Marcel Daane is the CEO of Level V Partners and one of Asia’s most sought-after voices on leadership transformation. A global keynote speaker, executive coach, and published author, Marcel has spent two decades in the rooms where leadership actually gets tested – boardrooms, factory floors, and offsite retreats across Asia, Europe, the Americas, and the Middle East – helping senior leaders perform at their best when the stakes are highest. He is the author of Headstrong Performance and Five Energies of Horrible Bosses (Penguin Random House SEA). His forthcoming book, Leadership Tai-Chi: The Art of Leading with Clarity, Wisdom, and Humanness in the Age of AI, is the definitive guide for executives navigating the leadership demands of the AI era. What does a karate dojo have to teach a Fortune 500 boardroom? According to Marcel Daane, everything and the answer came to him not in a conference room, but in the stillness of a Tai-Chi energy flow exercise during the COVID lockdown. Marcel had spent years applying neuroscience to leadership and practicing martial arts, but it was the crisis of the pandemic – coaching leaders in real time through the anxiety of leading people they could no longer physically reach – that crystallized his life’s work into a single, coherent idea. In this interview, he shares why the future of leadership is energetic, not behavioral, and what that means for every executive navigating the age of AI. Marcel Daane, Global Keynote Speaker What first led you to connect neuroscience, martial arts, and leadership into the Five Energies Leadership Method? The honest answer is that COVID forced the question into the open. I had already spent years at the intersection of neuroscience and leadership, and martial arts had been a lifelong practice. But it was during the pandemic that everything converged. Suddenly, leaders who had relied on physical presence – the energy of being in the same room, the subtle signals they could read and send through proximity – were leading entirely over Zoom. And they were struggling. Not with the technology. With the connection. How to reach people who were frightened, isolated, and disconnected through a screen. I found myself coaching leaders on something that had no name yet: how to transmit calm, clarity, and genuine human presence through a video call. How to shift the energy of a team drowning in uncertainty, when you could not walk the floor or sit with someone over coffee. The neuroscience I had been applying to leadership suddenly became urgent in a completely new way. And then there was my own practice. I stepped up my Tai-Chi significantly during that period – not as exercise, but as a tool for managing my own anxiety through the uncertainty. One morning, deep in a meditative energy flow, something clicked. I saw the connection I had been circling for years: that what Tai-Chi teaches about internal energy, flow, and the relationship between your inner state and your outer impact was precisely what leadership required. The metaphor became the method. That was the moment Leadership Tai-Chi was born – not in a boardroom, but in stillness, during one of the most disruptive periods any of us had experienced. In many ways, the pandemic was the unlikely teacher that brought it all together. You describe leadership as an energetic experience rather than a behavioral one. What changes when leaders start paying attention to their internal state first? Almost everything. I have sat in leadership off-sites where the room transformed – not because the agenda changed, not because the data changed, but because the person at the front changed their state. That is a level of leverage most leaders do not know they have. Most development programs focus on outputs – what to say, how to frame feedback, which style to deploy in which situation. The problem is that outputs are downstream of state. A leader who is unaware of the energy they are bringing into the room cannot read what is actually happening in front of them. At that point, it does not matter how sophisticated the technique or how well-designed the framework – if you cannot read the room, you cannot lead it. When leaders learn to read their internal state in real time – the quality of their breathing, the tension in their shoulders, the speed of their own thinking – they gain a dashboard that no competency model can replicate. They stop asking “What should I do here?” and start asking “Who am I being right now, and is that who this moment needs?” That single shift, from behavioral management to energetic awareness, produces outcomes I never see from technique-based approaches alone. How did your martial arts background shape your thinking about presence, awareness, and influence? In the Five Energies framework, one energy stands apart from all others. Determined Energy moves forward. Inviting Energy seeks perspective. Light Energy brings joy; Heavy Energy brings gravity. But Neutral Energy is the only state in which you can observe without bias – including observing yourself. Martial arts taught me that through practice, not theory. The moment I became heavily determined to achieve mastery, my progress slowed. I was gripping the outcome so tightly I stopped seeing what was in front of me. The drive to get better was getting in the way of getting better. What shifted everything was learning to return to Neutral Energy first – to observe my own patterns without judgment, then shift back to curiosity. To Light and Inviting Energy. To what I call the eternal white belt mindset. Mastery is a direction, not a destination. I still find new lessons in movements I have practiced ten thousand times – not because the movement changed, but because I keep arriving in Neutral Energy, open to what I have not yet seen. The greatest leaders I know do exactly the same. Where does traditional leadership development fall short on nervous system regulation? Traditional development treats the human being as a software problem. You identify the bugs – poor listening, weak strategic thinking, low emotional intelligence and you install new code through workshops and behavioral models. It is a cognitive upgrade approach applied to what is fundamentally a physiological system. The problem is that under stress, the upgrades do not run. The prefrontal cortex – the seat of every sophisticated leadership behavior we spend millions training – is among the first casualties of a dysregulated nervous system. I have watched leaders who can articulate servant leadership principles with perfect clarity become completely unavailable to those principles the moment genuine pressure arrives. The training evaporates. What is missing is body-based literacy: the ability to recognize what regulation and dysregulation actually feel like from the inside, and the tools to shift state in real time – not in a quiet coaching session, but in the middle of a board challenge, a team conflict, or an earnings call going sideways. Until development programs address that physiological layer, we are building sophisticated capability on unstable ground. The house looks good until the ground moves. Why is willpower-driven leadership contributing to burnout? Because willpower is Determined Energy and like all Five Energies, we only have a finite amount of it available to us at any one time. Most organizational cultures are designed, unintentionally, to run leaders on Determined Energy alone. Constant connectivity, relentless decision load, the unspoken expectation to project confidence regardless of internal reality – these are not occasional demands. They are the baseline. And they draw continuously from a reservoir that needs genuine restoration, not just redirection. Willpower-driven leaders operate on chronic override. They feel the fatigue, the doubt, the friction – and they push through, because the culture celebrates that as resilience. But what looks like strength from the outside is often suppression from the inside. And suppression compounds. Eventually, it presents as the bill. The alternative is energy-intelligent leadership. Not passivity – precision. When leaders learn to consciously shift between energy states, each energy replenishes in real time. Resilience improves. Motivation returns. Performance sustains. The leaders I have seen perform at the highest level for ten, fifteen, twenty years are not the ones with the strongest willpower. They are the ones who stopped running on one energy and learned to move fluidly between all five. If a leader needs to shift the emotional tone of a conversation quickly, what actually works? I teach a five-step model I call NICER and the name is intentional, because that is exactly what it produces. N: Neutral Energy first. Before you do anything else, return to that unbiased observational state. You cannot accurately read a room you are already reacting to. I: Investigate what energy is actually present. Is the room heavy? Defensive? Anxious? Name it internally before responding to it. C: Connect and mirror their energy. Not to stay there, but to meet people where they are. Mirroring signals safety and says: I see you. E: Empathize with their minds. Before you speak, consciously shift yourself into Inviting Energy – the energy of genuine curiosity and perspective-seeking. Then acknowledge what they are experiencing without judgment. This dissolves defensiveness before it calcifies. R: Reshift energy together. This is the key distinction – you are not telling someone to change their mindset or behavior. You are making a gentle, collective invitation to move. No blame. No analysis. Just – let’s shift this together. That last step works because it removes the threat. When people do not feel corrected, they become willing to move. How can a leader quickly recognize which of the Five Energies they’re operating from under pressure? I call it the most important MBA you will ever need and it has nothing to do with business school. MBA stands for Mind, Body, Action. Think of it as a continuous scanner running quietly in the background of your consciousness. With practice, it becomes automatic – a built-in early warning system that tells you exactly which energy state you are operating from before it starts operating you. Mind: What are my thoughts, feelings, and beliefs telling me right now and which energy state do they point to? Racing thoughts and urgency signal Determined or Heavy Energy. Curiosity and openness signal Inviting or Light Energy. Body: What is my body communicating? Is it tight or relaxed, contracted or expanded, heavy or light? The body does not lie. It registers your energy state before your conscious mind catches up. Action: What behaviors am I about to take and are they a response or a reaction? Reactive actions almost always signal an unexamined energy state. The MBA is not a diagnostic you run once. It is a practice of continuous self-observation rooted in Neutral Energy – the same unbiased awareness that martial arts and the eternal white belt mindset train you toward. The leaders who master it stop being surprised by their own behavior. That alone changes everything. Another option is to do this free Five Energies assessment. How does the W.I.S.E. philosophy translate into actual leadership decisions? W.I.S.E. is four questions I invite leaders to run before any consequential decision – not as a checklist, but as a lens. W: What is in my blind spot? The most dangerous leadership decisions are not made from bad information. They are made from unexamined assumptions. This question alone interrupts autopilot. I: Invite curiosity. Before deciding, shift into Inviting Energy. Get genuinely interested in what you might be missing. Ask rather than assert. S: Seek out your most unlikely teachers. The insight you need is often in the room – just