Why Financial Resolutions Fail and What to Do Instead in 2026
- Brainz Magazine
- 4 hours ago
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Written by Hitesh Chellaney, Financial Freedom Coach
Hitesh Chellaney is a Financial Freedom Coach, speaker, and author of the upcoming book The 7 Habits of Financially Free People. He helps ambitious professionals master both the inner and outer game of wealth to create a life of true freedom and fulfillment.
Every January, millions of people set financial resolutions with genuine intention. And almost every year, the outcome is the same. Around 80% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by February, with many people losing momentum as early as the second week of January. By the end of the year, this number rises even further, as high as 92% of people fail to follow through on the resolutions they set.
This does not happen because they didn’t care or because they weren’t motivated. It happens because motivation alone is not designed to last.
Financial resolutions collapse quickly because they rely on a fragile combination of willpower, delayed results, and unrealistic expectations. Initial enthusiasm fades, daily life takes over, and old patterns quietly return.
This is not a personal failure. It is a structural one. And I want you to know this clearly, this is not your fault.
Why most financial resolutions are doomed from the start
A resolution is, by definition, born from lack. You set a goal because something is missing:
More money
More control
More freedom
More security
Pressure can be effective in one way. It gets you started. But pressure is not sustainable. Pain is very good at initiating change, yet it is terrible at maintaining it.
This is why so many financial resolutions follow the same trajectory:
A surge of motivation
A phase of discipline
Mental and emotional fatigue
A return to familiar behavior
The issue is not effort or intelligence. The issue is the model of change itself.
Goals are finite, standards are identity based
A financial goal is something you work toward. A financial standard is something you live by. When you set a goal, your attention is fixed on a future destination:
“When I reach X, then I’ll feel safe.”
“When I earn Y, then I’ll relax.”
This creates two problems. First, the present moment begins to feel like a sacrifice, something to endure until results arrive. Second, once the goal is reached, there is an unspoken question waiting. Now what? Goals end. Identity does not.
Why standards change everything
Standards are not about what you will achieve one day. They are about how you choose to operate today. Before you can choose differently, however, something crucial needs to happen first.
Pause here for a moment
Take a deep breath. Place one hand over your belly button. As you breathe in through your nose, feel your lower belly inflate.
Breathe in for five seconds
Hold your breath gently in your lower belly for five seconds
Breathe out for five seconds through your mouth, without pushing the air out, just letting it flow
Repeat this five times. As you do this, you may notice something subtle but powerful, a return to safety. From this place of safety, you are no longer reacting to what you want to avoid. You are now able to sense what feels expansive.
From safety to expansion
Expansion does not mean overwhelming yourself. It means noticing which next step:
Feels exciting
Feels aligned
Feels like growth without triggering fear
This is how identity based change begins. Ask yourself:
What would the next version of me naturally do differently?
What feels expansive, not forced?
What excites me when I imagine living that way?
That next version of you is not a future destination. It is a state you begin embodying now.
How standards are actually set
A standard becomes a standard when it delivers immediate benefit. To determine whether something is a true standard, ask, "When I live this way, what does it give me in the moment?"
Peace of mind. Clarity. A sense of empowerment. Self trust. For example, a next level standard could be, “I do not spend money when my intuition is not aligned.” This can be surprisingly powerful.
Some people feel pressure to spend money in ways that do not align with their values, family expectations, social pressure, or guilt driven decisions.
A new standard might be:
No more financial energy leaks.
I will not spend a single euro if it does not feel aligned in my body.
For one month, you bring conscious attention to every transaction. Then you reflect:
How much calmer do I feel?
How much more empowered am I during the day?
How much clearer is my relationship with money?
Those immediate emotional benefits are what turn behavior into identity.
Why standards outperform goals
Goals rely on patience and discipline while waiting for results. Standards deliver benefits now. This is why pleasure sustains change better than pain. Pain is excellent at getting you started. Pleasure is what keeps you moving. When something feels good in the same day, consistency becomes natural. That is alignment. And alignment lasts.
Reviewing and evolving your identity
Do not change your standards every week. Give your nervous system time to adapt. A powerful rhythm is:
Set a standard
Live it for a month
Review how your new self feels
Decide what the next level of identity is
Each month, you are not chasing goals. You are becoming someone new.
What to do instead in 2026
Instead of asking, “What do I want to achieve this year?” Ask:
“What financial behaviors make me feel grounded?”
“What standards reflect who I am becoming?”
“What identity do I want my daily decisions to reinforce?”
Then live those standards, without waiting for a finish line. This is how financial freedom is built, not by chasing outcomes, but by embodying them.
An invitation for the year ahead
If you don’t want 2026 to become another repetition of previous years, insight alone is not enough. Lasting change requires:
Structure
Guidance
A container that supports identity level transformation
In my Financial Freedom Year Program, I coach people through both the inner and outer game of wealth so financial growth becomes calm, consistent, and sustainable. If this resonates, consider that your signal.
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Hitesh Chellaney, Financial Freedom Coach
Hitesh Chellaney is a Financial Freedom Coach, keynote speaker, and founder of Emotioneel Fit Nederland. After reaching the top 1% of earners and realizing success without freedom is empty, he dedicated his life to helping others find fulfillment through financial freedom. He combines psychology, emotional mastery, and wealth strategy to help people heal their relationship with money and design lives that truly serve them. Hitesh is the author of the upcoming book The 7 Habits of Financially Free People, where he distills his signature framework for achieving both wealth and inner peace.
