Tati Rainer is an Interview Coach and LinkedIn Profile Expert with over 25 years of corporate experience. She empowers professionals globally to excel in interviews and optimize their LinkedIn profiles to attract career and business opportunities.
Let’s talk about something that many women struggle with: bragging. We’ve been conditioned to believe that talking about our achievements is arrogant, but here’s the truth: if you don’t advocate for yourself, who will?
My own experience: Turning rejections into job offers
When I arrived in Canada in 2011, I faced rejection after rejection from headhunters. I lost count of how many times I heard “no.” But one day, after yet another rejection, I finally asked a headhunter, “What do you lose by sending my resume? I’m confident the hiring manager will want to interview me.”
Guess what happened? Over and over again, they called me back, saying the hiring manager wanted to interview me. And each time, I got the job. Do you know who else won? The headhunter, who received their placement fee. But none of this would have happened if I had simply accepted those initial rejections and stayed silent about my value.
Why women hold back and why that needs to change
Many women hesitate to promote themselves because they fear being seen as boastful. But here’s the problem: if you don’t highlight your achievements, you get overlooked. Meanwhile, others with less experience but more confidence step forward and take the opportunities you deserve.
Here’s why bragging (the right way) is essential for career growth:
It builds credibility. People trust professionals who confidently talk about their accomplishments.
It attracts opportunities. Hiring managers, recruiters, and decision-makers won’t notice you unless you make yourself visible.
It helps you negotiate better. If you can’t articulate your value, how can you ask for that promotion or raise?
How to brag without feeling awkward
Bragging doesn’t mean exaggerating or being arrogant; it means owning your achievements and presenting them in a way that highlights your value. Here’s how:
Use facts & data: Instead of saying, “I’m great at sales,” say, “I increased sales by 40% in six months.” Numbers speak louder than words.
Share success stories: Just like I shared my experience, tell stories that show how your skills made an impact.
Practice self-advocacy: If someone gives you credit for your work, own it. Instead of saying, “Oh, it was nothing,” say, “Thank you! It took a lot of strategy and effort, and I’m proud of the results.”
If I hadn’t stood up for myself and confidently communicated my value back in 2011, I wouldn’t be where I am today. Women need to stop waiting for someone else to recognize their worth; we need to speak up, advocate for ourselves, and own our success.
So, are you ready to start bragging (the right way)? Let’s connect, and I’ll help you craft your story so you can step into the opportunities you deserve!
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Tati Rainer, LinkedIn Profile Expert & Interview Coach
Tati Rainer is a renowned Interview Coach and LinkedIn Profile Expert, with over 25 years of experience helping professionals elevate their careers. After mastering the art of excelling in interviews and optimizing LinkedIn profiles, she now empowers individuals globally to position themselves as leaders in their industries. Tati's expertise has helped countless clients secure dream jobs, build powerful personal brands, and create impactful online presences. As a Brainz Magazine contributor, Tati shares actionable insights on career development and leadership.