not coming from the person you expect. A junior team member, a dissenting voice, an outsider’s perspective – and surrender the need for the answer to come from the right source. E: Embrace uncertainty with enthusiasm. Not tolerance – enthusiasm. The leaders who navigate complexity best are not the ones who eliminate uncertainty. They are the ones who have learned to move well inside it. W.I.S.E. does not slow decisions down. It makes them wiser. And in the age of AI, where information is abundant but wisdom is scarce, that distinction is everything. If leaders could remember just one thing about how their energy affects others, what would you want it to be? That you are always transmitting. Your nervous system does not go off the air when you enter a room. It broadcasts continuously – through your breathing rate, your micro-expressions, the speed and quality of your attention. People do not primarily respond to what you say or what your slide deck contains. They respond to the felt sense of who you are in this moment. Research in social neuroscience is unambiguous: we are wired to co-regulate with the people around us. Your anxiety becomes their anxiety. Your calm becomes their calm. Your clarity becomes the ground they stand on – or do not. This is both humbling and enormously empowering. It means the highest-leverage leadership development work is not external. It is the inner work of cultivating a nervous system that can stay regulated, genuinely curious, and fully present under the exact conditions that would otherwise trigger reactivity and shutdown. That is not soft work. It is the hardest, most consequential work a leader can undertake. That is what Leadership Tai-Chi is ultimately about: leading from such deep internal alignment that your influence becomes effortless – not because you have perfected the techniques, but because who you are in the room has become the most powerful thing you bring to it. Follow me on LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Marcel Daane

Written by Phillip B. Shoemaker, CEO & Security Consultant Phillip Shoemaker is a digital identity and cybersecurity expert, former Director of App Store Review at Apple, and founder of identity.com & PersonaShield. He is the author of Unbreakable, soon to be published by John Wiley & Sons. One phone call to a carrier store. That is all it takes to hand a stranger the keys to your bank accounts, your email, and your entire digital identity. Here is what happened when it happened to me, and the five steps that could have stopped it. I was eating breakfast at a juice bar in the Dominican Republic when my digital life began to collapse. My iPhone lost its signal. Not low bars. Not a dead zone. Just gone. I assumed it was a network glitch. We were in Cabarete, a small town on the north coast, where the infrastructure is unpredictable. I set the phone down and went back to eating. That was a mistake. When I got back to our rental house and connected to WiFi, the phone came alive in my hand. Thirty messages arrived at once. Then more. Password reset codes from Chase. Verification numbers from Coinbase. Login alerts from Gmail. Apple ID warnings. A cascade of notifications from every account that mattered to me, all arriving simultaneously, all saying the same thing in different words: someone was trying to take everything. Someone had stolen my phone number and while I was eating breakfast, they were using it to take the rest. Your phone number was never designed to be a security credential. It was built for rotary phones. We turned it into the skeleton key to modern identity. What is a SIM-swap attack? A SIM-swap is not a sophisticated cyberattack in the Hollywood sense. There is no zero-day exploit, no sophisticated malware, no hoodie-wearing genius cracking encryption in a dark room. What happened to me is far simpler and far more terrifying. Someone walked into an AT&T store in Birmingham, Alabama. They claimed to be me. They said they had lost their phone and needed a new SIM card. The employee complied. Within minutes, my phone number had been transferred to a device the attacker controlled. That was it. That was the entire attack. From that moment, every text message sent to my number went to them. Every two-factor authentication code. Every password reset link. Every account recovery message. The security layer that dozens of my accounts depended on had flipped. The system designed to verify my identity was now verifying theirs. Why does a SIM-swap work so easily? The reason this attack works so reliably is that we built the modern internet on top of a technology that was never designed for what we asked it to do. Phone numbers were created in the era of landlines and operators. They were identifiers, not authenticators. They had no security architecture, no verification layer, and no assumption that someone might steal one to impersonate you. Then came the apps, the platforms, the banks. All of them needed an easy way to verify users. Phone numbers were universal. Everyone had one. Sending a text code was cheap and simple. So, across a decade of product decisions made in the name of convenience, the phone number quietly became the backbone of digital identity. Not because it was secure. Because it was easy. The attackers noticed. Corporate convenience created the attack surface. They simply stepped into it. According to the FBI's Internet Crime Report, cybercrime losses reached $16.6 billion in 2024, up from $12.5 billion the year before. SIM-swapping is among the fastest-growing methods because it requires no technical skill and costs the attacker almost nothing. What happens to your accounts after a SIM-swap? Here is what most people do not underst and about SIM-swaps until it happens to them: you are not attacked account by account. You are attacked as a system. The attacker does not need to guess your passwords. They do not need to phish you, trick you, or even know much about you. Once they control your phone number, they simply follow the cascade: reset the email, use the email to reset the bank, use the bank access to drain the funds, use the social accounts to spread phishing to everyone who trusts you. The whole sequence can run in under an hour. This is the architecture of modern digital identity, and it has a single point of failure. Not a technical flaw. Not a software vulnerability. A human one. The customer service representative at the carrier who, for one reason or another, handed my number to a stranger in Birmingham who claimed to be me. The infrastructure of trust that we rely on every day without thinking about it runs through human beings who are susceptible to social pressure, persuasion, and sometimes a modest financial incentive. That is the weakest link and it is hiding in plain sight. I will be honest about something that makes my story unusual: I got lucky. Not in spite of my background, but because of it. My wife still had her phone, so she could call AT&T immediately to report the hijacking. Because I had spent years running the App Store at Apple, I had the personal phone numbers of the CEOs and security leads at Coinbase, Gemini, and BitGo. I could text them directly, from my device on WiFi, and warn them in real time that someone was trying to access my accounts. None of that is normal. Most people cannot text the CEO of their crypto exchange from a rental house in the Caribbean. Most people would spend hours on hold with customer service while the clock ran out. Even with all of that, I still had to board a plane the next morning and fly from the Dominican Republic to Miami, the closest city with my mobile carrier store, just to physically reclaim my own phone number. Even then, the hardest account to recover was not my bank, not my crypto, not even Apple. It was Gmail. Gmail is the nervous system of modern digital identity. Once someone starts the account recovery process, it takes weeks to unwind, even with contacts inside the company. The only reason I got it back at all is that a friend saw what was happening on Facebook and personally connected me to a security lead at Google, someone who could vouch that I was who I claimed to be. If it was this hard for me, with every advantage a person could have, what happens to everyone else? How can you protect your phone number right now? These attacks are preventable. Most people do not know the specific steps that stop them. Here are five you can take today. 1. Call your carrier and request a port freeze and SIM lock This means your number cannot be transferred without you physically appearing in a store with ID or entering a separate PIN. AT&T, Verizon, and T-Mobile all offer this. Most people do not know it exists. It takes five minutes and stops the most common attack method cold. 2. Stop using SMS for two-factor authentication Text-message codes are the most widely used and least secure form of two-factor authentication. Replace them with an authenticator app like Google Authenticator or Authy for any account that matters. For your most critical accounts, a hardware security key is even stronger. 3. Set a separate PIN for your carrier account This is different from your account password. A carrier PIN is required to make changes to your number or account in-store. If yours does not have one, set it today. 4. Treat your real phone number as confidential Use services like Google Voice or MySudo to create secondary numbers for app signups, online shopping, and anything public-facing. Give your actual carrier number to as few people and services as possible. The less it circulates, the smaller the target. 5. Audit what depends on your phone number Log in to your most important accounts and check what method they use to recover access. For every account that sends codes or reset links to your phone number, you are one successful SIM-swap away from losing it. Change those to authenticator apps or email, and make sure the email itself is protected by something other than a phone number. Start protecting your digital identity today The SIM-swap was not the real attack. It was a symptom. The real vulnerability is structural: we built an entire layer of digital security on top of a system designed for something else, optimized it for convenience rather than protection, and then handed the keys to every carrier representative who might, on a bad day, believe the wrong person. Most people will not experience a SIM-swap. But most people have not taken the five steps above, either. The gap between "this won't happen to me" and "I just lost everything" is smaller than most of us want to believe, and it is measured in a single phone call to a carrier store. Your phone number is not just a way to reach you. It is a key to your entire digital life. Start treating it like one. For a complete guide to protecting your digital identity, including step-by-step instructions on securing every layer of your online life, pick up a copy of Unbreakable: How to Protect Yourself in a World Built to Breach You, forthcoming from Wiley. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Phillip B. Shoemaker Phillip B. Shoemaker, CEO & Security Consultant Phillip Shoemaker spent years as Apple's original Director of App Store Review before co-founding identity.com, a decentralized identity company, and founding PersonaShield.com, a likeness authentication and monitoring service. He has been a victim of SIM-swap attacks, impersonation, and stalking and lived to write about it. His book Unbreakable: The Definitive Guide to Securing Your Digital Life in the Age of Deepfakes, Hacks and AI Fraud, soon to be published by John Wiley & Sons, teaches everyday people, executives, and families how to protect themselves in a world where AI-powered fraud is accelerating. His mission: make you a harder target.

