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Why Practicing Self-Regulation During Pregnancy Matters

  • Writer: Brainz Magazine
    Brainz Magazine
  • Jul 16, 2024
  • 3 min read

Seb (Sebastiaan) has a background in medical sciences. Certified in clinical hypnosis and as a HeartMath Practitioner, he helps people with stress and trauma-related issues, blending over 20 years of meditation and self-regulation experience with neuroscience, psychology, and epigenetics.

Executive Contributor Sebastiaan van der Velden

In this article, we explore how self-regulation practices benefit expectant mothers and positively influence the health and development of their unborn children. Dive into the science behind these techniques and learn how you, as an expecting mother, can contribute to a calmer, healthier pregnancy journey.


Pregnant woman drinking milk

A calmer heart, a calmer start: Exploring heart-brain coherence in pregnancy

Pregnancy is a whirlwind of emotions, excitement, anticipation, and sometimes, a healthy dose of anxiety. But what if there was a way to manage those emotions and potentially benefit you and your developing baby? This is where heart-brain coherence comes in.


Heart-brain coherence: Harmony within

Heart-brain coherence describes a state where the heart rhythm synchronizes with brainwave activity. This is often associated with positive emotions like calmness, compassion, and gratitude. Techniques like meditation, deep breathing, and focusing on positive feelings can help achieve this coherence.

 

The potential benefits for mom and baby

While research on self-regulation techniques like heart-brain coherence during pregnancy is still emerging, some studies suggest promising benefits:

 


Bringing it to practice

Here are some ways to incorporate self-regulation practices into your pregnancy routine:

 

  • Meditation: Guided meditations specifically designed for pregnancy can be a great starting point.

  • Deep breathing: Simple exercises like focusing on slow, deep breaths can bring on a sense of calm.

  • Visualization: Imagine yourself and your baby in a peaceful, nurturing environment.

  • Positive affirmations: Repeating positive phrases about yourself and your growing baby can promote positive emotions.

 

Three easy steps to create a heartfelt connection with your baby


1. Centering and Relaxation

Close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose, filling your lungs. Hold for a moment, and then slowly exhale through your mouth. Repeat this two more times, allowing any tension to melt away with each exhale.

 

2. Heart focus

Now, gently place your hand over your heart. Feel its steady rhythm. Imagine your breath slowly and deeply flowing in and out through your heart. Continue this rhythmic breathing, allowing your heart rate to become coherent.

 

3. Heart-feeling connection

As you maintain this heart-focused breathing, bring to mind a feeling of love and appreciation. Visualize holding your baby close, feeling their warmth and the gentle rise and fall of their tiny breaths. Let this feeling of love and gratitude fill your heart, and share it with your baby.

 

The coherent connection

Heart-brain coherence, mindfulness meditation, and other self-regulation practices during pregnancy offer a potential path to a calmer, more positive experience for both you as a mom and your baby. While further research is needed, incorporating these techniques into your prenatal routine can be a valuable addition to your overall well-being journey as well as your baby.

 

Further reading


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Learn more about Heart-Brain Coherence at the HeartMath® Institute or get in touch with Sebastiaan.


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Sebastiaan van der Velden, Life Coach & Transformational Guide

Seb (Sebastiaan) is the founder of the Transformational Meditation Group and has over 18 years of experience in the public healthcare sector, specializing in the medical use of radiation. With certifications in clinical hypnosis and as a HeartMath Facilitator and Practitioner, Sebastiaan integrates a deep understanding of cognitive neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and quantum physics into his work. He has over 20 years of meditation practice and offers courses, workshops, and private sessions that blend cutting-edge science with transformative spiritual practices.


 
 

This article is published in collaboration with Brainz Magazine’s network of global experts, carefully selected to share real, valuable insights.

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