Your Team Isn’t Burned Out, They’re Emotionally Starved
- Brainz Magazine
- Jul 7
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 8
Psychologist Helping Professionals & Parents Resolve Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, Trauma, and Live a Fulfilled & Bold Life | Author of the Bestseller Book, “You Are Not-Depressed. You Are Un-Finished.” | Keynoter & Podcaster
My recent therapy client was a successful executive, a devoted mom, and disconnected from herself. She worked hard to hold everything together at work and at home. She smiled often but also cried a lot in our sessions. “I’m so burnt out,” she told me initially.
But it wasn’t burnout. She was deeply depressed and anxious.
Frankly, I find the popular conversation about burnout out of focus. Sometimes even faddish.
In the U.S., corporations spend around $8 billion annually addressing burnout, with the average cost ranging from $4,000 to $20,000 per employee.
Where does this money go? Urgent coaching, retreats, trainings, workshops, mindfulness apps, wellness kits – solutions that often skim the surface.
That’s like focusing on the smoke while ignoring the fire beneath.
What we overlook are the subterranean factors of depression, anxiety, and ADHD.
Let’s look closer.
Burnout isn’t a medical diagnosis. According to the World Health Organization, it’s an occupational syndrome from chronic, unmanaged workplace stress. It typically manifests as:
Emotional exhaustion: Drained, depleted, unable to cope
Depersonalization: Cynicism, detachment, numbness toward life, work, and colleagues
Reduced personal accomplishment: Feeling ineffective and worried about failure
Ask yourself:
Q: Why do you feel burnt out, while others seem unaffected?
A: The differentiator is your level of emotional capacity, or depletion, often rooted in depression, anxiety, or ADHD.
Burnout signals emotional emptiness unfolding slowly, due to:
Depression
Burnout could be a sign of depression. It's a bi-directional linkage. Emotional exhaustion isn’t just “low motivation” or burnout; it often indicates unprocessed grief, unmet emotional needs, and a soul craving fulfillment.
Anxiety
Constant worry, fear of failure, and overthinking aren’t just due to workload. They stem from emotional instability, a dysregulated nervous system, and a lack of agency and psychological safety that hold one back.
ADHD
ADHD significantly increases burnout risk. Why? Because navigating a world not designed for your brain requires constant self-regulation. And that's tiring. It’s not a lack of effort; it’s emotional and cognitive exhaustion.
Here’s what you can do
For individuals
Stop blaming yourself. You’re not weak. You’re emotionally undernourished.
Tune into your emotional signals, not just your schedule. Set clearer boundaries.
Activate your Emotional Rights to feel, belong, express, and thrive.
For teams & organizations
Shift wellness and burnout initiatives toward emotional fulfillment.
Provide systemic, meaningful support, including:
Psychology-informed leadership and wellness training (trauma, depression, anxiety, and ADHD)
Safe spaces for daily discussions and practices to manage depression, anxiety, and ADHD
Measure emotional health as diligently as you track performance KPIs.
Burnout is expensive emotionally and financially. It feeds on emotional starvation.
Burnout ends where emotional health begins. Let’s lead our teams there.
Contact me to plan impactful solutions that truly matter for yourself and your team.
Bestselling Book: You Are Not Depressed. You Are Un-Finished.
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Dr. Ardeshir Mehran, High-Achievers Depression & Anxiety Disruptor
Dr. Ardeshir Mehran is disrupting the mental health field. His mission: Help to heal depression and to ease he emotional suffering of people across the world. Everyone else portrays depression as an immovable cause, a mood disorder that must be treated. Dr. Mehran busts this myth and focuses attention on the real culprit: the unfulfilled life we must lead when we deny our birthrights. He is the developer of The Bill of Emotional Rights©, based on 30 years of research, coaching, and clinical work. Ardeshir is a psychologist, trauma therapist, and behavioral researcher. He has a Ph.D. and a Master's from Columbia University, New York City. He lives in Northern California with his wife, son, and Lucy (family’s golden retriever).