Professor Paul Lee is a Regenerative Orthopaedic Surgeon and Cartilage & Joint Preservation Specialist based on Harley Street, London. He was awarded the 2026 Robert Jones Medal by the British Orthopaedic Association for his essay on recovery and decision-making in modern orthopaedics, recognising his contribution to advancing how joint regeneration is understood and delivered. With over two decades of clinical and research experience, Professor Lee combines surgery, engineering, and regenerative medicine to develop more precise and individualised approaches to joint care. As founder of the London Cartilage Clinic and an internationally recognised leader in cartilage regeneration, his work often centres on a simple but overlooked question: can this joint still be saved? Paul Lee, Regenerative Orthopaedic Surgeon What are the key signs that a joint can still be saved instead of replaced? One of the most common misconceptions I see is that pain inevitably leads to joint replacement. In reality, the decision is rarely that straightforward. There are, of course, clinical indicators we consider – whether the damage is localised rather than widespread, whether the joint remains mechanically stable, and how symptoms behave over time. These all matter. But in practice, the more important question is often: what is actually possible for this patient, at this point in time? That possibility is not defined by the joint alone. It is influenced by experience, by exposure, and by the resources available within a given healthcare system. Two patients with very similar joints may be offered completely different pathways depending on where they are, who they see, and what that clinician has seen work. This does not make one approach right and another wrong. It simply reflects that medicine is shaped by perspective as much as by evidence. So when we talk about whether a joint can be “saved”, we are not just describing a biological state – we are describing a decision space. My role is often to help patients pause within that space and explore what may still be possible. Sometimes there are additional options. Sometimes there are not. But that moment of reflection is where better decisions are made. Why are some patients told they need a joint replacement too early? In many situations, decisions are understandably guided by what is most visible – often imaging, symptoms, and the pathways that are most established within that system. However, what is visible is not always the full picture. A scan may show structural change, but it does not always reflect how a joint is functioning, how it is being loaded, or how it may respond if conditions are altered. There is also the reality that different environments offer different options. What is considered the “right” treatment in one setting may simply reflect what is most accessible or familiar in that context. So rather than viewing this as a matter of being too early or too late, I think it is more helpful to see it as a question of whether the full range of possibilities has been explored. Joint replacement is an excellent operation when the time is right. The key is ensuring that the decision is made with clarity, rather than as the only visible option. What makes cartilage regeneration and joint preservation more viable today than they were a decade ago? Cartilage regeneration is often misunderstood. It is not simply about adding something into a joint and expecting it to heal. What has changed is not just the technology, but our understanding. Cartilage is a very specific tissue. It does not require the same type of healing response as other tissues, and in some cases, introducing the wrong biological signals can be unhelpful. The aim is not to stimulate healing in a general sense, but to create a very specific environment – in the right place, at the right time – that allows the joint to respond. That is where progress has been made. We now have better ways to define the problem, deliver targeted support, and consider how the joint behaves as a whole. But perhaps more importantly, we recognise that regeneration is not a single intervention – it is a process that depends on timing, mechanics, and how the joint is used afterward. In my own practice, I think less in terms of “regenerating cartilage” and more in terms of creating the conditions in which recovery becomes possible. When applied at the right stage, this can meaningfully delay and sometimes avoid the need for joint replacement. But equally, part of that judgement is recognising when that window is no longer open. How does your approach to regenerative orthopaedics differ from the standard treatment pathway? Traditional pathways tend to follow a more linear progression – symptoms develop, structural changes are identified, and treatment moves towards surgery. My approach is to step back slightly and look at the joint within a wider context. This includes structure, but also movement, loading patterns, biological capacity, and how the joint behaves over time. Two patients with similar findings on a scan may require very different approaches depending on these factors. I often describe this as a “Preserve, Repair, Regenerate, Replace” framework – not as a fixed pathway, but as a way of ensuring that each stage is properly considered before moving to the next. The intention is not to avoid surgery, but to ensure that when it is performed, it is done at the right time, for the right reasons, and with a clear understanding of what has already been explored. What is the most important advice you would give to someone considering joint replacement today? The most important advice is simply to pause and make sure you understand the timing of the decision. Joint replacement is a highly effective operation when it is needed. But it is also a point of no return. Once that step is taken, the focus shifts entirely to managing an artificial joint rather than preserving a natural one. For many patients, the question is not whether surgery will ever be needed, but whether it is needed now. Taking the time to look at the joint from a slightly different perspective – to understand what stage it is at, how it is functioning, and whether there are other ways to influence its trajectory – can be very valuable. Sometimes that reflection confirms that replacement is the right next step. Sometimes it reveals other possibilities. Either way, it leads to a more informed and confident decision. Final thoughts: Many patients searching for alternatives to knee replacement are often unaware that joint preservation and cartilage regeneration may still be possible, particularly in the earlier stages of joint change. Joint care is not defined by a single decision, but by a sequence of decisions over time. Understanding where you are within that sequence and what may still be possible – is often the most important step. Because the goal is not simply to treat a joint, but to make the right decision for that joint, at the right time. Follow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Paul Lee

Written by Brendon Kawondera, Personal Coach Brendon Kawondera is a London-based personal trainer and educator on a mission to elevate the fitness industry. With a thriving in-person business, He helps trainers master their craft and build successful careers. Passionate about real-world coaching over online trends, he focuses on skill, confidence, and professionalism to set trainers apart. Thinking about becoming a personal trainer in 2026? This was me six years ago, and I had no idea what I was getting myself into. You’ve probably realized one thing already, there are a lot of courses out there. Some promise fast results, some are cheap, and some look premium but don’t actually prepare you for the real world. After over six years in the industry, I’ve seen it all. Personal Trainers who are “qualified” but can’t coach, and others who dominate the gym floor because they chose the right foundation. So in this article, I’m going to break it down simply, which personal training courses are actually worth it, what to avoid (this will save you money), and what I’d do if I had to start again today. What makes a great personal training course? Before we even look at providers, you need to understand this. A qualification is just a ticket in. It’s not what makes you successful. A good course should give you: Real coaching confidence, not just theory Practical, gym-floor skills Support during and after qualification A clear path to getting clients Most courses fail on at least 2 of these. The biggest mistake people make Most people choose a course based on price, speed, or convenience, and I get it, you want to get started quickly. I had just completed a three-year university degree, so in my case, I had learned to be patient. I knew taking my time would set me up the right way. The truth is, a cheap or rushed course can cost you years of struggle later. I’ve met countless trainers who: Don’t know how to structure sessions Struggle to speak confidently to clients End up quitting within 6 to 12 months Not because they’re lazy. But because they were never properly prepared. Top personal training course options in the UK Let’s keep this honest and simple. There are a few well-known providers in the UK, including: OriGym Future Fit Training The Training Room They all offer Level 2 and Level 3 qualifications. But they’re not all equal in terms of support, practical coaching focus, and industry relevance. My recommendation and why If I had to start again today, I’d choose OriGym. Here’s why: 1. Strong reputation in the industry: They’ve built credibility by focusing specifically on fitness education, not just selling courses. 2. Practical + career-focused: Their courses aren’t just about passing exams. They’re designed to actually help you become a working PT. 3. Job support: This is "big". A lot of courses leave you qualified, but lost. OriGym actively helps with CV support, job placement, and career guidance. 4. Flexible study options: Whether you want online learning, blended, or full-time. They’ve got options that fit your lifestyle. What I’d do differently if I started again When I first got into the industry, I thought, “Once I’m qualified, clients will come.” That’s not how it works. If I could restart, I’d: Choose a course that actually prepares me for real coaching Focus on communication and confidence early Get around experienced trainers faster Your course is your foundation, so don’t rush that decision. Final thoughts Becoming a personal trainer can genuinely change your life. It certainly changed mine. But only if you start the right way. If you’re serious about getting qualified and want a course that actually sets you up for the real world, I recommend checking it out. I’ve partnered with them, so you can get 20% off their courses using my link here. Bonus If you’re still unsure what route to take, check the 5C’s framework to see how close you are to becoming a good coach. It doesn’t take a lot, just diligence in how you approach the whole thing. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Brendon Kawondera Brendon Kawondera, Personal Coach Brendon Kawondera is a London-based personal trainer, educator, and entrepreneur committed to raising the standard of the fitness industry. With years of hands-on coaching experience, he has built a thriving in-person business by focusing on real results rather than trends. He helps personal trainers develop the skills, confidence, and professionalism needed to excel in their careers. Unlike many industry voices pushing online coaching, he believes the gym floor is where great trainers are made. Through his coaching, courses, and educational content, he empowers trainers to refine their craft and build sustainable, high-value businesses.

