When Leadership Costs You Everything, and Expands What’s Possible
- Brainz Magazine
- 3 hours ago
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Written by Aaron Rusnak, Innovation Tennis Coach
Aaron Rusnak is a 30-year tennis industry leader, mentor, and innovator recognized for shaping elite player and coach development through his forward-thinking methodologies, data-driven, and mentorship initiatives.
For over a decade, I poured my heart into one facility. It was more than a workplace, it was a family. A culture built on trust, shared standards, mentorship, and genuine care for people. Over those years, I helped develop some of the largest and most successful programs the facility had ever seen. I was proud, not because of recognition, but because of the lives being impacted. And then leadership truly tested me.
“Leadership is revealed when values are challenged.”
Some individuals within the organization began engaging in unethical and unprofessional behavior. These were not isolated mistakes, but conscious decisions repeated over a long period of time. As someone who mentored younger coaches, I felt a deep responsibility. I could not teach integrity while quietly allowing behavior that violated it.
During difficult conversations, I was told that I lacked empathy. I responded honestly, I am an empathetic person. I understand that people make mistakes. But empathy does not mean ignoring repeated misconduct when individuals fully understand what they are doing.
From the moment we were hired, we were held to clear standards, the ‘10 commandments.’ These expectations existed to protect the culture, the members, and the staff.
“True empathy protects the many, it does not enable the few.”
Eventually, I was offered a raise to stay. But leadership isn’t about being bought, it’s about being aligned. Walking away meant giving up more than a decade of work. It meant starting over. But my conscience was clear. What few people saw was the internal cost. The prolonged ethical conflict and emotional strain eventually led to post-traumatic stress symptoms.
“Seeking help wasn’t a weakness. It was leadership turned inward.”
Healing took nearly a year through therapy and intentional work. That season forced me to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with who I was beyond my role and title. After stepping away, I chose reinvention over repetition. I joined a 55-year-old facility that had never had a true high-performance program.
With two of my former students working alongside me, we created a three-court model focused on singles, doubles, and private instruction with video analysis. At the same time, I expanded beyond the court, building a fitness program, speaking at symposiums, writing, and working internationally, including collaborating with Dominic Thiem’s team in Austria.
“By choosing to walk away, I didn’t lose my purpose, I expanded it.”
As I reflect on these chapters, I realize leadership has never existed in isolation for me. It lives at home. Every difficult decision, every moment of uncertainty, my son was watching. Not through words, but through example.
I want him to know that doing the right thing matters, even when you feel alone. Especially when you feel alone. Resilience isn’t about never falling. It’s about getting back up, learning, and continuing forward with courage.
Be proud of the person you see in the mirror. That is leadership worth passing on.
“Leadership doesn’t end at work, it lives at home.”
Leadership will test you. Integrity will cost you. But staying true to who you are will always be worth it.
Aaron Rusnak, Innovation Tennis Coach
Aaron Rusnak is a 30-year tennis industry leader, coach, and inspirational speaker known for developing players and coaches at every level of the game. As Director of Private Instruction at Five Star Tennis and founder of Innovation Tennis Coaching, he blends data-driven performance with mentorship and leadership education. A former USTA Pro Circuit competitor and GPTCA ATP Tour Coach, Aaron's passion lies in helping others grow through connection, purpose, and self-belief. Through his inspirational speaking, educational programs, and The Ripple Effect Podcast, he continues to empower coaches and players worldwide to lead, learn, and make a lasting impact both on and off the court.
