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Waiting Creates Undesirable Emotions and Transform Your Career by Embracing Action

  • Apr 28, 2025
  • 4 min read

Updated: Apr 29, 2025

Meera Jhogasundram is a certified professional coach and a bestselling author of 6 books. She is the founder of M Jhoga Coaching & Consulting who specialises in leadesrhip, performance, transitions, wellbeing and energy leadership. She has been named as one of the top coaches in Geneva in 2022 and 2023.

Executive Contributor Meera Jhogasundram

In the pursuit of career growth, waiting can often feel like a passive state, but its impact is far from neutral. Waiting not only stalls progress but also fosters feelings of frustration, anxiety, and even self-doubt. However, by choosing action over hesitation, you can unlock a world of positive outcomes that propel you toward success and fulfillment.


Orange book cover titled "Nurture Your Career" with green text. Features a line drawing of a heart and author's name, M Jhoga, Ph.D.

Waiting stalls and delays progress


Every moment spent waiting is a missed opportunity to advance. Whether it's waiting for the "perfect" conditions or external validation, this inaction creates a standstill. On the other hand, taking even small steps forward generates momentum. For example, initiating a conversation with a mentor, attending a networking event, or starting a new project can open doors you never anticipated. Progress is built on action, not perfection.


There is no excuse for choosing to wait


Excuses often stem from fear—fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown. But waiting for the "right time" is an illusion. The right time is now. By taking initiative, you not only overcome fear but also build confidence and resilience. Each step you take, no matter how small, reinforces your ability to shape your future.


Avoid waiting by diverting your attention to something productive


When circumstances are beyond your control, redirect your energy toward growth. Use waiting periods to acquire new skills, expand your professional network, or refine your personal brand. For instance, enrolling in an online course or volunteering for a challenging project can turn idle time into a stepping stone for career advancement.


Choose not to be overdependent on anything beyond your control


Relying too heavily on external factors—such as a manager's decision or market conditions—can leave you feeling powerless. Instead, focus on what you can influence. By taking proactive steps, like preparing for multiple scenarios or seeking alternative opportunities, you regain control and reduce stress.


Clinging to expectations blocks the manifestation of your desires


Rigid expectations can create a mental block, preventing you from recognizing opportunities that don't fit your preconceived notions. Letting go of these expectations allows you to remain open to possibilities. This flexibility often leads to outcomes that exceed your original goals.


Do the best you can and detach from expectations of the outcome


Giving your best effort is empowering, but tying your happiness to specific results can be limiting. Detachment from outcomes fosters a sense of freedom and resilience. For example, submitting a proposal or applying for a promotion without fixating on the result allows you to focus on the learning and growth that come from the experience.


Always choose positive thoughts


Your mindset is a powerful tool. By choosing positivity, you create an environment of hope and possibility. Positive thoughts not only enhance your emotional well-being but also attract opportunities and inspire those around you. A positive outlook is contagious and can transform your professional relationships.


Align yourself with your desires by maintaining a high energetic vibration


Energy is magnetic. When you radiate enthusiasm, confidence, and determination, you align yourself with your goals. This high-energy state not only attracts opportunities but also fuels your drive to achieve them. For instance, approaching challenges with optimism and creativity often leads to innovative solutions and unexpected breakthroughs.


The transformative power of action


By embracing action and letting go of waiting, you unlock a cascade of positive outcomes:

  • Increased confidence: Each step forward reinforces your belief in your abilities.

  • Enhanced opportunities: Proactive efforts often lead to unexpected connections and possibilities.

  • Emotional resilience: Taking control of your journey reduces stress and fosters a sense of empowerment.

  • Career growth: Continuous action keeps you ahead in a competitive landscape.

For readers of Brainz Magazine—ambitious professionals striving for career excellence—these principles are not just theoretical. They are actionable strategies that can transform your professional journey. Dive deeper into these concepts and more in Nurture Your Career: 7 Powerful Ways to Thrive for a Living by Meera Jhogasundram. This inspiring guide offers practical tools to unlock your potential and thrive in your career. Discover the book here.


Take charge of your career today. The power to thrive is in your hands!


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Meera Jhogasundram, Career Transition Coach & Author

Meera pursued her journey to career excellence by graduating summa cum laude in the Doctor of International Relations programme and underwent training to become a certified professional coach. As a result, Meera founded M Jhoga Coaching & Consulting and she specialises in five areas of expertise:

  • Energy Leadership™ Index – Master Practitioner

  • COR.E Leadership Dynamics™ Specialist

  • COR.E Transitions Dynamics™ Specialist

  • COR.E Performance Dynamics™ Specialist

  • COR.E Wellbeing Dynamics™ Specialist

Meera has also been named as one of the top coaches in Geneva in 2022 and 2023.

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