Written by Caren Cooper, The Disco Ball Coach Caren Cooper focuses on mind and body connection. She is The Disco ball coach, guiding others to stop shrinking and hiding and show up as their fully expressed badass selves and shine like the disco ball that they are. For many high-achieving women, the feeling of “not enough” isn’t a lack of confidence, it’s a deeply conditioned nervous system pattern that keeps safety tied to perfection, overperformance, and external validation. This article explores how breaking free begins not in the mind, but in the body, where true self-trust, visibility, and sustainable confidence are finally rebuilt. She’s the one everyone relies on. The one who figures it out. The one who gets it done, no matter what. From the outside? She looks successful, confident, solid. But internally? She’s overthinking everything. Second-guessing her decisions. Questioning if she’s really “good enough” to be in the rooms she’s in. She’s held together by gum and tape and has no idea how to slow down. Sound familiar? The fact is that it works until it doesn’t. Until you decide, hey, wait a second, there has to be more. I know I am made for more. I am done playing by the rules of someone else’s game. This isn’t a confidence problem Let’s get one thing straight, you don’t lack confidence. You’ve just been conditioned not to love and trust yourself. Because when you’ve spent decades: Seeking validation from others Getting it “right” Being the dependable one You lose connection with your own internal voice. So now, every next-level decision feels heavy. Raise your rates? Speak your truth? Show up more visibly? Cue the spiral and overwhelm. It’s not because you’re not capable, it’s actually because your nervous system doesn’t feel safe. From a neuroscience perspective, your brain prioritizes familiarity over possibility. Familiar feels safe. The unknown does not. So even if part of you is ready to grow, your nervous system is trying to keep you right where you’ve always been. To keep you the same. You can’t mindset your way out of this This is where most approaches fall flat. More affirmations. More “just believe in yourself.” More pushing through fear. Maybe it works, just for a hot minute. But then you’re right back in the overthinking, the doubt, the hesitation. Because your body is still running the same patterns. Fun fact, if your nervous system is in protection mode, it will override every logical thought you try to create. That’s why real transformation doesn’t happen in the mind alone. It happens in the body. When your body feels unsafe, no amount of positive thinking will override it. Real change happens when your system learns, “I can be seen here, and I’m still safe.” The shift that changes everything When you learn how to regulate your nervous system and feel safe in your body, something powerful happens. You stop looking outside of yourself for answers. You stop needing constant reassurance. You stop waiting to feel “ready”, and you start trusting yourself. Not in a surface-level, “say the affirmation” kind of way, but in a grounded, embodied, this is who I am now kind of way. What this looks like in real life When you find yourself procrastinating or going back to familiar patterns, stop and say, isn’t that interesting. This is a pattern interrupt, which allows you to have awareness. From there, do some breathwork, moving, or body laughing to ground yourself and let yourself know that you are safe and it is safe to do what you are doing. By doing this, you regulate your system, and you then: Make decisions without overthinking for days Speak up in rooms you used to shrink in Raise your rates and actually hold them Show up fully expressed instead of polished and filtered But the biggest shift? You trust yourself to handle whatever comes next. There is nothing wrong with you. You’re Patterned. Let’s normalize something that needs to be said more: There is nothing wrong with you. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re not “not confident enough.” You’ve just been operating from old patterns that were never designed to be sustainable and honestly were never really yours to begin with. The moment you change the pattern? Everything changes. Your next step, this is where it gets real If you’re reading this and thinking, “holy sh*t, this is me” good. Awareness is the first crack in the pattern. But awareness alone doesn’t create change. Action does. I created something for you, because I don’t want this to be another article you read, nod at, and move on from. I want you to actually shift. Download my free guide, Come Back to Yourself, A Nervous System Guide for High Achieving Women. This will help you: Stop overthinking Stop editing yourself Stop playing small Start showing up you-fully Start trusting yourself Don’t apologize for taking up space Start feeling confident Start feeling safe to be fully seen And if you’re ready for deeper work? There’s an invitation inside to take the next step with me. You don’t need to become someone else to succeed. You just need to stop abandoning who you already are and come home to yourself and be who you were before the world told you who to be. It’s time to love and trust yourself. It’s time to be fully seen and shine like the disco ball that you are. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Caren Cooper Caren Cooper, The Disco Ball Coach Caren Cooper is a trauma informed mindset coach and neuro identity evolution practitioner who guides high achieving women to break free from self doubt, imposter syndrome and people pleasing. She came to this work after being asked one question- what are you tolerating. That question shifted everything for her. Through neuroscience, somatics and deep inner work, she guides her clients to trust themselves, feel safe being seen and fully expressed.

Written by Vicky Murgatroyd, Emotional Safety & Relationship Specialist Vicky Murgatroyd is an Emotional Safety Educator and Relationship Specialist who helps people break recurring conflict cycles. With over 15 years of experience working with trauma-informed relational patterns, she teaches emotional safety as the foundation for meaningful, secure connections. You're mid-argument, going over the same point again. You know that if you can just say it in the right way, you’ll get through to them, and the entire conflict will fade and let you reconnect again. But it never gets to that stage, the more you explain, the more distance it creates, a deeper rupture, and more of the feeling of being alone than you started with. If this is familiar, what's happening underneath it isn't about communication at all. Here's what's actually going on, and what you can do instead. What over-explaining actually is Over-explaining in conflict is one of the most common and least understood patterns in relationships. From the outside, it can look like a need to be right, or an inability to let things go. But from the inside, it feels like a desperate, urgent need to be understood. It won't quiet down no matter how hard you try to reason with it, and you get stuck in a loop of talking without saying anything new. Over-explaining in this way has almost nothing to do with communication. It’s a nervous system response, specifically, a response to the fear of not being heard, being misunderstood, and those feelings not mattering to the person in front of you. When we understand that distinction, we can change the way we approach our attempts at conflict resolution, so that you and your partner both get your needs met and return to connection so much quicker. The message beneath the over-explaining Beneath every additional sentence, reframe, new angle, and piece of evidence, there are usually only a handful of things that are actually trying to be expressed. Do I still matter to you? Are we okay? Am I too much for you? Please don't leave (either emotionally or physically). These are the feelings that you can’t quite put into words in the moment. They never get said directly, because in those moments of conflict and activation, they’re just not available. Until we restore a sense of safety, the over-explaining is our desperate attempt to create that safety. Except it does the opposite. They are expressions of some of the most fundamental human needs: the need for connection, for reassurance, for the felt sense that the relationship is still intact, even while something hard is happening within it. The over-explaining is an attempt to reach for those things. It just can’t get there through the route it's taking. Why the strategy never works Over-explaining in conflict never produces the relief it's attempting to, no matter how clearly something is said, how many times it's repeated, or how many different ways it's framed. The reason is neurological. Your partner is essentially your primary attachment figure, and when we’re in conflict, our nervous systems trigger protection mode in response to the threat it perceives. That means the prefrontal cortex, responsible for rational processing, empathy, and considered communication, goes offline. That means the person on the receiving end of the explanations is not processing the same way they would in a calm moment. They are managing their own activation, their own nervous system's attempt to manage the stress of the conflict. In that state, words don’t reach the place they need to. No amount of explanation, however logical, well-intentioned or correct can soothe a nervous system as it prioritises survival over connection and so the over-explainer explains more. Because the reassurance isn't coming, the fear gets louder, and the only strategy available is to try harder with the same approach. So the over-explainer explains more. The partner on the receiving end of the explanations becomes more activated by the intensity, and that activation leads the explainer to feel less safe which produces more explaining. The cycle feeds itself as both nervous systems do exactly what they were designed to do under threat. Where the feeling underneath actually comes from The urgency that drives over-explaining, the sense that being understood right now, in this moment, is the only thing that will make things okay, is almost always older than the relationship. The need to feel heard, understood, and like you matter to the people around you is one of the most fundamental human needs. When that need was consistently met in early life with feelings that were validated, emotional bids that were received and attuned to, when the child's inner world was treated as real and important, the nervous system learns that it is safe to express a need and trusts that it will be met. When that need was not consistently met when feelings were dismissed, minimised, or ignored, they didn’t just cease to exist. Those feelings had to be managed and suppressed in order to survive. Now, when that same dismissal is detected by the nervous system, it urgently and relentlessly pursues understanding to soothe the fear, pain and sadness that activates. It perceives that if you stop pursuing that understanding, it might never come and your needs won’t be met. That early learning doesn’t simply dissolve as you get older. It’s important to recognise here that no amount of logic, reasoning or intelligence is going to override what the nervous system has built as its truth through its lived experience. So the wounding shows up in your adult relationships, in the middle of an argument, when your partner's expression shifts or their tone changes, with the full force of every previous experience of feeling unheard behind it. Your partner didn’t create this feeling, they just activated it, and that very important distinction means the wound that drives the over-explaining is not one that your partner can ultimately heal through the right response in the right moment. That requires a different approach. The cost of over-explaining Over-explaining carries a significant cost both to the person doing it and to the relationship itself. For the over-explainer, the cost is exhaustion. Constantly translating a deeply felt need into more and more words, never actually gaining the relief it seeks. It leaves the person depleted and increasingly hopeless that the need will ever genuinely be met. For the partner on the receiving end, the cost is overwhelming. The intensity of the over-explaining reads as pressure or even threat, irrespective of the intention behind it. Their withdrawal or defensiveness is not a judgment on the over-explainer, but their own system trying to regulate the only way it knows how. For the relationship, the cost is distance. Two people who both genuinely want to feel close and resolve the issue between them end up using opposing strategies to feel safe, that unintentionally make the other person feel less safe. A better repair method than over-explaining Knowing that over-explaining is driven from a nervous system under threat allows us to address that response directly before addressing anything else, including any communication. To do this, we must recognise the fear as it arises, then create a felt sense of safety so a different choice is actually available. For most people, through no fault of their own, they attempt to reconcile the argument in this order: We try to repair through words, explanation and understanding, which we believe will create a connection, which makes us feel safe again within the relationship. When we reverse that order, repair becomes a much easier and quicker process. Safety first, establishing a felt sense of internal safety, slowing the body down, reminding the nervous system that the present moment is not the emergency it believes it to be. Then connection, reaffirming the relationship, signalling to both nervous systems that the bond is intact even while something hard is happening within it. Finally, from that regulated and connected place, the actual repair can happen. When approached in this order, repair comes far more easily than the over-explainer has ever experienced, because both people are finally in a state to receive what the other is offering. Take the next step Understanding why you over-explain is the beginning. Having a practical process to use in the moments it matters most is what actually changes the pattern. The Safety-to-Repair training walks you through exactly that, it’s a 10-minute framework for moving from activation to connection to genuine repair, in the right order, so the conversation you need to have actually creates the repair it always intended to. You can access the training for free here. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Vicky Murgatroyd Vicky Murgatroyd, Emotional Safety & Relationship Specialist Vicky Murgatroyd is an Emotional Safety Educator and Relationship Specialist who helps people break recurring conflict cycles and build secure, fulfilling connections. With over 15 years of experience working with trauma-informed relational patterns, she has helped thousands of clients understand their triggers, regulate reactivity, and rebuild connection from a place of safety rather than survival. Vicky’s work focuses on teaching emotional safety as a foundational human skill, using intimate relationships as the arena where our deepest patterns are most visible.

