthrough session
This is a deep, powerful reset. We dive straight into the unconscious blocks that are keeping you stuck, the patterns you can’t see but can feel.
You’ll walk away with clarity, confidence, and a personalized roadmap forward. It's like holding up a mirror to your inner world and finally understanding why things haven’t shifted, even though you’ve tried everything. This work is not about fixing you. It’s about finally understanding you so you can move forward, in full alignment with who you really are.
If this speaks to you, reach out. Let’s talk.
Your next chapter doesn’t begin with a giant leap; it starts with a single, conscious decision to choose something different. Click here now.
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Jayne Robinson, Spiritual Coach & Advisor
Jayne Robinson is an intuitive spiritual advisor and coach. As the Director of JR Coaching and an avid student of life, Jayne is much like the phoenix rising, leaning into her edge of personal development, emerging from her own transformations and spiritual quests time and time again. As such she is dedicated to helping clients do the same, to create a vibrant new chapter in their lives. Supporting successful entrepreneurs and individuals searching for more to move beyond boredom and burnout, guiding them through a spiritual voyage of uncertainty and fear to a transformative metaphorical death to rebirth. Her mission: embrace discomfort, uncover hidden possibilities, and transform your life.
