Written by: Dan Lawson, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Have you ever wondered what motivates people to invest their time, money, and energy in high ticket sales, forex trading, and lifestyle-building courses? While these industries promise a brighter future filled with freedom, income, and location independence, there is something else that attracts individuals to these communities.
As it turns out, the majority of these communities are made up of people who are trying to escape from something in their lives. They believe that the hopes, dreams, and promises they’ve been sold will magically solve their problems. But the reality is that the very thing they continue to avoid is the very thing that holds them back from achieving their dreams.
For instance, people may join these communities to increase their income in the hopes of buying more emotional connection with their partner and kids. Or they may seek location independence to fill the lack of creativity or adventure in their life. Some may even quit their job to remove the excuse of lacking time or the ability to manage their emotions. While others may seek to help others to finally feel worthy and fulfilled.
However, what they fail to realize is that the very thing they are resisting is the one thing that they need to face in order to achieve their goals. Escaping reality and searching for external solutions will not rebuild their inner world or heal the wounds that they are carrying. It’s essential to address the root cause of their problems rather than hiding behind external solutions.
So, what can you do if you find yourself in this situation?
The first step is to ask yourself what you believe that any of these pathways will give you. Once you have answered this question, you will realize that by trying to achieve it out there, you are avoiding it in here where it matters the most.
In conclusion, the key to living a fulfilling life is to address the root cause of your problems rather than hiding behind external solutions. What you continue to resist will continue to persist in your life.
While high ticket sales, forex trading, and lifestyle-building courses may promise a brighter future, they will not heal or rebuild your inner world in the way that you are longing for.
Dan Lawson, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
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