Written by Esther Christopher, Trauma Pain Support Esther Christopher is the founder of Trauma Pain Support Ltd.(TPS), a trauma-informed recovery program helping RTA survivors rebuild physically and emotionally. She is a certified Total Breakthrough Coach and author of Triumph Over Tragedy, blending personal insight with professional expertise. There is a moment that rarely gets talked about. It does not happen in the emergency room. It does not happen during surgery or while care is intensive and closely watched. It happens quietly, at the point of discharge. This is the moment when someone is told they are well enough to leave, but not yet well enough to live as they once did. The acute crisis has passed. The visible emergency is over, and an unspoken assumption takes hold. They’ll be fine from here. For many survivors of serious road traffic accidents (RTAs), this is precisely where recovery begins to fall apart. Not because support does not exist, but because no one clearly owns what happens next. The phase after the crisis If you work with people in any capacity, as a coach, therapist, healer, mentor, or practitioner, you will recognise this pattern, even if you have seen it in different contexts. The obvious crisis ends. The world moves on. Everyone around the person assumes they are recovering, and yet something is not quite right. They seem stuck, inconsistent, harder to reach than expected, perhaps disengaged, perhaps struggling in ways that do not quite make sense given how much time has passed. In serious RTA recovery, this is not an individual failing. It is a structural one. The phase following discharge, what I call the Post-Acute Trauma Continuity Gap, is the period after the acute phase has ended, but before recovery has genuinely stabilised. It is the stretch of time in which pain patterns consolidate, confidence either rebuilds or collapses, function either returns or deteriorates, and long-term outcomes quietly take shape. It is also, in most cases, the phase in which structured support has already stepped back. What gets missed and why it matters A serious RTA survivor leaving the hospital may be carrying orthopedic injuries, chronic pain risk, sleep disruption, trauma responses, cognitive overload, mobility limitations, financial pressure, and uncertainty about work and identity, all at once. On paper, they may look discharged. In practice, they are often entering the most complex part of the journey. And here is the part that those of us who work in recovery, rehabilitation, or human support need to understand. The challenge is rarely the injury alone. It is the absence of a structure that can hold the interaction between all the consequences that follow it, because serious RTA recovery does not sit in one place. A survivor may be moving between GPs, physiotherapists, pain specialists, trauma support, insurers, employers, and family, all while trying to make sense of a body and mind that no longer function as before. Each professional may be skilled, each intervention may be appropriate, but without coherence across the whole, the person navigating it is quietly handed the most impossible job: coordinating their own recovery, while living inside it. When people are misread This is where it becomes important for anyone in a supporting role. When post-acute recovery is unstructured, the person going through it often begins to display patterns that are easily misread. They engage inconsistently, not because they lack motivation, but because they are managing pain flare-ups, cognitive fatigue, and a recovery process with no stable centre. They seem to plateau, not because recovery has stopped, but because momentum has been lost across too many transitions. They become hard to reach, not because they are resistant, but because the cumulative load of coordinating appointments, processing information, and making decisions while in pain and fear has become its own invisible barrier. They look like they are not trying hard enough, when in reality, they are trying too hard, in too many directions at once, with no one holding the map. This is something coaches, therapists, and practitioners encounter in many forms: burnout recovery, grief, identity disruption after significant life events, and leadership breakdown. The pattern is consistent: people are most vulnerable not during the visible crisis, but in the long, unglamorous stretch that follows it, when the world has moved on and assumed they should have too. This is not about individual failure These outcomes are almost always misattributed. Labelled as lack of engagement, difficult presentations, or recovery that is “just taking longer than expected,” but in serious RTA cases, and in many recovery contexts, they are the predictable consequence of a system that was designed to stabilise and discharge, not to govern and sustain. The system did what it was built to do. What it was not built to do is hold the long tail of what follows. Recovery does not fail because people do not try. It fails because the phase in which recovery must continue is not structurally owned, and the person is left to carry what should have been held by design. From gap to structure The recovery gap does not persist because it is invisible. It persists because it is unclaimed. For serious RTA survivors, the consequences are profound, but the principle extends further, to anyone who supports people through significant disruption, loss, or rebuilding. People do not need more sympathy in the post-acute phase. They need structure, continuity, and someone who holds a coherent picture of where they are and where they are going, not just within one session or one intervention, but across the whole arc of recovery. That is what good recovery architecture does. It does not replace skilled support. It connects it, sequences it, and ensures that the most fragile phase of the journey is not left to effort, access, or chance, because for too many people, that is exactly what it has been, not a failure of care, but a failure of structure and until that changes, recovery will continue to depend on the variables that should never determine outcomes: Who you know What you can access How well you can advocate for yourself on the days you have the least left to give. Esther Christopher is the founder of Trauma Pain Support Ltd and the pioneering architect of the Trauma-Biomechanical Rehabilitation Framework, the first of its kind in the UK. Her work focuses on the long-term recovery gap following serious road traffic accidents. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Esther Christopher Esther Christopher, Trauma Pain Support Esther Christopher is the founder of Trauma Pain Support Ltd. TPS), a trauma-informed recovery program helping RTA survivors rebuild physically, emotionally, and mentally. After overcoming her own life-changing road traffic accident, Esther developed the TPS framework to bridge the gap between medical recovery and long-term healing. A certified Total Breakthrough Coach, author, and nutritionist, she combines professional expertise with lived experience to guide others toward sustainable transformation. Her memoir, Triumph Over Tragedy, chronicles her journey from survival to purpose, inspiring others to reclaim their strength and identity.

Written by Millah, Founder & CEO of YouTuneIn Millah Barbosa, Founder & CEO of YouTuneIn, is a wellness innovator dedicated to elevating consciousness through sound and frequency. She bridges science and spirituality to help people and organizations achieve clarity, balance, and transformation. Technology is evolving at a speed that the human brain was never designed to sustain. Every week, a new tool, a new model, a new system promises to make us faster, smarter, more efficient. Yet, something is not adding up. More people feel overwhelmed, not empowered. More leaders feel reactive, not visionary. More humans feel disconnected, not just from others, but from themselves. The question we rarely ask is this, as technology evolves, is our consciousness evolving with it? And if not, what does that cost us? We are adding more, when what we need is to regulate more When humans sense they are falling behind, the instinctive response is to add more. More information. More content. More morning routines, more productivity hacks, more exercise, more optimization. But here is what most people do not realize. A dysregulated nervous system cannot absorb more. It can only react to it. When your nervous system is in a constant state of low-grade activation, the subtle stress response that most modern humans live in permanently, your brain loses its capacity to be selective. You cannot filter well. You cannot prioritize well. You cannot choose what to take in, how much to take in, or at what pace. You simply absorb everything, or nothing at all. Neuroscience is clear on this. A regulated nervous system does not just reduce stress. It expands cognitive capacity. It allows the brain to be fluid, flexible, and in what researchers call coherence, a state where the heart, brain, and nervous system are synchronized. In this state, people process information faster, make better decisions, think more creatively, and access a deeper sense of clarity and purpose. The sharp mind so many leaders are chasing? It does not come from adding more. It comes from regulation. The real danger ahead – Losing ourselves while gaining everything There is a quiet crisis unfolding inside the most connected generation in human history. We are becoming more informed and less grounded. More connected to screens and less connected to ourselves, and when humans lose that inner connection to their own body, their own instincts, their own sense of who they are, something fundamental breaks. The nervous system crashes, and when the nervous system crashes, so does identity. Think about this. The world is rapidly moving toward a future where AI will automate many of the tasks, roles, and functions that human beings have built their entire identities around. Most people, consciously or not, answer the question "Who am I?" with what they do. Their job title. Their output. Their productivity. When that external anchor disappears, what is left? For those who have never built an inner foundation, who have never learned to regulate their nervous system, access stillness, or know themselves beyond their roles, this will be an existential collision. Not a hypothetical one. It is already beginning. The people who will navigate the future with grace are not the ones who worked the hardest or accumulated the most. They are the ones who remain the most connected to themselves. Consciousness does not evolve automatically There is a common assumption that as the world evolves, we evolve with it. That progress is automatic. That simply living in an advanced era means we are advancing internally. It does not. Consciousness, the depth of self-awareness, the quality of presence, the capacity to feel, discern, create, and connect, requires intentional cultivation. Especially now, when the environment we live in is systematically pulling us out of ourselves and into an endless external feed. Allowing consciousness to evolve alongside technology means making a deliberate choice. It means deciding that inner development is not a luxury or a spiritual interest. It is a survival skill for the new era. It means asking different questions. Not only "How do I keep up with technology?" but also, "How do I remain fully human inside it? How do I use technology without being consumed by it? How do I stay sharp, not just informed?" The nervous system is the gateway to everything In my work with leaders, executives, and corporations through YouTuneIn, I come back to the same truth again and again. The nervous system is not just a health topic. It is a leadership topic. A consciousness topic. A human evolution topic. When the nervous system is chronically dysregulated, which is the baseline state for most high-performing humans today, the brain cannot access its higher functions. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for strategic thinking, empathy, creativity, and complex decision-making, literally goes offline. In this state, you can still execute. You can still produce. But you cannot truly create, connect, or lead. Now layer on top of that the velocity of AI. The exponential flood of information. The blurring of work and life. The fear of becoming obsolete. The pressure to reinvent constantly. What happens to a nervous system that was already overwhelmed, now asked to process even more? It does not rise to the challenge. It collapses inward. Sound as technology for the nervous system This is where I believe the real conversation about technology needs to go. Not just the tools we build outward, but the tools we use inward. Sound and frequency are among the most ancient and powerful tools humans have ever used to regulate the nervous system, alter brainwave states, and reconnect with themselves. Today, science is finally catching up to what our ancestors knew intuitively. At YouTuneIn, we use binaural frequencies, solfeggios, and 8D sound to help individuals and organizations move the nervous system from a state of stress and reactivity into coherence and flow. The results are not soft. They are measurable. Reduced cortisol, improved focus, greater emotional intelligence, and clearer decision-making. The principle is simple. When the brain receives two slightly different frequencies through each ear, it generates a third frequency, a binaural beat, that naturally guides the brain into specific states. Theta for deep creativity and insight. Alpha for calm focus. Beta and gamma for sharp analytical thinking. Delta for deep recovery. In just five to twenty minutes of intentional sound practice, the nervous system can shift from reactive to regulated. The brain becomes fluid. The mind becomes clear. From that place, everything is different. What this means for corporations Forward-thinking organizations are beginning to understand that the most important infrastructure they can build is not technological. It is human. A team of people who are mentally regulated, emotionally intelligent, and internally grounded will always outperform a team of brilliant, burned-out individuals. The gap between these two states is not willpower or talent. It is nervous system health. As AI takes over more tasks, the irreplaceable human capabilities become more precious. Empathy, intuition, creative synthesis, ethical judgment, visionary leadership. These are not cognitive skills. They are states of being, and they are only accessible through a regulated, coherent nervous system. The corporations that invest in nervous system regulation now, through tools like YouTuneIn's frequency programs, conscious leadership retreats, and integrated well-being practices, are not making a wellness investment. They are making a competitive one. Because the organizations that will thrive in the age of AI are those whose people remain the most fully, powerfully human. The choice is already here Technology will keep accelerating. That is not the question. The question is whether we are building ourselves to receive it, to filter it wisely, use it intentionally, and remain anchored in something that no algorithm can replicate, a clear, regulated, deeply human consciousness. This is not about slowing down. It is about becoming steady enough inside that you can move faster outside, with discernment, with purpose, with a sense of self that remains intact regardless of what the world demands. Nervous system regulation is not a wellness trend. It is the missing foundation for human evolution in the technological age. The technology of the future is arriving whether we are ready or not. The real work is making sure that we arrive too. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Millah Millah, Founder & CEO of YouTuneIn Millah Barbosa is the Founder & CEO of YouTuneIn, a wellness innovation company pioneering advanced sound and frequency solutions for emotional balance, clarity, and resilience. With two decades of experience as a creative entrepreneur and coach, she bridges science and spirituality to help people and organizations align with their highest potential. Her work empowers leaders, teams, and individuals to live with greater purpose and consciousness.

