Family Life – The Beautiful, Chaotic, Hilarious Journey You’re Totally Ready For
- Brainz Magazine
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
Written by Tanisha Taylor, Financial & Life Coach
Tanisha Taylor is an inspirational leader in financial, life, and ministry wellness. Her journey, sparked by a childhood money encounter with her grandfather, has led her to a profound understanding of the impact of money on individuals' lives.
A motivational inspiration article for young adults, with jokes, truth, and that little spark you didn’t know you needed.
So, family life? Already?
Look, nobody wakes up at 22 like, “Ah yes, today feels like the perfect day to become emotionally mature, keep plants alive, and break generational cycles.”
Family life, whether that means your parents, your siblings, the future fam you might build, or the “I chose these people” crew, can be confusing, loud, messy, and weirdly magical. And even though adulting feels like a group project you didn’t ask to join, you’re doing way better than you think.
Family is where you learn your first life skills, also known as how to survive chaos
Growing up in a family teaches you things no textbook can.
How to negotiate (“If I give you the last slice, you owe me your whole life.”)
How to communicate (“Why are you breathing like that?”)
How to read vibes like a psychic detective (“Mom slammed the cabinet… everybody hide.”)
Family is your first classroom, your first comedy show, your first heartbreak, and your first cheer squad, sometimes all in the same afternoon.
Real talk: Family isn’t perfect, and neither are you
Your family is not supposed to feel like a Hallmark movie. Some days it is more like a sitcom. Other days, a telenovela. Occasionally, a full-blown Marvel origin story.
But the purpose of family isn’t perfection. It is growth.
It is learning how to:
forgive
communicate better than your parents did
set boundaries
love people who are human and messy
build something healthier than what you experienced.
You are allowed to evolve. You are allowed to change the script. You are allowed to say, “We are doing this differently.”
The funny thing about family life
Families do the wildest things but somehow you still love them.
Your aunt thinks every cough is “something you need tea for.”
Your little cousin tells your business like they are under contract with TMZ.
Somebody in the house always loses the remote but swears they set it “right here.”
And there is always one family member who prays the longest over food, knowing everybody is already starving.
But through all that, these are your people. And you are one of theirs.
Young adults: You are building your future family now, even if you don’t realise it
Every decision you make right now,
how you speak
how you love
how you handle conflict
how you heal
how you treat yourself
how you dream big
all of it shapes the future family you will lead someday. Yep, even if you still eat cereal for dinner sometimes.
You are laying the foundation for something real, something meaningful, something better.
You get to rewrite the story
Maybe you come from love. Maybe you come from drama. Maybe you come from a little bit of both, like the rest of us. But here is the truth.
You are not trapped in your past. You are training for your future.
Every time you choose growth over comfort, communication over silence, and healing over repeating the cycle, you are rewriting what family looks like for you and the people who will look up to you. That is powerful. Like, superhero-level powerful.
Let’s end with this
Family life isn’t about having it all figured out. It is about showing up, trying again, laughing at the madness, and loving people back to life. You do not need a perfect family to build a beautiful one. You just need intention, heart, humour, and the guts to grow. And baby, you have got all of that.
Now go out there and build a life, and a family, worth laughing about, loving through, and living for.
You got this.
Tanisha Taylor, Financial & Life Coach
Tanisha Taylor is an inspirational leader in financial, life, and ministry wellness. Her journey, sparked by a childhood money encounter with her grandfather, has led her to a profound understanding of the impact of money on individuals' lives. Her mission, 'Control your money relationship, 'is a testament to her dedication to helping others create healthy and sustainable relationships with money and business.