Written by Zsuzsánna Boni, Life & Relationship Coach Zsuzsánna Boni is a coach, psychologist, and adult learning specialist. She empowers individuals and couples to lead a conscious life, own their confidence and clarity, and build the life they truly love, one rooted in awareness, growth, and self-leadership. In the first part of this series, I explored how femicide often develops through patterns of coercive control, entrapment, and escalating danger rather than appearing out of nowhere. This second part turns to the next urgent question, once we recognize the pattern, what do we do with that knowledge, and what kind of response can actually increase safety? What can help before violence turns lethal Understanding the process matters, but recognition alone is not enough. If femicide often develops through patterns, then the urgent question becomes, what can individuals, loved ones, professionals, and communities do early enough to reduce danger? Spot the pattern, not just the incident People often wait for a dramatic event before taking danger seriously, whether it’s about their own life or someone close to them. If we keep asking, “Was this incident bad enough?” we are enabling a pattern to form, a pattern that can often be spotted early on if people know what to look for. The recurring dynamic of coercive control, induced or even self-inflicted isolation, stalking, or threats can be a very good indicator of a dangerous situation. The constant escalation of jealousy disguised as love, the monitoring, the woman’s fear-based adaptation to the aggressor’s behavior, and the abuse worsening around separation are all leading the way to femicide. Take non-physical abuse seriously This is crucial because many people still think danger begins only with severe physical assault, but coercive control is not “less serious” because it is non-physical. Stalking, intimidation, threats, humiliation, and surveillance are no less volatile than actual physical abuse. The relationship may be highly threatening even long before visible injury. The absence of bruises does not mean the absence of serious harm. Respond in ways that increase safety, not pressure This is how someone who is a friend, family member, or even a professional can really help the survivor before she becomes a victim. First and foremost, keep your eyes open to spot the pattern. Listen without blame or judgment. Sometimes, women are afraid to share their concerns, worrying that they will get dismissed, blamed, or labeled as “paranoid.” Avoid saying “just leave,” as that can trigger the aggressor’s behavior to escalate without proper safety planning. Believe the woman when she says she does not feel secure, and ask what feels safest right now. Help document patterns if appropriate, connect her with specialist domestic violence services, and understand that leaving may increase danger. Avoid confronting the perpetrator in ways that could escalate risk unless you have taken the needed measures to improve safety. Support should reduce isolation and increase options, not increase pressure or shame. What to do when the risk is escalating If threats are becoming more explicit, stalking has started, separation is underway, or the abusive person is becoming more controlling, the priority is no longer to explain, negotiate, or hope that things will calm down on their own. The priority is safety. That does not mean there is one perfect response for every woman or every situation. Take your fear seriously. If something in you says the situation is becoming more dangerous, do not dismiss that instinct. Fear, hypervigilance, and the sense that “something is changing” may be important information, not overreaction. Do not announce every plan in advance. If you are thinking about leaving, changing routines, seeking help, or taking legal steps, it may be safer not to reveal everything too early. Tell at least one safe person what is happening. Isolation increases danger. If possible, tell one trusted person what has been happening and what worries you most. Be specific. Ask that person to stay in contact, help you think clearly, and respond quickly if needed. Document what is happening. If you can do this without increasing danger, keep records of threats, stalking, harassment, injuries, property damage, unwanted messages, breaches of boundaries, or other incidents. Documentation may help later with protection. Reduce predictability where possible. If stalking or threats are present, predictable routines can create vulnerability. Review privacy settings, location sharing, passwords, and device access. Prepare for urgent moments. If you believe violence could become imminent, think in advance about where you could go, who you could call, what essentials you would need, and how to leave quickly if necessary. Make sure to have a safety plan. Get support that understands coercive abuse. Not all help is equally informed. If possible, reach out to a domestic violence service, women’s support organization, crisis line, shelter, advocate, or trauma-informed professional who understands coercive control and separation-related danger. If there are direct threats, stalking, strangulation, or weapon access, treat it as great danger. These are not signs to “wait and see.” They are high-risk indicators in femicide research. In those moments, urgent action may include contacting emergency services, seeking immediate shelter, alerting trusted people, and avoiding being alone with the perpetrator if at all possible. There is no single perfectly safe response, and none of these steps guarantees protection. Responsibility always lies with the aggressor. But when danger is escalating, practical safety planning and informed support can reduce isolation, increase options, and help women respond earlier to serious risk. Justice, accountability, and institutional responsibility If we understand the pattern, the next question is whether our institutions and laws understand it too. And this is where the legal question becomes unavoidable, do our laws merely punish the final act, or do they truly recognize the gendered pattern behind it? Legally, femicide remains unevenly recognized across jurisdictions. In many countries, the killing of a woman is still prosecuted under ordinary homicide law, while the gender-based nature of the crime is addressed only indirectly through domestic violence, stalking, coercive control, or victim-protection measures. This matters because naming shapes visibility, it affects not only punishment, but also data collection, risk assessment, prevention policy, and public understanding. In Europe, the Istanbul Convention and the EU Directive 2024/1385 on combating violence against women and domestic violence provide important frameworks for prevention, protection, and prosecution, even though they do not create one EU-wide, standalone offence called femicide. Hungary still appears to prosecute such killings under general homicide law rather than a distinct femicide offence, a gap also reflected in EIGE’s Hungary country profile. Romania, however, appears to have recently adopted legislation that would define and punish femicide specifically, marking a significant shift from the earlier practice of prosecuting such killings only under general homicide law. In the United States, there is still no official national crime category of femicide, killings are prosecuted under homicide law, while public-health and legal scholars continue to argue for clearer codification and surveillance. Beyond the final act If we want to take women’s safety seriously, we have to stop looking only at the final act, start paying attention much earlier, and not minimize, misunderstand, or ignore the pattern. If you are in immediate danger, being threatened, stalked, controlled, or afraid for your safety, please contact local emergency services, a domestic violence organization, or a specialist support service in your area. Crises require protection, safety planning, and expert intervention. My own work sits earlier in the relationship landscape. I help people build healthier relationships through self-trust, boundaries, communication, and greater awareness of harmful dynamics before they become deeply entrenched. That is not the same as domestic violence intervention, but it is part of the wider work of helping people recognize what is healthy, what is not, and what they do not have to normalize in the name of love. If this article has raised questions for you about boundaries, self-worth, communication, or recurring unhealthy relationship patterns, that is an area where coaching may be helpful and something I care deeply about. We may not prevent every tragedy, but we can become better at recognizing danger, naming what is unhealthy, and refusing to romanticize control. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn and visit my website for more info! Read more from Zsuzsánna Boni Zsuzsánna Boni, Life & Relationship Coach Zsuzsánna Boni is a coach, psychologist, and adult learning specialist helping individuals and couples transform the way they live, love, and connect. Having turned her own challenges and setbacks into growth and purpose, she brings depth and authenticity to her work. 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Written by Ellen Van Driessche, Executive and Leadership Coach Ellen Van Driessche is an Online Executive & Leadership Coach helping leaders, high-performers and entrepreneurs cultivate personal and professional leadership excellence. She combines psychology, business insight, and systemic thinking to help them lead authentically and create sustainable success. You have built a career, the title, the team, the results. And somewhere between the last promotion and this morning's leadership meeting, a question has arrived that you have not quite been able to shake loose, "Is this it?" That question is not a warning sign. It is the most important leadership signal you have had in years. If you recognize the signs described in my previous article, 5 Signs Your Leadership Success Is No Longer Aligned, you are likely already experiencing this shift. The loyalty you feel toward your role and the loyalty you feel toward your own values are no longer aligned. Recognizing that your leadership is evolving is the beginning, not the conclusion. This article gives you a practical framework for identifying your current values, naming the conflict, and making conscious choices that move you toward alignment, one deliberate step at a time. What core values actually are, and why they shift The word "values" is used frequently in leadership contexts and rarely defined precisely. Before examining how to realign them, it is worth being clear about what they are and where they operate. Robert Dilts, whose work on neurological levels has been influential in both coaching and organizational psychology, describes a hierarchy of factors shaping human behavior. At the most visible level are environment and behavior, what we do and where we do it. Deeper are capability and strategy, how we do what we do. Deeper still are values and beliefs, why we do what we do. And at the deepest level, identity sits, who we are in relation to what we do. The critical insight of this model for leaders is that lasting change at the behavioral level, like how you lead, what decisions you make, and how you show up in difficult conversations, is only sustainable when it is supported by alignment at the values level. A leadership style that contradicts your core values will eventually produce friction, regardless of how skilled you are at enacting it. Why values shift over time Steven Hayes draws a distinction that is highly relevant here, the difference between chosen values and inherited values. Inherited values are those absorbed from the environment, institution, and culture, often unconsciously. They feel like your own because you have held them for so long. Chosen values are those you arrive at through deliberate reflection and lived experience. Many leaders reach mid-career having built a highly successful life on inherited values, only to find that their chosen values (the ones emerging from who they have actually become) are pulling in a different direction. Recognizing the emerging values Not only can you acknowledge your values in the past and present, but you can also recognize emerging ones: Past values: Early career, achievement, recognition, progression Present values: Now, integrity, impact, team wellbeing Emerging values (that are emerging, not yet dominant): Meaning, legacy, authenticity So the question is not, "Why have my values changed?" The question is, "Which of my current values were always mine, and which ones am I now ready to choose consciously?" Conflicting values and the cost of leaving them unnamed Once you have a clearer picture of your values, the next step is to look honestly at where they conflict. Most senior leaders carry, simultaneously, three distinct layers of loyalty, loyalty to the organization, to the team, and to themselves. If you want to know more about your loyalties, I advise you to read 5 Signs Your Leadership Success Is No Longer Aligned. When your loyalties are broadly aligned, leadership feels coherent and energizing. When they diverge, you enter a state of sustained values conflict. A portion of your cognitive and emotional energy is continuously redirected toward managing the tension rather than leading from genuine conviction. The organizational cost of this is rarely visible from the outside. The personal cost is significant. Research by Amy Edmondson at Harvard Business School on psychological safety consistently shows that leaders who experience sustained misalignment between their stated role and their internal values report lower decision quality over time, not because they lose capability, but because the cognitive load of managing the gap steadily erodes the mental bandwidth available for genuine leadership. Insight into your loyalty conflict Think of a decision you made in the past three months that left you with a residue of discomfort, not because it was wrong, but because it felt misaligned. Which loyalty were you serving? Which one did you set aside? What did that cost you, even if no one else could see it? Redefining success in your leadership and your life Success is not only about performance and titles. It is also about who you are becoming and the legacy you choose to leave behind. Let’s look at two ways of defining success: Externally authored success (validated by external standards): Role & status: Title and position within the hierarchy Reward & recognition: Compensation and material acknowledgment Approval & reputation: Institutional validation and external credibility Self-authored success (grounded in internal standards): Role & identity: Alignment between your role and personal values Reward & fulfillment: A sense of integrity in how results are achieved Approval & self-trust: Internal coherence and trust in your own judgment The question is not which definition is correct, since both contain legitimate elements of a full professional life. Where would you position yourself? A leader who finds that the right column increasingly describes what they are reaching for, while the left column describes how they are still being evaluated, is experiencing exactly the misalignment. Making authentic leadership choices One of the most common and most limiting assumptions about values misalignment is that the only meaningful response is a dramatic structural change, a new role, a new organization, a fundamental rerouting of a career. This assumption keeps many leaders stuck. It frames a developmental transition as a binary choice between the status quo and an upheaval that feels both uncertain and disloyal. The reality is considerably more nuanced. Alignment is not usually rebuilt in one large decision. Susan David, psychologist at Harvard Medical School and author of Emotional Agility, describes how lasting behavioral and values-based change happens through what she calls values-based micro-decisions. These are small, deliberate choices, made consistently over time, that gradually shift the system from the inside. Each decision may seem modest. Cumulatively, they reorient the direction of travel. Redefining the role: You shift the center of gravity within your current position toward work that reflects your emerging values. It is a deliberate, strategic way of shaping your role from within. Setting new boundaries: It is one of the most concrete and often most underused tools available to senior leaders. Naming what you are no longer willing to compromise on is not a limitation on your leadership. It is a definition of it. Leading differently: You bring your evolving values into your daily decisions and conversations. It is the gradual alignment between who you are privately and how you lead publicly. Reshaping the environment means influencing the culture, the team, or the organizational context in ways that make alignment more possible, not only for yourself but for the people around you. Career transition: Only consider a career transition when the other options have been genuinely explored. The development gap The practical steps described in this article are genuinely useful. But it is worth being honest about their limits. Values realignment is not primarily a strategic challenge, it is a developmental one. And most leadership development, as I have written about in detail in The Missing Step in Most Leadership Development, addresses the strategic layer while leaving the developmental layer largely untouched. Research supports this shift in focus: 70% of executives who engaged in professional coaching report measurable improvement in overall leadership effectiveness.[1] 80% report increased self-confidence, along with greater clarity in values-based decision-making.[2] These figures do not simply show that coaching improves performance. They point to something deeper, meaningful leadership growth happens when internal development catches up with external expectations. Accelerate your growth as a leader I work with senior leaders who are navigating exactly this transition, typically at the point where the internal shift is already clear, but the path forward is not. In a complimentary clarity call, we identify the core dynamic in your leadership and explore how to realign it with your values and impact. This is not a sales conversation. It is a focused, confidential thinking space designed for leaders who are ready to take their own development seriously. Book a complimentary clarity call. Follow me on LinkedIn, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Ellen Van Driessche Ellen Van Driessche, Executive and Leadership Coach Ellen Van Driessche is an Online Executive & Leadership Coach and has more than 20 years of experience in corporate HR and Occupational Psychology. She offers strong expertise in leadership development, human behaviour, and complex organisational systems. She supports high-performing professionals who seem successful on the outside but internally feel stressed, disconnected, or uncertain about their next step. She combines a European depth of insight with results-driven strategies, giving you the best of both worlds, clarity & performance, resilience & results. References: [1] International Coaching Federation, Global Coaching Study [2] ICF / PricewaterhouseCoopers Coaching Study

Written by Carmela Lacey, Yoga Teacher, Movement Educator, Wellness Advocate Carmela is an internationally recognised yoga educator and movement specialist with over 25 years of experience. She is the founder of Yoga Rhyth’OM and leads teacher trainings, retreats, and wellness programs that blend traditional wisdom with modern science. The narrative around body image has shifted again! Strength and muscles were being celebrated. It was about health over aesthetics. The messaging began to move away from the relentless pursuit of thinness and toward something far more sustainable: vitality, strength, longevity, and well-being. But the old trend is resurfacing. That being thin is in. And for many of us, this trend isn’t just cultural noise, it touches something deeply personal; it certainly does for me. Growing up, I was teased for being chubby. I didn’t quite understand, as I was happy and it didn’t bother me how I looked, until the teasing started. I was teased at school by other children and within the family unit. Like many young people trying to make sense of the world, I internalized the message that there was something wrong with me, wrong with how I looked. So I tried to fix it. I wanted to be liked, to be loved, to be accepted, and I thought being skinny was the answer. I became obsessed with my weight. That was the beginning of years of struggle, mentally and physically. I became my own worst critic and spoke unkindly to myself, constantly. I became very skinny. It was a painful process, but I was relentless, exercising fervently, counting calories, eating less, or purging what I did eat. But what happened next surprised me. I was teased again! This time for my “chicken legs.” No matter how we try to shape ourselves to meet external expectations, there will always be another standard waiting. Another opinion. Another trend. I realized, very slowly over time, that the body was never really the problem. What I was looking for was something much deeper, a sense of belonging. The hidden cost of restriction When we deprive our body, the mind rarely becomes calmer. In fact, the opposite often happens. From a physiological perspective, restriction places the nervous system into a state of stress. The body perceives scarcity and begins to hold tightly to resources. Hormonal signals shift. Cravings intensify. Thoughts around food and control become obsessive. I was never guided or supported; I stopped menstruating, I felt tired and dizzy, I felt cold all the time, I was irritable, and found it hard to concentrate. I was taken to the family doctor, who said, “You better start eating, otherwise you will be hospitalized and force-fed through a tube.” But beyond biology, there is also a psychological consequence. When we are constantly fighting our own body, the mind becomes a battleground. Instead of peace, there is tension. Instead of trust, there is control. Instead of nourishment, there is deprivation. A yogic perspective on balance In 1996, I was introduced to yoga. As months went by, I started to notice a mental shift; I started to become acutely aware of my thoughts and my behavior toward my body. I started to see a light streaming through the cracks of darkness and despair that I was experiencing. Through this awareness and a daily practice, something remarkable happened, the layer of self-destructive behavior started to loosen. I felt I could breathe fully again. Yoga offers a radically different lens through which to view the body. In classical yogic philosophy, the body is not an object to perfect or control. It is a vehicle for awareness, a sacred instrument through which we experience life. The ancient text The Bhagavad Gita reminds us of the importance of moderation: “Yoga is not for one who eats too much, nor for one who eats too little.” (Bhagavad Gita 6.16) Balance is the path. This teaching feels particularly relevant in a culture that swings between extremes, overindulgence on one side, rigid restriction on the other. True health lives somewhere in the middle. Yoga encourages us to develop awareness rather than control. When the body is supported, it finds balance When we move the body regularly, nourish it with whole foods, rest adequately, and cultivate mental clarity through meditation, the body often begins to regulate itself. Not through force. But through intelligence. The body is remarkably wise when we stop interfering with it. It naturally seeks equilibrium. But perhaps the most overlooked practice is how we speak to ourselves. The internal dialogue we carry toward our body matters deeply. For many people, the harshest voice they hear each day is their own. Yoga invites us to soften this voice. To cultivate ahimsa, the principle of non-harming, not only toward others, but toward oneself. Practical tools from a yogic lens For anyone struggling with body image or caught in the cycle of control and deprivation, here are a few simple practices drawn from yoga that can help restore balance. Nourish, don’t punish: Instead of exercising to “fix” the body, shift the intention toward caring for it. Movement becomes far more sustainable when it arises from gratitude rather than criticism. Practice mindful eating: Rather than focusing on rigid food rules, cultivate awareness around nourishment. Eat slowly. Notice how different foods make you feel. Choose whole, nourishing foods often, while allowing flexibility. Balance is far more sustainable than perfection. Create space for stillness: Meditation allows us to see the patterns of the mind without becoming entangled in them. Often the critical thoughts we believe so strongly lose their power when we simply watch them arise and pass. Meditation apps like Insight Timer are a good place to start if you need guidance. Speak kindly to yourself: This may sound simple, but it is profound. The words we repeat internally shape our sense of reality. Replacing harsh self-talk with gentler and kind language can gradually transform our relationship with our body. Coming home to ourselves After nearly three decades of practicing yoga, the relationship with my body looks and feels vastly different than it did when I was younger. Over the years, I realized that I no longer try to mold myself into a particular shape or look a particular way. It is about listening. Supporting. Respecting the body’s intelligence and recognizing that this body, just as it is, carries me through life, through experience, through growth. Yoga has taught me that the body is not the measure of our worth. It is simply the vehicle through which we experience this human journey. The real work of yoga is not found in shrinking ourselves to meet unrealistic expectations nor in forcing the body to conform to trends. Rather, it is found in cultivating awareness, balance, and a deeper connection to who we truly are. When we begin to cultivate genuine care, love, and compassion from within, something quietly shifts. The harsh inner commentary softens, and the need to constantly measure or criticize begins to dissolve. From this place, the body is no longer viewed through a distorted lens of judgment but through one of appreciation. Perhaps healing begins the moment we stop trying to become less and start remembering the fullness of who we already are.   Follow me on Facebook and Instagram for more info! Read more from Carmela Lacey Carmela Lacey, Yoga Teacher, Movement Educator, Wellness Advocate Carmela is a highly regarded yoga and movement educator with over 25 years of teaching experience. As the founder of Yoga Rhyth’OM, she combines traditional yogic philosophy with modern movement science to create transformative experiences for her students. Her work spans yoga teacher trainings, women's wellness retreats, and educational programs/classes focused on functional movement, breathwork, and cyclical living. Known for her grounded wisdom and heartfelt teaching style, Carmela empowers others to move with awareness, age with grace, and live in rhythm with nature. Learn more about her offerings and articles through her Brainz profile.

Written by Shreyaa Sumi, Mediapreneur Shreyaa Sumi is an International Model, Beauty Queen, and Entrepreneur. She is the Founder, CEO, and Director of SSVJ Model Media LLC, based in Hollywood, USA, which champions international representation in Fashion and Media. Trends disappear in hours, and algorithms decide who gets seen, but real leadership has never been about keeping up. It’s about staying aligned with purpose, especially when the world demands speed. This belief shapes my approach to modern creative leadership and fuels the mission behind SSVJ Model Media. In industries fueled by short-lived attention, purpose isn’t just a strategy, it’s the only foundation strong enough to outlast the noise. In the global media landscape, fast, demanding, and often superficial, SSVJ Model Media stands apart. Founded in Hollywood, USA, the company reflects a refreshing shift not driven by noise or numbers, but by intention, integrity, and long-term vision. It is a commitment to building legacy in an industry that often prioritizes trends over meaning. A vision that outlives the trend cycle Fashion, entertainment, and media often reward immediacy, what’s viral, what’s trending, what’s next. But meaningful leadership requires depth. It asks us to create work that endures beyond applause, beyond algorithms, and beyond the moment. “Purpose-driven creatives don’t chase visibility. They build a legacy, intentionally, steadily, and on their own terms.” This mindset challenges outdated narratives and expands representation. It creates space for women, especially women of color, to lead without shrinking, apologizing, or conforming. "No one is ahead, no one is behind" This philosophy dismantles the illusion of competition. Success is not linear. It is not a ladder. It is a landscape, one where every woman’s path is uniquely powerful. When we stop comparing timelines, we begin honoring our own. This shift replaces scarcity with collaboration, pressure with possibility, and self-doubt with self-trust. Your timeline is not a limitation, it is your strength. Why two people with the same skills create completely different levels of influence Because influence was never just about skill. It’s built in the spaces you can’t measure: Mindset: Are you moving from fear or from purpose? Intention: Are you chasing applause or alignment? Authenticity: Are you copying the feed or embodying your truth? Energy: Are you leading from scarcity or from service? Courage: Are you hiding in comfort or choosing visibility? Two people may master the same craft, but the one who leads with purpose will always create deeper resonance. Influence is not about what you do, it’s about why you do it and how you make others feel. That’s the difference between noise and resonance. Between being seen and doing the work long after the hype fades. Resilience as a strategy, not a struggle Women navigating creative leadership and entrepreneurial spaces know the weight of bias, underestimation, and the constant need to prove their credibility. But resilience is not about hardening, it is about evolving. Modern resilience is rooted in: Emotional intelligence Adaptability Self-trust The courage to pivot with purpose It is not about enduring more. It is about choosing smarter, rising stronger, and transforming challenges into clarity. Redefining power for women in business Today’s most impactful leaders blend qualities once seen as opposites: Empathy with authority Creativity with innovation Visibility with responsibility Leadership is no longer defined by hierarchy, it is defined by impact. Impact is created through intention, representation, and the courage to challenge outdated norms. Women are not just participating in the conversation, we are rewriting the narrative. A legacy built by lifting others Through SSVJ Model Media, I have guided women onto the global stage, helping them turn childhood dreams into lived reality, even in industries where no clear path existed before. By creating an international platform, championing authentic stories, and opening doors that were once closed, I have mentored women from diverse backgrounds to rise with confidence, claim their space, and shine in arenas they once believed were out of reach. What began as my vision has become a movement, a place where women are seen, celebrated, and supported as they transform ambition into achievement. “One day, my daughter asked why I worked so hard, and I realized she wasn’t watching my success, she was watching my courage. That moment reshaped my purpose and deepened my commitment to empowering the next generation of girls to lead with authenticity.” How motherhood fuels my commitment to youth empowerment Motherhood expanded my purpose. It reminded me that leadership is never just about what we build, it’s about what we model for the next generation. I am raising a daughter who watches how I lead, create, and rise. This fuels my commitment to youth empowerment, especially for young girls who deserve to see leadership modeled with strength, softness, and authenticity. Through SSVJ Model Media, I champion youth voices by: Encouraging creative expression Providing platforms for young talent Cultivating confidence through storytelling Modeling leadership rooted in purpose, not pressure Empowering the next generation isn’t an afterthought, it’s simply part of the legacy I hope to leave, and part of the world I’m shaping for my daughter and every girl discovering what’s possible. 'How SSVJ Model Media elevates you' by turning mindset into movement A platform for purpose-driven creatives: SSVJ Model Media elevates creatives, leaders, and emerging voices who shape culture with intention rather than trends. Authentic visibility without compromise: We amplify your story while preserving integrity. Mentorship support: Through interviews, features, and collective work, we help you gain clarity and direction. Community that rises together: We cultivate spaces where women and youth grow, connect, and lead with confidence. Storytelling that builds legacy: We transform your narrative into inspiration for others. Your rise starts here If you’re ready to lead with purpose, build a personal brand rooted in intention, and share your story with authentic impact, SSVJ Model Media is ready to elevate you. Step into visibility with purpose, your journey begins today. We are a media, entertainment, production, publishing, mentorship, and purpose-driven platform led by Entrepreneur Shreyaa Sumi. Your voice matters. Your timeline is valid. Turn your dreams into reality. Follow me on Facebook, Instagram, and visit my website for more info! Read more from Shreyaa Sumi Shreyaa Sumi, Mediapreneur Shreyaa Sumi is an International Model, Beauty Queen, and Entrepreneur. She is the Founder, CEO, and Director of SSVJ Model Media LLC, based in Hollywood, USA, which champions international representation in fashion and media. She has appeared on international runways, magazine covers, and billboards, while mentoring and empowering aspiring talents globally.